My .02: Perhaps SLS is like that old car that's over 10 years old with 300k miles on it. Instead of spending a bunch of time and money trying to fix it up, might be time to replace it.
Build a new one from scratch, then migrate everyone over...
FWIW, I would never install any lifestyle app for privacy concerns. I always use Firefox browser
Just a comment and our 2 cents worth without malice regarding another Form that was recently closed.
Did read in one of SLS Wayne's postings on that form where he stated..
"""That is the WHOLE purpose of a personals site and it is what EVERY personals site and every swingers site does"""
Please note Wayne typed the word EVERY in Capital letters, not us. To us, typing in caps normally can convey one is shouting on the internet. Not inferring that, just pointing out the departure from the rest of the words written.
Since we and many many others belong to various other ""Swinger"" websites, we feel that was an incorrect statement.
We see every single Booty call, Speed Date, Hot Connections, etc etc etc. whatever you want to call them hook up postings they publish on these other sites
And we know that for a fact since we've met people above and below our age. Inside and outside our profile preferences via the "Date" feature on other sites.
Not being critical here of what was stated. But perhaps some SLS people are just not aware of, or have a frame of reference of all the many other Well Know and Popular "Swinger" sites out there.
Would be happy to provide those "Swinger" Websites by name for reference.
However, suspect that if we listed those sites here, our comments would be deleted.
As I check to days Hot Date listings there is 63 listings. 10 are viewable to me. Out of that 6 correspond to an event and the remaining are at the fringe of the 50 mile limit. usually I would have a dozen or so options that would entertain a single male like myself despite the age limit imposed as their settings. This is a shame as the vast majority don't even realize their suggested age range is preventing them from others that they would entertain. And as to the messaging option, what a joke as well as the video chat. All because of an APP? What a sorry excuse.
But hopefully this dialogue will result in the changes we want........ trying to be optimistic and encouraging of Wayne and company.
Management makes a change. They call it an improvement. Now members have to make numerous changes just to be able to do what we once simply did. Before "the improvement".
@3W053MV ... then you have to create a couples profile with said FWB and pay SLS twice like Wayne said LOL
As a single female I’d like to still be able to see Hot Dates that are looking for couples. On occasion a various FWB and I will connect with a couple listing a Hot Date. Now I no longer have that ability, so myself, whatever FWB was interested and the couples looking are all losing out.
I see that the events are up but the calendar doesn’t show all of the events happening on that particular day.
For example, I’m attending a club party next Saturday, however that particular event is not shown on the calendar.
Does anyone know the specifics of why some events show and others don’t?
Do we have to filter the calendar for certain events (socials, parties, clubs, etc)?
Hotwife2play: I totally agree and we can only hope that the third time is a charm. Continued attacks will only generate another part until the discussion get locked completely.
I agree wih Allen’s suggestion to only have the monthly tab on the hotdates page. The weekly and daily tabs are superfluous.
And yes, overall, I think the hotdates page is better than it was, and hopefully the admins will continue to tweak it.
Normally I’d be thrilled to see someone come into the forums specifically to give 888 and his thesaurus fueled idiocy some shit.
However, To wish rape on anyone is some low blow, low class bull crap.
~rabbit~
NaturalLovers,
Don’t worry about your comments. You only said what a lot of other people were already thinking.
This new layout for events is horrible, it’s ridiculous how harder it is to look ahead for parties u might be interested in going to. Updates to sites are supposed to be improvements, the mail change and this are def steps backwards. We have been on here for 10 years and it is less user friendly now that it was 10 years ago
This is my first time to be blocked. Trying to follow the thread, but of course missing some comments.
Sorry if I came across as ugly, was just being honest.
You were never blocked. My goodness.
Unsubscribed
“Then you become a butterfly”
HW2P free to repeat that meme too.
@Natural: Is okay, I’m with you on that one. She thinks people are blocking her, she just needs to learn how the site actually works when someone doesn’t have an interest in her status. If she was blocked, she couldn’t see the blocker’s posts, such as mine. I’ll get us back OT
;-)
I also like that you can set an age limit and those outside of it cannot see it to want to contact you to sway your hard limit preferences.
Deja vu.
Ironic, I said that as well the first round, watch out! lol
So, to keep things fresh:
This time I want to suggest doing away with the daily and weekly tabs and just use a monthly calendar tab, that way, you can just click the day’s hot date or event. The other tabs usefulness is then null.
~Allen
I have a feeling that hot date issues part III will be coming soon
Sorry. I guess I didn't stay in topic.
I honestly don't have a problem with what you said, just in the manner you said it. And your profile is a little off-putting to me and I can't help wondering, is this another fake profile? Another male posing as a woman?
Why is that when I read "her" posts I think it is actually a guy posing as a woman?
Let’s try this again and perhaps on topic of the hot date issues?
