Weight and age truth ???

Our ages and weights are accurate. However that is just us. We don't hold it against anyone who comes up with a better version of their true selves.

Our weight and ages are accurate. We don’t get a lot of people reaching out, but the people who do contact us we know aren’t deterred. I’d rather have a few connections that know what we look like than surprise people.

We don't get the people that keep old ass pictures on their profile at ALL! What is the point? SLS is not a scrapbook. We all looked better a few years/decades ago. Oh my god you were so hot in your 30s that I want to hookup with your changed and let yourself go self in your 50s??!?!?!? SLS is about meeting peeps in the now. Everyone has phones with cameras, snap some shots and post them! We do appreciate the folks that go whoops been inactive and need to update. We get that and wait for updates.

Honestly, I am straightforward about height and weight.
If I meet others I can tell they're not what the profile said, I'M GONE.
Thought is what else are they lying about.

PS to above - The wife and I had this same conversation recently ourselves. For me, I can be very attracted to girls from 100 to 200 pounds, and maybe beyond. If your posted weight is 140# and you show up in person at a beautiful looking 180# however, I will walk away simply because you are a liar and so cannot be trusted on anything else either.

For us, it seems silly to lie about either. Assuming the goal is to actually meet in person and hopefully take it private later, the other party will see you as you are today. The idea of hitting it off online, making the effort to meet, then have someone walk away from us in person is not an event we even want to entertain. If you don't like us online, that is cool and all is good. No one is for every one. We are who we are and hide nothing from those with serious mutual interest. I can't blame anyone who does walk away from a date when deceived, we have done so in the past and sadly will likely have to do so again.

Age and weight does not automatically update here, but we do it manually on occasion as it changes and is always within one year or a few pounds. We also always have pix in our private galleries no more than a couple of months old, including faces. We are better looking and more fun than some folks, much worse in all accounts than some others, but the "us" you see here is truly "us" as we are today.

I have had people "bait & switch" me, and I would much rather that they had been honest up front. I can decide whether or not I'm interested in greater age and/or weight, and maybe I would be, but meeting up and seeing that someone has been less than truthful is a big turn off for me. My pics and stats are accurate - I think I should expect the same of others. If you don't want to state your age, a lot of people use the 99, and that's OK - age is just a number, and doesn't impact physical attraction.

We keep plenty of RECENT pics available, public and private. They are not air brushed, filtered, etc. we put ones that show profiles and shots so when peeps meet us, we are exactly what they have seen. Ages and weights are flexible, appearance and personality are not!

We believe people should be truthful in all aspects of the profile. Purposely being deceitful is just wrong in our minds.

As for what to wear, that is up to you on what you want to convey to possible playmates. Certain types of pictures will draw attention from some you may not be interested in. Also, as was mentioned trying to keep photos from at least within the year is best.

So for "us" we are no longer publishing our age.. yes both in 60's and that is a turn off to many , so we allow them to make there own choice on meeting.

As far as photos over a dozen are from March's Caribbean cruise.. and the ones at beach in white clothes are from end of last year.. we add and delete photos as we go along for years...

Now we do take care of ourselves, work out weekly, play sports, eat right, lots of vitamins etc etc.. and yes.. dye hair.. if someone IM's us with an age requirement on their stated profile.. we do tell them we are above what they have on their profile.. and they still request to meet us in person and it has worked out fine for "us" ... as recently as 2 weeks ago!.

I know we all fudge about our weight and age a little, it is just human nature. My questions is how much less should we state for our weight or age, if we intend to embellish? I have seen people " lie off" as much as 60# as we recently met a lady that did this. We were very disappointed, as we drove a long distance to meet them, We know couples in their 70s that state they are early 60s. Now for their photos they are way off on some of them. We try to keep current with our photos, mainly because we are on a weight loss program, so we take recent photos. Our weight keeps dropping so we keep changing that in our profile. Asking this question as I am curious what everyone posts. Also what mode of dress is most appropriate for your main photo? Formal, Casual ? What does everyone think ?