Lifestyle and ED

Thought I will put my two cents into this discussion. I have used Bimax for the past 6 months, not always needed but if a long play session is anticipated it takes the potential for concern out of the mix. 50 mg Viagra and 5 mg Bimax allows me to be hard for about 1.5 hours. I remain mostly hard even after an orgasm. I am asking my doc for a trimix prescription, maybe I won't need the 50 mg's Viagra. The discomfort is very minable. I find the base of my cock to be the place best suited.

Viagra did nothing for me...Cialis combined with Trimix works great!...Trimix is not covered by insurance and costs about $70/mo....You have to experiment with the dosage a little but once you get that figured out you are home free.. The bad part (for the squimish) is the meds are delivered directly into you dick via a shot...Trimix can only be used every other day and with a limit of 3 X a week...But...The shots are not that bad ...small needles that hardly hurt ...Get it right and you have a hard aching dick that won't give up on you till the dosage plays out....In my case about two & half hour...but the time for you will depend on the dosage you find works best for you...Saw someone who recommended to shoot (?) for hour to an hour and a half ...I was told to start out at 20 units but nothing happened and I doubled it and hit a happy median, two and half hours seemed to be about right for me...I was a bit worried the first time as the old dick is not supposed to go past 4 hours or go directly to the emergency room without passing go and collecting $200...Two and half hours seems extraordinarily close to 4 hours when you don't know when that "hard as a diamond" is rocking your body...Err on the side of caution and jump from 20 units to 30 units and take some load off baby.....Do yourself a favor an give trimix a try.....Shit works

There is always the option of a strap on. Also learn some new oral tricks - if your oral is all that - penetration may not be missed!

If you have venous leakage all the pills, shots and pellets are not going to work. There is another option but it’s the last resort but it works 100% of the time without fail.

Found a couple in AK that had this issue, I was happy to help out every time they came to town. She really loved the feeling of a hard cock in her, but he also I think loved to watch. Bang and go but well worth the fun times.

Trimix. Saw it mentioned above. Hats off to modern chemistry. Trimix is Amazing. Talk to your urologist, it is a game changer.

I think you are highly unlikely to attract another couple unless it is explicitly a situation where she plays with them and you watch. Look at it from the other woman's perspective: she is giving more than she is getting in this exchange and they will choose someone else. If you want to do this as a gift to your partner, single males are easy to find.

Twopuzzlepieces, trt therapy alone did not improve my ED by it self but with the combination therapy of trt and Tadalfil, things are back to working 90%

Thanks HollyBlue

Puzzlepiece, the huge issue here is that your wife should be on board. She may not want to hurt you or cause you any problems. Re-emphasize that you want to provide something for her and you are happy to do that for her. If she says no, then let it sit there.

Playing with couples isn't something you need to think about unless you are going to be passive. Also, with two other people there are a lot more moving parts. The worst thing you could do is meet a couple with the thought of a full swap and not be able to perform. It is simpler to start with a single gentleman who has some experience with couples. Don't start with someone who is new because there's a greater chance of things not going well. Work to make the first encounter as close to her perfect fantasy as possible. Never rush at any time in the process. If you all make it to the first encounter then be sure to talk through things and give each other a little time to process it. Never think there is something wrong with either of you if you find out the LS isn't a good fit.

Thankfully I still don't need meds for a regular woody. but my hard-on isn't as hard as it once was and a second round is less certain than before so I take viagra when playing with others or going to a club. that stuff is like magic. hard for hours, usually can cum twice and still get a third woody. still extra sensitive and prone to inadvertent boner-popping the next morning. like i was 15 again. love it.

you only mentioned cialis; if you haven't tried viagra yet you should (assuming consistent with dr's advice).

Thanks Ymichael-not just age. Already know that. Therefore the additional challenges with the meds or the shots working. Testosterone helped a little. Before that nothing happened. After that, and with cialis, there is some erection. Just not enough. Almost considering the implant.

I second meds.
You also need to talk to your doctor as it can be a warning sign of other problems. It is not always just age. But , if it is just age, many find meds like viagra solve the problem

Thanks! Been down that road. Seeing’s Dr. Who specializes in ED and is up on all the current options. Taking weekly T shots. Haven’t responded to to the shots to give an erection yet. Pills help a little but not quite enough yet. I haven’t given up yet.

Also may we respectfully add.. exercise, change of diet, looking at ones testosterone levels every six months, etc etc.. and they do make shots, pellets, cremes for this..beet powder etc etc.. also helps the ED issues immensely! All sorts of new things on market now ...
find the right DRS not all are educated or willingly to discuss this matter with men!

Now yes we understand and many couples will allow the type of play you are looking for just ask.. but with no photos your luck is diminished greatly!

Good luck, enjoy and yes swinging well over 30 years and a happy wife is a great life!

There are lots of meds for ED. Have you tried using any of them. Also something called Trimix I believe.

I’ve always been interested in the lifestyle and we have talked about MFM and group fantasies in the bedroom. We never followed through. Now I want to bring the subject up to her again. We are still very much in love and both have a high sex drive but one thing is lacking. For sometime penetration has not been possible due to ED issues. I would love for her to have that again with me participating with either other men or couples - preferably both.

How successful would someone in this type of situation be and how would we start? Of course we would be up front and honest in the profile. I am sure there would be no lack of male volunteers but I would certainly like a couple (or more). I am very oral of course