Senior Swingers
A place where senior swingers can talk to each other.
Alternative ED ideas
Taking the pill will mostly help but are there other ideas that have helped. To give you an idea one thing is to have a very vocal woman. She likes it, wants it, needs it and tell…
by H_lustlover6replies1,961viewsDramatic facial changes during sex
Is it just me, or has anyone else ever seen the face of someone in the throes of passion change dramatically? Being that I am older now, I have seen cases where the face of the wo…
by mayhem84replies390viewsFriends first swingers?
We're really different as swingers and I'm sure it has more than one couple we've met scratching their heads. We only play with couples, and couples that we are close friends with…
by RolanKraps12replies1,595viewsDo you think they were joking?
Saw this in a profile. " We have our own teeth.We both have a couple dental implants but our teeth are not removable. " Are there a lot of swingers who want to know if your teeth…
by Ymichael1410replies1,891viewsTravel
Wife and I were having a discussion at breakfast this morning, and we were wondering how far most couples are willing to travel to meet a couple for the first time. We traveled a…
29replies1,938viewsYoung Relatives attending event
We have younger nephew and spouse who attend SLS events. We felt strange when we first saw they were. What are you thoughts on this.
by fifty4x28replies2,431viewsWho Videotapes?
Hello #Boomers! Videotaping is such an ancient, VCR-like word, but I don't know what else to call it. Recording comes to mind. As my Lady is my super hot pornstar I love to record…
by FruitGushers37replies6,594viewsSexual burnout
If you took your favorite dinner, say lobster, or a surf & turf for me, and ate it 2-3 times a week for years, I'd expect it would lose some of it's appeal. Even if you stopped ea…
by mayhem821replies1,846viewsLoving Women Over Age 80
I've been into older women since I was 19, starting with a 61yr old. These were 1on1 relationships. I'm 64 now, single, and have had girlfriends who were 80-something. I'm open to…
7replies1,825viewsHot dates and age
I have seen hot dates drop off considerably in the last year. We have been looking for a hotel or house party on NYE, but there has not been anything added in over a month.. Im wo…
by Kevnbeth10replies1,337viewsViagra question
When going to a party I generally make sure I have one on board. If nothing else, it's a confidence booster. My question....I have 100 mg pills, so should I take the whole thing 3…
by NCmtncpl60566replies1,409viewsCruise Jan 11 thru 20 Royal Carribean Ft Lauderdale
We are going on 7 night carribran cruiseand I am looking for couple ormale to enjoy my a,wet cruise in the BR
by RonandS1replies339viewsSenior swinging and signs of mental decline
Being that my wife and I are just over 70, we prefer to play with, senior-ish people. Let’s say 50 to maybe 75. So we connected with a couple in early 2023. They claimed to be 70,…
6replies621viewsWife lost Interest
We used to be very active pretty much did it all. She completely lost interest in sex and I'm still all charged up. Discussed it many times. I don't want to lose her I just want s…
by HotinHH9replies2,044views- 1replies499views
Turning Bi
Anyone else feel as they age that bi sex is more on their mind? When I was younger, I never thought about sucking another mans cock but as I get older, the thought and actually do…
8replies2,123viewsSM assumptions about seniors
I guess at 66 years of age I qualify as a senior now. Something I've seen a little uptick in recently is SMs reaching out with what appears to be an assumption, based on my age. T…
by mayhem810replies1,230viewsFinding and Seducing Old Widows
I'm 64. I've been into older women forever. At 19 I had a 60yr old girlfriend, and we couldn't keep our hands off each other. Many since. Nowadays I check out women in their 80's…
11replies2,445viewsSenior Swingers cruise group;
What ages do you consider "Seniors" and how do we check out your group?
165replies578,398viewswhat is your opinion?
I'm 76 and have been messaging with a 79 year old couple concerning an upcoming meeting for sex play. My concern is they have no photos and do not want to share any due to privacy…
16replies1,243viewsAgeing affecting orgasms
M age 68 F age 63 We've both noticed increased time and effort necessary to achieve orgasm, sometimes even unable to. While we thoroughly enjoy the journey and always are happy at…
by bfwp4u2replies912viewsGray hair or no hair?
Hope I am asking this in correct forum. I have moderate amount of hair on my chest and stomach. Most is turning gray. I know their appears to be a trend for men to shave their tor…
by Arlingtonray14replies1,889viewsSo Cal club or Party senior friendly?
Hey All 60’s couple traveling up to Pasadena soon. Any suggestions on a club or house party where seniors are at a good mix? Now that Freedom Acres is closed we need a new spot.
3replies383viewsTraveling to Palm Springs
We are planning a trip to Palm Springs early next year. We would like to stay at a lifestyle hotel but want to feel comfortable. (Probably being the oldest there). Any advice, exp…
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Looking for older couple in Charleston area
Would love to find an senior lady or couple with a straight male in my area to play with occasionally.
1replies419viewsAge Gap play
I am in my late thirties and enjoy playing with others who are 65+, I’ve found older couples are more fun and more relaxed. Do any of the older couples on here enjoy a younger par…
26replies5,268viewsHouse party
How do house parties generally go?, a little conversation then flirting and see where it leads
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Free Members
This may be a "dumb" question but here it goes. How do you contact people who's profile are Free?
by dougpa1replies555viewsHow does a single guy find a swing partner?
In the vanilla world I’d be considered a good catch. Professional sane tall decent looking guy, but in the swing world I’m a dime a dozen. Lots of hot well hung 40s and 50s year o…
by GreatLife718replies1,786viewsMarried and solo mature over 60
Was an active couple for many years. She’s no longer sexually driven so I’m interested in meeting a mature woman who understands and looking for pleasure
by ajaydi6replies2,008views- 9replies1,582views
Meet and Greats - Events
This post is for a laugh, as much as conversation. Why is it most M&Gs or events don’t start until 8:00/9:00 at night? Hell we’re ready for bed by 9:30 (5:00 comes early). What ab…
20replies2,197viewsEDEX anyone?
Anyone familiar with the ED aid, EDEX? I understand it is not premixed (like Trimix) but comes in an auto-injector and is mixed up as needed, so has longer shelf life than Trimix.…
by chimera665replies1,452viewsHormones and aging
Definitive new reference. Worth bookmarking. Aimed at the professional community and chock-full of reliable information academic.oup. com/jcem/advance-article/doi/10.1210/clinem/d…
6replies1,035viewsTrimix
Anybody have any experience with trimix injection? Pills don't work that well for me and am unsure about a pump, would really like to give the wife a rock hard cock, while its fun…
by two56forfun66replies10,344views- 11replies1,477views
Why is it so hard to find a real couple to be fwb
Why do couples say they wait to meet and play. Never follow though
by funcpl101429replies4,219viewsResponsibility for your orgasm
I decided to put this here as the question came ups between friends who are all over 60. Who is responsible (not 100% but should try) for giving you an orgasm during sex? I / we d…
by H_lustlover14replies1,135viewsRude people on forum
Why are people so rude on forum and in general for this lifestyle? This lifestyle has changed drastically and it's not what it's used to be there's no respect there's no etiquette…
20replies1,343viewsLifestyles Friendly Clothing Optional Resorts in SE US
We are a 60ish MWC that enjoys visiting Lifestyles Friendly Clothing Optional Resorts in SC,NC, Ga and Florida. The one that has worked out the best for us is Paradise Lakes in Fl…
2replies1,017viewsCPAP
There is no "health forum" and it's mostly a senior topic anyway. Both Mrs. FL and I have recently been diagnosed with obstructive sleep apnea and been prescribed CPAP therapy. We…
23replies2,201viewsSwinging 55+ Communities
We are looking to move into a active 55+ adult community. The ones we have visited appear to be very vanilla. Any suggestions in the North Texas? Thank You
by MnJLooking4u5replies2,069viewsSwinger nudist camps
I know of two nudist camps in western PA...one is a "Family" nudist camp which freaks me out, and the other is a "Gay" nudist camp which I am.not sure she'd like going to. Does an…
by midagehippie7replies3,438viewsNorth Georgia
Hello, my lady friend and I are looking for fun with others who are over 50. We look forward to finding similar couples.
1replies433viewsDressing Sexy
For years we will go off for weekend get a ways and when we would go out to dinner or out to a club or a casino she would dress in very revealing outfits which was a turn on to me…
by hump15replies2,558viewsAverage time spent having sex
Wife and I were wondering how much time from start to finish people our age take to have sex? Just curious, not talking about quickies, bj's etc. From foreplay to finish but not "…
by bfwp4u67replies5,297viewsTrip to Hedonism 10/7-10/14
Hi I have a paid trip to Club Hedonism in October (Bi Week) and my girlfriend now can’t go. I have trip insurance but………if you can go let’s talk thanks Tom
by TJfromCNJ0replies375views