Bi Sexual Men

I believe a lot of guys are afraid of the label

Like your posts Hiway and One

That’s great and open communication between you and your other half Highway we have the same. My other half knows about my bi desires and encourages me and it turns her so on.

My wife knows my sometimes bi desires and is very cool with it. I've told her I met men ...as well as couples before her. So if I tell her I'm going over to a guys house/hotel, she has no issues with it.

Well said Esperanza

I think it's incredibly sad that a spouse is so turned off by her husband's sexual orientation, and sadder still if he stays with her. Your spouse should be your number one ally.

With funly.. Those suffering for the intolerance, are hardly worth any effort to engage with, anyway. In fact, ive found that retaining my username has had the same, counterintuitive effect. Ppl will inquire why i have a cpls name & this inevitably leads to discourse, and more often than not, success.

I disagree. Those people that "cut out" we don't want to be with

It does cut off a large percentage of possible playmates.

Not true DTH. I've been on here as a bi wm for years and have had a lot of success. Sure I get occasional nasty messages but most of them are positive and I've made many new friends and playmates

My guess would be (whether married or single) putting it out there that your Bi (male) tends to be the kiss of death on this site .... just an observation

That's just what we were wondering
I just put it out there my wife and I are both bi and we love watching each other play

We where with a couple once ware the husband told me he was BI, but was not aloud to do it around her , she new he was BI and he could play by himself .It was a big turn off for her.

“ People are all different and some are not comfortable being listed as bi, but more men are starting to realize that other men are curious and want an opportunity to enjoy another mans cock. Hopefully reality becomes more acceptable”

People are all different, that is true. Maybe it’s the circles we run in and the company we keep, but I don’t see any guys that I know desiring another man as they get older. That being said, I say knock yourself out and do what you like, we only live once. Curious though, how much more acceptable do you want? They have parades celebrating it all over the country, what else could you be asking for?

I want it as long as we role play

OB, I remember your post and I defended you too.

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Who cares anymore? Just go with the flow...everybody enjoy sex...taste the forbidden fruit!

“ You have to realize how fast all the"but make" thing is changing in society and the LS. A few years ago I post a message saying men seemed to become more into birth sex as they got older!!
I got flamed like a California wildfire!! Only one maybe two big women defended me. The men went crazy!”

Maybe it’s me, probably is, however, I have no idea what “but make” is. Also no idea what birth sex as they get older means.

Wife got me to try sucking cock. Now I love olaying with other cock with her. Especially licking her while she has one inside her. Makes us both hot

My favorite is for the gal to ride reverse cowgirl so I can lick his shaft and her clit - if he accidentally comes out I get to taste her on his cock for a bit. I love to clean her and then snowball with either or both!

Love that position the most

I’m also a lucky guy. K accepts and encourages bi playing. She’ll watch while playing with herself then jumps right in and helps in anyway she can, we love a 69 and one from behind

Cuttin2dachase....Your last line says it all. A lot of guys have this macho persona and wouldn't think of his spouse/gf knowing he might be interested in having some fun with another man. My wife accepts.....welcomes, my attraction to GL men and it often leads to 3somes with them.

Most wives here are not truly bisexual . As was with my ex swinging hotwife, they get into the kinkiness and romance of the soft touch and gentle sex they find with a woman as a prelude to having hotter, rougher sex with the man (or 2 or more men) who are watching the women make love to each other. I would say they are mostly bi-friendly and they lust after men, but they like a woman's touch too. The male fascination/turn on with girl on girl sex is universal. But only a rare married, divorced or single woman perceives male on male sex in their presence as hot and sexy. Many truly swinging wives do not realize or would not approve of their men secretly wanting mm sex to be a part of their couples swinging fun. If a man likes watching his wife/gf with other men, he might also wish that his wife/gf would enjoy (and even masturbate) while watching him with their mutual male partner. Women have issues accepting that their masculine husbands and bfs are turned on by men too. The same masculine "str8" men will not profile themselves as bi or bi curious on a couples profile because their wives don't know of their mm desires or for fear of scaring str8 swinging couples away.

I can only speak from those I have been around, but it goes many ways. I openly have my sexuality mainly since I wish to be honest with others, but I wish others were more understanding of what bisexuality is, and it does not mean I will have sex with everybody.

I try to be easy of those who do not openly state their sexuality since people either face fear, or refusal. It also lowers one's chances of sex if the couple is not into bisexual guys but is happy with MFM, which to me is ridiculous as the entire point of sex is consent, so why be so fearful of the other guy you asked to have sex with your wife?

Now that I got my small rant out of the way, bisexual men as I stated before are treated differently than bisexual women, with all the bad in all the good that it entitles. For a man, the heterosexual label increases your chances of lower rejection; so why go with the label that lowers it? Sure, you may have men who struggle with their sexuality and wish to conform to this narrow template that society places upon them, but it is more likely the latter.