Age Gap play

Because of my very strict religious upbringing, I remained a virgin til 32 years of age. The circumstances which led to this were very complicated, adding the isolated nature of my career as a freelance artist to the mix. Once I finally rebelled against the moral restrictions, I surrendered my virginity to a woman 20 years my senior. I wasn't looking for that age disparity at all, and it was never something I pursued when my path led me to the swinger lifestyle. I had also enjoyed a couple experiences with much younger ladies, but these, too, were incidental. Age Gap sex wasn't really a thing with me until another incidental encounter occurred one night at a party held in a swinger couple's home. I had arrived late, and the party had wound down. I'd missed whatever action, but as I wandered the house, I found an old woman sitting alone in a darkened rear bedroom. She was petite, dressed only in a sheer black negligee. I returned her warm smile, but left her there to return to the other folks chatting on the patio. I was in my early forties, but the old woman looked to be in her seventies. I just couldn't imagine having sex with a senior citizen. I was programmed to hold a deeper respect for the elderly. But as I dared to dwell on the idea, I reflected on the uninhibited nature of the swing lifestyle. I had crossed a hard boundary by having sex with married women, and that was a total game-changer. So, after about 20 or 30 minutes of mulling it over, I went back to that darkened room. Undressing in front of the old lady began to spark my arousal. As she took my penis into her mouth, I committed to the kink of it. Right there on the floor, I mounted the old woman in Missionary, and I fucked her with a primal heat. And I have no regrets. Sex with that old woman remains one of my most cherished life experiences. Surprise!

One of my current girlfriends is 19 years younger than me. She says she prefers older men and her husband is close to my age. From what she tells me, the knowledge, patience, and added passion gives us "older" lovers a big advantage sometimes.

We play with others our age and both older and younger. The "olders" are not as many as there are often more physical issues than we care to deal with. The younger ones are far more plentiful, though our current regular playmates number just two with one of them being almost 30 years younger ..... he loves being with us as his wife is in her 60s and has no interest in sex. (just in case you're doing the math she's almost 30 years his senior. Both give the fair Mrs Into incredible orgasms ...we all play very well together (though not two of them at a time)

A poster mentioned educating a man young enough to be their grandchild. It's a remark worth exploring. Young people are having less sex than we did growing up, and their skills are perhaps less refined. Perhaps one of the responsibilities/joys of being older is that younger folks in the LS actually want to learn.

If I find the other person attractive, age doesn't really matter. Not really sure what the largest gap has been, probably in the 10-15 year range in both directions.

As others have mentioned, our age range for meeting people online basically ranges from our youngest parents age to our oldest childrens age. All of that is out the window when at parties or clubs as we have no idea of peoples ages there.

As long as everyone is compatible....has mutual interests, urges, etc, age shouldn't be much of a factor.....However I certainly don't want to be robbing any cradles either lol......I do prefer people around my age who like myself may be retired and/or empty nesters .....a lot of free time for some lifestyle mischief ??

If you've read our other replies on the forum, you know we're very open-minded about age. We've had partners old enough to be our parents and young enough to be our children. As long as they relax and have a good time, age is no deterrent. One male partner turned out to be young enough to be a grandchild and he was fun! He still had some social maturing to do, but his body was moving along well. Basically, he had learned how to jackoff and dreamed of fucking a girl like he watched online at porn sites. He had some mid-conceptions about people having sex that were brought on by watching porn. We let him watch us have sex, taking time with foreplay, oral, and finally fucking. We let him sit on the bed and jackoff as we instructed him at each step. As he understood the various moves, he was taught the way to play with a woman's breasts, pussy, and clit. Then he was allowed to fuck her pussy, was a bit uncoordinated in missionary, but did great in doggy position. He learned how to lick pussy as well as fuck it. Overall, the entire situation was a real turn-on for all of us!!!

We have age ranges but the only hard rule is no one in their 20s. Too much of an age gap and our son is 26. We have had some wonderful experiences with folks in their 30s and above. We just like attraction and the ability to hold a conversation. A lot of attraction is mental for us. We also enjoy all shapes and sizes. Sexy does not come in any specific look for us.

I think it's unfortunate that some folks tend to judge whole groups of people based on a few bad experiences. These few guys or those few girls were like this, and I dislike that. So, I'm punishing their entire category for it. There are always individuals who defy classification, and perhaps we should remain open to that instead of shutting it all down. We could be turning our backs on something special. My personal preferences did not always include much older women. I had an age cut-off that was unofficial until I opened my mind when I met a much older women who rocked my world.
Life can disappoint, but if you let it, it can also pleasantly surprise.

We have a rule about not playing with anyone younger than her kids. We kept to that until a guy 46 convinced us he was more mature and had a thing for older women. He wanted to be with a woman in her 70’s. My wife decided to try to make his dream come true. We played with him and afterwards she wasn’t thrilled. She felt he was more mechanical and not really into her as a person. She needs that personal connection with the guy we have sex with. As we drove home after him, I could feel how almost sad she was feeling. We no longer go below 55 and we have had very good experiences. Her favorites she had connection with and felt they cared about her as a person. She was so comfortable being naked with them and responding to them freely

I think many older couples would welcome a younger male. However, if the age gap is really large, you may not have very much in common to talk about when you're not engaged in sex. If you're looking for an ongoing relationship, I think a narrower gap would be preferable. If it's just for one night, it probably isn't very important.

Thinking back maybe 15 years ago, I failed to appreciate the profound pleasures of age-gap play. I used to regularly attend a swinger party on the weekends at a place called Panther Palace in Costa Mesa, California. It was mostly a senior crowd there, reflecting the owner (It's funny how party demographics usually reflect the hosts.). They gathered to socialize, dip in the pool, and sing karaoke. At that time, I hadn't really made the transition whereby I found much older women as attractive. I had encounters here and there, sure. But I didn't seek them out. No, it would be years later, when I met that sexy 70 year-old that my world changed and expanded.

As with every other dynamic, it's a case-by-case consideration that depends on the individuals and the chemistry. I lost my virginity to a woman 20 years my senior. But I wasn't really looking for that to happen. Many years later, in my late forties, I attended a swinger party where I saw a much older woman sitting alone in one of the back bedrooms. She looked to be in her 70s, petite, Caucasian, and fairly good-looking. But due to my "societal programming," if you will, I couldn't even consider her in any remotely sexual way. It felt too -- disrespectful. So, I politely returned her friendly smile, and took my leave. But I decided to think things over for a while. It was like I was chipping away at the mental barrier. It took me nearly an hour to smash that barrier and embrace the extreme taboo, which is what this lifestyle does celebrate. Admittedly, it also helped that the party had been poorly attended, and it was getting late. I went back to the old woman in the darkened rear bedroom, where she patiently sat in her black negligee. She smiled at me again, and I approached her this time, and quietly undressed right in front of her, my intention crystal clear. I have to say, it was one of the most erotic moments of my life, and some of the best sex I have ever had. I was gentle, and I took my time, without a condom. Our stark contrasts of interracial and the age gap combined to heighten the kinky, wonderfully perverted pleasure. I was glad that I got to experience that. And I would be open to meeting another woman her age, or older.

My wife is not a cougar by any stretch of the imagination, but she has certainly enjoyed her share of a range of ages. She has a way of getting another person very comfortable in an intimate situation, whether the purpose of the get-together is sex or not. When she meets ANY male, it doesn't seem to take too long for the male to get at least a little suggestive. Being a woman, she has had many more opportunities than I have to enjoy other partners. I have no issue with that because she doesn't have sex with another man unless she is truly turned on to him. She doesn't fuck just to be fucking.

She had some fun before we got together and married and has had a wide range of opportunities in the time I've known her. Fortunately, I've been with her for most of her experiences as has she with me. We've had partners with similar age ranges - parental ages to child ages. Since we've been together, she had the opportunity to be one young boy's first pussy with me giving instruction and helping him relax. He wanted to do doggy, got his dick in her with little trouble and set a pace I helped him regulate by talking to him. While he was fucking, I fondled her tits and clit. After a few minutes, it was obvious he was building to his cum. I told him to keep his dick in her to enjoy the sensation while I got a washcloth. I put the washcloth around his dick and another on her pussy. He had the biggest smile you can imagine having finally fucked a real girl's pussy! It didn't matter to him that she was the age of his grandmother.

Recently we tried a guy who was 39. He had a fantasy of fucking a 70 something. It was ok but he was too big for her and hurt too much so he got her off orally. We have a special friend who is 56. That is about as young as we would go from now on. The under 40 guys seem too scattered and too aggressive

As long as you don,t surcum to her blowjobs and marry her like an idiot...

Can,t understand WHY so many guys just up and marry any regular sex??.

Dosen,t anyone have the confidence to date these women....?

I find women my age or older very attractive. That said, I tend to set a lower age on searches to 50, sometimes 40. Not because I don’ wouldn’t want to be with a younger woman, I just don’t think they’d be interested in me and don’t want to waste my time. For a relationship I want older and mature; for just sex, I’d take any legal age.

We are 74 and we have been with 51, but she isn't comfortable with anyone younger child. We have a steady playmate who turned 56 and he is perfect for her. He treats her with respect and is very gentle. I love watching them together.

Couples are all right with me being a little younger. however single men I have a problem with. I am not a cougar or a milf or someone's teacher. and much rather be with people my own age. As a single female I do get lots of messages from from 20-year-olds men and the thought of a 20 year old would definitely not be my thing. 58 through 69 much more comfortable for me..

Age isn't the most deciding factor to me.

My wife has enjoyed sex with males ranging from old enough to be her father (plus some) down to one young man who could have been her grandson. She always attracted young men because she looked 10-15 years younger than her years.

I have had fun with women from old enough to be my mother to young enough to be my daughters.

Age is just a number. Maturity and sexual comfort are more important.

When I was in my mid 30's that was my prime age to be be with much older women...You are not alone..

My wife has enjoyed older men throughout the years

Some say I'm a bit of an old soul. But to me sexy has no age limit. Beautiful women come in all different ages and sizes. I just prefer someone who's a bit more mature. It's the way she cares herself. Whether happy girl lucky and carefree or just wanting to try something different. That ability to let go and enjoy yourself. taking a chance on finding what pleases you and not concerned with what pleases others. Maturity does that allows you to get to the point where you grow and to finding your happy and not accommodating other people's views of what might be sexy. Like magazines or silly blogs based on the appeals of the masses or what society is trying to tell us we should like. So maturity at a young age nothing cocky but I've been told and I know I get along with a much more mature crowd. I'm more campfire the nightclub. But something about a mature woman. She's got the body that I adore. Grown and sexy not some little girl shaped like a Barbie doll. That's not a real woman that's just a little girl. Adoring you for every curve and what you might think is an imperfection is simply a beauty mark of experience. Adoring you lovely ladies and the maturity and sexual desire you bring. I don't like the term cougar or MILF if that's your thing that's your thing. To me beauty is timeless and it can't be defined by such a derogatory term. So for those of you that say you can't find a younger man that has enough maturity to treat you like a lady or dominate you and ways that you'd like to be dominated. I'm on board for your pleasure. And I enjoy giving pleasure. Slowing down and finding and exploring your erogenous zones. Foreplay.. it's part of the fun. So what's wrong with slowing down before picking up the pace to make sure your very well turned on. Wishing you all success and whatever you're looking for. But this chocolate is sweet and savory. Never overconfident just hard-working to show you appreciation for the beautiful woman that you are.

Exactly ONE.. guys who get it and have a well written profile and more than one photo! If you cannot communicate, have a well written profile, some nice photos,.. well it shows you are.... LAZY.. and we will pass!

Our last one last week was our trainer at our GYM in his 30's and YES a keeper and actually our first CERT for him as we usually DO NOT do any but he was new on SLS but a long time swinger on another site..!