First Contact
Introducing yourself online and your first meeting.
Invited to come over to see them
I am new on the site and I had met a single woman. According to the site she lived 7 miles from me. So I want to see her on the way she wanted me to pick up some chips for her. I…
5replies1,548viewsWe have cooties!!!
Or we must, and everyone knows about it except us. We are easy going, laid back people who are always open to meeting new couples, but we can't get anything going on this site. We…
by kinkiez33replies4,115viewsBreaking the ice
We get lots of " let us know if you want to meet " or " We're willing to meet with you " Im here for fun , excitement and sex , I'm sorry but that approach is a turn off . I get t…
by Satincouple1replies1,388viewsEver get a derogatory message from a couple like this?
Because some people have small, mean souls and are so comprehensively stupid they don't really understand that other people are real? That's my working theory anyway. In this case…
7replies3,222viewsContinuing or Ongoing Contact
This is more of a couples to couples post versus couples to singles. We admit this is not a new phenomenon but of late it seems to be getting worse....at least in our experience.…
by Phxfunx25replies1,476viewsCreative excuses
We've all been there, someone that you're meeting for the first time cancels at the last minute. The reason we were given this weekend was that he came down with a serious sinus i…
51replies5,460viewsLong time married couple trying new experiences
So we are new to the lifestyle. Honestly my wife is the one who has been very curious about the lifestyle for a while now. However, we dont know where to start. So we finally took…
7replies1,811viewsFirst time doing this what do the experienced people here sugguest?
My wife and I decided last weekend to try this. We are going to a party which is a first for us and this whole thing is a first for us. We have been together for 18 years and are…
by garyamy10replies3,207viewsKen and Barbie First Contact, Opinions?
The worst you'll get is a no. But you'll never get a yes if you don't ask. We say take the chance and say hi.
by AandJinNNJ8replies3,818viewsCasting your net: sending an email to show your interest
I'm not sure if this is on another thread elsewhere but I am curious... Do you send out a "form" email to show your initial interest in a person's profile or do you tailor it to t…
36replies4,736viewsResponding to emails
We've been on the site and in the lifestyle for years. We are different from some, because we don't mind at all if people don't respond to our messages. A no-response is a respons…
118replies12,742viewsThings related to first contact that make you think WTF?
We got a Hot Listing from a single guy on another site who's tag line was "Looking for a friend after prison". Seriously?....lol
by mayhem8118replies12,627viewsOral and intercourse
How many positions due you know. Either oral or intercourse. I been researching both and putting down how to do them. If anyone wants to know name of positions.give me the bird an…
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