As an older single guy I can appreciate what you are saying. Viagra doesn't work for me every time--many times it will help me keep a good stiff dick, sometimes not. Alas, those youthful, hours long lasting hard ons are wasted on the youth.
Yea, I was thinking Cialis.
Doctors prescribe Viagra in 20-100mg doses.
~Allen
@Wuzzy, 80mg? That seems like to high of a dose.
I can testify that modern medicine is a wonderful thing! I use the 20mg generic version. They cost a little over $1 each, and I usually take 4 at a time. And my little friend never lets me down (literally). I do sometimes get a little headache and a little lightheaded as a side effect, but it is well worth it. I don't understand why any guy would hesitate to seek help for this problem.
RusticMagic - the setting of "no interest; profile visible" doesn't work as advertised so single gentlemen cannot see your profile even though you haven't checked the box to block them. Your interest level has to be at "maybe" for a group to see your profile.
delvalleyguy IDK why you cannot see our profile. We do not have single males blocked. We currently have it set to no interest as we are not trying to find one right now so that might have something to do with it. You are not at our cut off. We have it set at 59 top end. Truthfully we have not had much "luck" with guys in their late 50's in regards to the topic at hand but we don't want to cap it too low in regards to either a male or female. What we said was some guys in their 40's need to stop lying to themselves. Honestly male issues happen about the same time females start the life change and while generally that is in their 50's it can range from 40-60 (on average of course earlier or later can happen). As far as certs go we find them fairly useless. They have to be approved so unlike a "performance review" only the good ones show up. As far as the rest goes yes there are a ton of things that cause erectile dysfunction. That is why when it happens (more than say a one time performance anxiety) a man should go see his doctor. Sadly in our experience many do not and are "lying" to themselves denying that they may have reached an age, have a medical issue, be experiencing a side effect from other medication, etc and so forth. Of course there is one thing many seem to forget that can take even the youngest and most virile of men out and this is having one or several too many before hand. I would say despite us not being members here that long we have pretty much seen it all since we started out in the 90's. The honest truth is the only way to tell if there is going to be a problem with a partner in this regard is when you actually find out there is one.
"I can't see your profile due to being blocked but I would imagine I'm above your age preference."
You can see a snapshot of every profile, whether you're blocked or not, either by hovering over it if you're on a laptop/computer or holding your finger on the profile photo until that snapshot comes up. It includes the default photo, the tagline, sexual orientation/age/weight/height, desired age range, location, when last on line, member status, whether they're some or all of watch/soft/full and where the toggles are set for interest in couples, women, and men.
Also, you're not above their age preference. ;-)
RusticMagic: Honestly it is a big reason for our age preference cap.
Curious if a better option might be certs? I can't see your profile due to being blocked but I would imagine I'm above your age preference. I have never had an issue despite being solidly middle-aged (how the hell did that happen?) I'd imagine certs would give you some indication of performance. Perhaps profiling your prospects as well. Smoking, weight issues and diabetes all lead to E.D. Eliminate those issues and you have a better shot at meeting Mr. Perma N. Wood.
It's not just guys your age because some folks in their 40's need to take a trip to see a doctor. Thing is the older a man is the more likely there could be a problem and many do not seek treatment. Some even get into the lifestyle to see if the "excitement" of a new or different partner is the cure refusing to admit they might have a problem. Honestly it is a big reason for our age preference cap and why we have discussed the potential of looking at even younger men who claim to be into older women. The thing is she understands and while she is willing to work at it some has decided there is a point where enough is enough and it is time to quit trying. Recently this was really driven home how guys tend to lie to themselves as well as you or are too stubborn to seek help. We met with a guy near the top of our range who seemed a decent type. After some conversation we end up back at his place. Things start slow but he gets mostly hard with playing but before switching for penetration he wilts only for this to be repeated (I could tell she was frustrated by this point). He acts like this has never happened before and he does not understand. Then...wait for it... he suggests he should take a pill which happens to be an OTC single dose like you get at a gas station. Now it was a bit mind blowing that he had not already taken it just in case but even more so for him to have picked one up he must have known he had an issue. Yeah we decided enough was enough and left before he took it. She was done even if it had worked.
My GF and I our both 64 and she only plays with men close to our age.Unfortunately, many men that age have troubles maintaining a stiff cock long enough for extended fun.I'm no exception, so I take Viagra.It make my cock think it's 18 again and can stay hard forever.It's almost to the point we insist that older guys use it (or any other proven ED drug) before they come over, because it's very frustrating for my Gf to deal with half hard/occasionally hard penises when the action gets hot and heavy.Thoughts?
