Lisa looking and holly blue. Great to read your comments. We’ll hit the clubs. We’re pretty fun and likable as a couple and conversation means much I imagine… better than a profile.
I guess I do remain surprised at the number of S-Bi couples. Very large percentage probably not representative of the general population. I’m sure it makes for even sexier play.
Thanks
My wife is BI , but is picky about woman she will play with. And most of the time its all been all straight play , unless the other woman was into her and she felt chemistry , no BI play...
Duck, it is an uphill climb. However, you all need to get out some parties and clubs and talk to people face to face. Think of it like this: if a bi woman and her husband have one opportunity a month she will lean toward a another couple with a bi lady. If they only communicate on line then they will naturally filter out straight profiles. However, when you get to the club things can change, especially the interpersonal dynamics. The other prospective couple may have already had the bi-itch scratched before you all arrive. The big thing is you all may have great chemistry with another couple and that 9 times out of 10 will lead to play. It will never happen unless you all take a few trips to clubs or takeovers and get your feet wet.
Do what you feel you need to do. My wife is bi, but we have played straight before. It's not a requirement, just a bonus.
I keep forgetting that people want to hear only what they want to hear. Next time, just tell people what you want the answer to be. Save everyone the trouble.
Thanks kinkster.
A sexual orientation doesn't equate to a sexual demand.
Just because a woman is listed as bi doesn't means she is demanding that experience.
We are all people, EVERYONE has a right to express what they seek and negotiate on possible boundaries.
Swinging is suppose to be fun and exciting, that doesn't mean a person can't have a discussion about limitations. And if someone brings up limitations anyone of us has the right to accept them or politely and respectfully decline and move on.
A woman who is actually bisexual doesn't "play bi" she IS bi.
Sexual orientation is not an activity. Jesus Christ why is it so difficult for people to understand this concept???
We've been to lots of parties and have never seen a bi woman making unwanted advances on a straight woman.
I know this has been brought up in other posts, but a lot of women are not truly bi. I would say there are probably a lot of women who have no idea their SO has them listed as bi anything because they are not involved with anything online. You may be better off meeting people in person where you can talk to another couple about your boundaries and what you're comfortable with.
On the flip side of the so many bi women, there are many, many men who are indeed bi listed at straight.
Seems like a good excuse to not see your SO have sex with another person. Bi women don't HAVE TO play bi. Same for guys. If you're looking for ways to not swing, just don't do it.
You do you, but you're putting up roadblocks that don't actually exist. At your age, you aren't even at the top end of the largest demographic group in swinging and while there are myriad couples who don't know how to swing without g/g play, there are just as many if not more who are fine with straight swaps or even straight threesomes, if that's of interest. Being bi doesn't mean you need same sex play at every encounter.
I hope that I’m wrong, but if you are giving up this easily it sounds like you’re heart really isn’t in it.
FYI, bi people can and do play straight. We are just as selective and picky as straight people.
Be clear with what you want. If this is worth exploring you won't exclude a bi/bi curious woman.
Most of the couples that say "straight-bi" aren't because most of the women are not actually bi. Are you specifically being rejected by couples because your wife isn't bi? I mean do you know that is the reason from the woman in the couple? Men will say all sorts of shit to my wife to try to convince her that their wives are bi. You need to talk directly with the wives in these scenarios.
You sure give up easy.. we have been swingers well over 25 years and yes it has its ups and downs.. but its up to YOU to find and seek out the right matches.. plenty here for everyone with some effort and nice photos!
We've been looking into swinging. At this point, the whole thing seems geared to accommodate the needs of S-Bi couples.. . or rather, the whole concept fits well with the straight male-bisexual female group.
For us, the whole thing is looking unlikely. And in our 50s, prospects look very dim for finding a complementary S-S couple.
We'll probably shut the lights off on this fine fantasy.
