1st gang bang was dawns 40th birthday party.. About 60 people or so. Sgls and couples. When they found out it was her birthday they all wanted. to give her a present. 3 hrs and 14 guys latter she was sore and grinning. Still loves them but more like 5 or 6 lol
Your First Orgy
Hello MandC508....I don't know how long you have enjoyed the lifestyle but if you have made any lifestyle friendships then float the idea of an orgy to each of them and they in turn can float it to a couple or two they know...then let the wives set it up lol
It would be fun to check a GB/Orgy off the bucket list. And we would travel most anywhere in New England or NY/NJ/PA to attend with the right crowd & timing.
Hi YMichael.....That group found me....I had a ad/profile in a New England swinger contact publication....the person running the group contacted me then we met and took a few pictures.....a couple of weeks later I started getting invited to parties both GB and Orgies.....there were some great people in that group
Lone wolf- Did you find that group on SLS or somewhere else?
I would love to find a group like that in CT, but every group I find on SLS hasn't been active for years.
My first was a long time ago....There was an Orgy/GB group in Ct that that had me on the list of single guys to invite.....I think my first one there was with 3 bi couples and a few of us single guys.....you turn one way and there is a wet pussy in your face to bury it in...turn the other there is a cock to suck.....there was a lot of cum flying around
For us it happened about four months ago. The host, a single guy friend from central jersey with a female friend, really knows how to organize it. There were 5 couples, well enough matched that everyone was willing to play with everyone. And everyone knew why we were there. We chatted for about an hour and then the host and another one of his guy friends started laying out nice blankets and pads and covering a couple of ottomans. Then they put on some play type music and lowered the lights a bit. Everyone just started smiling and we all got up.. and boom clothes started falling. Within two minutes it was on. We all played for a good two hours. There was plenty of MFM for the women (my favorite for the Mrs.). Best party ever and hope to do it again.
In one word. EXHAUSTING. I'd say about 40+ couples in a cabin suite party on a Bliss cruise and followed up with the same group at Naughty Nawlins. Definitely my people.
Our first group play was in college. We were partying at a lakefront house and skinny dipping got the action started. 3 ladies, 5 guys; One couple played by themselves,my girlfriend, now wife, started touching and each other and then entertained the rest of us. Memorable night.
In our 20s we had similar experience. My wife has always liked the attention she's received being naked, whether its ski weekend, hot tubs, or lake days. If the party included nudity there was going to be sex. She made sure of it. Her motto was "If I helped create a hard on, I'm responsible for taking care of it.
That's how we got into the lifestyle once our kids were teens. She likes to be naked, loves to be noticed, crushing wood. She's also grown fond of pleasing lady friends. She always thrives in group play.
I'm along for the ride, driven by her enthusiasm and stamina, happy to keep UP.
I think a gangbang is usually one person being fucked by multiple people, and an orgy is multiple people having sex with each other.
Mayhem8, I agree with you 100% on that one.
Guy4u2tri _ I have found that I love both having wing-men and being one. There are few things more erotic for me than being 1 of X guys that work as a team to satisfy a woman that enjoys that sort of play.
It's even more fun when the Mrs has her own group of guys tending to her needs while I'm assisting another woman with 1 or more guys to do the same. I'm not sure at what point it goes from being an orgy to a gangbang, or vice versa.
Wifes first orgy was in college way back..she did a few.......our first was early in our relationship on a vaca trip w 3 other couples....everyone got into it easily...we were young & dumb and sexually excited...it was one big cum dump for the 3 wives.
Mine was a while ago but it's very hard to forget these things. I had met a great couple that was a little older them me. After we played together a couple of times and knew each other pretty well they invited me to house party that they were having with themselves and two other couples. So it was 3 couples and I was the "extra" guy. It was so much hotter than I ever imagined, kind of like being in my own porno movie.
" FWIW - It can be hard to decipher what you're saying sometimes. Periods at end and caps at the beginning of sentences would go a long way in making your posts a lot clearer. "
I thought maybe it was brain damage.
THS - 4Real already stated that at least some of these orgies were bareback, so no condoms were used. It goes without saying that group play is going to carry more risks than playing with just a person/couple. People can and do lie, so it's a given that the more people involved, the higher the risk.
FWIW - It can be hard to decipher what you're saying sometimes. Periods at end and caps at the beginning of sentences would go a long way in making your posts a lot clearer.
4_real_couple....You two are the mirror image of us! We also indulge in the same love of orgy sex!
First, we should define what an orgy is. In our opinion, an orgy needs to have 7 or more. Basically, 3couples and a single, usually a single guy. Then it is a pile of twisted bodies. People fucking, sucking, changing partners. You get the idea. I remember having my cock buried in a woman's pussy, while kissing my wife as she was getting fucked from behind. Neither of us remember who we fucked that night.
Our first orgy was years ago. Most likely at a local party called Mojo's. Although another local party would have the occasional orgy break out. That party was called Temptations. Neither of these parties are active anymore. At the time we were a condom using couple.
Over the last year or so, we decided to be condom optional with trusted partners. This past summer, we were involved in a few bareback orgies. We had 3 couples, and a SM. Every guy fucked every lady. Every lady had at least 2 cocks at least once. The one lady that isn't bi would ask my wife to suck a cock clean so that she wouldn't have to taste pussy on the cock she was ready to suck. These orgies last about an hour or so. They are great. Each lady got creampied at least one. Facials, and swallowing. Going from one messy pussy to the next is amazing.
Just note, we do these orgies with a small circle of trusted friends. I doubt we would do the same at Trapeze. We know of the risk, and we manage it as we feel we need to. Not everyone is OK with group sex, or bareback, or fucking on the first date.
The problem with orgies is STDs you don't know who's in the front of you who's behind you and who's left of you and right of you- you kind of have to know your people even in a group room situation you could be bending down and all of a sudden you have something shoved up your pussy or your ass without even knowing where that person has been. I have some friends in the Tampa area had a small get together with six couples and one single male and one single female the single male was on antibiotics for gonorrhea and everyone in this group got gonorrhea. Was it worth it? In my opinion no.
Nowadays people don't have swinger etiquette they don't ask they assume that you're there for the taking.
First orgy for us was at a swingclub on a lazy warm fall Sunday afternoon, after a Halloween party weekend. It was around 10-15 couples. All reasonably close in attractiveness. After drinking all afternoon it went into the clubs group room and we all played for about an hour. We both had many partners and enjoyed it thoroughly!
3 MF couples on a king bed all naked having fun, does that qualify as an Orgy??? Anyway you look at, or label it, it it was a lot of fun!!!
We're still looking forward to our first one.
We've been to house parties with many couples where one takes a bedroom with another for 20 to 30 minutes and this scenario just repeats all night long. Seems like a wasted opportunity to us. Since our first, we've preferred parties with group play. Not sure what defines an orgy, but 5 or more provides options. Watching, spit roasting, girl play, or maybe even a DP. It just seems to facilitate everyone getting something they want. Also facilitates avoiding something or someone without it getting awkward because there are other options.
The last one was at DRM in Mexico with 2 other fit and sexy couples. We went up to the rooftop hot tub in the evening and pushed two beds together. It was instantly on and there was all kinds of sexy talk, athletic sex, and loud orgasms. This went on for at least an hour while we failed to notice the large audience that had gathered. People just got a drink, a table, or reclined on other beds to watch. It wasn't until we had worn each other out in many ways that we noticed the audience. We got compliments for the show the next day from people. Incredible memories we aim to create again.
Our first orgy of sorts was also the first house party we attended many years ago. There was 5 or 6 couples there and a couple of SMs who were "boytoys" of the host couple. Everyone there was pretty well matched on their level of attractiveness. Nice, fun, sexy people one and all and the conversations and flirting had everyone excited, but no one made any moves to advance. Just continuous talking and drinks for well over 2 hours. We quietly cleared it with the hosts, then announced to the group that the wife and I were heading back to the master bedroom, and anyone who wanted to join us was welcome.
One couple left shortly after things started. I'm guessing it was a bit much for their comfort level or perhaps mother nature visited her, IDK? Within 10 minutes, everyone else was naked, on or around the king bed. All the girls were bi and I think every guy had a round with every girl before the night was over, and if not is was not for a lack of willing enthusiasm.
We had others since then at house parties and of course the big open room at Trapeze, but like most "firsts", that one from over 20 years ago is the most memorable for certain!
The nooner idea might be something I’ll have to borrow. We hope to get a new house built and while we look forward to hosting parties, my wife is very worried about having people leaving our new house late at night. The roads are treacherous. A nooner party sounds like exactly what we’ll need.