SIZE REQUIREMENT S

Another thing to understand is, I may ask for Halle Berry.. That doesn't mean I won't sleep with anyone less than her. I find a lot of these "requirements" are just good starting points. I've seen pages that say not attracted to black men and then tell stories of black men in the forums. I've seen size queens who unlock their pics and they are really queens of all sizes.

Now that doesn't mean ignore their wishes and contact them anyway. But just know if you say them at an event, 9 times out of 10, they would not be so rigid.

this is about having sex with someone other than your husband or wife. it's already an exception to "normal" behavior. the fact someone wants to narrow the exception by specifying only guys with no body hair or 9'+ dicks or only redheads or only girls with big tits is fine. if they find someone who meets their criteria good, if not, then they're just like 90% (or whatever it might be) of the married population, who only fuck their spouse. in other words, it could be a way of saying they will only swing under certain narrow circumstances, which is a way of saying they won't swing. not swinging is perfectly acceptable choice in this life. not for me, but .. . lol

In my experience it is natural to have these preferences. They’re the things that come to mind when you’re pleasuring yourself.

Then you’re actually with another naked human being and your sweat mixes with theirs and that stuff just isn’t that important any more. You see the passion in their eyes and feel it in their body and it no longer matters how big their tits are and when they’re coming it doesn’t matter whether your cock is mashing the back of their vagina. What matters is that this human - this one right here that you are smelling and tasting - is fucking you right now.

So yeah, have preferences for the porn you like, but don’t mistake that for what happens after you start taking the clothes off of someone in real life.

Well said HB.. Kudos!

Thats what our swinging experience is about and have never regretted it.

No, not in the least and there are quite a few single males that say those types of things in their profiles. "Judgemental" is a word that I have often heard slung at people who put a lot of effort into staying in shape and prefer playing with others who do the same. Think of the LS as a place where fantasies can come to life. It works for both parties involved. You are a human being and not a slab of meat/ stunt cock and you are just as entitled to your preferences as anyone else is. People seem to most get bent out of shape when they forget their fantasy rendezvous involves another human being who is much more than an idea. The couple may have dreamed about something that they presume you are a perfect fit for and yet never consider that you have preferences yourself. Go ahead and let people know who you are looking for to save yourself and them a little time and maybe wasted effort.

First off we all have our preference as ridiculous as that may sounds.

Nope not offended, we all have things that we like or dont like. Communication is Key so if im not what they prefer or their not what I prefer its best to know that up front I dont want to waste their time nor mine.

Hey, some people think this is Amazon and they can get everything they want, along with free shipping. So I would be more amused than anything, but even if I fit every requirement, those people are always a no for me.

No, I wouldn’t be offended. I see people mention in their profiles all the time how he (or they) like large breasts, big butts, full figured women, etc... it’s their preference and they are entitled to it.

I’m lucky. Scamp is quite well endowed. Since I’m getting a large Italian sausage at home to fill me up I don’t worry about the size of any other guy’s meat. However, I could see that if I was only getting a cocktail wiener at home then I’d want something much more substantial when I go out to eat.

~rabbit~

I have a question for the ladies. I have been in the lifestyle for decades and I notice a LOT (but not all) single girls and ladies from couples will state on their profile they will only play with a man if his penis is at least 8 inches in length and up (especially coming from the size queens). Now everyone is entitled to their own physical personal preference in what they like from their sex partner. However my question to the ladies is if a man does that exact same thing and says on profile he will only meet a woman if she has Double DD bra size and up would you be offended by what he wants? Especially if your breast are not as big as his requirements size to meet him?