If you ask the other male it shouldn’t be a problem. I tell my wife I love her during our MFM’s all the time. The person you invite to your bed is a privileged guest that has the honor to share your wife. If they are bothered by it they don’t need to be asked back
When a couple communicate it makes it more pleasant because I know that there is consent by all parties and it is for there pleasure
“I would rather hear "I love you " and you make me feel special " rather than "b@#$h suck my @#@%. That's pretty sad“
When judging someone’s style as “sad” it’s good to remember what most vanilla people would think of Swingers in general. We’ve seen plenty of things that aren’t for us, but who are we to judge what is right for someone else? A better reaction is to just move along and find someone who has a style that works with yours.
For me it’s a total turn on when couple communicate especially when she’s telling him how my cock feels
For me it’s a total turn on when couple communicate especially when she’s telling him how my cock feels
I don't feel like it's Awkward at all for me as a 3rd . The couple is living a fantasy they enjoy ,if they express emotion that's great its what makes them happy. There are no scripts in life . I would rather hear "I love you " and you make me feel special " rather than "b@#$h suck my @#@%. That's pretty sad
Unlike some of the other responses, I don’t find it so much hot, but more of an encouragement. A couple expressing their love for each other while being intimate with me reassures that they’re happy, and that what I’m doing is pleasing to them (so I can keep doing so without worrying they aren’t “feeling” it), figuratively speaking.
For me it would be a non-issue and I'd likely find it hot. You may want to at least let him know ahead of time so it doesn't take him off guard but in all of my threesomes, them chatting about how hot it is, how much they love each other, etc just gets me more worked up
As the third person I always feel I'm there to enhance and fulfill whatever they want to do. It certainly wouldn't bother me at all and might actually be very hot. Once the action starts it always seems to take its own course. Each couple is different. Never had a bad experience with another couple.
Au contraire, I would find it sexy and cool - you express your love for each other, yet you want me and my cock...
But perhaps, if you are a bit concerned about it, for your own sake why not mentioning it to him beforehand - it might remove those concerns of yours and free you up to be as expressive you desire.
Don't think it's awkward at all. It shouldn't come as a surprise to him, and he probably already assumes you're in love. After all, you've invited him to have sex with you.
For us we can’t see it being awkward we also do it often
Does your wife like dirty talk? If so then do that. Tell her how hot she is taking another man's cock.
I wouldn't find it awkward. Why would it be awkward?
I'd assume that if the couple I was playing with were married then it would be normal for them to express their feelings. Am I right?
Can honestly say that it has never been an issue when with a single. If they find the bond that we share uncomfortable then we are not the couple for them.
Who cares if it's awkward for him?
I mean, yes, you want this to be a whole lot of fun for all three of you, but you're doing this as a couple and your third is a pleasant addition, not someone you need to be considerate of in such a way that it interrupts or impacts how the two of you relate. Also, the actual answer is that any healthy third, male or female, is either going to be fine with it or even be turned on by it (that's always been me when I'm the third).
Going have our first MMF, which is really exciting (and nerve wracking). Our question involves dialog during the act....
We've been married 30 plus years, are each others best friends, and still madly in love. During sex and intimacy it's normal for us to tell each other how much we love each other. Is this maybe "awkward" for the other male? Any input is appreciated!
