Yep tick tick.. tock.. the clock is hitting NOON .. Yep just one more loser and fake on SLS !
Crickets for 2 days even with our cell number and IM messages which went unanswered after he was on for all days!
One more to add to our block list... amazing!
Yep it happens more often than not on SLS.. we have better luck meeting someone in any bar/ restaurant setting , the vibe gets going and it was off to our home immediately.. last one was a couple weeks ago with our trainer at gym who was a swinger on another web site but talked him into coming to SLS too!! Great times!
So TODAY we are suppose to be meeting a new SLS Guy .. he reached out to us over the last couple weeks, chatted and set up a meet with our Cell number for tonight.. Crickets.. told him if he cant make a decision by noon today we are moving on.. we do NOT wait for anyone and he will be blocked ! Both of "us" have a bad feeling about this guy and YES we say there needs to be a YELP rating with specifics mentioned on what happened.. This way they can explain there side if legit !
Another couple and guy were talking with "us" all week and we could have made other plans for tonight.. These guys get one chance and we move on! Not worth our time...
We have been ghosted by a couple that we have seen on here, in the past, often. We drove to the villages, sat at a restaurant drinking soda. We were asked by the waitress if the other couple was coming. Half hour latter they did not show up. We texted them as we always do, first to let them know we arrived. Then again asking if they were on their way. NO ANSWER ! A few days latter we messaged them here, and they said "oh we had a family thing." "F that S." We even saw them after, at a swinger meet n greet. Never said hi to them, they were not chatting with anyone either. I'm thinking that other couples may have had the same experience. OH yes we did casually mention here who they " might be." People like this should be given the attention they so much deserve. If that were our MOA we would expect someone to front us out. Why not ! Why should other couples go through the same BS ? Why should this or orate couples be left to do it to others ?
"Elastomer" you're not alone. check one post down. The SM I spoke about; it turns out he Is married. Even after two face to face meetings and several phone conversations I "we" fell for his lies. I am a SM for two mature couples. and I never had to BS anyone. As you can tell I am still pissed. Just had too vent!
You're not alone! Even with what seems to be great vetting.... we've had couple of those experiences. Our thought is they are pic collectors, wankers or just plain cheats. We give one excuse for not talking on the phone. When there's a second excuse there's an issue...
Def a vetting issue as SLS is LOADED with fakes, cheaters & single guys posing as couples. Some key things to look for vetting single guys that are instant red flags: vague profile info or non existent details and no pics or certs. The use of the word "discreet" as more than not a truly single guy doesn't require such a level of discretion that he needs to reiterate it. He needs to be discrete so his wife doesn't find out. Guys that can only talk or chat at certain times, guys that can't host, etc. Any of these and we just pass by. We don't waste the time or energy.
First post: First time for us as a couple went south because of a "no show" Single guy that I had met couple times and talked with on the phone. Was coming to our home last Sat. evening . My gals first time. No show, she may never say ok again. What an ASS HOLE. Live and learn.
Bahaha. I HADN'T vibrated the host
That's going to be one of my favorite autocorrects now!
RonKathy, we were going to a house party early last month. Got a hotel room, a dog sitter, etc. I was starting to get really nervous because I only had vibrated the host through here and didn't have the address until about 2 hours before it started.
We now have each other on kik, but we'd made a contingency plan before we left our house 4 hours from the party. I often insist on extra planning in case our original plans fall through for whatever reason. And now it's REALLY hard to plan extra activities!
We agree about the vetting.. when we first came on SLS after swinging without SLS for 18 years prior..we had some guys stand us up after we had a hotel in ATL . Now we chat, set up a meet, and off to our home or theirs.. any delays, tied up, any excuses we move on quickly. Many fakes on SLS!
Also goes for couples who get cold feet and dont have the decency to let us know.
Way too many great people who actually want to have fun and play! We now make our night on our plans.. if they show up great if not we have our own fun!
GGMM is spot on about your vetting process. It does happen (and legitimately, shit does happen to everyone), but should be more like 5%, not 95%.
You are not choosing well it seems.
With a failure rate that high, there is pretty clearly something wrong with your vetting process when it comes to single guys. At a guess, you're not weeding out wannabes and cheaters.
Why do so many guys no show? My wife is smoking hot and we love to hotwife at least 50 men have agreed to meet and have flaked only 2 in the last 4 years have showed up and it was great come on guys show up
