Getting started

Attending LS parties/events in your area will increase your circle of friends dramatically faster than just about anything you can do online. That said, it wouldn't hurt to submit your profile for review or look through the Better Profiles thread for ideas on yours. Definitely lots of room for improvement.

Even if you do attend events, if you RSVP online and others can see that, having a good profile is never going to hurt you. Right off the bat your description doesn't indicate any interests you have and pretty much doesn't mention him at all.

You may want to think about joining some of the local groups and attending their events. Unfortunately there are not any clubs in the northern gulf coast area that I am aware of.

Here is a quick list of a few groups some of which are more local than others to you.
Mobile Speak Easy
Pensacola Hedonistic Underground Klub
Perdido Key/Pensacola Locals
Sunset Encounters
Swinger's gathering at Riveria Nudist Resort
WOC Events

There are many more, just go to the groups page and do a search. ~N

You've only been a member for a few months - give it some time. This is not a quick process - you might have better luck looking for some local meet-n-greets. We've been members for over a year and only recently had multiple acceptable contacts through SLS mail - it has taken several revisions of our profile. We've almost always received contacts but the quality has improved over the past six months as we've refined our profile.

In the meantime clean up your profile - there are errors of grammar and different stats in the text sections than in the stats section (no good reason to repeat your stats anyhow). If you are willing for brutal honesty go to the Better Profile thread under Successful Swinging and ask for a profile review. Your pictures don't look bad to me - but I don't like explicit or risque photos so I'm not always the best judge!

Good luck.

"I mean we have all our teeth and we have no kids and we are easy going. "

I am not sure when having no kids nor having every single tooth was a requirement, but it does help to be easy going, have good hygiene and be a healthy weight.

~Allen

" A nice drive out of town is good for the soul anyway lol ;) " aint that the truth lol

hey, don't forget the most important governing factor, location, location, location. You can't catch fish in an empty bucket.

Not sure why you might be having trouble finding someone to explore with, but a couple of thoughts to turn over...

The first is to expect it to take time to get started. Looks like you're up in the northernmost bit of FL and I'm not sure how many people are nearby there.

Another is that you might want to keep it simple and look for MFM if that works for both of you. Finding one person can be easier than finding two.

Are there things you're tried for contacting people that haven't worked?

My wife and I are still new to this lifestyle and we have meant some wonderful couples that have given us a wealth of knowledge. But we still want to explore the hot wife lifestyle and the swinger lifestyle. So my question to you is why in the world is it so hard to find people to explore with. I mean we have all our teeth and we have no kids and we are easy going.