What do you do if a condom breaks?

wildwidow2Regular
Epping, NH, Us

FYI, Jdean929, I was at a swing and using protection doing doggy, he finished then went to freshen up since the bathroom was close by. I simply assumed he disposed of the condom there. 2 days later I was wiping myself after going to the bathroom and imagine my shock when I saw the condom, it was green as we had used a colored condom!!! Thank good i hadn't had any sex after him so it may of ended up even further in me. I was livid I assumed he had disposed of it and he thought I did, now i always ask if they got the condom when we are done.

Easy answer, because we are not teenagers here. If the condom breaks we should stop as soon as we know, and tell her. If she agrees then replace it and have fun.
When I was around 21 had a condom to break and did not know it until we had finished. After I took it out, I told her what had happened. We was scared to death, both in school and and with not much money. About a year later I was drunk at a party and I fucked this girl from my class. After Finishing I never found the condom, we looked but nop. Probably some poor kid found it later in their bed. Have fun and be a good man.

Las Vegas, NV, Us

“ The main purpose of the question is to spark conversation among the men on this post which it seems to be doing.”

If somebody “just keep going and bust a nut” then they’re not a man. They’re a big fucking scumbag.

White Plains, NY, Us

The main purpose of the question is to spark conversation among the men on this post which it seems to be doing. Some may agree with the question and some may not...that is fine! But the question is open ended for additional conversation which was the "other" option. So let continue to speak respectfully among each other and post opinions that may help others in the lifestyle.

hotluvrsVeteran
Jeffersonville, IN, Us

I simply didn't understand the whole point of the question. Was the OP actually looking for people to answer the question. It might have been understandable if there had been a request for opinions about the different options, but the question was a very limited "What do you do".

(sorry, I should have proof read the previous post)

HollyBlueVeteran
Bangkok Noi, Th

The whole point is he wanted to break a condemn and keep going. He just wanted to hear someone say you wouldn't feel it if it broke so he could say there was this other guy that.... Just be ready to eat through a straw for a few months.

hotluvrsVeteran
Jeffersonville, IN, Us

I simply didn't understand the whole point of the question. Was the OP was actually looking for people to answer the question. It have been understandable if there had been a request for opinions about the different options, but the question was a very limited "What do you do".

A second person question implies a request for a first person answer. I can't imagine anyone saying on a public forum, "I always keep fucking and keep my mouth shut".

Fort Payne, AL, Us

Perhaps if you would have just posted an answer as "education for newbies" rather than as a multiple choice you wouldn't have received some of the initial negative feedback. You could have still invited discussion about what to do in that situation.

White Plains, NY, Us

Thanks for all the post responses. Also, thanks to all the couples who message me directly with your condom breaking stories. I appreciate the positive feed back and input.

8inchcableVeteran
Milwaukee, WI, Us

This whole subject topic is basically "asking for a friend" lunacy.

It's get hit in the fucking head with a lamp, vodka bottle or bass guitar -- type of action.

Someone would get thrown outta the house party butt naked for this shit.

You're basically violating someone's health risks WITHOUT CONSENT by sharing fluids.

Almost like giving someone oral, and then all of sudden they just empty their bladder in your mouth

8inchcableVeteran
Milwaukee, WI, Us

What would you want a strange dude screwing your daughter or niece to do?
Keep stroking and cum inside of her? The condom was used to reduce chances of pregnancy and STD's.
You don't know if a woman is on the pill, tubes tied, hysterectomy or fertile.

I was at a party in Tenn yrs back and saw the guy change positions and it appeared he palmed the condom.
After he came and pulled out, I noticed he had no condom on. I knew the couple, and months later they told a few of their friends she had an abortion. They were engaged, white couple and he was Black. They could not explain a Black baby to their family if she got pregnant at the party.

If you're a REAL MAN, you're going to immediately stop and pull out if you know the condom broke.
A selfish prick will continue screwing when he KNOWS the condom broke or slipped off.

If the pussy is dry and the condom breaks, you're gonna feel the difference. When lube or pre-cum fills the condom, a man might not feel the diff when a condom breaks -- nor will the woman.

White Plains, NY, Us

Yes mdnh03234 things will happen in the life style. So, that why the question was asked ? I'm sure condoms broke on many men who did not know but once they found out what did they do?

mdnh03234Member
Epsom, NH, Usa

I will also counter that guy's know when they break. I've had them break, (not in recent years) and did not know until I pulled out. But, if you know it, you stop and put a new one on.

TallMark45Veteran
Tempe, AZ, Us

Quickly have the lady straddle your face and lick your cum from her pussy or call me over to clean up...Mary Jo

GoodenuffVeteran
Brooklyn Park, MN, Us

Oops. To the OP, I choose: d) "Other".

If duct tape can't fix it, maybe it ain't broke.

Just don't use the cheap hardware store duct tape. You need the industrial type.

GoodenuffVeteran
Brooklyn Park, MN, Us

Duct tape. Don't leave home without it.

This is the Men Talk section isn't it? A real man knows the value of always having duct tape with their tool[s].

Las Vegas, NV, Us

“ Allen that is correct and should be added to the conversation. Knowing why you should do something is just as important as knowing how to do it.”

I’m just taking a guess as to what Allen meant, but he referred to the first few responses. I believe his why had to do with the consequences that come with, as you so eloquently put it, keep going and just bust a nut. Consequences like gathering your teeth off the floor before you leave for the hospital. Not trying to put words in Allen’s mouth, just the way his comment read to me.

Carlisle, PA, Us

Going to counter signal the idea that a guy knows for sure when a condom breaks. I've had one break and I didn't notice immediately. As soon as I did, I stopped what I was doing with a "oh shit, I broke the condom". The couple didn't mind, and I put on another.

Chicago, IL, Us

Pull out and put on another one. Would be a real shifty move.

White Plains, NY, Us

Allen that is correct and should be added to the conversation. Knowing why you should do something is just as important as knowing how to do it.

Charles Town, WV, Us

If my kid doesn’t know why he’s washing his hands, it should be taught along with how to wash his hands, so I find the first couple posts very relevant. The condom broke and I stopped, but why did I stop? Knowing why is just as relevant to what to do, so if there are new single males reading this thread, they will know the consequences of their actions.

~Allen

CopNkittenVeteran
Phila, PA, Us

"the rest of your posting history is full of similar questionable things."

every question the OP asks sounds like a teenager asking, or someone who is writing a book

Ridgeville, SC, Us

"Folks there are a lot of newbies and others out there who don't know the rules or care." I call bullshit on the first half of this. Even people who have never had the slightest amount of sex education at school or at home have had enough exposure to the facts of life and know the answer. The second half about not caring is the only truth to the matter. Honestly asking the question makes you look like an uncaring ass who would simply get his first and likely hide the fact it broke. Keep in mind when folks are "vetting" potential partners they look at everything including forum history and your poor attempt at educating others does not put you into a good light at all. Then again the rest of your posting history is full of similar questionable things.

Summerville, SC, Us

1st, a guy knows the exact second a condom breaks, there is no way to say you didn't notice. 2nd, if it happens and the guy continues without mentioning it, there is a strong likelihood there will be teeth on the sheets.

Just pull out and talk about it. Do the right thing