Bi Sexual Men

Interestingly enough its as often intolerances on the female half of a Cpl, if not more so, than the phobic nature of men in this LS, orientation is hardly either/or n were not exactly a civilized lot! We're coming along fine tho, I'd say..
The environment one lives or grew up in has significant impact on how this topic gets navigated. Marketing ourselves online for this kinda fun, has it's challenges and pitfalls. Listing Bi vs. Straight, comes with consequences. Personally it has made it tremendously easier to filter bs. While as a single dad, any LS play was rare, but after first bi exp., with a cpl., I preferred to appeal to those that were more tolerant to bi play, n easier always to be upfront.

“ The main reason that we have found is that many "straight" people (M,F & Cpls) judge & don't want to play with a M (whether it be with a couple or alone) if he is anything other than homophobic.”

No, truly straight people want to play with, wait for it...members of the opposite sex. As in, I’m straight and only play with women. Doesn’t make me homophobic, it makes me, I think you are catching the drift here, STRAIGHT.

The fact that your male half is looking for bi play but listing as straight is more of a turn off than if he were honest by stating he is bi but is perfectly fine with playing straight.

~Scamp

Negative side effects of close-minded people!
The main reason that we have found is that many "straight" people (M,F & Cpls) judge & don't want to play with a M (whether it be with a couple or alone) if he is anything other than homophobic. It's really sad that it is this way - Shouldn't we all be able to do whatever we, as consenting adults enjoy doing that bring pleasure to all involved. You would be surprised how many women enjoy the idea of either being with or watching two men together (just as most men love the idea of two women together)!
Just my opinion...... Bunny

I'm not sure that labels are restrictive if they are informative; a label, to me, is just short-hand for a more firmly anchored description. The problem with current "bi-whatever" suggestions is that they are vague; gender fluidity means that there are many specific "bi" behaviors and few specific labels. It seems this is also true for heterosexuals - just because someone lists as 'straight' doesn't mean that they will indulge in any and all sexual behavior with the opposite sex.

I list myself as 'bi-curious' because that's the closest label they allow here. I also describe myself as 'heteroflexible' because I think that suggests that I enjoy females but also am not shy about explicit sexual contact with men, especially when with a couple or in a group. And that doesn't mean I haven't been with CD's or exclusively gay men on occasion.

nicely said KKitten. Although, I probably would not offer a helping hand to any straight guy who is fucking my wife at that moment, I could see it happening if he said Hey, here hold my beer ererer leg

I don't understand the stigma of a man posting that he is "bi." I think by making more labels (ie; bi-friendly, bi-comfortable, etc.), we are narrowing our tolerance even more. Although, I completely understand a man not announcing on his profile that he is bi-whatever (as sad as that is to me in a community that supposedly tolerant of sexual freedom), I wish more men were forthcoming in their profiles.

Personally, I think someone who is tolerant of sexual freedom as a whole, is damn friggin' sexy as hell!!

Bi curious is a better fit for you than straight based on your post. I, for one would not appreciate a "helping hand" from a supposedly straight guy. Why be deceptive?

~Scamp

We do wish SLS would add a Bi-Comfotable label. You may not want to interact with every guy, but when playing in a group setting, contact 'happens', and having a manly man freak out, isnt conducive to continuing play...and if your fucking my partner, holding her ankles and you 'pop' out, a helping hand is appreciated.

Ha! Touché, jolly!
Guys that are posting as being straight, when they're bi, are typically the rats after all the cheese available. Far as I've noticed, anyway..non-hetero play for me, is rare, but I've found that its easier for those that are bi m, intolerant to be avoided, and most people appreciate, potential playmates, honesty regarding the issue.

Rats don’t eat every piece of cheese thrown at them, dear.

Bi make stigma aside..what, ready4 said!
This thing aint static, and comes down to rats after cheese, far as i can tell ;)~

General labels usually don't apply and most sexuality is on a continuum, not fixed or static.

"I like receiving oral from both couple same time" = BI. nothing wrong with it if that's what you like, but stop lying to yourself and everyone else!

“ I am straight. I can hardly fuck a woman in the ass because of my big cock”

Just to be abundantly clear to your justification, you chose a man’s mouth as a substitute and that keeps your status as straight?

~Allen

AndrewRobin - I am straight. I can hardly fuck a woman in the ass because of my big cock

If you're cool with seeing a dude suck your cock, then you're bi, at least, maybe gay. It's 2019, it's cool to admit it now, so just come out of the closet and be honest.

and yet you still list yourself as straight...

It happened again yesterday in Tampa. Both couple were enjoying sucking on my cock. I shot my big load on both faces. So kinky...

"I am not bi, but I like receiving oral from both couple same time"

ummm that IS bi

Bi means just that.....We play both ways. Sometimes with straight couples...Sometimes with bi couples! We don't cross preferences with anybody we fuck with....We make it plain when we start contact. That goes for the ladies too. We have had wonderful times with straight couples...straight swapping sex. On the other hand, we fill the role when playing with a bi couple....It's all good!

Grammar nerds unite. :-)

“ I am not bi, but......”

That’s an excellent use of a contrasting conjunction.

~Allen

I am not bi, but I like receiving oral from both couple same time. Watching my big gorgeous cock being serviced.

I truly have a gorgeous cock. Not too big and not small. I am trying to limit my play for three times a week, so my balls can recharge....lol

Last couple I fucked for three hours straight. His wife could not take it anymore

I’m shocked, SHOCKED I tell ya! Based on your previous posts I would never have guessed you were bi.

Now if you need help changing your profile to correctly identify as bi, feel free to ask for advice. Lying about such things is bad form.

~Scamp

I met gorgeous couple few weeks ago in Jacksonville. His wife was just stunning looking. After the action got started, both were on their knees sucking my gorgeous cock. I wish I had a camera. Each took a side of my big cock, and licking it. It was my first bi experience getting oral. Really kinky.

When I was fucking his wife, he was licking my golf hard balls. I shot big load in their mouth at the end. Just like a porn movie