Single guys

“ follow all guidelines and still nothing bot flakes and crickets”

I can’t for the life of me imagine which guidelines the OP thought he was following

But if you approach them relaxed, with a full belly and a sense of purpose you will do well.

Approach them relaxed - This means you approach or talk to the ladies in a relaxed, at-ease, laid back, non-anxious manner.

With a full belly - Is a figurative term meaning you are not in a rush or in a hurry to fuck them. You are already sexually well feed.
Women can sense when a Man is well feed and not desperate for a fuck!

A sense of purpose - Means you got other things going on in your life like career, family, business, hobbies, etc that keeps you busy. That you are not always available to meet them. That you have to fit them into your schedule because you have other important things to do. For most women a busy and focus man is a real turn on.

Maybe it’s your location. In south Florida I get a good amount of responds. Not every couple is looking for the same I meet some that just want a hard cock and some that want a guy to put so much effort

If you put work into being attractive and appealing to women, you'll do well. If you think creating a bare bones profile is enough to have women clamoring to jump on your dick, you'll fail. There are about 100 single guys of all ages for every woman looking for a single guy, so you actually have to work at this.

Also, this?: "You list as straight on your profile but are looking for strap-on play." The implication that no straight guy ever would be interested in strap on play and its corollary that no woman would be equally interested are both wrong. Not every man likes prostate play (and some of that is from the stigma that you're amplifying), but it has nothing to do with sexual preference.

Absolutely Not!!! I am a mature single male here on SLS and I cant keep up with the ladies. I am doing well with single and married women on here. It's all in your approach. If you approach a women or couple as if you are hungry and desperate they will show no interest. But if you approach a them relaxed, with a full belly and a sense of purpose you will do well.

Mad, not to pile on, but you really didn't follow the right path or the path of a successful single male. Go ahead and reboot your profile with a new name and pictures. Read the better profiles section and follow the advice there before redoing everything. Then once you do post there and let people help hone the profile for you. Keep in mind you are in one of the least desired groups of single men. If you don't work your ass off and put together a solid profile then you cannot expect any type of success. Sadly, you are the eleventy thousandth single male who has posted in the forums saying this and didn't actually do the work ahead of time. Research could have saved you a lot of frustration.

Gotta remember a single guy is available on Amazon for $20 all you are is a toy in the box .
If your an asshole guess what you won’t get anyplace you bring absolutely nothing to the table that can’t be found .
Don’t like it here good leave you won’t be missed.

This site is a waste of money...if your a single guy..follow all guidelines and still nothing bot flakes and crickets..avoid!!!!!!