Fake profiles

HollyBlueVeteran
Bangkok Noi, Th

Photos can tell you quite a bit sometimes. Look for ones that are painfully old, poor copies, high rates of pixelation, phone screen shots, signs of editing... Generally, these can indicate there isn't a legit swinger connected with the account. However, some people are just rotten at media and it isn't a definite unless it's an obvious fauxpaus. A dead give away that always is entertaining is when they have pictures of different people who are supposed to be the same person.

As mentioned, the pic collector is typically a pretty pushy and rude soul. They will often be demanding and give little in return. Remember that you really don't need to see too many pictures to size someone up. Have a few you are comfortable with sharing and just stick with those.

Fake people will disappear or dodge any means of vetting them as real.

Certs also aren't always reliable. Some can be faked and there are some from couples who used to swing but one of them has decided to stop for one reason or another. A few of the ones that are fake are the same person with multiple accounts. The inactive ones typically have fairly old certs but that isn't always an indicator.

mayhem8Veteran
Auburn, NH, Us

I'm not sure if this is more prevalent in certain areas, but here in S. NH I don't see that many fake profiles. Mentioned it elsewhere, but meeting people online is really just icing on the cake for us. If it happens, great, but we meet and get to play with far more people at LS parties than we do online.

Fresno, CA, Us

Ah, so we're talking about the same kind of fake. That narrows things down.

I'll admit that I've never knowingly run into that scenario myself, but I'd think that one of the possible red flags would be a couple's profile where her photos look professionally made (think 90s soft-porn modeling).... and he has a single bathroom selfie. It's not definitive of course, but that's just my take. Also, pushing for info or photos far exceeding what they've provided of themselves.

mayhem8Veteran
Auburn, NH, Us

Usually it takes at least some interaction to see if someone is fake, meaning not what they claim to be, Classic examples are SMs posing as couples, or the couple where one member has no idea what the other is doing. There are other definitions of fake, as noted, but the ones I mentioned would be at least at or near the top of the list for what many consider "fake".

ItsMrFlexMember
Old Bridge, NJ, Us

Allow me to elaborate, fake profiles in reference to “fishing”. People who they aren’t who they claim to be. Usually those who are looking to steal someone’s identity, pictures, personal info, ext. Unfortunately I was the victim of a fishing scam last year off a popular dating site.

Phoenix, AZ, Us

You're asking an unanswerable question. Also, one that doesn't have much meaning.

Just don't invest oceans of time jumping through hoops for people and it won't matter if they're fake or real. The real ones that matter are those with whom you have enough in common, including at least some initial attraction, that you meet.

Fresno, CA, Us

That's actually a tough question, because there's about a gazillion definitions of a "fake" profile. Until we can agree on what a "fake" profile is, it's gonna remain totally confusing. Unfortunately, one of the more popular definitions seems to be "profile of someone who won't fuck me". Which I find to be passive-aggressive bullshit.

My own personal definition is a profile which isn't used to get any sexual satisfaction. Scam artists who want to gather blackmail material, data miners who want to gather kik names and email addresses for sale or website promotion, photo collectors who want nude and xxx photos for sale to amateur porn sites etc.

Folks who are just lookie-loos, wanting some titillation while flirting with the lifestyle but never intending to actually meet or play wouldn't fall under my definition. Borderline, but for me at least, it doesn't follow. Same with the super-picky folks that want to play but have extremely specific standards that basically mean they never can follow through. Doesn't mean they're fakes or even bad people, it just means that they're not particularly realistic.

And as I'm reading this, I realize that I really didn't answer your question. Sorry 'bout that.

ItsMrFlexMember
Old Bridge, NJ, Us

To all swinger vets here on SLS, how does one tell if the profile you are viewing is a fake. I see many posters on forums speak about fake profiles I was wondering how you spot one.