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"Significant effort" is a proper introduction about myself, and things about you and your profile I like. Also some follow up about what I think we might have in common, and polite request to chat more. In this "new" IM format, it often sp…
Your point about ones profile and pics is well taken, the OP talks about a 1st message. I wonder how your tune would sound after you invested the time and effort into dozens and dozens of well thought out and sincere outreaches only to get…
Like so many things, It's all about striking a good balance. Yes, sexy couples and singles get lots of messages, and they have every right to use what ever criteria they want when considering who to get to know. The other side is this: I K…
( IMO ) Lifetime membership is best "bang for the buck" so long as the site doesn't fold for some reason. However, the point is valid for many different industries and services that have moved to a "subscription" business model. Streaming,…
My .02: Perhaps SLS is like that old car that's over 10 years old with 300k miles on it. Instead of spending a bunch of time and money trying to fix it up, might be time to replace it. Build a new one from scratch, then migrate everyone ov…
Hey, so if any fun friends are interested in meeting up with a nice single gentleman this weekend, please check me out. Hope to hear from you :) ( I just figured more people will see it here than on the calendar )
I see that my reply was also removed, no matter. There's plenty of feedback here to illustrate the overall sentiment. I'll just leave on this point: SLS needs its members more than its members need SLS. If you think otherwise, maybe go see…
I suppose I should have said "Where I usually am" in Florida, but ultimately we're making the same point. One's location plays a role in the pool of possible playmates to draw from...
There is most certainly a difference between the interest SMs get vs Couples/SFs. I've seen it 1st hand when a FWB and I once shared a profile vs my SM profile. Our "couple's profile" got pinged at least a few times a month, my SM profile.…
This new messaging system is a total fail. Email correspondence used to be great way to acquainted with someone before giving any outside contact info. If the goal of this format is get users to stay on-site, it's totally backfired. The 1s…
I liked it better when I could turn the IM off. I'm not one who's constantly connected, I prefer to reply to messages when I can. Please bring back the old email system...
