Its your journey and you set the rules before hand.. if they dont get it.. plenty others who will gladly help out and step in!
That simple.. dont give in if that is your rule swinging!
Playing 30 plus years and all sorts of people who do get it! We thank them!
It's your body, it's your call.
Don't fall into peer pressure.
Don't let someone else tell you what to do with your body. You're the one that lives with your decisions .
That lines up with what we have seen as well. We are always upfront from the start that we use protection every time. Condom use is a hard boundary for us, and we also agree that enforcing expectations ahead of time is really the only way to handle it. We are always willing to pause or adjust accordingly so protection can be used properly, but going without is simply not an option for us. It is reassuring to hear that this is the norm at many parties or events and that it is taken seriously.
What we've found is that there are a fair number of guys that cannot get and/or maintain an erection in the same room as their partner. That has lead to separate room play in a number of cases for us.
The Mrs has no problem enforcing condom use and it is the expected norm at parties we attend. Someone trying to slip in unnoticed sans condom would be barred from the parties we attend, and likely others where condom use is the norm.
People are of course free to negotiate condom use so long as both parties are aware and agree, but otherwise your, "Just say No" approach is about all you can do, other than setting expectations before meeting with anyone.
Just curious if anyone has experienced something similar. This situation has happened twice for us over the past two years with me and my partner. We always use protection when playing with anyone. When playing with couples, I am consistently using protection, but the other gentleman has had difficulty using condoms and has asked to play without them. That is a firm no for us. We have always extended or paused play so that protection can be used properly. Has anyone else dealt with a situation like this, and how did you handle it?
