[LOCKED]Any really single guys????

Thread drift, yeah. It's gonna make a mess of things. But what do you expect from a bunch of deviated preverts?

Oh, I feel a thread drift coming...

BT,
That’s one of my all time favorites movies.. just watched it again this past weekend for the umpteenth time.

In a movie full of quotable lines, my favorite = ok, Colonel Bat Guano, if that’s your real name...

Not sure why that makes me laugh every time.

I’m guessing that a reference to rocket surgery would fit right into that movie.

#RocketRidin

Ace Frehley nods in agreement.

Visions of Slim Pickens waving his hat while riding the A bomb to the ground.

#RocketRidin’ - after all, isn’t that what it’s all about?

BT

rocket surgery = the very hardest type of surgery, especially after they light that candle

Some people sound absolutely insane to me with the amount of hoops and hurdles and concessions they need met just to just bang. Extra ass people.

This shouldn't be rocket surgery. Flirt a bit, if there is a spark, meet, have fun, go your separate ways after.

Seren, I am surprised that anyone would meet you all. Requiring the address is pretty ridiculous and one of the craziest double standards I have heard of. You guys are undoubtedly in a crazy couples book for some sm's.

To be fair, it does say in their very long profile that they require the address so if someone continues, that's on them.

There's just no way I'd do that even if I was a single male. You don't genuinely know who you're talking to until you meet! Definitely double standards with single men, though.

I remember when I was an SM, I had a couple reach out who, after planning to meet, wanted to know my home address and where I worked and what I did for a living. I replied I was happy to invite them to my home but didn’t understand why the work related questions and asked her if they were willing to share the same information.

She went on a rant about how important her husband was in the community and when I pointed out the double standard, she told me that I was what was wrong with single males in the LS.

SMDH

~Scamp

Really? Disclose their address? No way would i continue with that!

We take a little time to try to get to know them by texting and talking gor 1-2 weeks trying to schedule a dinner date. We have discarded the last 19 guys in a row for enough reasons to write a small book. They have to carry on a conversation, be intelligent have good pictures ( no bucket hats, ball caps or fishing trips). Demonstrate they know how to treat a lady and are honest. They usually ghost when they realize they have to give up their address before anything sexual happens at all. Maybe we will write that book lol,

" Vsocial visit to his house as "old friends" I dont know many swingers who will invite people into their home before meeting. Soooo unsafe!"

Eh. We've done it when the vibe was good a couple times, and are only missing a couple fingers as a result.

It's within our risk profile, but then again I use to do gun trades off backpage when I lived in Phoenix all the time.

Isn't it ironic ? Married guys posing as singles. These are the ones whos wives complain about them NOT taking care of business at home.
They also ruin swinging for all of the true, swinging SM's.

Jack you are a FREE member.. update and get a new profile.. wow!

i am, just divorced. looking 4 single, divorced w/out kids female or couple

When- if you’re single why do you have pictures of a woman in your profile?

~rabbit~

16 years single

Yep truly single here. I have a profile on AFF and find it to be mostly employees of that site trying to bet money out me. Sad......

I just joined up here and it seems to be a lot more "real", I guess would be the term. But, anyway, divorced 8 years, had a few relationships in that time. I am looking for friends where we have chemistry together. Checklists on a website do not guarantee a match.

So, yes we are out here. Just say Hi.

Apparently there aren't a lot of truly single guys...and the few that are can have some "interesting" personalities. ?? This is just what I've been told buy couple and single women. I get kudos just because I actually show up on the first try without rescheduling. So I guess it's not as easy to find us as advertised.

Single mature gentleman here!
I started in the lifestyle on AFF 9 yrs ago. Joined SLS last year and have found a more mature and honest group of people here, and I look forward to making new friends and traveling the country

Definitely single here. I have been divorced for a few years. My ex and I dabbled in the lifestyle.

To water.. sir do you really think your vague profile and uninteresting photos are appealing to women?

Obviously you do have a life, motorcycle, etc.. smile place some real work into your profile.. and really guys or couples who do not always have issues finding people.. it says you are lazy.. and I am sure you are not.. so work on your profile and get some photos that show a nice smile.. works wonders and good luck!

First impressions say volumes.

Yes there is. I've been divorced for a number of years. The EX and I often contemplated the many aspects of swinging and were quite excited about the opportunity to break into this exciting lifestyle. Unfortunately my career took me to Utah so she stayed in Ca. We do hook up several times a year. As a single male I do find it hard to any hookups. I've been on AFF for over a year now with no luck.

Yes, we are on here. I am a real single man. No wife or girlfriend to hide. If I had a significant other, then she would join if she was interested.

Well this is shaping up to be quite the romper room!

~rabbit~