When you have a 3-Sum for the first time

Santa Fe, NM, Us

My first MFM was great!

We went for a hike together to get to know each other a bit, went back to their place, laid a blanket out in the back yard and stripped naked and took turns fucking in the sunshine. A lovely afternoon!

bobbyUSARegular
Chesapeake, VA, Us

I have m first mfm before 25y ....... i was soo scare and excit in same time.... couple have 40 and some and i was young ...... but i do that....

Exeter, United Kingdom , Uk

our first time took ages to get going, first we met a man and then after a couple of weeks we invited him back to our place which was quite easy as he lived further on than us, this happened a few times and in the meantime I had a few dances with him in the club and felt his semi erection back at home I danced with him and pushed closer to him where he got a full erection and when he asked if he could see me sometime I said why not right now, a pause and then we got to it, it was awesome and my husband climaxed the same time as I had my first orgasm (he told me about it later)

Our first threesome was earlier this year with a woman we met on another site. We corresponded (on-line) until we felt she was sincere, eventually arranging a face-to-face meeting and we hit it off fabulously! We all exchanged phone numbers, and would text, joke and set up dates for the three of us to hang out in no-pressure situations. What we liked most about getting to know one-another was that nobody had anything to hide, no false pretenses, we just are who we are! One night at dinner the sexual tension was boiling over and the kissing began right there in the restaurant. "Check please" then we made it back to her place where she wanted to model her corsets for us.

Everything that happened after that was so natural; kissing, touching, the sex... it was just AMAZING! It took us a while to "find the right one", but because we took the time to get to know one-another, there was no pressure and no-one was left unsatisfied or left-out. She eventually met someone that didn't like the idea of her sleeping with a couple (full disclosure) and we have since lost touch, but for our first time it was PERFECT! If it happens again... GREAT, but if it doesn't we'll always have fond memories of our first time.

Youngstown, OH, Us

Our first threesome was with a SM we met on SLS. We chatted back and forth for a while then met for coffee and set up a date. Things went well, but afterwards it was a little awkward because he was ready to leave almost right away. He did ask to come back, but we haven't played with him again although we've had a number of threesomes since.

My first FMF was a few months ago at a party. My husband was busy being the house Dom, so I had permission to find my own trouble. A couple was playing with each other and invited me to join them. I've since joined other couples when the hubby's busy.

Charles Town, WV, Us

“We have approached so many but they all want to do full swap”

Ann2016: You asked for advice, so here is some from a 20%er: The vast majority of males in couples are looking to swap, not attend parties and such to sit an watch their wife have a threesome. I suspect you won’t understand though, at least not until you have several couples approach you and ask to borrow your wife.

It’s not to say that you won’t get lucky and find it can happen........one day.

~Allen

mayhem8Veteran
Auburn, NH, Us

re: bound hotel play

I have a similar themed short porn that is one of our favorite background videos when we play.

New Orleans, LA, Us

On topic. Our first threesome was adding a SM, and it was a total surprise for rabbit. (I don’t recommend this unless you know your partner really well!)

I had her standing next to the bed blindfolded with her hands tied over her head. I whispered questions in her ear such as “Are you mine? Will to do whatever I ask? Will you fuck whoever I tell you to?” All of her answers were a breathless yes. She was unaware that a SM has come into the room and I started undressing her while he began kissing her neck and breasts. I untied her hands and intstructed her to get on her knees and welcome our guest properly. She did as she was told and began sucking him. I moved beside him and turned her head to take turns sucking him and me.

Still blindfolded, I led her to the bed and bent her over so our friend could fuck her from behind while sucking me as I knelt on the bed. She took turns sucking and fucking both of us until I finally removed the blindfold so I could look into her eyes while he fucked her.

Needless to say, it was a memorable and exhilarating experience which we have repeated many times.

~Scamp

New Orleans, LA, Us

Welcome (back) to the fora Kencyn.

You bring up a great point, if you want to be sure to have a sexy, attractive female who will do as you wish, hire a pro.

Another option for a couple as hot as Ann2016 is to come to New Orleans, we tend to find a way to fulfill fantasies here. And if Kencyn happens to be in town at the same time, we can always mix and match to satisfy all of each other’s fantasies.

;^D

~Scamp

Our first was MFF in Australia. It was great and we did it again 2 nights later and it was unbelievable. We have had 4 events all MFF and always with a hired 3rd. Next month headed to Hedo to see where we go from here MMF,Hotwife,swap.....Life is great!!!!

Ann2016...you are both in such good shape compared to 80% of the rest of us we'd bet some are intimidated by how healthy the two of you are. Keep up the good health and you will soon find a couple like us that would raise both eyebrows if we met you at a party and introduce ourselves!

Palmerton, PA, Us

We, I can't remember our first MFM, there have been quite a few of them. But our first FMF is forever burnt in my memory. We were at a party, and we were chatting with one of the single ladies we had known for quite sometime. Her and I had already made a connection, and it was just a matter of time. So, this time we started talking about playing. She said, "Let's do it. But bring your wife too." The girls started out sucking me together. They kissed each other, and fondled each other while working on me. Both girls were Bi (from the waist up at that time). My wife looked at me and said, "Put a condom on, and fuck her. I want to watch." As I am fucking our friend, my wife opened her legs, and started to play with her pussy. She would then offer me to suck her wet finger. Our SF was enjoying it very much. We changed positions a few times. I was asked to remove the condom, and fuck my wife. After my wife came on my cock, both girls sucked me some more. Then my wife said "Fuck her good, but don't CUM!!!" I pounded our friend some more until she had a nice big O. My wife said "Keep going!!! I want you to cum in my mouth. So you better time this right!!" I could feel the pressure building in my nuts. I pulled out, and removed the condom, and spurted right before my cock got on my wife's mouth. She sucked me in, and drained my cock. Then the girls kissed licking my cum from each other's lips. I was spent. Both girls came to me, kissing me. 3 tongues and lips licking and kissing each other. OMG one of the best experiences of my life!!!

Hell I just like to know how to even make it happen.... We have approached so many but they all want to do full swap n when we ask a single girl she acts scared to death. Or we go to a party and they say why u all here, I wouldn’t approach u I figured I wouldn’t be your type. So any advice on that? It’s not like we are even looking for someone that’s a damn queen or princess.

Summerville, SC, Us

Our first 3some was FMF and went perfectly. Not sure when the first MFM came but it was also perfect and same for our first MFMF. We have been lucky in that we have never had any drama or issues with swinging.

Land O Lakes, FL, Us

Since this thread is about first 3-somes, I will say that our first MFM and our first MFF were both excellent and were both "repeat customers". No drama or funny stories to tell with those firsts.
I think any "first of whatever fantasy" that goes well and without drama will almost certainly be memorable and very fondly remembered. I know both of those were.

Regarding the posters who commented about there first 3-some occurring with friends, but did not go so well, we had later 3-somes with friends (one male friend and one female friend-of-a-friend) that both had drama. We will not go down that path again with vanilla friends.

I do have a good story about my first actual group sex experience, which was almost a decade before meeting my wife, and over 15 years before she and I got into this hobby, but I will save that for some other appropriate thread title.

mbifnatlRegular
Alpharetta, GA, Us

Wifes first time:
It started with a little story my wife told me one night as we were in bed snuggling. She told me that once in her single teenage days her then boyfriend invited her to a party a friend of his was having. That night as she was getting ready for her boyfriend to pick her up, for some reason, she was feeling sexy and while showering made sure she shaved and trimmed very closely. The outfit she picked to wear was a short skirt, white panties and a top she would not have to wear a bra underneath that showed off the form of her young firm breast and nipples in a very provocative way. At the party her boyfriend had encouraged her to drink wild turkey and coke and it really effected her to where she was in a very happy and loving mood and was teasing him a lot, hugging and kissing and even grinding herself against him feeling his cock growing more excited as they kissed. As the party winded down, she was sitting on her boyfriends lap teasing him on a sofa as next to them a guy friend of his they had been hanging out with during the evening sat sipping his drink pretending not to be aware of what they were doing, and suddenly on an impulse she invited her boyfriend and also asked his guy friend if he also wanted to come over to her apartment to watch TV and hang out for a while since they did not yet want to end the evening and were becoming bored at the party. He accepted the invitation and the three of them had ended up spending the entire night together with her being the center of attention and she had enjoyed them both so very much. She replayed the long nights events in great detail from making out with her boyfriend in her bedroom, to asking his permission if she could invite his hot looking friend to share their bed as he was obviously bored watching TV alone, to telling me how she had licked both of their cocks, how they both had taken turns licking her pussy and clit causing her to orgasm several times. She had fully given herself to them both to enjoy and enjoy they did, each taking turns fucking her tight pussy all night long, both cumming several times inside of her making her once tight pussy enlarged and sloppy wet with the mixture of her lubrication with both of their cocks pulsing and squirting their cum deep inside her until she was so sloppy wet there was hardly any friction as they fucked. They had continued fucking her until they all feel asleep exhausted holding her between them as she noticed the sun coming up in the morning. She Loved it!

Rock Hill, SC, Us

I loved the most part of our mfm, seeing her eyes roll back looking at me as a strange cock went in her was awesome. She was hesitant to do this, but told me how fucking hot it was having another cock in front of me.
The only drawback was the guy wanting to marathon fuck her, she,d done cum 3 times and was ready for him to cum. We,d rather have a guy join in and play and cum twice, switching up positions.

Hilliard, OH, Us

Our first MFM threesome was at a club. I hated it. Never did it again. I'd rather just watch, or let Robin play alone. Too fucking gay for me.

Our first FMF threesome was also at a club. AWESOME! Then did it again, and a few more times over the next few years. I really just don't like group sex of any kind. It was great to check that off my bucket list, but really not my thing. I like one on one. I know, I'm a weirdo.

MNTNcoupleRegular
Rochester, NH, Usa

Our first was a MFF. She was my brothers girlfriend until she decided to end it with him. He just didn't give her the attention and respect that she deserved. We'd been living in the same house for some time by now and gotten to know each other. Movie nights and dinner together. One such movie night lead to a great time that lead to more great times. Sadly that all fell apart when another element was introduced and we were literally forced out on the street. (Not my brothers doing)

Powder Springs, GA, Us

First was a little awkward. Every one after has been better and better.

New Orleans, LA, Us

AZ,

It's good to hear that you were able to keep your friendship intact.

My first was with quite memorable. When I was leaving, she gave me a few jars of homemade jam. I smiled and mentioned that I felt like I didn't have anything to give her. Then, it was her turn to smile.

I still connect with them socially- for Saints games, concerts, fishing... and for play (when she gets the urge, he reaches out), from time to time. Really nice people.

BT

GoodenuffVeteran
Brooklyn Park, MN, Us

We've had awkward 3-somes, but out first certainly wasn't.

Albany, NY, Us

AZM, the only way to rectify this is to pull the same stunt with his wife and keep the secret from him. You have to put the earth back in balance.

Phoenix, AZ, Us

Awkward as hell until we found a rhythm that worked. We were all quite young and it was a series of firsts for all three of us.

GoodenuffVeteran
Brooklyn Park, MN, Us

To the original question- awesome.

The second time was awesomer.