Mag. They might have everyone blocked and are just here to perv pics. There are lots that do that. There was/is even a forum poster called "HouseGhost" that had all of his/her preferences turned off so they could troll the forum and perv profiles without getting blocked. If it bothers you message Wayne to get help blocking them.
~rabbit~
Oh, it's just that I'm curious and can't view them. Like, if you don't want single women viewing your profile, why are you searching for them?
Magjoy,
Many single guys have the same complaint. Their voice of protest has been falling on deaf ears. Nothing is going to change.
By the way, we don’t understand why anyone would care who views them as long as they are not being harassed. We have single guys blocked, but we really would not care if they looked at our profile 10 times a day.
I posted after two of Magjoy’s post in different parts of the forums on the same day and she blatantly accused me of forum stalking her and blocked me; her not knowing she actually done me the favor in the case of the BSCSF syndrome.
Like I said before, there’s always a reason.......no matter how silly of one.
~Allen
I have a person who keeps viewing my profile, but they have single women blocked. I think if you have a group blocked, they shouldn't be able to look at your profile.
Mrs 888 is on a non-responder blocking spree. She says that way we won’t ever mistakenly recontact them.
At a party or club, it’s as easy as finding out a couple’s ID and search it here and see if it’s blocked or not, just like checking for notes.
~Allen
Rather than block the non responders we use the notes feature to mark them as such.
Its funny because that happened to us the other day. I only clicked on their profile, never sent any messages, The next time I clicked on it, we were blocked. I have blocked people that I have sent messages to that have either responded back and then became crickets, or they just do not bother to respond back. It's easier then trying to remember who we've looked at.
Just blocked this morning. From couple who looking for singles. I send message how look pretty and elegant and wish nice sexy ls ... don't ask for nothing just compliment. Someone have big problems i can say that. Simple no is ok.... in any case have good morning to all off you guys... :)
Some people block for a legit reasons. If there's little to no contact, probably so the person stops popping up in the "suggested" feature. It gets less repetitive.
I had a guy keep going back and forth with "pleeeeease...give me it a chance. you never know" he was 1 message away from being blocked.
You are blocked for a reason. You just might not know why
GGMM you are so wise beyond the cosmos.
This has nothing to do with this post but you don't know how good it was to read your comment today,
"You'll be fine and I suspect you'll find people who are a better fit for you and your values anyway."
Very uplifting, TY.
I'd apologize, but I'm a much bigger fan of reality than I am of happy platitudes. ;-)
You'll be fine and I suspect you'll find people who are a better fit for you and your values anyway.
@goodgollymsmolly98226,
Thanks for that bitter taste of reality, "blocked & ghosted" now I have a new badge to wear. :) lol
"I have one which currently has me blocked and I think (I hope) it was just their mistake. We've been together a few times, texted since and have shared pics and stories and so forth. Then suddenly I'm blocked, without any rhyme or reason. I even reached out and texted a few times, but all I get is Bueller? Bueller?"
It wasn't a mistake. You've been ghosted. How do I know? Because you haven't just been blocked, you've also had your texts ignored. Also, whether they've shared the reason or not, they had a reason.
Also, until recently, blocks were reciprocal. If you blocked someone, the system automatically and instantly put a block in place from the other profile to yours and the block stays even if you remove yours.
The first time I was ever blocked was on another site. I was so upset. The blocker had taken my comment on her pic totally out of context and did not reach out to me to ask (WTF?) I never had a chance to explain what I meant and to clear it up. She was so hurt that she even tried to blacklist me on another thread. So that's something that still feels like a thorn in my side. I even reached out to a mutual friend to intervene with an explanation from me, but they declined.
Since then I have joined this site and by mistake (when first getting started) I blocked a few people. Well in turn, they have blocked me back! So then I figured out what I did and I unblocked them; but how would they know? So that's that, time to move on, right?
So now I understand things happen and I try not to take it so personal. Although I must add; I have one which currently has me blocked and I think (I hope) it was just their mistake. We've been together a few times, texted since and have shared pics and stories and so forth. Then suddenly I'm blocked, without any rhyme or reason. I even reached out and texted a few times, but all I get is Bueller? Bueller? Yes, I am saddened and disappointed, but what are you gonna do? You just have to move on.
Highonfire,
Maybe they blocked you because you're a liar who was too dumb to even make it a consistent lie. Your profile says you're straight, but your tagline is "If you need a bisexual bull ready to play scenarios".
It could have been.....wow, some of those pics. Going bald was definitely a good choice for you.
It could be your total lack knowledge of proper sentence structure, grammar, spelling, and punctuation. Seriously, it makes you look like a moron.
Never mind. I'm sure it wasn't any of those things. There's obviously something wrong with that couple. They're just too "shallow" to see how awesome you really are.
Yes some couple here in Illinois did this I just looked at the profile
Guessing he thought nerds couldn't be a Dom for a cuckold guy just saying like wow thinking he's shallow big time
Good morning Latino Lover, I don't believe the last of your statement to be totally accurate. We are transitioning our profile currently to close off single males. It's not that we don't like SMs, it depends on our focus of desires, needs and play. No Alpha stuff, however, not to say it doesn't exist because it does. She currently has two SM she plays with that she is happy about. The missus closed off to SMs to focus on couples with bi-females and to SF to find a girlfriend, to click with both of us, for her see mainly mono-mono, while making it clear that on occasion play with me included would be understood. Now, she won't block them upon view, but she said she will if they contact, believing they are the exception or such.
Good luck finding your niche.
~Allen
Dood,
This is the second time you’ve mentioned this completely unexplainable phenomenon.
It sounds like it’s becoming a huge issue for you. Just how many times are you going back to view these same profiles that are only seeking SFs?
Maybe that’s the reason? If they see you pop up in their Who Viewed Me multiple times, I’m guessing they’ve grown tired of providing you with, for lack of a better word, jack-off material... I mean, why else would you be going back to visit profiles that express no interest in SMs?
Try shutting off The Who Viewed Me feature. Then, they can’t see that you’re going back to their profiles over and over and over again. You’ll be free to perv profiles all day long.
BT
As a kid, I was often surprised that the pages of my favorite dirty magazines would eventually become stuck together...for no reason... like the precursor to the Block feature.
More and more people keep blocking me after I view their profile.
It’s not like I’m gonna ask for anything haha.
A lot of these profiles expect a single woman for them to join, but no males or no couples... just the man wanting to play the Alpha male.
She swallows - blocks are automatically 2 way. Meaning that when you block them the system automatically blocks them to you. Otherwise you'd be able to see their profile/pics but they couldn't see yours or block you in return.
You may need to have a third party reach out to them on your behalf to explain what happened to see if they will unblock you.
Happy to do that for you if you care to send us their username.
Honestly. I think it’s an accident. I blocked a couple we were interested in by mistake. I noticed it two days later but they proceeded to block us. I unblocked them but it didn’t matter. We are still blocked.
I think it can happen by mistake.
Before cpl week meet on site couple. In m neighborhood. We chat changes kik address. Talk and more. Everything go nice. I don't push don't ask for anything. Both want more than me. Surprise me how open was. And just one night we finish conversation in morning I find me blocked. Even now I don't know reason. I m not mad just super disappointed. I don't ask anything. If this people have any problem with me why just don't say. Even if say no more contact with you I understand and never push. But like that? Really.... BS
We have been blocked by a couple who we had a very pleasant e-mail exchange with. We're about 250 miles away, but we travelled to their area frequently. We reached out, exchanged profile pleasantries, opened pics for each other, and had agreed that we should meet next time we were near them. We'd look at their profile a few times to see what events they were attending (they were fairly active) to see if there was something that made sense for us to take a trip. Then one day, we're blocked by them. Baffling.
