Top or Bottom
There doesn't seem to be enough oral tops around to satisfy all of the self-identified cock suckers on here? How is that going to work out.? I don't think I've seen a post of a hung daddy who is looking for a periodic ball draining.
chimera66
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finding a cock to suck
seriously -- is there any such thing as a total oral top? I know total sub bottoms who are more or less stuck in that role because of ED issues, but I am not sure i know of any oral top who will refuse a big cock if he's looking at it.
hyper sexuality? sex addiction?
Anyone dealing with this in a relationship? Please message me to discuss.
Where in hell is SLS tech support?
I had to replace a hard drive that crashed. When I got back on the air, I had apparently lost the plug in that makes chat work. Unable to even find a good link to SLS tech support much less get advice on a fix...help!!
Sex and Parkinson's?
I know for a fact that there are several couples in the Lifestyle where one partner or the other has Parkinson's - to a greater of lesser degree. I am a little disappointed that nobody has shared any ideas, suggestions, etc., about LS fun…
Seriously - any 60-70 couples still in the game?
We recently updated our profile. As we have aged, we realize that our profile should realistically point out that we are not as young and vigorous as we once were. It's important that you don't present an inaccurate picture of yourself to…
I love watching other guys fuck my wife!
It's tough to find good senior males within a reasonable distance to hook up with an older couple. Really looking for 50 on up.
Sex and Parkinson's?
Dear fellow seniors. We know of a neurologist who when asked by a couple (one of whom had Parkinson's) what they should do about sex going forward, replied "all you can handle! There seem to be mixed messages on PD and sex. On the one hand…
EDEX anyone?
Anyone familiar with the ED aid, EDEX? I understand it is not premixed (like Trimix) but comes in an auto-injector and is mixed up as needed, so has longer shelf life than Trimix. I'd like to hear from anyone who has had experience with th…
Fantasy fuck
The McGuire Sisters.
P shot and O Shot
Yeah, I'd be interested in this treatment too....
Sex as therapy?
Posters in this group are generally discussing sex as an enjoyable activity. No argument there, but I am seriously interested in the notion of sex as potentially therapeutic for various neurological issues: Parkinson's, mild Alzheimers or…
I love watching other guys fuck my wife!
A hot topic and many great tales. As an older couple, we'd be interested in some of these scenarios, but not a lot of opptys for our age group. We'd like to hear from folks also interested in MFMs -- check our profile and send us a note.
Fantasy fuck
Martha Stewart; after an exhausting romp, she could get out of bed, fire up the espresso machine, and bring a back a couple of lattes and a plate of cookies for a midnight snack.
Care givers for spouses no longer active - who miss the intimacy
we'd be interested in hearing from couples where Parkinson's has afflicted one or the other. Post on here or message us privately if you wish.
Seriously - any 60-70 couples still in the game?
ez4utolove -- amen! A lot of folks let themselves go as they age. We hit the gym 3-5 times a week and work hard at it. This is primarily to keep us as healthy and active for as long as we can. Being perceived as an attractive LS partner is…
Seriously - any 60-70 couples still in the game?
ez4utolove -- amen! A lot of folks let themselves go as they age. We hit the gym 3-5 times a week and work hard at it. This is primarily to keep us as healthy and active for as long as we can. Being perceived as an attractive LS partner is…
Seriously - any 60-70 couples still in the game?
jnjlovetoplay -- we can identify. Our level of activity has dwindled down to a precious few. We did however cultivate exclusive relationships when we could. We were exclusive with one younger couple (by 10-12 years) for 4 or 5 years, and m…
Seriously - any 60-70 couples still in the game?
Yep, distance is a bear. As we get older, we are less inclined to travel half a day for fun. Some years ago, I suggested a private train excursion for seniors, complete with dining car, club car and sleepers. Maybe cross country and back.…
Trimix
Here's a great tip for protecting your Trimix syringes. If you're a cigar smoker get a few of those stogies that come in an aluminum tube. (If you're not into cigars, buy them anyway and give them to a pal who does - just keep the aluminum…
Senior Swinger Convention??
We'd give strong consideration to a Charlotte venue. Avoid dates that coincide with the big NASCAR events there.
Looking for likeminded Older couples,
As we get older, the friendship aspect becomes as important to us as the LS play time, in our humble opinion. I'd surprised more people haven't weighed in on this. We all tend to think that we will be vigorous and potent until they plant u…
What do you want your LS to be? A question for senior swingers .
As we get older, we find that our list of contacts and play pals gets slimmer and slimmer. Lots of different reasons, but many have "aged out" of the lifestyle, citing health issues, loss of interest, loss of spouse or companion, etc. We s…
Does a total, exclusively bi top really exist?
Pretty much what I thought - 2 replies in 3 days. One couple says yeah they do without offering any tale to corroborate and the guy who claims to be a top admits to playing with a dick. So much for exclusivity. Bi practitioners (at least o…
Does a total, exclusively bi top really exist?
I am starting to think that such a creature is the unicorn of male players. If I have a conversation with a bi gent who is supposedly an alpha male total top, sooner or later he drops the hint that he wouldn't mind sucking or being fucked…
Trimix
in2funplay may have answered this, but I was wondering if good, reliable Trimix was available from a mail order pharmacy -- would like any info on this.
Care givers for spouses no longer active - who miss the intimacy
Excellent story, Ted! I think it is a sure sign of maturity, that the spouse of a disabled partner doesn't suffer a guilt trip by engaging in sex with another individual who is sympathetic to the situation. If I were the unfortunate spouse…
Trimix
I am a new user of TriMix and have a couple of questions. The first injection in the Dr.'s office worked like a charm. My subsequent ones, not so good. I have been keeping the stuff in the freezer. Can it be too cold to work? Also tried th…
Trimix
Just got started with Trimix. I get it that you must discard any syringe after use - so where do you dump it generally? I don't like the idea of a used syringe in the trash. Can they be kept and returned to the pharmacy (much like unwanted…
Trimix
anybody have any experience with auto-injectors for tri-mix shots? Would like some info on this process.
Trimix
Obviously, I meant "cool" and not "cook" in that last post...Sorry.
Trimix
I'm getting my tri-mix vials in a week or so. I know this stuff has to be kept cook and some guys use a regualr cooler when traveling. I'm thinking that there has to be a good reliable tri-mix travel container designed specifically for thi…
Trimix
I'm getting my tri-mix vials in a week or so. I know this stuff has to be kept cook and some guys use a regualr cooler when traveling. I'm thinking that there has to be a good reliable tri-mix travel container designed specifically for thi…
Care givers for spouses no longer active - who miss the intimacy
I am blown away by the insight, empathy and wisdom in the remarks to my original post. I have often looked in vain for intelligent discussions on swinging topics on SLS forums and chat rooms, and usually disappointed. Lady/Tramp - lovely s…
Full Swapping in separate rooms
We usually start with soft stuff and foreplay in the same room, but separate rooms for the "coup de grace." We found that we can't concentrate on the swinging partner to the extent we should, if our other half is nearby. We think you shoul…
Care givers for spouses no longer active - who miss the intimacy
Many swinging couples, particularly those in their mature years, come to a point where one or the other is no longer in the game. In some cases, the partner who drops out must do so because of some debilitating condition - radical prostate…
Trimix
I'm scheduled for some needle work in a couple of weeks. Who gave you your first injection? Dr? Nurse asst? M or F? How did it go? Any advice for a newbie in this game?
Where are the older swingers
Gee -- Could it be possible to find a senior couple (or two or three), 60+, str8, reasonably HWP, sane - in NC or SC? Is this too much to ask?
Seriously - any 60-70 couples still in the game?
For us, it's pretty simple, Randy. We're looking for other mature couples. This thread is dominated by solo guys. Bring a female companion and we'll talk.
Where are the older swingers
good question and no easy answers...friends are even harder to find if you are looking for other senior couples. They are really the missing cohort.
Trimix
I spoke to someone with Trimix experience. It was a mixed blessing for him. He said that he often had "excruciating" pain after the injection - from the solution, I take it - the needle prick was almost negligible. The pain wasn't always t…
Seriously - any 60-70 couples still in the game?
Jeez 315; maybe it was cumming 5 times in 6 hours that killed him! Ya think?
Seriously - any 60-70 couples still in the game?
<p>We are becoming somewhat discouraged trying to find senior couples who are still into full swap. Many of our former playmates have dropped out for many reasons; health issues for one of the other; loss of interest; failure to find other…
question for all
"with the girls, they all seem alot smaller than me . I look at them and think how the hell would their man want to be with me when he has that ?" Ahhh....Ms. Tea4Two -- As we are fond of pointing out 'nobody is everybody's cup of tea, but…
What's for Dinner
chicken cacciatore
Where are the older swingers
interesting perspective, Sweettart. We have also met quite a few very mature folks who have not done much, but really interested in trying. Also meet quite a few who have ditched or lost 1st marriage partners and are cruising together look…
Where are the older swingers
Nice post, IFlirt, but we don't think that most senior couples are looking for much younger partners. Our experience is that mature folks tend to be most comfortable with people within a few years either way of their ages. Not as many chic…
Where are the older swingers
Nice post, IFlirt, but we don't think that most senior couples are looking for much younger partners. Our experience is that mature folks tend to be most comfortable with people within a few years either way of their ages. Not as many chic…
Where are the older swingers
Hey, Just4fun -- get your bad selves up to Charlotte, and we'll show you just how past prime time you are NOT!
Meet Greet, Fuck or pass the poster above you
Well, since the two previous posters have hidden their profiles from couples, guess we will have to pass.....<sigh>
Meet Greet, Fuck or pass the poster above you
hack into your profile, change your upper age limit to 68 and then go F...f...f...u...ck.....shoot, sweaty palms again; hard to type.
Meet Greet, Fuck or pass the poster above you
hack into your profile, change your upper age limit to 68 and then go F...f...f...u...ck.....shoot, sweaty palms again; hard to type.
Meet Greet, Fuck or pass the poster above you
we're in -- but a few of you will have to raise the bar on your upper age limit so we qualify...
Meet Greet, Fuck or pass the poster above you
F...f...f...u...c.....k. damn, my palms are sweating --
Meet Greet, Fuck or pass the poster above you
F...f...f...u...c.....k. damn, my palms are sweating --
There once was a man from Nantucket
The cabin boy, the cabin boy... That dirty little nipper. He lined his ass with broken glass, and circumcised the skipper!
There once was a man from Nantucket
There was a gay fellow named Groom Who took a lesbian to his room; but they argued all night, over who had the right to do what, with what, to whom!
Meet Greet, Fuck or pass the poster above you
lol.....LLD and stclare -- you two had better work things out.....lol
Where are the older swingers
Right on, Robnpartner -- Our take on most house parties is the same as yours -- "strip and screw" exercises, we call them. Been there, done that, don't care to do it again. One party we went to didn't even have any background music! Nothin…
Full Swapping in separate rooms
we second Jim's post -- and will add a couple of thoughts. We often start with same room soft play to kind of set the scene and get comfy, but split when intercourse appears imminent, because 1) the wife is not a voyeur. She is "in the mom…
favorite song lyrics
thanks Blackleather... here's another that Bing sang to Dorothy Lamour: Moonlight becomes you, It goes with your hair, and you certainly know the right things to wear. If I say I love you, I want you to know, It isn't because of moonlight,…
favorite song lyrics
How do you speak to an angel? I'm completely in the dark -- When you know that you've just met an angel, Is there a proper remarik? We were alone for a moment; Why was my head in a cloud? Do you speak to an angel in a whisper.. Or do you j…
favorite song lyrics
Some letters tied in blue, a photograph or two; I see a rose from you, among my souveniers. ..a few more tokens pressed within my treasure chest, and though they do their best, to give me consolation.... I count them all apart, and as the…
Meet Greet, Fuck or pass the poster above you
Damn -- we were waiting for this pair to cum up in the queue before us -- And we are +/- a couple of years within their age range! All this is to say -- definitely F-f-f-f-uck.....
favorite song lyrics
If you want something that will raise the hairs on the back of your neck, catch Juan Diego Florez singing "Grenada" sometime. Makes Ms. Chim squirm in her chair, too....just to watch him...
favorite song lyrics
Keep an eye on spring -- Run when church bells ring, it could happen to you. All I did was wonder, how your arms would be, and it happened to me. Lotsa singers, but check out June Christie
favorite song lyrics
I'm with you once more under the stars. Down by the shore an orchestra's playing -- Even the palms seem to be swaying, When they begin the beguine.
Meet Greet, Fuck or pass the poster above you
Hmmmm -- if you give us a waiver on your upper age limit -- definitely f-f-f---k!
There once was a man from Nantucket
There was a young man from Mass. Whose balls were made out of brass When he rubbed them together, they played "Stormy Weather" And lightning shot out of his ass
Quote of the Day - Meaningful, provocative and amusing quotes
Lackey: Sir! Siir! There are some SEALS in the courtyard! OBL: Don't be silly! We're miles from the ocean!
Where are the older swingers
Frank -- Your suggestion for a M&G (50+ only, perhaps) is a good one. Not sure if we would want ot host such a group of strangers at our house and renting a hall seems a little over the top. Maybe we need to find a Swinger Friendly B&B and…
Where are the older swingers
Our experience is that most swingers our age have dried up and/or dropped out. It is frankly frustrating. Ironically, we often get interest from younger couples (and frequently younger guys who "love older women!" as they put it. We really…
Where are the older swingers
In just the past three years, we have seen several couple friends drop out of the lifestyle because of various issues: health, loss of interest (sometimes related to a health issue), etc. Perhaps the economy and the related expenses of tra…
Where are the older swingers
"There are some exciting 50 and 60 + singles and couples in the Low Country area. " Why don't some of those folks head for the hills??
Where are the older swingers
This is a great question, JackDarlene. And another problem -- it is even tougher to find 50+ swingers who have not gone to pot -- and I don't mean the herbal remedy. Finding seniors who are also even semi-HWP is a real chore. We'd even tra…
Watching your wife get fucked
I'll walk into the bedroom on my knees -- if the lighting is really dim, we could get away with it -- for a while at least.....
Where are the older swingers
Here! Here! Over here!!
Where are the older swingers
Seduction -- not to be too nosy, but why do you think you will not want to swing past 50? You two are poster children for fitness, so it can't be that you are falling apart....have you completed about all of your erotic mission and are los…
Where are the older swingers
Oh, they are out there. We have met quite a few and wound up with a hand-ful of regular pals. We are leery of the club socials because they seem to be filled with younger "cliques" and we don't want to sit aroung and be pretty much ignored…
Full Swapping in separate rooms
We're also with JackDarlene on this one. We don't play at clubs, and rarely at a first meeting with anyone. Since we already know most of the folks we play with, security is not an issue. We grant that sex with relative strangers could be…
Describe the person above you in one word
exaggerator
From Couch To Fit, what worked for you
We do free weights in a structured program, lots of treadmill and hike when we can. Also golf. She does yoga, and I do Tai Chi. It takes enough of our time that we wonder (and sympathize with) pre-retirement couples or those with kids stil…
Describe the person above you in one word
insightful (in forum entries)
Describe the person above you in one word
wood-nymph (okay, that cheats a little)
Quote of the Day - Meaningful, provocative and amusing quotes
"When I have to choose between two evils, I try to pick the one I haven't tried before." Mae West
Quote of the Day - Meaningful, provocative and amusing quotes
"Either this man is dead, or my watch has stopped." Groucho Marx (checking a man's pulse)
Meet Greet, Fuck or pass the poster above you
...pant...pant...pant.....
Meet Greet, Fuck or pass the poster above you
Gosh -- never thought I'd get Gina under me!.... F-f-f-f-uck! (a little nervous at the thought....)
What's for Dinner
Caprese salad and vegetarian lasagna
Describe the person above you in one word
great-wheels (ok, so its hyphenated.....)
Describe the person above you in one word
Titillating...!!
Meet Greet, Fuck or pass the poster above you
Lie about our ages, and then F-f-f-f-......uck!
Meet Greet, Fuck or pass the poster above you
Definitely meet and greet
Describe the person above you in one word
intrigueing (did I spell that right??)
Describe the person above you in one word
Appealing
Describe the person above you in one word
Angelic...
Meet Greet, Fuck or pass the poster above you
we're livin' in the south -- fuck y'all....
Meet Greet, Fuck or pass the poster above you
Ohhhhhhhhh yessssssssssss -- in a New York minute !!!
Meet Greet, Fuck or pass the poster above you
well, we are a tad over the stated age limit, but dang -- we would sure meet and greet!!
Meet Greet, Fuck or pass the poster above you
Mrs. Chim is afraid she would kill an 81 year old male, but luckily their upper age limit is only 55....so guess we would have to take a pass there. GINA -- please come back!!