BTW by building they own I am talking the rare few that have perhaps taken their detached garage and made it into a swinger's party place. We knew someone who took the upstairs of the business they ran (2 stories) and turned it and the roof of the single story portion) into a party place.
foreverfuncouple4u the more dedicated the location is to being a site to host swinger's parties the more likely you are to find the specialized furniture. I mean most people don't have a doctor's exam table in their living room. If it is a party at a house expect normal furnishings and perhaps air mattresses for "extra" locations. If it is an on premises club (building they own not rent for swinger's parties) the sky is the limit as far as what you might find.
Hmm...maybe we'll throw our Alta knee pads in the bag just in case. lol
Some have only beds, some have a couple beds and plenty of sex furniture, some have both.
One of the parties we attended a few years back, the missus was the centerpiece in a foursome in a folding chair. Sometimes you just take it where you can make it.....lol
~Allen
I use it all the time. Sometimes it's good with terms patients throw out other times it's things I see/hear about. Helps to avoid looking clueless in the moment.
If I can toss out an additional question about parties.... how common is sexual furniture at parties? So things like tantra chairs, sex swings, yoga silks, saddle vibes (i.e. Sybian/Motor Bunny), etc.?? Or is it mostly beds, couches, counters and floors that are provided/used? Thanks!
I use the urban dictionary often, but never have tried acronyms. I use it to keep up on my kids lingo!!
Urban Dictionary is another great resource for various terms.
I would not have guessed that would have came up in a google search.... ok
I would not have guessed that would have came up in a google search.... ok
Surprisingly, if you put "acronym DTF" in Google you would have also had your answer as the top response. Got to love Google ;-)
Oh ok, thank you!
Down To Fuck
What is DTF? Not an acronym I have heard of..
ufgators- Wow! Your parties sound great! We both are excited to attend a house party once we hit it off with other couples. We would even love to host. But between gathering everyone together, reviewing rules, icebreakers, etc...sounds like the perfect recipe for a good time, at least from our perspective.
Lately, the last 2 parties, and the next one we are going to will not be posted on SLS. It's all about making connections, and being fun and sexy. As Mayhem stated, the ones that aren't advertised, the invites are hand picked. Typically done on play grade. 2 of the parties are ONLY for couples that are DTF. There is maybe on hour of socializing, and then the sex starts.
Most of the house parties that are here on SLS, there is more time to socialize, and the DTF couples get the party started. You are more open to do what you want. Like watch or soft. Those parties aren't really what we are looking for. The Mrs has been getting over satisfied lately, early. and then she turns to being social. Trying to whore out her husband. I'm a lucky guy.
If the party is slow to get started, my wife has a great ice breaker.
She goes down on some guy in front of everyone else. Works like a charm.
I've been hosting small house parties for quite a while and have been to other parties hosted by friends. Every one is different but I have found them to be a great way to reconnect with LS friends and meet new ones.
The first 90 minutes of my house party is just like a vanilla one. We eat, drink and socialize. I try to create a comfortable environment for everyone. Half of my guests are regulars so I try to make sure anyone new is introduced to the group. At around 9pm I gather everyone in the living room to review the house rules so that there are no surprises. For example: Play is not required but highly recommended. Ask before you touch. Please refrain from heavy drinking. If you have a problem with any guest let me know so that I can handle it. Etc. After a review of the house rules I always come up with a unique and fun icebreaker. This is critical because even most regular LS guests are hesitant to get the play time started. If I didn't do an icebreaker it would look like a junior prom where everyone is waiting for someone to ask them to dance :)
I've found that by creating a safe environment for everyone we are all able to enjoy ourselves. I've not yet had any problems or complaints yet.
Feel free to hit me up directly if anyone has questions about house parties. Love hosting them and sharing this experience with my LS family.
Robert
Thanks Mayhem, good advice as well.
We have house parties but they are not open invite. We do it for fun so we want people to be comfortable and not overwhelmed. For that to happen we have to invite people as close as possible to the same "play-grade".
That said, we have smaller parties for people that are not comfortable with open room/group play, where people can grab a room and close a door for some privacy. If the house is small and the guest list large, getting privacy may not be an option so you'll need to ask what the play room options are.
Since we don't charge, we do not supply condoms, so you may want to ask about that as well. The invite itself may specify BYOB/C(ondoms). You may want to ask about where to park if it's your first time.
As mentioned, every party can be different but if it's an open invite then you can likely expect a lot of talking will happen for at least the first couple of hours. If you can see an RSVP list you can check out the experience level of the attendees to get some idea as to what to possibly expect.
Yes, I will ask if/when next invited.
BLQ: Honestly, as Hotluvrs said, experiences can be so vast that you would get best answered by the host(ess).
~Allen
“I was just asking people’s experiences in general.”
Our experience in general is that there is a wide range of possibilities. Since this sounds like a party where many people may not know each other, I’d expect there to be a lot of standing around chatting time.
Well sure, I get that and fully intend to ask if/when we get another invit. I was just asking people’s experiences in general.
“As a rule, every house party is different. Ask the host what you can expect.”
IMHO, best answer.
~Allen
As a rule, every house party is different. Ask the host what you can expect. We’ve been to house parties where the hosts are stark naked when they open the door. We’ve been to house parties which turn out to be meetNgreets.
As with all situations in the lifestyle, open, early and frank communication is essential for a good time.
Things I’d want to know: are we expected to be naked/fucking at some point? Are all areas (patios, living room) open for play? Which rooms are off limits at all times? What’s the general experience level of the guests?
Odds are that you’ll have a blast no matter what. I hope that you report back here and give us your impressions after the party.
