Submissive or Dominate

that7girlRegular
Clyde, NC, Us

"Men who think talking rudely to a women is being a dominant." Yes! Suggesting I may like to be submissive does not mean liking to be verbally abused. I don't even get the connection at all. Do women dommes tend to think it's all about humiliation?

Abusive people tend to have low self esteem and/or seriously lack imagination. This isn't who I want making decisions for me.

Roanoke Rapids, NC, Us

I’m submissive and been looking for a dominant woman for a while. Very difficult to find the right person, trust is so important.

I actually made a separate profile on SLS (since taken down) looking for a Dom in my area. Cannot find a real one. All fakes . Men who think talking rudely to a women is being a dominant. In reality a Submissive is in complete control as giving her submission is a gift to the dominant.

Sarasota, FL, Us

i am more dominant and he is more submissive

num1scampRegular
Warren, MI, Us

I personally prefer the submissive role myself. My husband is a Dom. I can switch, I'm a pretty god Domme, but the submissive role is much easier to do. It takes a lot of self control and thought to be a really good Dominant. I personally really enjoy giving pleasure, and enjoy giving myself totally to my partner. D/s roleplay requires sensitive and intelligent partners to really work well.

Cleveland, OH, Us

Both. Why just look at the cover, when you can enjoy the whole book?

Maryville, TN, Us

Very submissive to men or women, enjoy giving up control. Not so much into pain as just being treated like I am a toy or owned for the use of pleasure only

Who_me12Regular
Lavale, MD, Us

Lol @JollyRancher999 cool beans.

I'm finding similar things in this pool; men just emailing me @ "hi, wanna f$&k?

Um, could you try even a little ice breaker, caveman?

Las Vegas, NV, Us

@WM12 “As far as my submission, it takes a specific type with me. This applies even in the vanilla world, so I'm often vexed why a man would think it wouldn't apply in the BDSM sphere. One cannot simply don some leather or chains and call himself a Dom. That being said, it is very difficult for me to submit to a man I find weak, lacking leadership qualities that I find attractive, cowardly, and/or just doesn't know what he's doing” -this is so me!

Weston, FL

He is a submissive cuckold, she is a dominant cuckoldress to him, but a submissive slut to others

Bangor, PA, Usa

I am verses , mostly Dom with woman and some younger guys but need to be a sub bottom cuck creampie eating slave ! At least for a nite ! Lol

Wixom, MI, Us

I (the male half) am dominate and she is my submissive although there are times where I’ve allowed others to participate in impact play with her.

Quiz results say 100% Dominant, lol...although I am a loving D/.

Yuba City, CA, Us

Barbarian is submissive to ladies. Pixie is too much of a free spirit to be submissive, but does has no desire to dominate others.

Dawsonville, GA, Us

U so need to come to ga sometime soon. We would have a great time.

SB

Fairhope, AL

He is Dominant, I am submissive only to him..... heaven help the rest of the world LOL

leggywifeMember
Quakertown, PA, Us

Wife is submissive and has been so her whole adult life

South Park, PA

Wife has always been a great submissive for my pleasures. I got lucky when we met that's for sure. Many great times together

Benton, AR, Us

After a few year layoff, We got back going, different as both of our natures changed, a lot do to medical. Anyway, She is now D and I am the sub. While I do know what it is suppose to be, it is a challenge to some degree for me to fulfill the role. And We both enjoy that.

Sadly not many into older bi sub males in this area so it seems We will only enjoy it between the two of us.
I know my Maam would enjoy controlling a single sub female but yea, unicorn delux

TopsdustyRegular
Falmouth, VA, Us

@goodgolly......

It's an opinion based in science,history,and biological facts.
Again,I didn't write the book.
But since books have been written on stone tablets,when it comes to the human animal,the FEMALES of the species are submissive to the males.
This is also found in 99.999999999% of ALL animals on the planet,so it's not like humans are bucking the system or blazing any new trails.
It may also be of interest,the societal comparison between packs,herds,and flocks,and how they compare to human social interaction and hierarchy.

I know this isn't what people see on CNN anymore,and even at many schools any differences between the sexes is not only frowned upon,but rioted against,but that's just the extent we have taken political correctness.

I have no issues with the fat white guy from new Jersey who "identifies"as a skinny female Russian barmaid with a nice rack and a command of the bartenders guide to the universe.
I could give two chit who makes my drink,I only care that it's good.

We can argue many things,and I would give you audience,but some things you just can't argue without looking silly (your word)

We were not born the same,regardless of the propagandist.
We are not equal.(dispite the legal
Lowering the bar is not equality,it's inclusion.
(Check military,police,fire,etc for examples of men lowering the bar to include females)

It's the real world,not a video game created by the fake media.

We had a riot at a college the other day because the FEMALE professor was giving a speach,and in that speach,she said that MEN are traditionally TALLER then females.
The place went nuts,people were arrested,it made national news.

What she said was fact,men are taller then females.
Of course some men point to the sky and cry"the plane,the plane",and some serve the dragon queen and avoid the nightwalkers on the ice wall to the north.
But for the most 'part,in all known history of humans,males are generally taller then females by more then an inch or two.

Arguing who is taller equates to arguing who is dominant.

Neither one is an insult,both are fact.

Charles Town, WV, Us

It pleases me that you enjoyed what I did.

:-D

Phoenix, AZ, Us

Good to know. ;-) (Since it took me 10 seconds to catch the joke, it's probably a sign to go do something that doesn't involve other people.)

Charles Town, WV, Us

“the female submissive is often the one in charge.”

GGMM: I disagree because I am dominate by nature.......

AND............

I really want to dominate you and bring you pleasure; if you tell me what you like and enjoy having done to you, I will do that to you.

~Allen

Phoenix, AZ, Us

No, you gave an opinion and are now trying to dress it up as science. It's just not true that women are born submissive It has nothing to do with feminism or, really, anything other than a thoroughgoing dislike of misinformation presented as fact. You need other books.