Soft swap

We also enjoy soft play, sometimes on date night it can be a lot of fun!

The Mrs really enjoys sucking cock. And she doesn't mind, sometimes really enjoys a load in her mouth. But she gets so wet and horny, that she wants that cock that she got nice and hard in her pussy.

Like Mayhem, I rarely cum from a BJ alone. But 69, her on top, if she cums on my face, I
Might blow my load. But I would much prefer getting to fuck that nice wet pussy.

We agree

I do so adore a woman or a couplet that enjoys soft play it is so sensual and intimate

While we prefer full swap, we have played soft swap now & then. Switching back to your own partners for intercourse side by side can be hot.

Soft swap is vastly UNDERrated!

I really dislike condoms, sometimes it's fun to have a great soft session, and then finish with Mrs. Bucks

We do enjoy a nice soft swap session

hotluvrs - "...but if a woman offers to suck my dick only, what am I going to say, no?"

Been there. It does take me a while to cum from just a BJ and that kind of makes me feel guilty if there's no reciprocating of any kind. Like you, I'm not going to say no and she did specifically say that she just wanted to suck my cock. In a way though, it does put a little more pressure on me to cum, because I perceive getting me to cum is what she's considering the reason she wants to do this.

I get it, as the Mrs has told me that she gets satisfaction from getting guys off. She also gets the flip side of that though too, because she really doesn't want a guy that is only going to lick her. She has run across guys that ONLY want to do that. Not only is that not as fun for her, it could tie her up from pursuing things she deems more fun.

"I’ve never quite understood folks who say that they don’t soft swap..."

There are times when I just want to do oral on someone without reciprocation and that's fun, but soft swap hurts my brain and also doesn't give me what I want out of casual encounters with couples. That's why I don't.

hotluvrs — Yeah, but if a woman offers to suck your dick (but not fuck you), she’s probably gonna expect you to lick her pussy in return. Oh … wait! ;-D

We also love soft swap.

I’ve never quite understood folks who say that they don’t soft swap, it’s full swap or nothing.
I love full swap as well, but if a woman offers to suck my dick only, what am I going to say, no?

We also love soft swapping

From one single male point of view there are a number of ways I could participate in the giving and receiving of pleasure with a couple and everyone cums without me having intercourse....be extra hands, fingers, tongue, mouth......

Any soft couples in metro Philly??....we're looking for you...

Sucking cock and eating pussy is consider soft swap, if you don't want to go that far sexually stay home and play scrabble...

LOL, Be real careful on this one.. because even though you say you are soft swap with no intercourse people will still try..

People did answer that. Soft is anything short of intercourse, AND it is defined per the situation you are in. Everything is a question of consent, so what, exactly, you do or do not do in a soft swap situation WILL vary. I don't understand what you don't understand.

"I posted a serious question and as yet- no answer."

You received several reasonable answers within a day of posting your question almost a week ago. You generally aren't going to receive personal messages in answer to a question posted in the forums and you won't receive notification if anyone responds to a forum thread. It's up to you to revisit the thread to check for answers/replies.

HERE we did your work for you:

Soft Swing/Swingers - A couple that enjoys sexual pleasure with others that includes anything up to but not including intercourse.

YOU were told where to look by E and B in prior post...and obviously did not search it :

Go to the tools tab and select "Lifestyle Definitions" and there are many terms there defined for newbies.

Soft swap can mean anything up to but not including intercourse.

We are newbies. I posted a serious question and as yet- no answer. What is soft swap exactly? My partner thought it was 2 couples having sex in the same room, with their original partner. I had someone tell me it involved actually swapping, but only for oral after swapping. Another version was petting type contact after swap. So wtf is considered soft swap?

Any ladies looking for soft swap