Constant lookers

We have a local couple we were talking to, well, in reality it was just the guy because when we asked when she was going to make an appearance he flipped out. He said they didn't want to meet because they're afraid they will know who we are. But then, their profile is constantly looking at our profile. So we reached out again recently asking if they're finally over their fear of knowing us and we never got a reply....but they still keep looking.

The ironic thing is...we know who they are because we see both of them through their jobs.

Makes no sense to us.

When we still had our "Whos Viewed Me" turned on, we have gotten our share of repeat lookers also. Headscratchers.

Thinking about it we probably end up looking at lots of profiles and never reach out - sort of.

We run a group on here and check out profiles of folks to invite them to join. The invite goes out in the form of an SLS email (yes, the old email system still exists for groups to use for invites and mass mailings). BUT, the SLS app doesn't include email functionality so anyone using the app exclusively will not see the invite.

We also look at profiles and realize we've already sent the invite. So those folks see us checking them out (again) and not sending anything or opening any pics.

Based on how many folks have never responded to our invite we're guessing quite a few are using the app.

If there's just a few and you don't want to turn off WVM, you might just block the ones that are bothering you.

It is possible that you come up regularly on their random matches and they just mindlessly click them.

Most websites are populated by husbands with a fantasy and either put up an sm profile or a couples one. They never talk to their wife or get permission to put a profile here or elsewhere. They just live out their fantasy online. Just be glad that they aren't responding and wasting a lot of your time by endless chats or setting up fake dates. Just be happy that someone likes your profile and let them keep doing whatever it is they are doing.

Probably half the folks on this site just look at profiles and never actually meet anyone.

I think we all have those folks. I have no idea why they'd open pics then simply not respond to an introductory message.

Even if they opened there pics and checked us out by mistake, why not a simple hello.

We are ok with anyone that views us. We have a couple of single guys that enjoy the wife's pics but live too far so they are just admirers. The ones I feel are strange open there private pics to us and we respond with "hello We are.... and you have beautiful pics"(or something along that). And then silence.

Who Viewed Me.

You can turn it off and won't be able to see the folks who looked at your profile. You also won't show up on anyone's WVM when you check them out

“This is exactly why we have our WVM off.”

WVM? Somebody please educate us …

We have our regular lookers as well.

I don't think it's that uncommon. We have a few of those as well.

Just for the record, some pervs were never on Craig's List. shifty eyes

There are 4-5 couples/ladies who kept looking at me when I was still in Texas, and 2 years later they're STILL looking at me on occasion. Which tells me that they saved my profile in favorites. Even weirder, I'd reached out to several of them with no answer.

Then again, I'm not one who should be describing others as "weird"....

Dont worry about it.. since CL closed down many voyeurs, pervs, and picture wanker wanna bees.. on SLS.. for "us" we turn OFF the who viewed me page as we dont really care who looks..

If we want someone we find interesting we reach out, call and meet... if they dont respond to you guys.. its not worth your time.

We'd perv your profile too!

But we'd at least attempt to get you to meet us. ;)

This is exactly why we have our WVM off. I didn't want to see the same people over and over. I also didn't want to pop up on other's list if we accidentally clicked on their profile.

If this bothers you that much, turn it off. Then you'll never know.

Something we find strange. We have about 6 couple profiles and many single profiles that look at our profile on a regular basis but never text anything. A few are local and 2 couple profiles had their private pics open.
I reached out to introduce ourselves and say hi but got nothing back. Nothing. But still today they are back looking at my profile. Our profile is not that interesting.