At 32, I desperately surrendered my virginity to a female stranger who flirted with me in a department store, and she was 20 years older than me. Extreme interracial age gap sex was not what I was seeking, but as I said, I was desperately horny, with zero social life at the time, and I took advantage of a rare opportunity. Once I could think more clearly, I had no regrets, and I recognized the tremendous appeal of age gaps, adding to the marvelous contrast of interracial sex. So it was that, when I began exploring the swinger lifestyle only a few years later, I was more open to age gap possibilities. The happily-married couple who officially introduced me to lifestyle play was a mature husband and wife. She was about 11 years my senior, while her husband was maybe 10 years her senior. We enjoyed an intimate friendship that lasted more than a decade of taboo fun.
When I was 42, I attended a house party where I encountered a lonely elderly lady who must have been in her early 70s. Initially, I politely backed away from that situation, maintaining a deep respect for senior citizens of her age. I just could not see her as remotely attractive sexually. However, once again I was in a very horny state. I had arrived so late to the party that it was already nearly done, no more action at all. I really hated the prospect of the long drive back home without and sexual relief, and so I pushed myself to reconsider the elderly lady. I reasoned that the lifestyle is all about celebrating kinky variety and sharing hedonistic pleasures beyond what society accepts as normal. So, I returned to the room where I found the old granny, and I was so glad that I did. It was the most extreme age gap sex yet for me, and it was more pleasurable than I dared to imagine. And it didn't feel disrespectful at all. She reveled in my youthful energy, and it was a genuine joy to share sexual ecstasy with a woman of her history and experience.
