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I would be totally into that. There is fun to be had in one night stands, but a really getting to know someone, their likes and dislikes, and them knowing yours is way better. And having it be open, where you share about other lovers is so…
On the Desire Venice-Rome cruise from 18th to 25th. Also in Venice a few days before and Rome a few days after!
We have a private Facebook group for the people going on this cruise. Let me know your FB handle and we can chat with the group there if you want.
Thanks LAndW! I think the smaller cruise is more our style at this point. We look forward to seeing you there!
This will be our first! I’m interested to know what the scene is like on these smaller Desire cruises. There are reviews out there for the large Bliss cruises but not much for these.
My wife and I are planning on the Desire cruise from Venice to Rome starting May 18, 2023 and would love to find out anyone else’s experience with Desire cruises in general or if anyone here is planning on being on that cruise!
Pasta with garlic and Parmesan. Sautéed spinach, also with garlic.
Scallops with spinach and orzo
Just the private and personal.
Artichokes. Pasta w/ diced tomatoes, capers, garlic, fresh parmesan.
Now, something that can happen is your posture can change as you build muscle and that can affect where it *looks* like you're carrying weight. Shoulders back, chest up, abs tight will pull the belly in, and at the margin can make you look…
Mayhem is right. While muscles grow in the location you exercise, but fat cells don't turn into muscle cells -- no cells do that. Fat gets burned generally in the body in response to endocrine signals that the the body is out of short term…
Lately when I’ve tried to open photos to a contact or see the opened photos from a contact it has not actually opened - on both sides the galleries are not open. Has something stopped working with that feature?
The best part for me as a single guy playing with a couple is how the woman will trade back and forth between us, getting more excited, more wet and more pleasure all the while. And being with a couple where they love that the other is in…
Gotta tell you I’m blown away by the effort Phoebert's Wife and Ms Molly put in. I’ll take heart in the idea that it is better to be worth correcting than it is to be ignored. After looking at my profile for too long I could no longer real…
I’d love some feedback on my profile. When I write to people I get a fair number of visits to my profile, but then only a few follow up messages, even to say “sorry I don’t think we are a match”. Not zero and playing single I’m not going t…
Thanks for the info about how a takeover operates differently from a party with a block of rooms. I’ve never felt the need for a separate room when there is a block, but that’s because the rooms there are clearly the main play rooms. So, i…
Oh and yes people commonly bounce around from room to room. And probably quite a few of the people will have met and/or played before and will spend much of the evening hanging out and talking.
It is understandable to have questions like these! I can only tell you from my experience, of course, and I’m sure it varies. First, very little you might do will be considered weird. Do what you are comfortable with and what which like. I…
Busty: I totally respect how it works for, of course do things the way you like them, and reserve for you and your sweetie the things you want to. But for me, the kissing is a big part of what makes the whole thing exciting passionate fun!…
Count me as another one for whom kissing is essential. I’ve been with women from here who are passionate where our hips connect and then are completely lifeless where our faces connect. To me this is all about making all of these erotic, p…
Circuit: wow. I can understand her not wanting to participate after that kind of treatment. An inflatable doll deserves more respect than that! Gives me a better understanding of the profiles that are really clear about wanting only respec…
Obxboater: she has on occasion met and talked with my partners, but to be honest that has more often been at her request than the other couple’s. Usually since I’m straightforward in how I talk and represent myself in my profile they haven…
D’oh. She *isn’t* interested at this time, is what I meant of course.
Obxboater: yes, she can. She has had lovers herself in the past but is interested at this time.
Yeah, I’m not in a position to compare the statistics on the number of conversations that just get dropped for different subsets of the community here, but it sure does happen that you’re trying to have a sincere convo and the line suddenl…
As one of the men who is on here with an authentic hall pass I can assure you we do exist. I’m sure there are flakes but those of us who are real, reliable, and respectful probably we are more common that the single female unicorns :-D
Abs day. Boy do I hate abs day.
Leftover brisket. Fried potatoes with ketchup. Edamame. Negroni. Blueberry-apple pie.
In my experience it is natural to have these preferences. They’re the things that come to mind when you’re pleasuring yourself. Then you’re actually with another naked human being and your sweat mixes with theirs and that stuff just isn’t…
60 minute yoga flow class
Penne with caramelized shallot sauce
Seared scallops and fried potatoes
I broke down and bought a Peloton when my gym closed. Yeah its pricy and all that, but it really is a quality piece of equipment, both hardware and software, and the classes are very professionally done. Also have some free weights.
It is a great game, and meant for four so it’s a natural!
Roasted carrot soup, homemade bread, whiskey on the rocks, ice cream
Spin bike, 30 minutes today.
Pasta bolognese, an old fashioned, ice cream. Heaven!
I’m with you all: kissing is key. Kissing before any clothes are off gets the warmth flowing. Kissing as I slide into her helps us share the pleasure. Kissing in the afterglow prolongs the pleasure. Gotta have it!
My last was a couple weeks ago, during the lull between COVID flare ups in his area. It was a couple I’ve played with before so with that connection it felt safe. They came over and I had cooked dinner. We ate and chatted and caught up, wh…
Not too anxious, but taking care. Been abstaining but here in New Mexico the trendlines are pretty good so it is starting to feel safer to see friends that have been careful. No groups though. Just threesomes for now.
Spin. 30 minutes
That whole “non-sketchy” part sounds good, but difficult to find! Anybody able to provide guidelines on how possible that is?
Bike ride today for the first time in a while.
“Don’t force me to pretend to give a shit about strangers” Well, I have to say that’s quite a statement. Of course I won’t try to force you to do anything, and there is no way I could force you to care about anything but I would ask you to…
AR, of course I’m pleased you’re healthy and that you’ve been having fun. You lose me though with your blanket mocking of expertise. Our modern technological world is built on expertise, from airplanes to economies to the internet to the v…
I could see glory hole play at something like a hotel party where you have *some* idea of who it is on the other side of the wall but you don’t know exactly. That sounds really hot, and is actually something pretty COVID-safe right now!
I get where you’re coming from and there is something to the idea of getting on with life and not worrying too much. I’m not quite with you though on “you’re going to get it” being the place to start from. While it is true that flattening…
There are lots of ways the rules are different for her husband because he’s her primary. That’s natural and to be expected. It hadn’t occurred to me to dislike different rules, since my relationship to her is different from his.
Not at all! There's no getting together with people without risk. The sex itself may not be the issue but it is hard to get hot and steamy with someone without breathing the same air, touching things they've touched and transferring that t…
Met up with a couple from a swinger site, not this one. Spent the afternoon hiking and chatting before heading back to their place. They had a nice private yard and we laid a blanket out on the ground in the sun and proceeded to play and e…
I certainly understand where you're coming from AndrewRobin, and for myself I generally offer certs when I get together with someone. It is pretty common though for people to say that they prefer not to advertise who they've been with. For…
Just stretching today
spin-fit, which is a spin class intermixed with ab work
Pasta with kale pesto
Ramen noodles, but toss the MSG packet and drizzle some sesame oil and teriyaki on them instead. *way* better!
TRX today. Boy the hamstring curls kick my butt.
Spin-fit class, which alternates spin bike with ab work.
Bootcamp
TRX this morning. Spin tomorrow.
Spin class today
Hot dogs on the grill
Our first wasn’t exactly an MFM because it wasn’t same room - she and her friend were in the next room fucking and I could hear it and they knew that. Later she came back to me and we fucked while he could listen. It was super hot for ever…
While I totally get that you want to be peerless for her in every way, since it sounds like you’ve been doing this for a while she has probably been with guys that are richer or have better hair or dance better or wiggle their hips just so…
My most exciting is probably still our first. My wife had a male friend she was getting interested in and he came over and spent the night. He and wifey were in the next room and I listened to their bed creaking as they made love. In the m…
Totally agree that very few guys are going to approach an unknown couple in a bar. As others have noted, you could sit separately and see who approaches, but don't discount the possibility of her approaching him. Most guys would *love* to…
My first MFM was great! We went for a hike together to get to know each other a bit, went back to their place, laid a blanket out in the back yard and stripped naked and took turns fucking in the sunshine. A lovely afternoon!
Not sure why you might be having trouble finding someone to explore with, but a couple of thoughts to turn over... The first is to expect it to take time to get started. Looks like you're up in the northernmost bit of FL and I'm not sure h…
M and M: I think it is a great idea to keep it simple as you're just getting started. The fewer personality/body/desire variable to deal with while *also* starting into non-monogamy the better. If you're both comfortable with MFM then by a…
Of course there are lots of ways it *can* work, and whatever works for you is what works. My 3-some experience has all been with MFM (so far...) and as others have noted the notation generally means that the letter in the middle is the cen…
