Bi Sexual Men

Hotwife,

Please forgive my out burst. Ask away.

I didn’t know this question was posted before. I looked before I posted it. I was just curious . Sorry

Really?! This question again?

Perhaps that answer is in that many commenting have had a negative experience with a bi guy.

I can't say if that is truly representative of the community but if I was a single bi guy I would be wary to share that on my profile for fear of being categorically skipped over.

To Rabbit's point; I feel that guys (bi or not) that behave in that manor lack the communication skills to be in the LS. As a bi guy, I would never put another person in that position in the midst of play, it's unfair to everyone in the group and not part of the agreements we all made before we got naked (even if it wasn't expressly discussed).

This is an issue we've brought up recently both here in the open forums and in the bisexual men forum.

I'm not sure it has anything to do with the wife knowing although I've seen a few guys who are on this site as bi SMs and their wives have no idea.

I think it has more to do with not wanting to be passed over because they are bi. Personally, we wouldn't pass over a hot couple if the male was bi curious but we would make it quite clear that Scamp is straight and there will be no heat-of-the-moment bi male play.

Our problem with bi males listing as straight is that they don't seem to take other males that list as straight seriously. In the past few months, we have had 2 different couples, where the male listed as straight, ask for MM contact with Scamp AFTER we were all naked and fooling around. It's not cool, ruined our fun and was deceptive. We have updated our profile because of this to make it clear Scamp has no interest in guy/guy play of any sort.

If a guy wants to be on the down low and list as straight then he needs to honest BEFORE the clothes come off about intentions and expectations.

~rabbit~

There's a gazillion reasons why a Bi guy in a couple might list as straight. They're extremely tenative with Bi contact, they believe that a lot of couples will pass on a couple with a Bi guy, they're being outright deceitful, they make a distinction between identifying as Bi and having occasional Bi contact, they have privacy concerns with family or work. Etc, etc. All of these are possible, and many more. Some are assholish, and others are not. Ultimately, as long as no one's being deceived or harmed, I don't see where there's a problem.

But I'm pretty sure that concealing it from his wife IN THEIR COUPLES PROFILE isn't one of them.

That is a question that ever had as well. We see profiles or read forum posts where the guy talks about sucking other guys or being used. But, somehow they're not bi.

Hubby is completely straight and does not bend. While he is bi comfortable, there will never be any guy on guy action involving him.

Just curious why bi sexual men post they are straight on profiles? Why don’t you want your wife to know as most wive’s on here are bi sexual.