Unfortunately that is the nature of this particular party. Not unusual for public house parties around us.
It's also why we like some of the local hotel parties as the action is usually in full swing within 30 minutes of the party starting. By 2 hours in we're usually on round 3 or 4 .
Wow, 4_Real_Couple, zero-to-naked in two hours? We’re having a slow party if it takes more than 20 minutes! :)
Mayhem has a good point. It really depends on the party.
If the party is say "Ugly Sweater", and the sweater has a hole with a breast sticking out. I would approach her and mention that she looks cold, and it it is OK for me to attempt to warm her up.
Similarly, if a lady were to mention something about my swelling. I "might" reply, "Perhaps you have a technique for said swelling??" And before you know it, someone shouts, "Santa is getting a BJ in the kitchen!!!!"
And now we are not allowed back to Apple Bee's :(
Really though. Most parties start at 8pm. We mention to our "regulars" playtime 10pm?? OK, playtime 10pm. We go down in a group, many of us bringing another couple. and presto, Instant Orgy. Just wait, and the party grows....
Set a time that you would like to play. Search the crowd for potential candidates. As you near that time, say 30 minutes before, ask, "Do you want to play tonight?" We prefer "Do you want to FUCK." Since Play =/= FUCK to everyone. If its a NO, then move along. We used to wait until midnight, and we found we were playing alone. People are there because its a swinger's party. If you offend, then they weren't right for you anyway.
This is a great topic. You can have a lot of experiences and still not be experienced when it comes to initiating things. There is no set way this plays out as much depends on the background (i.e. at an event/party?) and experience level of all involved.
More often than not, the Mrs is the one that gets things going. She just has a way of letting guys know that it is OK to touch her if she likes them. I tend to be more of a hands off guy (at least for the first meeting) until I'm sure a woman is comfortable with me. Many times the Mrs and the male half will be grabbing each other by the time we suggest going to a bedroom.
We tend to attract couples like us where they also enjoy seeing their other half having fun with others, so the Mrs getting frisky with the male half usually winds up being good for all. In that time though we establish that we can carry on a good conversation, which tends to help put people at ease.
On rare occasions if I'm with a more aggressive woman, I will be the one to get things started but either way, it generally winds up being natural and comfortable for everyone. As we head to a bedroom we'll ask if the couple prefers same or separate rooms and we are able to accommodate and have fun with either.
If a couple we have over expresses an interest in porn then I will throw some of that on in the background and that tends to get things moving in that direction.
We have had couples that have come right out and asked, "You guys want to play?". When that happens it's usually a more experienced couple and we also have no problems just getting naked and playing if everyone is enjoying the company.
Our first meeting with our current male FWB was at a neutral location and was just "get to know you" conversation. We liked what we heard and saw so next time was at his house. N was dressed in a flirty skirt and flats. When we sat down to share a bottle of wine I put a pair of her "fuck me" heels on the table without saying anything (N knew that was the plan). After about half an hour of more "get to know you" with no mention of the shoes she said it was time for her to change into the heels and I said that as the host he should do it. He did a good job and figured out he was supposed to move up from there. Wasn't long before we were all on his bed naked.
Haven't tried that with a couple yet but it should work well there too.
Liquor opinions!
Tequila: Bang for your buck is Ultimo Agave Reposado. Smooth enough to drink neat, and far less-expensive than the over-rated Patrons of the world.
Bourbon: Eagle Rare is our current favorite, followed closely by a local line called Belle Meade Bourbon.
Sorillo-I've actually never had Cuervo. The tequila we use is perfect for shots. I think it's called Azul.
The last time I drank Buffalo Trace, about a month ago, I dreamed about a buffalo stampede! ;)
Depends on the tequila, sweets. :) Jose Cuervo is the antichrist.
On the other hand, a decent bourbon like Buffalo Trace or Bulleit.....
We have found that tequila breast shots are a great icebreaker and get the fun started.
In my 20's, I occasionally used the question "do you wanna fuck?" as pick-up line.
It got more negative responses than positive, but it did work occasionally.
Regardless of the answer however, it saved a ton of time & money buying drinks - LOL.
It’s pretty simple really. Just make the first move.
I don't recall ever seeing this thread before, but my immediate thought of how to get sexually started with a playmate????? Maybe the same way that you would with your own partner. I don't recall the last time that I started sexually play with my wife by just saying "let's fuck".
Start with your own partner first. Everything will follow from there.
Its been like that all my life, does not matter where I am. It could be the beach or a pool or an orgy. As long as I keep my body fit and muscular women react like I posted.
Sometimes it get annoying, women stroking my body when I don't want them to but hey what I can I do. It gets really annoying when I am at a swing party and fucking one woman concentrating on giving her the best sex of her life and to have two or three other women's hands all over my body.
Once you've blocked a troll, you can mentally insert any comments you'd like between everyone's posts and attribute them to the troll. It's quite hilarious really. Far more entertaining than anything that might spawn from the troll's fingertips, trust me.
He's not smart enough to avoid getting my hand up his backside..... ;)
Well good thing the puppet is smarter than you.
I was told that there would be no math in the LS.
You keep stats?
And you're right... we have no idea...and we're ok with that.
LOL you have no idea how many women have wanted my body over my life. Around 10% of all the women who touch my furry body get so sexually turned that they are dragging me off to bed.
Half just love the feel of my body and about 30% of the women dont like the hair.
But man oh man do i have fun being different.
Typo respost
To each their own
furry muscular body - ewwwwww
We've seen a pretty broad range of moves, but our favorite for US to initiate things is kind of cliche but works: A game of some kind. Our favorite is Full Contact Cards Against Humanity. It's hilarious, it's already pretty risque, and our version has two players paying a penalty every hand. Penalties go from Mild to Wild, but have yet to fail in getting everyone naked and entertwined. I've been known to throw a hand (or a hundred) just to be one of the ones paying a penalty.
If the others in the room are already in the mood, it gets the ball rolling pretty quickly.
This weekend at the private swinger naked pool volleyball game and party, i would go up to each women that showed up and said hi my name is and you can pet me!. lololol
Once the women started to feel my furry muscular body some got very turned on and the fun started.
Sorillo, what the fuck does that even mean?
It's trollingly annoying.
