Submissive or Dominate

SPANK! Ooooh I'll do that again. SPANK!!! lol

lol you said you want to "see" him in action. I took that to mean watch. my bad, spank me ;)

I didn't say shit about watching Sis :0)

lol shell so do I.......but not from the watching mode ;)

I want to see Mr. Deviant in action.

The IDEA of being submissive has always turned me on....but I don't respond well when someone really does try to dominate me. It either makes me laugh or pisses me off. And I don't really enjoy being dominant.... I guess I just prefer to be the slightly aggressive, feisty equal.

I dont know how to be submissive in the least ... I tend to just take charge and keep going and I also love to push limits, boundaries, and pain/pleasure points.

My other half doesnt have a dominant bone in her body and rather just be taken, had, abused, and loved all at the same time.

We are a pretty solid match for each other and then some :-D

Also, welcome to the forums!

What about sun down to sun up...what happens between those hours?

Don't forget the paws, hehehehehehe

M...yes, noticed it right away, but I thought this thread had been around a while and that someone else (you perhaps?) had addressed that noun/very misuse already. But nice to know someone thinks of me! :) hehehe.

Hm. A room w/ a wolf...My what big teeth you have!

I think Gina and Wolf need to get a room :0).

Dan just loves you. ;)"

If that was meant for me, I knew what you meant lol. I tell friends I heart you so no one thinks I'm going to run away with them lmao.

One wonderful lady whom I am interested in is a submissive. I am wondering what would happen if two complete submissives got together: would they end up sitting there staring at each other?

:D

I have always been intrigued by the idea of dominating another man. I am not bi but there is something curious to me about it. What is a great fantasy of mine is to be with a couple where she is a submissive to me but wants to dominate him. A nice switch in the middle.

Screw appropriateness!

Now who says you can't be dominate AND a gentleman?

Wolf

whoops. I said the word "love." Sorry. Broke a taboo.

Dan just wants you, is that more appropriate? hehehehe!!!

Dan just loves you. ;)

Too bad you're not bi, but maybe you can teach lessons...I'd like to be dominated a bit more by either male or female. The males in the lifestyle tend to be a bit too gentlemanly (they've been warned so much at club events not to be pushy that they've gone the other way...c'mon push me!) and the females...well, we miss our bi female pal who was very dominant. And haven't quite found one since who is that aggressive.

G.

I'm pretty much a switch, I enjoy both depending on my mood. Being switch is fun, you get a taste of both worlds I think.

im a dom but can be a sub my husbannd is a sub all the way

Heehee, well a lady always has the option to change her mind.

Interestingly, even though I am bi-curious (strong preference for females, but I am attracted to some men), the idea of a man dominating me is NOT a turn-on (even though a woman dominating me is a BIG turn on).

That should keep the arm-chair therapists busy :D

I think the 'beast part of it' should be in a different forum!! but glad you found your sub side. I have had experienced the mind fuck and I think it's the anticipation that gets you. Something My sub (cherry) just got to experience was a caning where SHE was somewhat in control in the fact that I had her count up to 10 and she got one stroke. If she took too long...she would get more than one. When we did that, she was secured face down on the bed and wasn't going anywhere :) Judging by how wet she was....I have a feeling she liked it!!

Some typos are damned funny. I just this one of mine:

"...that was the beast part of it"

Ah... it's good when you can laugh at yourself