[LOCKED]Any really single guys????

If there are. We are looking too

I'm single too, but I'm worried that some might look at my relationship with the puppet a bit oddly.

Naaaahhhhh.

Aka, The “I’m Spartacus!”

Overeager... Not good for getting the beaver...or something like that. Early/overeager worm...no get the bird??

BT

(another truly SM, but nobody really gives a fuk)

Geez guys! At least 6 guys have popped up in this thread, hand raised, jumping up and down, yelling “oh, oh, oh-me, me, me -I’m single!!!”

It’s not an audition. It’s a discussion and doing that makes you look desperate. It’s a turn off.

~rabbit~

A 100% totally single and honest, I have the receipt to prove it...LOL

Phoenix, don't trust him in a confined space until you have talked with him first. To us, it sounds like a bogus sob story. Minimally, videochat with him and then meet for dinner or a drink close to the prospective hotel. We have met great looking sm's that were as sharp as a bowling ball and there just wasn't any way to form a connection with them. Then we have met so-so looking sm's who had great personalities that we have met regularly. There is a lot of pressure added if you get to their home or a hotel and then begin chatting for the first time. Not sure if it is, but if this would be the first time meeting someone, be super patient and look for as close to an ideal scenario as possible. Good luck.

There are but you really have to vet them. Not being able to host or not meet on a weekend night is giveaway. While we do enjoy single play it’s a lot of work to ensure they are really single

Vsocial visit to his house as "old friends" I dont know many swingers who will invite people into their home before meeting. Soooo unsafe!

Sounds like the guy is interested, willing to travel to you, rent a room and play by your rules. That’s a home run in our book. Is he married, dating, widower or a guy down on his luck trying to get laid, in the grand scheme of things does it really matter? Just our opinion and I know everybody has different ways of looking at things. Not saying my opinion is any better than anybody else’s but, for us with single guys we don’t get that deep into their story. Get him on a chat site or text a bit to figure a few things out and go from there. Is he clean? Is he well spoken (sign of a gentleman to us). Is he willing to play by our rules. General questions I’m sure everybody uses. We’re not dating this guy, we’re not looking for a poly marriage, we’re looking for one great night. Give him a chance, maybe he rocks her world and you guys have something to sexy chat about for the next month.

New_And_Naughty, I was about to be all-in on your suggested plan, until you mentioned letting him have his way with her. I like the idea of letting him get a room, then showing up, and suddenly having "bad vibes" and deciding that he was not a suitable play partner, or bringing my bad bitch (big Rover) or a blow-up doll with me as his playmate. Karma is hell sometimes. Why should such an obvious liar be rewarded??

@Phoenix, I say let him get a room, meet up with him and let him smash it. He’s 20 years younger than you, let him unleash his youth and have a great night. Good luck and let us know how it turns out.

You can't make this stuff up, you just can't!!!!!!

Today I received an IM from Nashvouple2019, that read "Like to meet u guys for some sweet adult fun ....not married or committed.....But i have a friend /partner to go enjoy lifestyle parties once a while ....if interested pls let me know ...."

So I thought, OK, lets look at his profile. When I did, it is a couple's profile, the ONLY picture is a lady's leg with red painted toe nails, there are six references to "we" or "her", and only one to "him". There is absolutely no mention that the lady referenced in the profile is anything less than a full partner.

So when I mention this, to which he explains, "I agree with u ....well I can explain and if that satisfies u great if not I would understand.... I made profile not long ago ....we have only been to one party since cause she is married and does this once a while cause her husband is lot older and he lets her do this and I guess they trust me ...I am very respectful to the other person and not one of those crazy ones ....
Also I can travel to u guys ...."

The profile states that it was created 06/04/2019, well over a year ago. And isn't it so nice of him to be taking care of his parents!!!

So I suggest that we come to his house for our first play session, to which he replies "I am living with parents since they r at age now helping them .......but If u like I can get hotel "

To which I suggested that we visit him at his house for a purely social visit, to meet his parents, as old friends of his. I am still waiting for a reply to that.....I'm pretty sure that Mom will be having us over for dinner real soon now.

So, the "Nashv" part of his profile name is obvious, since he lists his location as Nashville.

Should we guess that the "ouple" portion of their name mean (1) Couple, or (2) Overly Unintelligent Pecker Left Exposed, or (3) both #1 & #2?? I vote #3??

What say ye???

You can't make this stuff up, you just can't!!!!!

I am really truly single.
And have been suspected, even accused, of being married.

Bangkok - hot! I have only been there a few days but would not mind whatsoever to explore what living there (anywhere in Thailand) as a single is like.

@EdandBrit, :>) good one.

magjoy, I'm not sure what you mean about the nice guy comment. the term nice guy is nowhere in my profile. Maybe you need to read profiles better?

As stated in my comment, some are not OK with what I do at all. Some it doesn't bother one bit.

Playswithcouples, your profile doesn't indicate if the wife is on board with you playing with others.
Some people don't care about the hall pass, most won't play if the wife is in the dark about this.

If you're cheating on your wife, you might want to delete the "nice guy" comment.

Thankfully with today's tech you can also video verify if the married single's wife is really OK with him going out. I know mine is! ;)

I am a married man playing on the side. I have a multitude of reasons for doing this, but that isn't the point of this thread.

Some people abhor it, but some appreciate the added assurance of discretion it provides. I understand either way and respect those that have no interest because of my situation. Discretion is of UPMOST importance to me. I'm not saying anything to ANYONE! Also, I will never take a risk of being caught. My point being, anyone who I play with has no worries of being outed because of me. With that said, I understand that more often than not, the reason is not fear of being outed, but for moral reasons. Again, I understand and respect that.

Unlike many married men on here, I am upfront and honest about it. It is not only within my profile, but in my tag line as well. Even with that, I am shocked at how many miss the fact. I don't usually lead with telling I'm married on initial contact, but I always do by the second.

I've had a handful of experiences throughout my time on here. All good, some great, and none have been bad.

Any Man Who is going through the turnstile sideways at the airport, is going to Bangkok

TallMark, you once gave me advice that I will now generously return that same exact advice to you. To answer both of your questions, I think you could just google it.

Mary Jo, Bkk is somewhere you would fit. Cd's, trans, and everything in between are openly accepted. Thai culture has some interesting nuances though when it comes to the LS. It's worth the trip if and when things open back up. Stop in Bkk for a few days and then pick a spot or two on the coast when the beaches are in season.

Please tell us how singles live in Bangkok....Any single females there live alone?????

Going straight to anyone's place of residence for a first meet can be filled with problems. Unless, you feel super comfortable with them it is always a good idea to meet in neutral territory for the first time out with a single guy. The least you may run into is a messy apartment and sheets that haven't been washed in a week or two. Be sure that you can trust him and have a good idea of what you'll be walking into before you go. Many sm's are fantastic hosts and others live like they're still in a frat house...

RusticMagic and Dustyduo.........good thoughts and suggestions.

I am truly single and find it difficult to get many responses just being nice!