First Contact
Introducing yourself online and your first meeting.
Initial Contacting via messaging
Now that SLS has eliminated mail we all must use the messaging system. What is the consensus . . . . or various opinions as to the best way to make initial contact through the mes…
by pcbguy0183039replies3,955viewsWe have cooties!!!
Or we must, and everyone knows about it except us. We are easy going, laid back people who are always open to meeting new couples, but we can't get anything going on this site. We…
by kinkiez33replies4,115viewsCuriosity!!!!
My wife and I have a promise to each other. Either we both play or neither one of us plays. Why do so many men let there wives have sexual encounters, and they get what they are g…
by jb3ton12replies2,060viewsLingo
We are very green when it comes to a lot of this. I understand that swapping would not be considered "soft". But, where is the line? What constitutes being into soft swinging? Tha…
by ButtsnPucks2replies1,023viewsContinuing a conversation over text/IM
Once introductions and pleasantries are exchanged we move on to interests, jobs and what got us into the lifestyle. Now that we've tentatively set up a date it just seems rude to…
by WhiskeyGames9replies1,130viewsFirst time doing this what do the experienced people here sugguest?
My wife and I decided last weekend to try this. We are going to a party which is a first for us and this whole thing is a first for us. We have been together for 18 years and are…
by garyamy10replies3,207viewsInvited to come over to see them
I am new on the site and I had met a single woman. According to the site she lived 7 miles from me. So I want to see her on the way she wanted me to pick up some chips for her. I…
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Breaking the ice
We get lots of " let us know if you want to meet " or " We're willing to meet with you " Im here for fun , excitement and sex , I'm sorry but that approach is a turn off . I get t…
by Satincouple1replies1,388viewsContinuing or Ongoing Contact
This is more of a couples to couples post versus couples to singles. We admit this is not a new phenomenon but of late it seems to be getting worse....at least in our experience.…
by Phxfunx25replies1,476viewsLong time married couple trying new experiences
So we are new to the lifestyle. Honestly my wife is the one who has been very curious about the lifestyle for a while now. However, we dont know where to start. So we finally took…
7replies1,811viewsCasting your net: sending an email to show your interest
I'm not sure if this is on another thread elsewhere but I am curious... Do you send out a "form" email to show your initial interest in a person's profile or do you tailor it to t…
36replies4,736viewsOral and intercourse
How many positions due you know. Either oral or intercourse. I been researching both and putting down how to do them. If anyone wants to know name of positions.give me the bird an…
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