RogerNJess

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Double Pussy Penetration

I've tried DVP twice. Each was with a different woman and with a different man. I my case 2 dicks were not going into those 2 pussies. They JUST WOULD NOT FIT. Both women were saying STOP! I'm sure that not all women are built with enough…

Let's talk boobs

Not too interested in a guy's thoughts. I want to hear what a woman says on the subject.

Let's talk boobs

I'm a guy. I I want to throw out this thought. It seems guys are a lot more interested in showing off their SO's boobs than their SO is of showing off her own boobs. As a student of the human condition, I wonder why that is!

Strangest or most unusual place you've had sex

My wife was COMPLETELY uninterested in bi men. She said she was not interested in a man who had had his dick up another man's ass. I didn't point out to her that straight swinger gentlemen had probably had there dick up a woman's ass! And…

Strangest or most unusual place you've had sex

A girl from work just went out for lunch the then...I bent her over a big rock right beside a hiking trail in Garden of the Gods park. Both of us had our pants down around our ankles. I liked it. I think she LOVED the thought we might get…

Bi Curious

Esperanza said, "In the swinging community, it is a catch all for "I don't mind if women touch me, but I am actually only into men" That is the way it seemed with couples we met. Sometimes I think the husband wrote the profile and stated h…

Bi Curious

I know, I know, this is a Women's forum and I am a man. The way I see it is if you want to know what a woman thinks you should ask a woman. The is no way any man would know what a woman thinks! My question. On this website one of the optio…

New Swing logo animation

"@biloxi, it sounds like a new site is in the works and if you type in swing dot com it takes you to a whole new home/login page." Nah!! If you type in "swing dot com" you are redirected to "swinglifestyle dot com". It is not different in…

Getting off

Its not always about the orgasm with everyone. I'm the male. Once had a swinging partner who confided to me that she had been having sex since she was 14. She said she loved sex but had never had an orgasm! We got along famously in the hor…

All my friends are gone!

Profile still visible..what the hell does that mean? I can't view their profile? They can't view my profile? Both? In any case that is truly fucked up. There was a time when Friends were immune to blocked profile types. That way you could…

Unpaid Members

As I understand it new members cannot use the IM system. Now that we don't have email it appears that new members cannot contact us and we cannot contact them. Do I have that right. If I do, why are there free members? I would think the id…

BRING BACK THE BIRD!!!

We REALLY REALLY dislike the new method of communication with other members. That being said, it is...what it is! WE can make it work. We're not ready to throw away our lifetime membership yet. Our worry is that they are preparing to be mo…

BRING BACK THE BIRD!!!

We like the bird! We don't care for IM, would NEVER video chat and would NEVER NEVER have a swinger app on a cell phone.

Bring back the mail

Just finishing my previous message. I was saying SLS no longer wants to be a swinger dating site....they now want to be a hookup site.

Bring back the mail

We concur with most replies here. IM has a place but is no substitute for email. One of the more valuable features of the mail system was notification that you had a message. All gone! It appears that SLS is no longer interested in being a…

Email System Update

I asked tech support about email and email notification. This is the answer I got, "My understanding is that they will be discontinuing this Mailbox feature at some point and the site will use the new IM System. I'm not sure if it will hav…

Search and Sort Broken

And it is still broken...so is email notification...website developer would rather break IM than fix problems.

Site is currently having Chat issues

Yep, has a new look, no new features, some features no longer available like dismiss and ignore. I suppose you can do that anyway but it is now less convenient. Yep, has a new look...worse than the old look! Why don't you spend your progra…

Best Profile Practices to Follow

I think all your suggestions for a better profile are great. I have a couple pet peeves as well. Pictures posted that were taken in a bathroom...especially a public bathroom. Don't you think that you will get more interest if you carefully…