Would Have Explored Earlier?

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Speaker1: Welcome to the Hot Wife Podcast, where we dive into discussions about relationships, intimacy, and everything in between. Before we begin, we want to make it clear that the views expressed on this podcast are solely those of the host and guests, and should be taken as opinions, not professional or medical advice. Additionally, we remind all listeners that this podcast is intended for adults over the age of 18. Unauthorized rebroadcast of this show is strictly prohibited without the written permission of the owners of Hot Wife Podcast. Now let's heat things up. hello everybody this is donna lynn and welcome to my hot white podcast and of course the brains behind the whole operation i'm here with vince and the looks oh and the looks too okay it's really the hot husband podcast we're just you know i keep forgetting that okay pardon me it is the hot husband podcast oh i know that's why i always give you credit sure yeah that happens never that happens. Never. Oh, come on. I'm just, I'm being loving and kind. Yeah. So today we had a little interesting, I want to use the word interlude, but I don't know if that's really the right term, but my buddy came by. Oh, yeah. And I have a cigar. I was like, sexual interlude? No, I'd say sexual. Okay, you said interesting. It was an interesting interlude. So he and his wife are vanilla, not to his liking. And so we shared some of the going-ons lately, and I thought I heard an explosion. He lives vicariously through us. He's always like, what are you guys doing? talk about like you know like you know how the job's going blah then we'll say yeah we'll talk about you know that we met a really hot couple last night we had fun and drinks and he's like what's going on here like you know forget about the other stuff let's get back to the sex we shared pictures of of the other couples we met. Yeah, that we played with on the deck. And he was like, I love your videos. We even told him about Elle and Sterling. Yeah, we showed pictures. He was like, oh, my God, she's so fucking hot. Yes, she is. And he's like, oh, you guys, you're living this life. And we're like, dude, this is just normal. He was all kinds of beside himself. He goes, I don't see you for two months. And what the fuck, I come back and all this shit's going on. It was, well, stay tuned, reach out more. You could be a you know, early on. Instead of dumping Leo, a whole shitstorm of sexual prowess on him, you know, and experiences. Not like I don't have cigars and he couldn't come by, but his job, he travels a lot. It's just like his head was ready to explode. That just cracked me. Oh, it's always interesting. Yeah, every time. He knows what we do. That's's the thing but he still acts like it's a huge surprise it's like what and then like i said right before yeah you had went to go do something else and he said to me he goes you know those videos you have if you ever want to share them with your buddy so i i i uh airdropped him three videos and yeah you told me you know he's You know he's sitting at home with hand cramps right now. Oh, no doubt. So, good for him. And you see him, that hot, that we were with. Two from the couple. Yeah. And then one when you were with that young black guy who's a contact director. Oh, that's right. Yeah, yeah. He was on the show here. Oh, yes. Yes, he was. Yeah, he flipped me around. I don't know what video he gave me. Well, that's a whole show in itself that I want to talk about. Here's some of those things you were looking for. Okay, thank you. That's a thing I don't necessarily get, that there are certain men, they tend to be bigger men or more well-owed men that tend to like to pick women up especially if you're smaller and like you know fuck you standing up I think I was upside down there for a while yeah and upside down dude the blood's going to my head but do you know if your partner likes that? Good question. Yeah, that's something you should probably clear with them first, especially with the shoulder problems that I have. I'm like, does he know I've had a shoulder replacement? He's flipping me around and upside down like, well, this is fun. I've even seen other videos on the internet where, especially the guys with the big dicks, guys with the little dicks can't really do that because they'll lose connection. But it's just like, it doesn't even look fun. I mean, I want to... No, it doesn't even look fun for me, I'm saying. It's just like, okay, you're trying to put out all this effort to hold the person there, make sure they don't fall or get hurt or whatever. And are you really able to concentrate on the sensation? I mean, I get the danger part might be alluring, but whatever. I guess. All right, well, whatever. That section's over. Yeah, you get into that stance, you get a cramp. Oh. Well, you know. It kind of takes get a cramp you know you get ballsy one day and you say well she's a little heavier than the last one let me see doctor says how'd you get this hernia um well um helping somebody up on my cock. That could be pretty embarrassing. But yeah, it was interesting though. Okay. Yeah, I just don't get it. But there's a lot of things I don't get. Simple, you know, long division, I don't get it. Well, I know a lot of people can't do that so i i get it yeah i get it but so due to that conversation we had with my buddy and everything else that went on there um you know two of the couples more recently that we talked with the new couple we met last night that was hoping to come on the show today but their schedule didn't permit so much fun so i don't want to talk them up too much because i really want to show you know she's a little dynamite oh yeah they're both interesting you know they've been in the lifestyle for a year we have uh sterling and l who have uh not really in the lifestyle he kind of, right. He's still dabbling on the fringe. They have a profile on a swinger website. Right, right. So, baby steps. The concept for tonight's show was that, you know, we've been in it 20 years, okay? Correct, yeah. So that means, like, when you were 45, we got into it, in the 40s. Yeah, I was in my 40s before. So I was in my 30s. So we've talked about your prowessness when you were younger and everything else. Right, I was pretty... I don't have the relationship base that you have. I mean, my first marriage, we did swing of sorts. The woman I dated there for a while, who wouldn't even touch me, Yeah, mean, my first marriage, we did swing of sorts. The woman I dated there for a while who wouldn't even touch me, I wouldn't even think about getting her to swing. Oh, no. I mean, she's gorgeous and guys would love to, but they had been disappointed. Oh, that's harsh. Again, she was nice body back then. I don't know what it is now. She's great on the eyes. Right, but she wouldn't touch you. Yeah, she didn't do oral, didn't even touch her with her hand and stuff like that. That's kind of part of sex to fondle. That you know is not going to go over well for a swinging profile. Not even a little bit. No. It's like, so you don don't do this well we met you know guys that don't do oral on women and i i was i was taken aback so i mean well i don't do oral on men see i'm so glad we're having this conversation and clear that right up i would have thought otherwise but hey i'm glad you're transparent in your beliefs so many things Thank you. clear that right up i would have thought otherwise but hey i'm glad you're transparent in your beliefs so many things but so the concept is like and it'd be for you yeah okay is okay in your various past relationships okay like the one you were in in college and i know automatically where that one if you were to ever have broached and you had actually asked i want you to tell the story okay you had actually asked about bringing home another woman oh that was that was the one before him oh okay that was the one before him yes i mean it's it's been like if um he albie probably would have been the one who would go into swinging more than anybody else in fact we did do a threesome but before that he was the same person when i i was in my teens and he was in his like early 20s he was like i told him i said hey i had this fantasy i'm i'm with another woman and i found it really hot and you know i was telling him like um one of my desires and i got such an awful negative feedback from him he was like you know something like you know get out of here with your fucking lesbian you know fantasies and blah i'm like what the what the fuck's going on here and then of course i think i've told this story before so forgive me and like i'd say seven years later he had a girlfriend and we all became kind of friends and we ended up having threesome it's like dude we could have fucking been doing that you know seven years prior but no you would you're all upset about you know lesbian fantasies i was having he's dead now i know but it's like is that kind of mentality yeah if he we could have been swinging back then you know with him because he was he would have been more once he got into that i mean we did do a threesome so if that just would have kept going but he just you know he was fun to fuck back then you know but a relationship that i had with him now now it just wasn't if i would have had something else and he was just there to as a playmate it would have been fine but you know being in a relationship now the next one okay the next guy this is the one that wanted to make you wear a burka right yes then i went like um geez this is awful uh yeah he also has passed so um we met in college and i was still a little afraid for my life no what yeah uh he yeah that's terrible i'm starting to outlive old boyfriends Yikes. But, yeah, he was very needy, very clingy. I guess. Well, he was a mama's boy. He was a mama's boy. You know, well, that's all they had. His dad died when he was 30, you know, in his 30s. So John never knew. Well, the dad died in his 30s. John wasn't 30. No, he was 30 as well. No, but when his dad died, John wasn't 30. No, he was four months old. So his dad died at 36, ironically. So he didn't have that male counterpart really making him be a man. a man away yeah yeah so his his whole sexual identity was from a matriarchy like his mom because she was kind of overbearing lovely woman but that played into his his sexual um fantasies and what he desired and he wanted me to be subservient to him that was his thing and i don't play that game i don't know i'm Thank you. Thank you. Bye-bye. fantasies and what he desired and he wanted me to be subservient to him that was his thing and i don't play that game i don't know i'm why don't you shut up yeah yeah exactly he was he's just too clingy too needy to to i don't want anybody else having you and that was just such a turn off i mean the more he clung to me the more i wanted freedom it's like dude just let let me be me let me be me and so that relationship well well that and the funny part didn't end it's too because of that yeah i think when we talked about it before he was didn't want you to even be dancing like no no but wasn't swinging you gotta be kidding me wasn't willing to get a job that made enough money that you didn't have to. Yeah, oh yeah, so screw you, I'm doing what I have to do. But yeah, there would be no swinging in that relationship at all, not even a little bit. So let's go on to bachelor number three, the young wild one. I went this way, man. I just did a, you know, John was like two years older than me, so I went the exact opposite. After he passed away, I was like, I went young, guys, young, you know, because of that excitement. And I was 30, and number three was 21.