There's no trick, but sometimes one person's fingers aren't long enough to reach another's prostate. There are some borosilicate glass dildos that have a g-spot massager on one end and a prostate massager on the other and that usually solves the problem (although not every guy's body enjoys p-spot massage).
My wife has tried to find mine with her finger/fingers while she was sucking me. But she never has been able to hit the spot. Any suggestions, or tricks to it?
Wife and do prostate play when I (Mr. OHC) when I want to cum fast due to being a late night, taking too long to cum, or for just the fun of it. It makes for an epic orgasm and I would be done for the night afterward or so I thought...
Last night I was on a FWB date and my play partner wanted to practice prostate play as she's never done it before and was very intrigued by it. After some sex she orgasmed and wanted to massage my prostate while stroking me to make me cum. She greased up my anus and cock with coconut oil to penetrate me while stroking my super hard cock and the orgasm was phenomenal!! Thought I was done for the night so we cuddled till less than hour later I was horny again and we repeated me fucking her till the came and then she massaged my prostate while stroking my cock again till I had another epic orgasm. We repeated this two more times for a total of FOUR EPIC PROSTATE INDUCED ORGASMS!! The last two were almost back to back with a 5 minute break in between. We stopped at 4 as it was getting late and the prostate orgasms were so intense that I was starting to get a headache from it and was worth it!!
In conclusion prostate induced orgasms are awesome and I did sleep very well when I got home last night ;) Big thank you to my awesome date last night too <3
I'm very interested in trying this
My wife’ has helped me to many amazing prostate milkings, mind blowing
The TacomaCouple post below didn't come from us.
Interesting!! Going to go do research.
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I enjoy prostate play myself as its very intense. It also helps me cum very fast if I'm taking longer than we'd like, lol. I also have a shiny metal nJoy plug that is fun to use. We posted a video of our prostate play on our PornHub page too.
This probably an old thread, but as prostate play is something I am passionate about I feel compelled to contribute my two cents. All men straight or bi should experience the bliss of multiple prostate orgasm. Conventional penile orgasms pale in comparison to the sustained pleasure released by prostate stimulation. Don’t hesitate because of squemishness about ass play because if you do you’ll be missing one of the most amazing sexual pleasures a man can have!
I don't really have an ED "problem". In most situations I get hard and stay hard pretty easily. I do have to admit that at 68 its not always reliable as when I was younger. But for the last 15 years or so ejaculations have become more elusive the result of that is that I can confirm that "dry" orgasms can be very satisfying.
Thanks, VP. I hadn't given thought to a dry orgasm. Gotta be better than nothing.
sexytension, having ED myself, I am not aware of much you can do about the ejaculations, but there are a number of things you can do about the erection. There is no reason to forgo the prostate massage just because you have ED, dry ejaculations are still quite intense.
I used to get prostate massages combined with Blow Jobs a lot when younger, and have to conclude that they always resulted in incredible, mind blowing ejaculations. Then my first wife died, and many years have passed. Sadly, now I have to take meds that cause me to have ED. I wonder if a vibrating toy would enable me to ejaculate again. Anybody know the answer?
I am seriously curious about it. Any ladies want to volunteer?
@JackMichille
As someone else answered, I've also read that prostate stimulation has some health benefits and no known downsides.
The key to stronger ejaculations is simply abstinence... sorry to say. Consistent masturbation hurts your ability to get and keep erections and also inhibits your orgasms. There's also supplements you can take like horny goat weed and stuff to increase the amount of cum, but it won't help with the orgasm itself.
Since I am a sub, and have done a lot of what 'something' said about the female controlling orgasms, I was really surprised at first how giving up that control changed everything. When I met my first domina, I was masturbating frequently and had issues maintaining wood. She locked me in a chastity cage, teased me constantly, pegged me regularly, and taught me to only focus on her pleasure. She rarely allowed me to orgasm, maybe once every three weeks. Within a couple of months, I was able to get and maintain erections literally for hours, and when she allowed me penetrate her, I would basically pull out and orgasm with so much force that it would hit the wall behind the bed, and so much of it that she would still get covered.
I know my particular gospel in this area is rather uncomfortable to a lot of people, but it's been 3 years or more since I started actively being a submissive, and it's been the best sex I've ever had. I even switched last year and dominated a woman and also was able to maintain. Again, the key is to stop masturbating and stop watching porn too - it really just desensitizes the mind as much as it does physically.
Feel free to ask specific questions via the mail system here, I'm happy to offer advice and pointers. I don't check into the forums regularly.
To Someone... That had to be a sight to see. The last time a woman put pressure on mine it was during a medical examination. I thought she squeezed the life out of it.
@JackMichelle, In answer to your question, no, prostate massage does no damage to the prostate at all. That is the consensus of most medical professionals in the literature. It is, in fact, considered a healthy thing to do in some cultures.
Ds, welcome to the forums. My question sat here forever without anybody answering it. So thanks for giving your input.
I consider myself an expert on sex ('sexpert') but this is something I just have limited knowledge and experience on. Women have fingered my ass and some have even applied pressure upwards on the prostate. But I usually found both the anal penatration and any pressure on the prostate uncomfortable even though I do like the idea and find it arrousing.
The idea that ejaculation can be achieved even before a man gets hard is amazing. And if I understand, these ejeculations from prostate milking can be quite forceful. My questions... Is this safe and good for the gland or can it weaken it over time or cause some other damage? Does it help clean it out so to speak?
I remember being a young dude, masterbating all the time. My ejaculations would be heavy and with enough force to land on my face if I were lying down. As the years go by, there is less ejaculate and less force. It sorta oozes out and it isn't the same amount of cum! Youth is wasted on the young!!!
Get one of those prostate massagers, every toy store carries a variety. The basic ones simply allow you to angle and rub or hit your prostate however you desire, you play around and find what works for you. The more expensive ones can vibrate, etc..
I've seen videos of guys who can cum, hard or not, from prostate massage alone. I cannot, or at least have not yet- but not for lack of trying. What I have experienced is better and stronger orgasms when massaging my prostate is included in the play.
Any tips or pointers (I get the pun) from those of you who have done this? How much pressure is put on the prostate and is it constant or is a rubbing motion good to try?
The most intense orgasm ever. She can milk guys without them being hard
My wife has done it me during a blow job. The orgasm is incredible. I like her to pull her fingers out, just as I start to shoot my load. Unbelievable mnmm
I would love to have this done to me!
I have my wife milk me every now and then. I would rather have her do it than the doctor. In order to stall off prostate problems men should get use to being milked often. If you do it as part of you sexual play it makes it more fun. Guys you can teach you wife's how to milk you. If she sucks your cock or jacks you off your orgasm can be intense. You can feel when she hits the prostate and just like trying to make her squirt she just needs to finger you back and forth. Guys for your own heath try it.
Tried it and it's elusive but I do enjoy the feeling of being full and it is pleasant to be pegged by my wife, I find it very sexy for her to be in control
