Aside from the OP being certifiably insane, I find the topic interesting. I think it can turn into a topic where people politely discus how they approach the first meet up. We’ve done mid-week first time meets for a couple drinks and a chat, we’ve done weekend first meets where we’re planning on playing. We try to learn as much as we can about people while chatting online, doesn’t always work out great but we find it to be helpful. If we’re comfortable enough with the other party we’ll meet for drinks on a Saturday night and already have keys to a hotel room. If they look like their pics and have the same mannerisms that they had while chatting, then we’re pretty much a sure thing. If not, we have a great night in the room by ourselves. When meeting folks just for drinks, when we leave the house we expect it to be just for drinks. We’ve ended those evenings 3 different ways so far. We’ve exchanged handshakes and pleasantries, we’ve had make out sessions in the parking lot and we’ve gone into separate cars for make out sessions & blowjobs. I guess I’m trying to say that even if you’re expecting the night to go a certain way, it can go in many directions. I’m sure we all love fucking on the first meet, however, there are many variables that go into it that it’s really not that simple.
