Single guys

What you are missing is we don’t need you , a toy can be brought on Amazon for $29 that’s rechargeable and knows not to speak . That’s all you are is a toy but you still don’t get it .
As for tattoos the guy that designed a module to land on a passing comet was covered in them.
Money who gives a fuck how much you think your worth or have .
Your shitty crying attitude comes across in everything you do , and if you don’t think couples pick up on that with when you contact them your clueless .
Now l thought you were leaving don’t let the door hit you in the ass .

I would agree that the world has become a transactional relationship based one where courtesy and consideration for others humanity is discarded entirely. Overall, I think you have some valid criticisms.

Also, I wouldn't trust anyone who hasn't mused over the preponderance of toy vehicle owners in the LS. It's too blatant.

“ Our intelligence is superior. ”

So says the man who doesn’t know the difference between to and too and your and you’re.

~rabbit~

"Our intelligence is superior."

LOL

Anyone who tells you they have a superior intelligence, probably doesn't.

NGL, that rides motorcycles characterization is pretty accurate. Boats seem popular amongst swingers too. In before NAXALT

“Thirsty, this SM is.” - LS Yoda

“You can lead a horse to water, but a pencil can’t be lead” - BT

"Here is the typical swinger: tattoos, ride motorcycles, drives an RV’s, lives in the boondocks, no career Or future."

Neither of us have any tattoos, own a motorcycle or RV, lives in the boondocks ... but we do have a career ... and a future ... of fucking other people

It sounds to me like the onus is really on you since you cancelled your other plans before the other person/people got back to you with a yes or no.

If you are expected a particular behavior from people on an anonymous swingers site, you are bound to be disappointed...

Don't feed the troll.

OH - “ I shouldn’t have to sit here and wait and wait. I went out of my way to change my plans thinking they would get back to me. Now I am out of luck with my original plans.”

This makes you sound desperate. That’s probably your problem. Swingers aren’t desperate for sex. We generally have great sex lives. We add others for fun. If we get contacted by someone and we already have plans for that evening we don’t cancel and rearrange our schedule just to have sex with strangers.

The fact that you are so willing to change your plans to accommodate the slight possibility of sex is very telling.

We aren’t sex starved and no one owes you a damn thing

~rabbit~

A woman not responding to you promptly enough or being ready to go out on your schedule is not a LS issue nor is it a failure on her part. It’s you. You have control issues. You want everyone to do things your way on your terms and when they don’t, you cry, rant and insult them.

“You all are way to (sic) laid back for my liking. Are you all this laid back in life and in your careers?”

For most of us, the LS is a fun, relaxing escape from the pressures of career and family life. We do this for FUN and you are acting like we all owe you something, we don’t.

As I’ve said before, the LS isn’t for everyone. Don’t consider it a failure that you don’t fit in, you have already told us you are far too good for us so hold your head up high and walk away. And don’t let the door hit you in the ass on your way out.

~Scamp

OH, swingers look like everyone else. Just seems like you're describing the average person from where you are from. You will find that there are LS groups that form around everything from bikes and barbecue to something as posh/ upscale as you could possibly imagine. Your great difficulty is your attitude which will keep you from ever being invited into one of these groups. Many LS groups are invite only especially the ones you might be interested in. The sad thing is you fail to see that you are guilty of poor behavior while you freely accuse others of the same. I would suspect you have just as much difficulty connecting with a lady in the vanilla world as you do here.

Oh yes.. we get it and thats whats soooo.... funny! We even have him blocked but can read between everyone's response to him!

We really enjoy "most" our our single guys and in fact travel with 2 of them regularly all over!

Guys like him who whine, complain about why they cant get laid on SLS.. how funny our guys all have great people surround them!

Hey Ron&Kathy, I'm a single guy and you already made it clear to me that if I come down to GA you would love to meet me! So, like I said before I don't have a problem meeting folk on SLS as a single guy!

HB how right you are about the swinging community.. we travel in many states and talk with our FWB's and he has already set his position in our community... word does travel good and bad !

What amazes "us" is he said he was leaving in his old name profile.. but keeps coming back for more abuse.. maybe its a BDSM thing?

Us we are meeting a new SLS single guy tomorrow night and have plans for dinner, cocktails and if all hit it off some fun times in bed.. its that easy!

OH, there are two things in your message that would get you a "No, thanks" or a non-reply. The first is that you say that you are "pleasantly surprised" at her appearance. That lands as a backhanded compliment whether you intended it to or not. The biggest issue though is the watching proposition. It comes across as creepy to almost every couple here. Granted the husband watching isn't unusual. Other than that the attempt to relate by talking about planet fitness is a a bit awkward and feels like you're trying too hard. Also, as you keep hearing a non-response is the same as a "No, thanks" in the digital world these days. What is rude is your consistent messages to sock it to those who don't reply. Keep in mind that swinger communities in a place like Charlotte are pretty small and there will be multiple circles in that community. Once you act poorly it doesn't take too long for people warn one another about someone. Contrary to what you may think swingers do have solid friendships and don't just meet for sex.

Ggggggm, what's with the trolling thing? Send a PM if you would like.

I gave you a serious reply about a week ago in this very post. You don't want advice, you just want to bitch and moan, and not fix yourself. If everyone you meet and interact with here are assholes, then the problem lies with you.

OH - You said you were waiting to hear from a successful single guy. Well, I'm a successful single guy. Yeah, yeah, I play with couples who have bi men. Before you go on a rant about "gay this, gay that", I've gotten pussy from this site more than you have. You mad? Yeah, you mad.

And JOS A. Bank is NOT designer clothing. They are decent, but no where near high quality fashion. Cheap suites. Brooks Brothers is a step above them, but again, not designer.

Gonna go read the rest now.

The answers to those questions are part of the advanced classes OH, you flunked swinging 101 so you aren’t privy to, nor would you be able to comprehend such innovatory concepts.

~Scamp

This thread is hilarious, but it’s loaded with filthy lies! Except for what Lady said; She speaks the truth, darling lady that she is ;-)

BT

One last thing....

I knew BT was a man of many tongues...mmmmmm

But I didn’t know he spoke Latin!!!!

@BT: speak to me

~lady~

Well hello there you wascally wabbit! I just got out of my mouth it was about time for my hero to make an appearance. I think you called it to the point. But alas, he will continue to get beat up because he appears to enjoy it. This is me not being amused any more. And he wonders why he can’t get laid....

Ear nibbles

~lady~

Lol- we were in different rooms and didn’t realize we both responded. At least we’re well matched.

Things I’ve learned about OH2-

He’s -

-a poser

-a liar

-a fake

-a misogynist

-a racist

-envious

-a sore loser

-quick to anger

-trollish

-borish

-impatient

-insulting

-delusional

-misinformed

And just a nasty human being that is so caught up in his delusions that he thinks it’s weird to be friends with people he’s had sex with. Dude. You may have issues being around children and conducting yourself accordingly buy don’t project your shortcomings onto others.

~rabbit~