Some single males are gross

I'm guessing NOVA isn't much of a feminist type and much more of the sexist pig type.

Love the hypocrisy of a guy on a swing site (pretending to be a swinger) not wanting women to embrace their sexuality in any manner they choose with as many partners as they choose.

I'm willing to bet that, while he'd love to have a FWB to help him score more women by getting him into clubs and parties, if he eventually meets someone he's serious about he'd never be willing to swing with and share her. He's likely just another SM poser that doesn't get what the LS is actually about.

~rabbit~

Whadya want? ...I mean really? What do you expect?... He’s a Libertine. Like Persia, I don’t think that country even exists anymore...

BT

NOVA,

An awesome dude like you should be able to get a girlfriend, or two, and then come back into the lifestyle as a couple, not just another single guy showing up with his dick in his hand. Great profile BTW. Have a magical day.

Oh wow, how original, another SM who didn't bother to read that the OP went out of their way to say that have met some great guys but the few mess things up for the many.

And then there is this from the "looking for" part of your profile.

"... a single female (only if she doesn’t use the lifestyle as an excuse to bang half of NOVA)."

So you want a woman who enjoys a little sexual freedom, as long as you can dictate just how much she gets to enjoy.

You must have women throwing themselves at you.

~Scamp

Nova, when it comes to the forum and equal treatment of ridiculous messages and behavior it is sovereign. Both single males and couples will get the same treatment. Just dig around and you will find it. The message at the bottom of this thread is a terrible message that reflects what drives many people away from the LS and especially sm's. We know people who give up on sm's because they get tired of filtering eleventysix of this a week. If you paid attention the op does say that they have met some quality sm's, at the top of the curve. Now with the sovereign forum, it exists in part as a place for people to vent frustration from shared experience. The reason you see so many posts like this is because of the prevalence of poor behavior that is disproportionate among sm's. Check out several of the sm threads.

Oh wow, how original, another post flaming single males. Thanks for contributing something unique, new and substantive to the discussion. Newsflash people--you’re dealing with human beings. When examining the human condition, the bell curve is sovereign, always. Everyone please take note, couples not excepted. Odds are, you don’t fall two standard deviations to the right of the mean. Always act accordingly, and try some magnanimity for a change.

It’s against the site’s TOS to post names. So, probably a good thing that you didn’t. No sense in being put in time out for outing someone. If the email exchange is on the site, Wayne swears that the site administration takes these things very seriously, or at the very least, raises a single eyebrow in your direction should you notify them...

So, you got that going for you, which is nice.

BT

We have met some really nice guys here too. SO we do like others have stated and just delete the message and block the ones like him. Thought about posting his name but decided against that.

LOL @ Holly! And, he's not "a scared."

Wait! Didn't you all notice that he had his "no disease paper?"

I had a Mead notebook that was completely disease free once.

Sadly SLS is encouraging the CL and Tinder refugees with their ridiculous messaging system. Maybe the site admins think CL was the gold standard and wants to emulate that model? How else to explain the systematic deconstruction of this site?

~Scamp

@RonKathy Exactly! We've noticed so many clearly vanilla single guys who have migrated over to the lifestyle sites because they've heard the sites are just full of wives who can't wait to fuck them. The messages we've gotten lately sometimes seem as though they believe this site is Tinder or something. Clearly these guys know NOTHING about the lifestyle or anything about being a successful single male in the lifestyle. There's a forum on here for that but these guys are too lazy or stupid to read and end up just bringing the same stupid crap they used before on CL, etc. They actually think that somebody is going to let them get together with their wife or that a wife would feel compelled to get together with such a crass fool. Oh well....just scold them and block them, move on. That's what we do.

HW

It really is a shame that someone would actually think that email is appropriate to send to a couple? Unfortunately some single males believe that being on a swinger site gives them the right to message a couple in a disgusting manner! Would you say that to someone outside of this site? Of course not! We are not trying to pile on single males, we actually have met some exceptional gentleman who understand exactly what this lifestyle is and should be, but sometimes certain single males make it really difficult for the good out there.