Vanilla Wives
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Why kik
Prior to becoming active in "the lifestyle", I used several other Messengers for private conversations. I had one that I espescially loved. So when folks in swinging circles all started referring to Kik, I was a little reticent; I liked wh…
Cannabis and sex
Cannabis and sex; two things I positively love, but for me, they don't really go well together. There are some strains I've had that make sex fun, but the problem with weed right now is that you don't always get to order specific strains;…
Words that turn you off in a profile
Cliches; I detest them. The "Ken & Barbie" thing, the drama deal - these are instant turn-offs for me. The only cliche I can swallow,(and I use it in mine) is the 4-20 thing because that's code, but it's still pretty sophomoric. I like a r…
How do YOU read a profile?
I suppose that's true, and I hadn't given that a thought, but we do in fact have pictures that show our eyes. I wasn't saying it was the first thing, just an important one.
Profile review request
I was pondering that, myself. I have more confidence in my legs than my face or body, so I felt really comfortable with that, but you're right; I always pay closer attention to a good couples photo or face photo before a body shot.
Profile review request
Thanks, Mayhem. I took much of your advice. You were right; a lot of it was in poor order. I think it's much better now, and definitely more up-to-date. MissMolly, I'm still interested in your feedback, as well. It should be open to you no…
Privacy statements
. . . as suspected. Thank you for the confirmation. Away with them!
Profile review request
The quick changes I made last night still have not been completed, but I went ahead just now and made additional updates, so they're not showing, either. Hopefully the approvals will come quickly and you can see the profile, MissMolly. I d…
Separate rooms
RonKathy-We haven't had separate play dates, but with our first experience, we did have separate dates prior to playing. I loved it, but the hubby was only luke-warm to it. Of course, it was our first experience, and there was some insecur…
Profile review request
Also, easiest and fastest changes made, though I still have work to do. And Miss Molly, you're all clear; Profile is open to single women now
Profile review request
Wow, VelmaandShaggy-Thank you! Such good advice! I love the photo suggestions; they're very helpful. And I fully understand your truths. To answer; we have a powerboat. A 20' center console fishing boat. A Mako, if it matters. I will get r…
Privacy statements
After seeing privacy statements and warning notices on many profiles, I finally decided to play, the "better safe than sorry" game, but I'm really not convinced of the value of these statements. So, yes, I have them, but do they really mea…
Profile review request
Before reading these forums I felt pretty comfortable with our profile, but now I'm wondering. Maybe it is time for a review. Please take a look and share comments. Thanks.
Separate rooms
From the start, my husband and I were all for separate rooms, until we tried same room. It was a shock to me to discover how much I enjoyed seeing him with another woman. All in all, there are arguments for both ways. In separate rooms, we…
How do YOU read a profile?
Cover photo first. It's right up front and I feel it sets the tone for what they want to portray. A cover photo should be attractive and accurate and convey a real sense of who they are, (perhaps I need to reconsider ours). Next, I look at…
Fresh Meat
I looked at your profile, and if I/we were looking for a single guy, you would be in. You have a lot on there, but I dig that; of course, I tend to overshare, myself, as well. Still, I feel that a profile should adequately convey a sense o…
Declining ettiquette
On a few occasions, my husband and I have met a couple and we're just not attracted. Typically, I have been very kind, but truthful. I'll normally say something like, "we enjoyed meeting you, but we just feel that there's not enough equal…