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Try looking at munch dot org. Usually there’s a listing of Kinky public meet and greets In a variety of areas. Fetlife is another option. Research Folsom Street fair in San Francisco and look at their resources. Might give you a link or tw…
We’re moving back to SLC and recently saw a new club opening for lifestyle events. Looking at the website there seems to be a background process to attend the club plus a membership fee and possibly a monthly fee? Fees ranging anywhere bet…
E-Stim is an electrifying way to play for sure. As others have mentioned the kink community has classes on this topic. If you have any leather stores in your area there is usually a section devoted to this style of play. Check out blog dot…
We belong to a different lifestyle site and the message system there has a sent mail tab. The mail icon is an envelope. Unopened is a closed envelope with an exclamation point, read is an opened envelope with a green check mark, replied is…
Tried searching this topic, couldn't find. Apologies if already discussed. Messages: Occasionally, we've sent messages that don't show as sent, just vanish. Sent a second message to later have both show up. Makes us look a bit desperate. M…
We're members of a different lifestyle site that has a feature showing the date the message was delivered and the date when the message was opened. Additionally, there's an icon of a closed envelope and opened envelope as well as an envelo…
For those of you looking to play in this way. There are some great books out there. Uncle Abdul's book JUICE is a good primer for getting started. The TENS play can be done in many different ways and with different attachments. Erostech is…
You're not alone! Even with what seems to be great vetting.... we've had couple of those experiences. Our thought is they are pic collectors, wankers or just plain cheats. We give one excuse for not talking on the phone. When there's a sec…
Went from TWO down to ONE, but still nothing when opening. Only half fixed in CA
You're not alone! Except we have two messages pending... and.... we know that one of them is... The one message that's letting us know we've won the Publisher's Clearinghouse Sweepstakes! Confound you SLS! All joking aside.. we have two me…
More often than not you find profiles that are five or ten years old. There's no way to tell if the owner had ever updated the Profile. Add an icon to the front page with a last updated date for the Profile. Also lock the age at the incept…
@onehour, yeah it's just not something we like to do. We actually put in our profile don't write us and that guy was unfortunately really like the 10th to send a message and got the brunt of our frustration... typically we just block..
How about the tenth time you've opened the message to find a SM has written... "your wife is hot af..." when your profile clearly states don't send a message, we'll find SM's We've taken to this reply; Wow, you're one incredibly hot guy. S…
Below is our typical response to single males who send us messages without reading our profile... Wow, you're one incredibly hot guy. So very glad you reached out to us as we'd have never found someone like you here... Did you actually rea…
Really the number one rule should be be respectful. Read the profile and don't write the couple if you don't meet what they're seeking. Additionally, if they explicitly state they don't want messages from single men, they'll find you. Don'…
It's a sad commentary when a single male can pose as a female and we as a community can not highlight the profile as a troll... I had reported to Admin... Profile is still active... Just blocked them.. good luck to who's next...
Is there a posting where we as a community can post the profile names where single males are posing as females?
Any profiles that are free and have not been used in 30 days removed from search, 90 days deleted. Any paid profiles not used in 120 days removed from search. After 360 days none use an email sent to registered email address with a 120 day…
Maybe the feature rather than send a "flirt" to the individual/ couple could just be a searchable feature. As an example; i look at a couple, find the profile interesting, but knowing they get sent 100's of "pick me's" weekly. I click the…
