Bi play required (WTF)

"Our guess is that it isn’t the woman saying bi play is required, it’s the male half who wants to see it. "

I think you hit the nail on the head with that one sentence. ~ N

Rabbit describes herself as bi-furious and when we meet couples where the other female is bi and there is a mutual attraction, there is play between them.

She also is fond of telling new playmates that she is not an animal and if there is no desire on the other woman’s part for bi play (whether she lists as straight or bi), that’s fine.

We’ve met several couples where their female half is straight and played full swap with no same-sex touching. No still means no afterall.

Our guess is that it isn’t the woman saying bi play is required, it’s the male half who wants to see it.

RE; 4 Real,

That's pretty much been the extent of any Bi lady play in our experience as well. Some touching or kissing while having intercourse with the other spouse when we're playing in the same bed. Diane is more passive but will respond in kind if the other lady initiates contact. Otherwise we're pretty much a straight up full swap couple.

Re: Hedo, We have found that many profiles that list her as Bi, are false. In fact we have found the Bi play to start during the fucking. Mostly it is just touching, and perhaps kissing between ladies as they are fucking a new playmate.

I had mentioned, Oh well, we are not getting together, story of our lives. I guess I should have said Oh well, they miss out! Story of their lives. LMAO

re:alilspice

My Mrs is the same way when it comes to girl/girl play. We however do NOT rely solely on online interactions. We do not encounter this issue at LS parties, or at least we find plenty of couples that do not have this requirement. I cannot emphasize enough how much more fun the LS can be if you have and are willing to attend decent LS parties in your area.

Yep! We we're just shunned by a couple whom we both found each other attractive and was planning on getting together. Their profile says she is bi curious though. She 'she' requires kissing and some oral first. Oh well, we are not getting together, story of our lives.

Yes it's hard. My wife and I both STR8 and would say that the first 5 years it was very hard for us with no play with anyone and looking for STR8 couples was near impossible. We once did a full swap couple which other female was bi and ended up going separate rooms, it was ok, but not what we want. We enjoy same rooms getting it n and watching each other with others and puling a MFM 3-some on the ladies when the time came. Now it's still hard out there and the truth is my wife and I go about 1 year or more no playing with anyone for several reasons, but when we do meet a decent couple our play goes on for months with it just been them and us playing and not involving anyone else.

Issues we've come across have been: just to name a few....lol

1. Women want to start with women
2. Soft swap couples want FFM 3-some but want to keep other male away from them and then you can go with your own partner (that's is a WTF moment)

Now again my wife is STR8, but she has given in to the idea that if there was play to be had she would allow the other female to eat her under the conditions that it will be done during full swap on, same bed /room and that she would not expect her to go down on her. And it's worked fine to say the least.

Now again this is all about who likes what and to put in my two cents on what some say as to why they don't get play.

1. My wife does not like beards or very large mustaches, I don't have neither, so can't see her getting turned on by one.

1. I have body hair, well trimmed below and I do man-scape my chest low, I do shave my back..... nothing worse than seeing a guy with hair on his back or neck that looks like cavemen. Many women find that very unattractive. Same goes for hair coming out your nose and ears.....lol. Had to throw it out there. So if I look at a couple and see that the male half has ZERO body hair on him, I'm going to say that for sure I'm a no go and will not waste their time or mine. Many couples want another couple similar to them and we're the same.

1. I'm an un-cut male....many women don't like it and don't care for it. We've been turned down for that reason..oh well, just the way it is.

So in getting back to the girl on girl thing, you don't have to be bi and as my wife said....she's dong to the sexual pleasure it all bring to the bedroom for all. Just think, what would strap-on play between the women be like? Have you ever wanted DP play, but found other male half was done for it and only one there was a female and a strap-on? My wife has when the female's male half could not perform anymore! How about getting your pussy ate by either men while female fucks you with strap-on?-------Cause there's no way in hell I'm going to eat pussy while another man fucks you!!!!------but I've eaten my wife while female fucks her doggie style.

Nothing there says your a bi female or lesbian, cause women DO nothing for my wife, she's all about the cock!

We have swapped with couples that the woman was listed as bi or bi-curious and never had a problem...we have found it more difficult to find a couple that would like to take turns doing things like DP.

Since we're both listed as bi curious that's never been an issue for us. But we do run into the opposite. Either we get rejected because our guy is listed as bi - even though we're clear that we play straight also. Or, the other couple falsely lists their woman as bi. As soon as my wife makes any kind of flirty to her they slam the door angrily exclaiming that she's straight.

When we asked why they listed the lady as bi the response was that they get more interest that way. Then they blocked us.

I think when we get rejected it is because I am ugly.

SB

We have been rejected more because I have a beard and some body hair then anything else..... at least that is what they have said....

Boy, is my wife going to feel vindicated when she reads this lol

We really have never had an issue with this. I mean the girls that want to play with her seem to ask but when we explain preferences it just seems to flow well in another direction. Anytime any of u want to take a trip to Atlanta we sure won’t make it awkward. Haha

SB

I honestly was wondering the same thing. I would much rather watch my husband play with another female than actually be involved. I do not go down on girls. Been there done that and it;s not my thing. I don't mind playing with tits or kissing another female but i'm also just as content not touching a female at all. It's hard involving other girls because it seems they are more interested in FF play than anything else and I really just want to watch my husband have fun! That is what gets me excited.

@hedo2forus oh too funny, I am going to have to remember that line! LMAO

Excellent response!! Ahuh, can't get there from here. LOL

It has been so nice to get replies from people agreeing with us. It helps because we actually have received more positive replies in the last month then messages wanting to meet us. One party which we went to, we met a couple which we seemed to hit it off with, Di was talking with the guy, he said but how to you get things going, if you don't play with my wife. Di told this man who she actually found attractive, ok, you go suck Tony's dick and I'll eat your wife's pussy. Well, that ended the conversation.

Its becoming more common. we have been swingers for around thirty years now. Bi play being required among women is only a recent thing.
I blame porn who have turned sex in to a rough violent pussy pounding thing by men. The only gentle touch many women get now is by other women.

Men should never do as porn does its not the way to have sex with a woman.

We have run into a few. The ones I really enjoy are when the man says "oh but my wife can make her change her mind". Ummm fuck that shit, it's not happening LOL

Wow! Overwhelming support, thanks for all the personal message reply's. We was beginning to wonder, if we are alone with this dilemma or issue, it's nice to know that lot's of Straight couples are out there.

TomandDiane, Thanks for the reply. We find it so frustrating because we encounter it all the time. We actually just received a response stating that girl play was required before and after. But other then that, we seemed like a great couple. We have developed a doubt about ourselves, such as why are we even trying anymore.

We've come across some profiles where it's a requirement for lady play. Not that many though. However many couples list the female half as Bi when she's really not or maybe Bi-situational, Bi above the waist, Bi friendly etc. We play straight up full swap 90% of the time.

Any couples tired of being rejected because of a need to have bi attraction or play between the women? We are wondering if there is another website for straight couples not needing to depend on bi play?