For our public pics we blot out our face, but they are at least full body shots. If we reach out to someone I open a private gallery with face pics.
The ones that get me are the close-ups of 1 or both faces of a couple and they blot out the whole face. Those pictures are useless.
The appearance text isn't really needed. That's what the pictures are for. The more profile text you have, the more likely it is people won't read it all.
@mayhem8 Thank you for your feedback. I really appreciate the constructive criticism. I’ve taken your advice to heart and revised my profile. I removed the information you mentioned and added more details about my appearance and personality to better reflect who I am. I’m hoping this will help create a more engaging impression.
I think that if you proof read your profile, or cut/paste it into something like Google Docs, you'll see a handful of typos that you can fix. On the upside, you have a main profile picture with a nice smile and decent content that is mostly in the correct place.
I noticed that you have an upper age limit of 55. It's possible that women online are going to see the referrence to video games and think "This is a kid that acts like a kid". At LS parties, that isn't likely to hurt you as you as it probably won't even come up, but online, it could hurt you in the 40 and up crowd. This is something you can discuss in an online dialog with people of interest based on their age/s rather that having it be a part of your profile, but it could go either way if more looking to attract people closer to your age.
The text "...letting you know exactly what I am going to do to you,..." could be a bone of contention. I know that my Mrs has walked away from guys she was initially interested in because she felt all they wanted to do was "talk" about what they wanted to do vs actually doing it. Also, some like frequent texts/sexts, and others don't. Ones that don't may think that you are going to be a chatty kid that blows up their phone, and pass you up based on that. Especially people with busy lives that have little time for that.
As always, I'm a big proponent of parties, so if you are already attending them, then you are already likely to be WAY more productive at those than anything you'll do online, bit it never hurts you to have a polished profile.
I'm a single guy, not what you are looking for so maybe my opinion doesn't matter.
One thing I have learned on this site is everybody, except me, has clubs, parties and house parties in their area that they go to regularly and they do not get excluded or restricted to the areas of the club where there is no one to play with. And, everybody else has a spouse that is willing to play and they have had several spouses over many years that have wanted to play.
But, If I was like you and had all that AND a girlfriend who goes straight to an open relationship, I wouldn't be on here looking for something that I already have in my area.
Took me three years to find one couple to play with and to find a party to attend and for the party I had to go to Fetlife.
Maybe it is just because I am old and feel like I should tell you to get the hell off my lawn, or how when I was your age I had to walk to to the swing clubs barefoot, uphill, in the snow, in July.
But, I wonder if any experienced couples are going to be suspicious of you because you already claim to have everything.
Maybe you should explain what it is you are looking for on this site that you can't get locally.
Or just make fun of me and block me , like everybody else.
@PhoebertAndWife Thank you for your insight and fixing to adjust my profile
What a wonderful smile - and the camera obviously loves you!
A dozen (or even half a dozen) photos is usually enough for a public gallery. You have several that are very similar pose or in same outfit - pick the best and delete the iffy ones.
Your text wanders and could use a bit of organization but it's better than most.
Get rid of the warning in Add'l Comments - it's not all that useful and makes you look gullible. Instead you might put info about how far you might travel or if you can host. Maybe include the couple profile name once y'all get that created.
Good luck, have fun and stay safe!
~Phoebert's Wife
Hey there! I’d love to get some feedback on my profile to see how it’s working. If you could point out what stands out and what could use some tweaking, that would be awesome. I’m open to suggestions on the tone, content, or how it all comes together. Thank you for your help.
