Some single males are gross

BT. Nailed it, just sayin

Few Pickens... Slim’s younger, less famous brother...

BT

Dam just got another single that can't read a profile we like singles but Pickens are few

There are gross couples and single women as well. Both in the lifestyle and vanilla world. It's sad and with the internet, no excuse for ill manners and not very smart.

No! Some single men are just gross!! A third grade reading exam should be a requirement as well as comprehension of what that have read. A hundred pounds overweight does not qualify as HWP, and "close by" is not a 1000 miles.

Snowman- if you want profile help scroll down the forums and post in Better Profiles.

My take on you after reading your profile and looking at your pics? I’d pass and possibly block you if you were local. You come across as being a married and cheating bi guy involved with someone’s cheating wife and wanting to bring that drama to my home. No thanks.

~rabbit~

What he said... ;-)

Please apply a humor/sarcasm font when reading my posts. Also, If you can read them in a Tennessee Tuxedo or Leo Gorcey voice, you’ll be good to go most of the time.

Good luck, have fun, and welcome to the fora,

BT

“ bridgetender
I do have the tendency just to write the facts without explaining more. How can I help you understand this topic more? Trust me in that it helps me tremendously to break it down even further.”

Steve,

Let me break it down.

Bridgetender was trying to say that he is one of the 95 million fundamentally illiterate of which you complain.

That was humor.

Does that help you understand more?

georgianiceguy

I am an introvert and empathic. I tend to stay at home and do research than be in a crowd. I studied fire science, Electrical eng. with physics and math and just have a difficult time with idle chit chat. I know it turns some women off and yet some women find that I am interested to talk to. Even writing a profile to attract women is not easy for me because I am also honest. I think all of us can help each other in putting an honest profile together. Steve

bridgetender

I do have the tendency just to write the facts without explaining more. How can I help you understand this topic more? Trust me in that it helps me tremendously to break it down even further.

I wish I had learned all this when I first start joining the swinging lifestyle site in my 20's.

I just think some single men look at a person profile and get attached to the pics they like of the lady, and not read clearly about them on what they wrote about themselves.

Then plus write a random message saying " hey can we meet up and fuck " " how are you doing " I know they won't approach a lady like that in person.

Even if you see a ladies pics on there profile with explicit content on it, still don't approach her with a random message about you want to fuck the hell out of her. Get the dirty thoughts off your mind and start off with a normal message of introducing yourself with a first message.

Some guy's just don't get it. I have read some of the messages that some lady friends and couples get and I just shack my head. Sucks for us that have respect for the beautiful ladies and couples that enjoy another male.

Steve,

Please type slower. I’m having a hard time understanding you.

Thanks,

BT

The educational system is a total failure. There are 95 million functionally illiterate people in the U.S. and 50 million total illiterate people. So finding someone that can talk at a higher level is more difficult than people may think. As for me I constantly learn but have no one to talk to. As for what I lack I learn to be more than just a fucking partner. Everyone is a human being first everything else is secondary.

Here’s an example of another genius. Sends a message. I want to be with your wife and posts a phone number. Obviously not a literal person as reading/comprehension was not a mastered art in kindergarten. First inclination... send a message and put his Mother on the phone for an interview; A simple go fuck yourself during this time of quarantine; or simply Block and ignore since the profile picture is a couple of multi-colored characters. I’m feeling rebellious right now. Might just go with the “Hey genius. Grow the fuck up. You’ll never make the major leagues. “ You see SM...women are not objects. They are gentle creatures who enjoy the sensuality and respect they deserve. Character. If you can’t fit that bill, get the fuck off this site and go sit and discuss your lack of literacy with the person that birthed you. My rant...

As for me, I am a shy person and always have been. I have dated yet no marriage. I love scientific research and have a tough time with a casual chat. For me making friends is the best for me. I can learn casual chat depending on the subject. I a very curious and love to learn. I may play with a woman's nipple until I get a smile or reaction. Have any of you enjoyed a shy person?

No negative ratings.. just a 1-5 star review with additional comments /writing and many will see by what you write in full... describes what they do, are they fun and real swingers vs just Cert Collecters.

I am sure you can read Yelp reviews and see who writes good reviews with facts vs those who just do a one liner with no details.

The problem with allowing negative "ratings" (or whatever you want to call it) is that what works or does not work for you might be just what someone else is looking for or not. We have had great fun with people that also have had fun with others we would never consider and in fact prefer not to be in the same room with fully clothed. Just because we have a problem with them does not mean others do. Of course the current certification system is flawed as well which is a good reason to ignore them and simply find out for yourself.

Even the best of us have an off day. I suppose this would bear out if you had enough input. One problem is that a lot of people are more likely to complain than praise.

Some singles certainly don't know how to write an intro note to get a response. As to reliability, we, like I'm sure other couples who meet with Sm's, have our own reliable list. When meeting singles for the first time we cut no slack for late arrivals or last minute calls to change the time or meet. It's only an introduction to how they operate. We personally are always on time and respectful of others time and availability, we expect the same. When I feel like more than one man, or several, we know exactly who to call from experience. Many men don't function well in a group, but are fine in a mfm. It would be nice for a reliability rating system.

Although we occasionally reach out to SM, many, especially under current national circumstances, cannot read. Feeling as though COVID is taking a back seat to literacy exampled by the many “how are yo doing?” (Just gets deleted). How in the F do you think we’re doing? And the most recent...”I’d like to lick her (deleted/ blocked) Immediate thought, Iick your mother and then we might talk. So, to SM out there that can read...our profile used to be simple and basic. After a while it was time to weed out foolishness. Thanks for our War and Peace profile. And, to those we have invited over, and have gotten to know, thank you for your maturity, grace, respect and fantastic time.

April fools!

:-P

"Once we got to a point where we know and trust SMs, we wouldn't have a problem doing this with them at our home where no money need change hands. "

Wait! what?

:-)

~Allen

Oops, I should have pointed out that my post would be with myself and a couple or single female.

Okay, this is getting gross.

Unsubscribed

~Allen

Again, a little outside the norm. If you are vetting guys for a GB situation you want to see if they can perform with at least a couple of other guys present. I can see where an SM mayy not mind paying for a room to play, but not as likely to happen if 2 or 3 other SMs would be there too. One can wait to book the room, but that only solves part of the problem.

Investing the time in this would already be difficult enough, but if we're paying for a hotel room too it wouldn't be worth it, for us anyway. I can see where it would be worth it for an SM.

Once we got to a point where we know and trust SMs, we wouldn't have a problem doing this with them at our home where no money need change hands.