Episode 116 - Say It Ain't So! (Breaking Tabu News) | Monogamish Mischief Pool Party!

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Speaker1: Living the Sweet Life is a podcast intended for mature audiences only. We'll be using sexually explicit language while discussing many different adult themes. So if you're under the age of 18, please stop listening. Also, please know that our thoughts and opinions should not be taken as professional advice. We're here to answer your questions about the swinger lifestyle from newbies to longtime swingers. Or if you're just curious, we hope to engage you all and to encourage a sex positive discussion. Now that we've got that out of the way, make yourself comfortable for joining us in this episode of living the sweet life she is my beautiful sexy co-host and wife the lovely trist and he is my sexy chocolate husband and for everybody in podcast world that's her third time trying that tonight because i'm trying to fix the live but you know what it's not no it's not completely your fault it's partly mine because we haven't been live in a minute so for that my people we would like to say sorry but thank y'all so much for joining us thank y'all for listening to us thank y'all for being patient and tolerating us we really truly do miss y'all and love y'all. Ain't that right, Trish? We do. So listen, tonight is going to be a little bit of a catch up. You know, we got we got some stories to tell. We got some news to break if you haven't heard already. But and, you know, honestly, hopefully you guys have been enjoying the last episode, which was the How You Feelings from the 2025 Sneaker Ball. Yes. Yeah, that one was a lot of fun. And what we're going to do tonight is we're going to contextualize that just a little bit more, give you a little bit of what was going on behind the scenes and what it actually looked like in there. Because I in this one this past episode we didn't really do a whole lot of talking about what was around us y'all just got the straight up interviews yes which was fun right that was a lot of fun it was a lot of fun being able to do the interviews say we had a lot of first timers that did the how you feeling so yeah yeah it was it was really cool um so yeah like i said man we got a lot of stuff to get into tonight and i know we're gonna probably run over that hour so let's go ahead and get right to some housekeeping huntress yes i'm talking i'm waving at people i know you hit me with one word answers tonight that's tough when you're doing a podcast sorry i'm trying to wave go uh-huh so ladies and gentlemen all right we're gonna jump into some housekeeping so first things first man we are so fortunate to be a part of casual swinger week 2026 going down and Hedonism in Negril, Jamaica, march 14th through march 21st 2026 yes we are excited to be co-hosting this year and he know and it's going to be amazing yeah i mean last time we co-hosted which was it will be two years ago i think so yeah yeah we were exhausted that was uh that was a phenomenon it was wild it was crazy being on the other side of you know um a takeover right it was our first time hosting that long it was great it was a week yeah it was pretty long and we learned we got some lessons learned from that and but but this time we're going to be ready to go. Right. Yes. That's right. Starting with we got some exciting announcements for that. We got the theme nights. Yeah. Finally, he got theme nights. Nice. And they got theme nights. They got obviously they got themes for every single night. we got a disco night we got a shipwreck we got cyber glow i wonder how that was going to go right yeah i don't know and i think if i'm not mistaken and i have to look at this to confirm i believe that day is saint patrick's day oh i think that well see i i have my thing up on live so i can't check but i believe that saint patrick's day i think you might be right it's a glow party so they're going to do a spin on that i believe it's going to be a cyber cyber glow and then of course you got your kinky night and got corsets and casino we did that one last time so i'm gonna have to dust off that costume yes uh sweet talker confirms yes it is bingo that is definitely saint patrick's day angels and demons and we miss you too thank you for saying that earlier i was trying to wave and all the things lock was like oh oh yeah oh yeah oh you gotta do a little bit of thing called work huh sorry about i was waving at people hi sweet talkers hey sweet talkers and then we got a good old toga party now that one we haven't done that in a long time we got to go in the archives in the closet to go get that we have that that's one of the sexiest ones to me it's so simple yeah it's so simple and it's like nothing on me except for like a sheet you'll never have nothing it just feels good here so i don't know that makes. Fair enough. So everybody over there on Instagram, come on, jump over to the suite. Come on over to our YouTube channel. We'd love to have you in here giving us some feedback and comments and funny stories. Jump on over. Next thing we got housekeeping. We got Kate, our wonderful friend at Libertine, Libertine Events, W always always check them out man look join their newsletters jump on the website check her out she's always doing great things they just finished well not just finished up but they recently finished up their san antonio uh takeover and i've been seeing like pictures and videos it looked incredible there was somebody trist i don't know if you saw this video there was somebody like i think she was on a chair or something and she was doing like a split like she had her back her legs up in the air doing a split like her back was on the chair yeah and uh one of the fire guys took fire and went from one calf to the other calf of like like back to the future shit like it just like wash fire from one leg to the other while she was split. No, I did not see that. Yeah, no, you have you got to find that. We got to find that one because that shit looked incredible. That's type shit y'all miss out on when you're not going to a Libertine event. You got to check it out. Honestly, we're hoping. We're hoping. I know the schedule is kind of tight. We're hoping that we might be able to squeeze one in. Maybe get down into that Miami party next year. And that's going to be May 26, 2026. Yeah, we're trying. We're putting that one on the schedule some way we're trying it's only a weekend we might be able to do it i don't know trist maybe it's a tight one it is very it's very tight but it's totally worth it because trish when we look back at it some of our current absolute best friends in the lifestyle came from a libertine event yeah because right after covid well it was still yeah a thing actually then at that time we were just opening back up yeah like the reds thumper and bay uh the swingers formerly known as the honey spoons that's correct like these are like our people people and you know not to say that you know our casual swinger crew like we met some dope people there as well that are life life-changing friends but you know it all started for us it all started with what was pcap that's correct hey naughty jim how you doing what up naughty jim hopefully we'll be able to get to see you guys i don't know if you're going to jama or not, but hopefully we'll get to see you sometime in 2026. I hope so. Hope so. You guys are missed. All right. Here's the hard part, people. Last, certainly, certainly not least. Like I said, I hope y'all enjoyed that sneaker ball episode. Or the last sneaker ball in person. It may not be another one. Yes. It may be the last one. All right. So this may be the last 2025, the sneaker ball. Why? And here's why. So the club is currently trying to be sold. So it's kind of in a limbo to know if what's going to even happen with the club uh so yeah yeah 2025 sneaker ball may have been the last yeah so unfortunately we received the news from uh the owner of taboo that that like tris said that the club uh may be shutting down if they cannot find a buyer by june 2026 yes by june of 2026 so See you next time. said that the club uh may be shutting down if they cannot find a buyer by june 2026 yes by june of 2026 so she gave us the green light to spread the news spread the word and hopefully um that elicits some you know someone who wants to buy you know some interest in uh making that purchase she said that it's basically a turnkey operation come in open the doors, it's yours, baby, you know, for the right fee. For the right fee, yes, that's right. So anyone, if you are seriously interested, please do not start DMing us with just like you think maybe your cousin or your auntie may want to buy a club. I got some cash under the mattress. No. I mean, depending on how much. Only serious inquiries only that if you are absolutely interested in owning a lifestyle club, this is your chance to own one. It is here in the DMV area. and yeah and we will supply you the information if you really want to have a serious conversation about buying a club. That's right. We'll put you in touch with Vicki. Just hit us up at the Suite Life podcast at Gmail dot com. We do not get any commission or anything like that. We're just trying to keep our flagship club alive. And so we can put you all in touch with her or you can find her on instagram however you know just again like trish said serious inquiries only oh yeah some good memories in that place it was it's where we it's where a lot of people started right in this area exactly it does make it kind of sad because a lot of people they'll talk about, I went to the club. That's where, you know, I met this person or I, you know, met this person through this other person at the club. So, yeah. Yeah. We'll save all the tears for June 2026. And we'll make sure we get some time with Vicky and, you know, do a whole thank you for providing us a place to have sex. But no, it's so much more. Really, hopefully they'll be able to find a buyer. Yeah, I'm hoping so. I'm hoping so. So, y'all know what it is. We got some stories to tell. We're going to talk a little bit about that sneaker ball. We're going to give y'all, like I said, we're going to contextualize it a little bit for you. But first, I always got to check in with the queen my baby how you feeling you know um i'm feeling over it lately um i just feel like i'm over things that don't add value to me um and what i mean by that is that i i enjoy spending time with people that i love and that i value their time um that i spend with them together so that's kind of how i'm feeling these days i think anything spurred that on that you care to share or just a culmination of things i think it's just a combination of things right um i it may have been just like a slight comment it wasn't even that deep of just saying how your friends could be your family like could be your family doesn't have to be your blood which is what's the comment that was made right um that your friends also can be your family and i was like you know what right and it's a very simple comment but it just makes you think like what what exactly do you value right are you my family because we were born of the same blood do you you really act like family or do I have friends that act more of my family, you know? So it's just, you know, just evaluating. I think it's the age thing. Like when you get a certain age, my dad used to say it all the time. You start evaluating your friends and just things in life. He used to say that when i was like in my early 30s right at the time you're sitting there like what but i think it's true right um and to an extent you just start evaluating just things around you who you spending time with who you're giving your energy to yeah who is worth spending time away from your kids you know what i'm saying so if i'm gonna take time away from my kids to kick it with you i'm hoping that you're giving me that energy you know what i'm saying that that kind of hate to say it for lack of a better word deserves it you know what i'm saying makes it worth it yeah yeah i ain't talking about sex i'm talking about a relationship i'm talking about people that just that match your vibe match your energy match your goals yeah i feel you on that yeah it's just like if you're always bringing me something or there's always an issue when we hang out it don't make me want to spend time with you i'm just i don't have time for it as much anymore in my brain right in my brain oh you're still alive oh no we're feeling yes so you're trying to hook them got it no no no it's just like we haven't been we haven't been live in a while no for sure for sure but that's how i'm feeling so how are you feeling like me baby um real. And, you know, all vulnerability on the table with my my friends here. I am feeling like a work in progress. And I am. You know, I know we all are, but I'm definitely in a place where, you know, I'm putting the pieces back together in my head and my body and my soul, all these different things, you know, got a little bit of everything going on. And I'm trying to put the pieces back together, man. One day at a time, I'm trying to, like you said, put energy in the things that provide value or that match my values. I said that way wrong the first time things that match my values things that i find that will contribute to my spirit um and to my overall well-being and to yours you know what i'm saying like i want the energy that i'm bringing in to affect you positively as well and i'm trying to get it give it and just nurture nurture this thing this union me and you you know what i'm saying i know people i know y'all wasn't expecting all this shit y'all was expecting like some nasty talking we'll get to the nasty stuff but let us get the deep stuff out the way the emotional stuff because i mean we humans too and we're going through we go through stuff and um i say this to the people who might be going through your own stuff you're not alone you're not alone you're not by yourself i got your back and we're going to keep on working through this stuff together man so yeah my work in progress the little uh loading button is blinking under construction, all the things. But what I tell you is that by March 2026, we're going to be right. We're going to be ready to party. No, but yeah, definitely. Definitely that. I'm excited, babe, because this is, you know, 2025. five we've had a really good year and we're we're trending in a direction of finishing strong. It's going to be a fun finish.
Speaker2: Where are we going?
Speaker1: Tell the people where we're going. We're going to Thailand. Yeah, we are. To go for New Year's. Yeah, we are. And we're taking some of our swinger friends with us. And I'm trying to pray for all of them because they need it. It's been a long road to get here. Yeah, for all of us. I just trying to pray for all of them because they need it i swear it's been a long road to get here yeah for all of us i just want to get there yeah it's gonna be fun man even one of our friends is bringing her new boobs with her yeah yeah they're gonna charge her extra storage for them things yeah no we're super excited we can't wait we're definitely counting down to that um okay i think that about does it huntress yeah all right y'all so um my beautiful queen my wonderful sweet talkers are y'all ready to get into tonight's episode let's do it let's go all right ladies and gentlemen thank you so much for hanging in there before we get into our sweet talker topic that y'all decided on the last time we went live that's right we gave y'all a bunch of options and the eyes had it like people wanted uh us to talk about the monogamous canadian pool party that's right when we cross our northern border and invade with all of our sexiness and toys when they don't look in our luggage we bring in shit we're bringing in we're bringing in hardcore ass smacking devices all things all the things dildos and strap you know strap-ons and all all the fun stuff that they overlook to have a good time before we get to that they worried about other stuff you bring it in yeah we ain't worried about that we ain't doing that i ain't going that hard no but uh we don't know seriously but these days it may be something simple like soap from america to canada i mean it may be something as simple as that like why you got too much soap in your bag before we get into that crossing the northern border my people we're gonna go ahead and like i said give you a little bit of how we feel about the the sneaker ball sneaker ball 2025 first thing i'll say is damn i hope that's not the last one i really hope not why do you say that why you hope it's not the last one babe because this one was this one was the one right it's like you you had the first one okay cool all right you had the second one like all right the third one by the time we got to this one it was like we had all did the lessons learned right and it all came to this moment to be like all right boom let's see what happens with this time and it worked yeah so it's just like it sucks if it in a way right because i wrote this down too if you have to go out you go out like that that's a good way of putting it so i wrote that down true i don't want it to be the last one but if it if it has to be right that's a way to end it that's right i i agree with that like we didn't leave anything on the table we didn't leave anything to be desired no like of of course, we came out with a couple of lessons learned. But that's, you know, that's us being perfectionist as a unit, as a team. That's us working with Mr. Dependable and Paradise and us four saying, OK, here's what we could do. Here's what we could have tried. And here's how we could have done a little bit better. Right. You know, again, that's just us us being perfectionist but like you said man if that was how if that's the party to end it yeah you end it like that yeah no regrets man no regerts it was pretty cool like we took over the hotel yes um you know i think you guys may have heard it on the uh You Feeling episode. We had at least two floors. Yeah. Two and a half floors. Two and a half floors. Yeah, something crazy of like our people, you know, people from Florida, people from Jersey, people from Pennsylvania, DMV. All of us just kind of took it over did the the room crawl which was awesome yes and the people participated with the participation level was very uh uh it was just high high quality yes it was dope actually i'm gonna repost let me put that down I'm going toost some of the images action item yep oh my goodness yeah my work brain okay i'm gonna repost some of the images actually tonight once we're done with the show so you can see the rooms because they did i'm not talking about like people just put up like lights right they went and did the thing like you're supposed to right when you have a theme room they did the thing right and it was surprising because some of them this was their first time and they went all out they understood the assignment yes totally and it was cool it was really cool getting to know people um seeing everybody in the hallway um mr dependable and paradise had a sex swing, like a legit rig set up in their bedroom. Yeah. Which was awesome. And you did something really nice for them because this was also their 20th anniversary. Yes. You made like some balloons and like a shadow box for them. It was really sweet and it definitely surprised them and they were really appreciative. So that was cool it's just so funny like your friends are used to you just making noise and doing crafts then nobody questioned what i was doing at all like they just sat there in the living room yeah nobody came back and was like what are you doing are you okay like it's you're making a lot of noise back here no one they just mind their business yeah they just let you do you and you meanwhile you were setting up their surprise yes that's cool and they were right in the next room that's awesome yeah that's trust babe they trust they trusted tris they didn't even know they didn't nobody blinked nobody blinked yeah um so our room was pretty cool we set up like kinky pineapple yeah um i thought that was a nice little touch we were serving aperol spritzes which i was worried summer yeah that was our theme this summer i was worried that we didn't have enough but we stretched that shit we stretched it real good yeah whatever you wasn't over there doing the stretching it worked it did work we was fine i was like it's so fine do not buy anymore we cannot take it with us so leave it yeah that's right because we were in between uh events yes we were we we were only in town for the sneaker ball for one night because of our uh obligation to a rock concert yes when we went to louisville kicked hold on i gotta say it right louisville for two days rocked out came back on saturday party did with the sneaker ball and left sunday morning to finish out at the concert and came back home monday on monday you're talking about epic that shit was crazy but we got it done we saw the same tsa guy yeah that's so rare right like we back we saw the same exact person that when we left we saw him again when we was leaving to go home and he was like oh hey yeah i told him i was like yeah the concert was dope, man, or something. He was like, oh, shit.
Speaker2: Nah, yeah, that's funny.
Speaker3: Yeah, good recall on that one, Tris.
Speaker2: But it was great seeing everybody participate. They had beautiful sneakers. Everybody was dressed up.
Speaker1: It was a guy in the bathroom who was like, man, damn.
Speaker2: You know, I didn't know people were supposed to dress up for this thing. He was like, but next year, I'm going to do it up like y'all. You know what I mean?
Speaker1: That was pretty cool. Everybody in the sneaker ball that understood the assignment looked amazing the photographer we got some nice pictures from the photographer yeah it was really cool um what else what other big notes would you take from sneaker ball um the dj was good paradise did a good job of oh what did she do yeah because meeting yeah hold on first she was meeting with the dj just going over just like the general like music just trying to you know keep the energy up throughout the night so she did a really good job with that and then she also had a surprise performance yes for mr dependable that he didn't even know about incredible like she had practice this thing. She's had a choreographer give her, like, a parade. mr dependable that he didn't even know about incredible like she had practiced this thing she's had a choreographer give her like a a performance gave gave her actual choreography yeah uh to perform like a lap dance or just like a chair seduction dance with two of her homies two of her homies did like um you know those laser whips yes they they performed first and then paradise got up in the middle pulled him up and his crazy ass tried to take it over and like she's like no no he tried to dance for her and she was like stop it yeah let me finish my performance i got this plan you do not mess it up yes and that was really cool she was so nervous yeah she like, don't worry about it. I'm like, be your hype man on the side. Like, go. It was so cute because she's always, well, she always appears to be super duper duper confident. And I know she'd probably say that sometimes she's like nervous in some events and some spots. But she always, she never lets his show, right? Yeah. And, but this time it was leaking a little bit you know i'm saying she was being vulnerable with us and it was very cute because you could tell she was like super focused she wasn't like bouncing around with her drink in her hand she was waiting to drink and then after it was all done and she did a great job yeah oh yeah it was party on it was party time she had a great time yeah it was beautiful celebrating with those knuckleheads man love them um what else happened we saw some people we haven't seen in a long time yeah we also uh the florida crew look let me tell y'all something yeah that florida crew they came up and showed out i was like oh how are you they're like oh i'm i'm my friend from florida i was like did y'all came up here to go to sneaker ball nah that was so dope yeah it was great sitting down talking to the florida crew shout out to the florida crew you know who you are um so let me see uh after the party we tried to round up a little situation oh yes so here's the thing right we tried no no we lock and we as in me and other fellas oh sure me and my boys me and my homies yeah yeah we tried to round up a situation the ladies were down of course you know we weren't like forcing nobody to do nothing yeah and we went back to the room and we brought in a couple of you know you and i jumped in the shower real quick to get kind of freshened up and we just kind of lounged around until people got there folks came in the room also jumped in the shower then we had an extra person come in and next thing you know we chilling we were we were just like chilling like nothing got off the ground and you know me and um we call him Mr. Wanderlust um we had talked about this uh the last time we hung out with them right Tris where it's like you get you get so comfortable with a group of like your friends you don't know how to push it to the next level sometimes like sometimes it's easy sometimes it's not and you don't want to be the one to be like so we doing this you know and I think it was a few of us who were just kind of stuck in that mode of just like you know i don't think so in this situation i know i was there was there was no there was oh there was a little bit there was some other well tell me happening what happened and so one of our friends kept flirting with the other one trying to make them do stuff not make them do stuff but like kind of like almost like trooper day her kind of like all right so you're saying that so why don't you just take your pants off then let's see if you do that and i'm over here like yeah who was that mrs wonderland yeah i was like yeah you should take your pants off like i'm literally i i was like yeah you should take your pants that's a great idea right so it was just like that you know a little bit of of playful blurting things like that but sometimes you know I mean that was perfectly fine I was I was perfectly happy really with that situation just making him blush it I live for it like that whole I live for the whole thing yeah that's that's right up your alley there was yeah i live for the whole thing yeah but then we all just cuddled we did together and i was like sometimes you just you need that it was fine yeah no it was fine for you sure you can speak for yourself but i'm saying i not saying it was bad. I'm not saying it was bad at all. But I know that there was something in the air that, you know, Mrs. Wanderlust was waiting for it to go to the next level because she is a naughty little vixen. She was bouncing around, pulling out titties, and I know she messed around with my junk, but it was was right at the end it was right at the end as everybody was getting tired and it was time to go to sleep and then you and i had an early flight you had to get out of there so it was like all right it's cool you know it's cool this was nice it was nice seeing like our people these are our people and just kicking it laughing talking stuff and hugging and making out little cute things you know what i'm saying it was it was fun legit like no complaints but i know that we could have taken it to another level but so but it's all good okay yeah no it's all good like i said no problems no problems and that was our sneaker I mean, meanwhile, it was like people wandering in the room. Oh, they were partying. Who's in here?
Speaker2: Yes.
Speaker1: People were all in the hallway. They was partying. They had a party.
Speaker4: It was great.
Speaker1: Like Trish said, man, I hope this isn't the last one. But if it was, way to go out with a bang. Now, moving on.
Speaker2: Sweet Talker topic number two whoo i think it was way back in way back yonder in july sometime huntress yeah it was in july when it was still when the days were long and the sun was hot oh my gosh and the pool water was cool and cold yeah crisp to the touch all the things we took a long drive starting at midnight up to uh parts unknown in canada it was awesome right i think it did it did take us like less than nine hours to get there right uh yeah it was pretty smooth drive it was it was easy peasy i love driving and watching the sun come up get that little extra burst of energy it's pretty cool so we actually stayed at kate and liam's house this time instead of a hotel which was awesome yeah because most of the people who did crash at their spot was our homies right yeah the like i'm calling them now the swingers formerly known as the honey spoons we had wonderful couple there. We had the Dub Dons. We had Thumper and Bay. And, of course, you had Kate and Liam. Yeah. So the house was packed. Yeah. But they, you know, you don't come up in there for free. You still got to help clean up and put the house in order. Put the decorations together. You got to. Everybody got to do their part. You know what I'm saying so it was organized uh really nicely um they did a dinner for us on when did we get there we got there on friday right yes it was on friday yeah we got there early early friday morning did we take naps i think you took a nap i think we worked a little bit yeah and then got ready for dinner at some really nice italian restaurant that wasn't too far from the crib what do you think well uh first i wanted to say thank you to kate and liam for hosting right because i know hosting i mean although it wasn't like you know it's not like 100 people but hosting that just a number of people staying at your house yeah and then also coming to the house like for the party and the way that they organized each day is a lot, right? That can take a big toll just on you in general, right? Cause you want to make sure that everything's set up and everybody's having a good time. So I want to say thank you for the time that you actually put into organizing everything and hosting, because that is greatly appreciated when you do it. That's right's right for sure and obviously the house is beautiful and just great people man but like i said that friday we went to dinner yeah remember anything about dinner oh okay i thought you was waiting to say that it's an italian restaurant i said that already oh sorry okay um yeah so we went to dinner uh we It was at a really nice italian restaurant it was great to be able to see some people um i call it uh like rekindling old relationships but also um igniting new relationships yeah and the new relationships just means that we probably met them the year before um at the pool party but that was kind of like and and then some people, it was like an intro. It was an intro then. And then some people we, you know, talk to a little bit like after the first pool party that we went to and just kind of stayed in touch here and there. And it was great to be able to see them again, but also be able to see them in their journey, which was different than when we first met like a year prior to that so I was really excited to see people yeah and just to talk to everyone um as we were going to dinner um and I will say that before before we even got to the pool party because I wanted to make a note about Um, especially like this is not talked about a lot with, with parties, but with this particular party, they are always very self-aware to be able to have everyone do a most recent STI test. If you feel comfortable about sharing your results, that's fine. fine um they had a spreadsheet with all your results in it i'm telling you they didn't share the spreadsheet they did not share the spreadsheet they kept it if you wanted they just kept a log of who sent it right so if you wanted to look at something it was available my point is is that great job right of just making sure that everybody is being as safe as you can be and that you actually have your most recent STI because people don't talk about that or it's kind of like a taboo to ask somebody that, right? Yeah. So this was an open conversation that happened prior to the party. Right, right. And that does add a level of safety, security, and just comfort. You just feel a little bit more comfortable. You feel safer. And it yeah, it adds to the environment. I love that. So, yeah, basically, the dinner was like a meet and greet. Just like you said, it was great to, like, see everybody that we saw last the year prior and people that we have kept in touch with. And what made me happy was seeing the look on Liam's face he just sat back you know and just like watched and you know Kate was kind of like working the room like she does just the energy and smiling and he just kind of like sat back of course he worked the room as well yeah but he was just like admiring this thing that he did that they did and all of these friends this carefully beautifully curated group of people who trust trusted them to come to this one spot and hang out and you can just see that joy in his face and that made me happy you know everybody talking hugging oh how you been yeah oh it's just the energy was just beautiful and the food was great it was good yeah do we have old fashions or did we get like sangria i can't remember what we got i got old fashioned i believe i'm sure you did yeah yeah what am i thinking oh yeah so that was just part of day one the next part um i mean that's still day one yeah this was friday still friday right this was still friday so we had a very full day yep later on that night uh kate and liam had organized a trip to the x club they i guess they spoke with the the owners or whomever and they got us um uh the loft for this group best idea ever but that was the best decision ever it really was but this was our first time you know visiting this club yeah what did you think of it tris like the club itself like the layout the club just for everyone right so the the club you walk in it's the typical you know you check in you do the things to check your id okay cool um when you walk into what is like the main club areas it's kind of set up like a regular club where it has like vip um seating seating around it or whatever with sofas etc if you booked a vip area whatever the case and then a bar in the middle and a dj booth so that part was pretty am i tripping were there like stripper poles over there too a couple of maybe i think maybe yeah yeah so just like kind of like standard like a regular club right through that area, they had another. Make a left. Make a left at the end of the hole. Yeah, basically. They had another smaller bar that was there. And then you can walk through that, which is like an open, I would call it like an open play area where it had different beds. Basically, they had like a huge bed like in the like at the bar end and then like individual like other beds like if you wanted to do some other play and then through that it's like a glass um i don't know if it's a sliding door whatever it is they have actually a pool we didn't get in the pool i mean the pool wasn't ready it wasn't ready at that time but they do they will or have a pool that's going to be open it's probably open by now this was july that was july they were just waiting for like uh permits they were waiting for like the the city or whatever but it looked really nice yeah it's gonna be dope and that that area is going to be really really nice once it opens um and then they have the loft and they also have the locker so back there right that do yes that's the part we went so back there that's when you have to be in a towel when you go to the back play yeah when you go to the open playroom you have to be in a towel so they have like lockers and the keys and all of that you got to get changed into a towel but the loft area only people that can get up to the loft is whoever has it reserved in your particular party so if your party reserves it nobody else can get up there we have like a password and everything that it just in case that's right we did yeah it was a password we would give like the security guide in case you don't remember you or whatever the case and that's the only way you got up there so yeah so yeah describing the club excuse me yeah i think you did a great job of describing that you just missed one thing it was like there's a there were three parallel hallways right oh the showers yeah and the playrooms yes okay so it's the first hallway you know area line whatever it is when you come in that's the dance floor or the club and then the next line when you go around that corner make that that little uh make that left and you go down the hallway that's where like the shower and the playrooms were yeah individual you can close the door playroom yes and then that's where that bar was yeah if you go around that bar that's where it's like the play towel only only okay yeah yeah and they do they have a full shower i think that bar is a little awkwardly placed if i'm being honest because it gets a little crowded right there yeah it does in traffic it's right there by the door to go upstairs to that loft so you got people with towels on who are trying to get drinks and they're noticing our party going up and down those steps yes that's so it was it was just a lot of traffic you said it perfectly yeah um that's not a knock on the club it's just a little something that i noticed on that very very busy night that we bought a bunch of people and it was a friday night so maybe it was like single male night or something there was a lot of single males in there it's quite a few and they were trying to get upstairs they were they were i mean i can't blame them i can't trying to get upstairs. You got to shoot your shot.
Speaker1: You got to, you know, ask a question at least. I don't know. Even the security guy, he said, well, he asked me personally. I was walking to the bar with somebody else. I can't remember right now. But I was walking to the bar with somebody because I didn't want her to go by herself. So we was walking to the bar. and the guy asked the security, not me or her asked the security not me or her the security guard for him to ask us if he can go up to the law so he was like he was like about right hey hey slim hey slim ask them can i go upstairs with them that's what he said yeah basically i guess wow i mean who does that why would you ask him to ask us that's tough he was like i'm just asking you because he asked me to ask you and i said and he said and he told him the only way that he can go up there is if we said yes right and why would i say yes if you weren't even talking to me you're asking him to ask me you're playing the game of telephone that don't make no sense none no no he can't come up i did not know that until just now that's that's interesting no he cannot so how about that with that i gotta say excuse me i gotta say at no point did i feel like we were unsafe because of these people right however we did feel like somebody might get a little, you know, overly excited or curious. So we were sure like to like if it was four of us. Yeah, we all go. And then I pull the door behind us. Yes. You know, especially if like the security guard was off doing something else. Just make sure. Boom. Just pull the door closed behind you just to make sure no stragglers uh come up you know what i'm saying everybody was pretty good about that because it was about 20 something almost 30 of us it was easily about 30 of us it was a lot of us like at the club so that's the setup of the club so what did we do when we were there we were like we partied we partied we danced we got it was our party on the dance floor for the first part of the night you know just partying on a dance floor i did have a weird encounter but weird guess kate and uh liam had saved me me me and thumper they saved us oh on the dance floor it was like this weird couple came in oh i saw that yeah i saw that we was dancing or you know doing a thing or whatever and this couple just slides on in like they slid into the dm or something right and it was just so yeah awkward and then kate limb you know just come on over and she slides in uh-huh like i was like thank you she was like yeah you guys good yes i'm good like you saved me thank you because lord you see that i love it but the you you kind of glossed over the sexiest part of you and thumper oh i ain't there yet oh well proceed i'm talking just about the way i okay so i was minding my business y'all like i normally do of course you Of course, you never get guilty of nothing. I was minding my own business. I ain't do nothing to that man. Nobody got no dirt on you. Nothing to that man at all. Except he was wearing a collar. That ain't my fault. That's his fault. That's called bait. That's his fault. That's called bait. He was baiting your ass. Yes, he was. That is not my fault. That's your fault. You wore a collar. And you just so happened to have. had to a leash yeah i sure did because you wore a collar uh-huh so therefore i'm thinking like you wore this collar you you want to get yanked over here but he was like dancing and so he was dancing watching and i was watching him dance like i am a dag on i don't know that he was my prey or whatever you want to call it but i was like exactly yeah i was watching you watch him and how excited you were getting you were like cheering like yeah get it i just was like getting turned on watching him dance and do whatever with other people because people was like you know rubbing on i was like oh this is gonna be great right waiting for your moment to strike i was like this is gonna be this is gonna be great and then i just i just couldn't i i couldn't sit still anymore what'd you do so i went over there and i attached that collar to the leash uh the chain to his collar no words being said no words and come on over here let me let me like the daggone mortal combat game let me let me paint this get over here yes but no yeah you it was a crowd of people and it was just like you know imagine the music is going strobe lights rainbow lights and there's this big thick chocolate man in the middle of the thing with that with the with this collar and he's dancing up on somebody and and then tristances across the room what color were you wearing in my head i want to say it was like white or something i don't know i don't know but you're just watching i mean you're getting excited and next thing you know boom you didn't like run but you just like take off with pure confidence go directly to this man link that collar right to his neck he had no other choice but to go where you wanted him to go and you just pulled him maybe only like two or three feet actually you didn't really go nowhere it wasn't really nowhere to go but you wanted him to be yours and you made that shit known and it was hot i don't even know what happened after that you just pulled him and y'all started dancing or making out or dancing we started making out and then you know let's take this to loft and that's where we went so before we get into that we need to say uh how was how was the loft because i was busy i don't know like you need to get the ambiance we talking number one hey beautiful checked in and said yes ma'am you got to give the ambiance of the loft because i i can't give that i was uh oh because you were a little busy i was i don't even know what it looked like really that's awesome so yeah man we okay so at some point our entire party started going up to the loft right i think it was just that time of night yeah enough drinks was flowing everybody was flirting and next thing you know we going up to the loft and one of our funny friend couples one of our couples we hadn't seen in a long time they shall not be named because i didn't get their consent to even use their nicknames but they were finished fucking coming out of the loft before everybody got there her hair all disheveled and he's like buckling his pants and now everybody's coming up and they are heading down they were like yeah you know we had to get we had to get it going which was awesome but i say that to say like when we go up the steps the loft looks it overlooks the huge play area that opens up to that pool right you can literally like it's a banister it's like a banister you can look over and see all the beds see the big play bed and look out and i imagine in the summertime that's dope when they open up that door and you can see that pool damn there's a lot of fucking going on up there i know it like when that happens you know what i'm saying the summertime but um so that's facing outward when you look back in there's basically just one huge bed if i'm not mistaken right it was like a huge bed in the back part of oh the law yes it has space on the sides it did and it had like a couch on either side two yeah couches on either side on both sides and like a table in the middle maybe a couple tables in the middle you can sit your drink or your your lube or whatever the hell know is is that where there was a space somebody was fucking up there it was just bodies i remember yeah and they may have been hanging from the chandelier no kidding no kidding at all no it wasn't the chandelier because it was kind of like an exposed ceiling with like ceiling beams and shit like that they were fucking on those beams there was hands holding the beams and just bodies i think they were like using the beams as leverage to pull up and down or maybe i don't i don't know it was like they were holding on the beams and maybe getting uh oral sex like getting getting head or uh it was a lot i think it was the women getting the head it was just just bodies. Yeah. It was bodies. And it was awesome. It was just like everybody moving and shaking and just sex everywhere. Sex was everywhere.
Speaker2: And I would tell you.
Speaker1: Where was your sex?
Speaker2: Sorry.
Speaker1: So, I don't know why he always like talking about me like he didn't do nothing.
Speaker2: Oh, I. However.
Speaker1: They tired of hearing about me. I was busy.
Speaker2: Yeah. Yes. So, we had a a moment a couple of them we had a couple of moments I think you and I did we started I think we started we had a little bit of sex at some point I know at some point at some point first no it wasn't oh I'm sorry yeah it was at some point but no no no no you i was busy love you but no no that's not that way the events went i know the order of my dick yeah no yeah y'all definitely took over that couch yeah we took we took over this couch, and we destroyed it.
Speaker1: Yeah, pretty much.
Speaker2: We gave the couch all the business.
Speaker1: I can't remember all the positions that y'all were in. We had a whole lot of positions. But y'all had a whole bunch of sex. Y'all was just, and it was just like things happening around you guys, and people were like, can I sit next to you? And like your head was like near people.
Speaker2: Yeah.
Speaker1: It was pretty epic. it was a lot going on you can tell that y'all missed each other yes needed that energy yeah it was pretty cool oh it was it was a lot yeah it was it was pretty in a good way not in a bad way no absolutely in a very in a very good way yeah uh he and um his partner and i you know uh bay bay and i you know we we especially she right she's an energetic right so she gets like turned on off the energy of the room and seeing him play and me you know i'm classified as a quote-unquote shapeshifter so i'm here for all the things like whatever's happening so whatever's turning you on is turning me on and i think she and i we vibe on that right and we connected while we were watching y'all and while like you know we picked out like a little spot on the bed while all this other sex is just happening it's just and we just carved out a little spot and oh my goodness and and that yeah who else um dubbed on mrs dubbed on she came over at some point start fiddling around with me while i'm watching you because she's just a troublemaker she just has the energy for days like she can't be stopped that woman cannot be stopped um I'll see you next time. because she's just a troublemaker she just has the energy for days like she can't be stopped that woman cannot be stopped um and then there was another friend of ours actually she was um this was my first time seeing her our first time seeing her and her husband since the last pool party oh yes and she and i played it oh as a matter of fact y'all might remember this story she's the one who was the rookie oh her husband last year was their first like lifestyle event and they had the rookie wristband on and after the party or towards the end of the party they took her wristband off and everybody uh gave her a round of applause yeah in the silly way that swingers do uh but anyway so she and i had a moment to reconnect and we kind of like you know hey how's it going how are you doing that kind of thing and we kind of made out yeah and you know things were getting kind of hot and heavy and she asked me to finger her specifically she was like before we do this i want i want to feel this and i'm like whatever you need right so i'm like working i'm working the way she wants me to work basically holding my hand there the way that she she's riding my hand her husband comes by and like just drops a towel right underneath her because he knew what was coming next he just the greatest wingman of all came by he dropped the towel and kept on moving and then boom thank you thank me later splash all over the place all over he just knew what was up and then she and i you know we we connected and then again it was just like splash he knew he knew what was going on he was like i know my boo trust me slim yeah and i don't know where he did he just disappeared into a body uh people yeah yeah a ton of bodies just disappeared faded in um but no that was really cool because it was cool because honestly it was some people from last year who we had never seen party before like we've never we didn't see them interact in this kind of way we didn't know if you know play was even on the table with them and we could like now it was like oh shit yeah everybody was down changed down for the things shit done changed like y'all here for the shenanigans one uh uh troublemaker mrs honeyspoon was actually on her best behavior oh she was she was flirting but she did not have sex on purpose she was saving it she was saving it and she was proving something to herself that she could behave yes she did she said that she was like this no i'm gonna behave okay she was proving something to herself just so she could act up the next day people are so funny man it was really cool really really cool but no it was a great time so then that was day one yep day two let's go ahead and get straight to it man we helped set up the pool party we helped set up some stuff move mattresses i love how they just have like spare mattresses just laying around for crazy shit uh the food was awesome they had a of course a huge spread pizza it was like this big square pizza this time wasn't it oh it was phenomenal i'm not talking about litos like basically pizza on a cracker nah i'm talking about deep it was like heavy it was good it was post-sex food yeah no shortage tons of drinks um the only thing that you know um that kind of put a damper on the party was that it rained oh yes i'm glad about that yeah i bet you did because you were not concerned why you always gotta act like that it's just you that it's just me because i like to throw you under the bus because you always act like you innocent and i got friends who can vouch for me now yeah i don't know what they're talking about yeah exactly you never know what none of us no i don't know just like the other day i tried to say oh you came downstairs you came downstairs. You just sat on him. What are you talking about? Yeah, you did. See, we're going to save that for another story. You like that. But yeah, the only thing was that it rained, but that was OK. It gave us a reason to go inside and start the dance party. So the swinger formerly known as Mrs. Honeyspoon is an aspiring DJ. And she tore that shit up. She did. I was like, go, go. Yeah,ie or something back there like a corset yeah of course yeah i don't know what the fuck it's just hot she's just back there like partying and dancing boom boom you know doing her thing and then she'll you know get the music going and then she'll run from behind the the dj booth and like dance with you and like party and freak up on you and do all the bouncing and moving and then run back behind the thing and get the music going again we had a mini rape she was awesome getting it she was awesome um again they had the wristbands to indicate your play level if you were bisexual um if this was like your first time or something like that i can't remember all the colors and the indications but i just love that little bit of attention to detail it's a great conversation starter you know what i'm saying yeah uh great icebreaker um we speaking of icebreakers we did the icebreaker game which was the lock and key game again but i think we only did one round of it we did two did two rounds yeah i don't remember i don't know because i was in the pot tub and then i was on the couch so it was two it was at least two rounds i think you talked to mr honeyspoon yeah yeah yep and i I remember talking this time with the young lady who I had the first time last year. Hell yeah. her honeyspoon yeah yeah yep and i remember talking this time with the young lady who i had the first time last year oh yeah you said that you said that again she's the woman who took off the wristband yeah yeah um and we made such good use of this time just you know how have things been for y'all since your first encounter it was perfect little booking to like how things went to move back yeah to to find out how they've been and how they've grown and how they've changed and she was very willing to share you know the ups and downs and yeah you know and working through it and having a good time and experimenting it was really cool it was really cool to catch up um yeah rain indoor dash party we're partying um and then it was a bummer because you know obviously with the rain we didn't have the opportunity to use the sultan's tent oh yes yeah yeah that was fun yeah there's a lot of sexing happening in there it was stuff happening but not this time go ahead i know you probably got a note or two that you want to jump in no so you know no you're doing a good job so we we dance the night away so here's the thing guys i i i'm like my friend right i was trying to be on my best behavior and not do anything because i want the people to do whatever they trying to do you you want to share. Or do you want to just steal again? How do I steal it? No, I'm asking. I'm asking. You know, for lack of a better term. You kind of want to, let's just call it what it is, thumper, right? You want thumper to kind of bounce around people that think they got a shot. And then you assert dominance like my toy no no i'm just saying is that sexy to you no that's not what i'm doing actually because we had this conversation recently um and my intent is to because and this is like real talk we've actually had this discussion um my intent in those events i'm self-aware is what i'm saying i am very much aware that when we interact with each other it becomes this it could take up the whole space and i don't mean like space is as in like literal terms like on the couch you're not taking it even though you did take the whole well yeah but not in a literal term but we can our energy can take up a whole space and that could be intimidating to someone who may be interested in him and think that oh you know like they have this thing i don't know if i could talk to him and have that with him or in the same way right so i intentionally during the party on saturday was trying to keep my distance from him because i knew we still had some leftover energy that we needed to to get out right but i'm like there are so many people here there were people there on saturday that wasn't there on friday right so this is a different crowd as well on saturday there are more people and i'm like you know i see people fluttering around there obviously you can tell when people are or are debating right if i'm gonna take my shot or not or let me tiptoetoe and put my toe in it and see what happens right i can see that happening so i'm like let's see what happens with you know some of these other people so that we don't take up the space and when i've had this discussion recently actually about it it was just that um nobody shot this shot it's like you know that's on that's on them that's what i'm saying so nobody shot this is what he's saying like they have to be confident enough to come up to me and and you know and say what they want and make their intentions or whatever it is right like that's not on you to like you know let like wait for the people to figure out what you're gonna do or not right right but that's how i feel right because we can literally take up a whole space so yeah so enough time went by man enough time went by and i was like look ain't nobody trying to make no moves right i'm trying to seal this deal uh we got unfinished business and we got unfinished business ain't no need for me to wait until no midnight ain't nobody trying to make no moves that's true that is true because right right to that point because remember it rained that's right it was hours so right to that point the sun quote unquote was still up even though it was raining but it was still daytime right so everything got pushed forward yeah right so now we're indoors and it's like well we ain't got nothing else to do but fuck yeah it's like we're indoors we dance we did all that nobody's still making nobody's making move because everybody was like letting it be a slow burn but tris was like look we've been in here for hours yeah and i'm like i don't need to stay up until 12 1 o'clock yeah for to no moves. That's a great point. Me, I'm going to knock this on out. Yeah, daytime play is a thing. And it was nighttime. Yeah, it was still early. It was early, though. It was early, but it was not daytime. It was nighttime. Okay. And it was just earlier. It was maybe 8 o'clock. Right. So he was dancing on the dance floor and again you kind of just went through y'all start dancing and then next thing you know y'all your bodies became one on the dance floor it was like oh well there they go and like you disappeared well we disappeared to any in each other on the dance floor but didn't y'all go to like the couch y'all went to the couch first like in the no um we went downstairs so we went we decided we're gonna go and do the things we had a conversation that's what you saw on the couch right okay i knew y'all saw you and then we went in and well i went and got stuff uh-uh don't you dare take don't you take this part of the story from me you went and got stuffed my ass so y'all had your conversation i'm i'm going to tell this now that i know what was happening okay dance floor makeout session super hot makeout session and i'll explain to y'all why i observed all of this makeout session then y'all went to the uh the couch yeah had your conversation quote unquote all i know y'all was that he disappeared he was gone and from my vantage point i could see trish from behind a wall butt ass naked sprinting i ain't never seen this woman sprint butt naked to grab the bag like in a mad dance shuffle. You were going too, my friend. You were going. You sprinted, grabbed that shit, went around a corner and was gone. Gone. Disappeared. I was like, yo, she is going to get it for this one. That was hilarious hilarious I can't let you live that one down bro like you sprinted to that dick like I got this motherfucker downstairs he ain't getting away bro like I got to hurry I got to go it was all things to finish yeah yeah you did but no it was awesome it was really cool and okay so the reason i saw all this stuff is because i was a bit of a slow burn i had been you know drinking and looking around and i'm like all right i don't know where i fit right now so i'm kind of like just wandering but i obviously part of my joy is watching tris so i definitely got to see the full story unfold as you ran downstairs so yeah so we were downstairs Thank you. But I obviously part of my joy is watching Trish. So I definitely got to see the full story unfold as you ran downstairs. So, yeah. So we were downstairs doing what we do. Yeah, you were. And we were gone. So we were downstairs. Y'all were hiding in plain sight. Y'all were right there in the main area on the mattresses surrounded by the couch. In theory of our minds is what I'm trying to say. We were gone. We were in a euphoric state because we didn't even notice the people even sitting there. I don't even know how long like Bay was even there. She was there. Now she was hot because I came down there to, you know, to watch and I'm watching her watch y'all and she's like playing with herself watching y'all and i didn't even want to disturb her so i kind of just like sat there and like got under a blanket and just like was just enjoying the show i was somebody else there it was somebody else there you're right it was it was another person when we were coming out yeah not literally walking out i know when we were coming down coming down i noticed the other person there right but no when we was in it let me tell y'all what when you were you in that euphoric state you don't see nobody you see you just see that person that you are in there with it's like being in a honestly it's like almost like being in space i was gonna say like a kind of space like in like if you were to take yourself and put yourself in space and it's just like just like uh stars and like just darkness it's like a it's it's it it really is a space that you're every time when we go into a euphoric space i see the same like it feels the exact same way is what i'm saying it's like you are physically here but it feels like you're in like this very like just space type of like atmosphere that I don't hear a lot of the other stuff and I don't see anything. But what's right here until we start coming back down. And then I guess when I'm like more aware is what I'm trying to say. So it's just yeah. Here we go.
Speaker3: Here we go.
Speaker5: Here we go.
Speaker1: Here we go. we start coming back down and then i guess when i'm like more aware is what i'm trying to say so it's just yeah sounds magical that sounds fun yeah so yeah it is a it's a uh because it's not just having sex that's the thing it's not like oh oh just having sex and and all this or whatever the case it's just it is it's a different right um in that regard like you're not like making love but you're oh it's not that either because that's a different feeling also right like i make love to you that's not the same thing this is not that is what i'm saying but it is a different it's a different space it sounds like an amazing just like i don't know how to i'm not going to classify but it just sounds like a great connection like yeah you i don't know maybe just beyond that i have no idea like it sounds awesome it sounds like you're having a good time We had a great time so i was you know we didn't did we just smashed the wall did thing all the things you were sleepy and i said you know what it's time for me to go to bed yeah because again it was it was kind of early early ish it wasn't super late you know swing or late like 11 uh 11 o'clock when play got started, right? Yeah. So you probably went up at like around 9, 9.30ish or some shit like that. I think I went up at like 9.30.
Speaker2: Yeah.
Speaker1: And I went to sleep. You went up, went to sleep. I came to check on you and kind of hung out with you for a minute, got my shit together, and then went downstairs myself. It was like, all right, okay. And then one funny thing is, I think it was Kate that told me she came in there or somebody came in the room because they was trying to find a room to fuck and I was asleep. So she cut the light off so I can't finish sleeping. So you can go night-night. Yeah, because you went to sleep with the light on. I did. I was tired. Yeah. If you weren't there, somebody was going to be fucking in our bed. They was going to be fucking. They was like, I'm trying to find a spot. That's awesome. So, yeah, man. Yeah, while you were napping, you know, I kind of got my shit together, went back downstairs and was like, okay, I'm just going to hang out here and just check out the vibes. And at some point, Bay and I think it was Bay. Yeah, because, yeah, it was Bay and i think mrs dub don were going at it in a great way right yeah so much so that the fucking television was about to like fall on her head fall on them so i kind of like held the television up in place while they were like going at it it was it was pretty awesome it's pretty epic and it made a lot of people horny it was just a lot of people just kind of like laying around watching what was going on um and then i got beckoned over by mrs honeyspoon and you know she and i have a great like connection when we see each other like we hang out it's nothing i'm not going to even sit here and try to compare it to what you've experienced but she and i we know like all right you ready i'm ready you ready i'm ready let's go you know what i'm saying like let's go and we connected right there at the end of the couch but there was another lady right there who i'd been flirting with who had given me some of the best hugs that night um and you know we know her from other parties but this was our first time really like partying with her and her husband um in this kind of environment like legit um and those two were near me right so me and mrs honeyspoon were at the end of the couch like we're standing at the end of the couch so i'm behind her and i'm giving it to her and i'm looking at the other lady and biting my lip and she's biting her lip while some guy's going down on her and that shit was just sexy mrs honeyspoon is like you know where she's having a good time we're having a good time we're like tell telling each other like you know we always i don't know it was just sexy talk about like oh this is so good when we touch when we connect you know we're talking shit yeah that was really nice so when we disconnected you know then the other lady kind of wanted to have sex as well again there's a guy going down on her so now she's going down on me i'm still standing at the end of the couch while she's going down on me she's she's sitting on the couch with me in her mouth and a guy between her legs and just sex and her husband is like over there i think somebody was going down on him or he was it was crazy it was just bananas and then she wanted me inside of her so the guy i think he wandered off the guy who was going down on her he wandered off and then she pulled me inside of her and i swear for god it was like this that's some good pussy it was like you know we hadn't we had never connected before so this was our first time like experiencing each other and the way she looked me in the eyes We'll see really good time everybody took a beat we took a pause it was other sexy shit happening you know um i think i came up and i actually told you about it when you were kind of like sleeping and i don't know i don't know maybe i told you the next day i can't remember i think you told me the next day when you came up no no that's right when i came back i'm about to tell myself i'm not i'm not done with my night yet though okay so before i went back up there i think just kind of like lounging around another beautiful lady that i all i wanted to connect with last year but um we didn't have that opportunity right um and honestly quite frankly she told me no and i applauded her for it and i still feel the same way about that it was awesome right she and i started flirting again and um we had been flirting a little bit throughout the night and she said you know um that we were she was kind of waiting for me to ask. Yeah. So I kind of asked. And then we found our way back to a room where my wonderfully juicy squirty friend was already in there with Mr. Honey Spoon. They were on the couch, not on the couch, on the bed. So me and this other woman, we kind of got a spot next to them. But we only did some soft stuff soft stuff right we didn't even do like the whole shebang we only got into some soft play and it was phenomenal we both felt we left feeling really good really refreshed while our friends was fucking right behind us making all sorts of noises and squirting and juices flying it was a phenomenal ending to the night then you know kisses and hugs and we snuggled and cuddled and talked and made sure everybody was all happy and good went back upstairs to go lay down with you because he was like oh it coming in the bed and i wake back up your little ass wake up and i'm like hey i was like i'm ready to have sex no you are not about to get up at 1 a.m talking about some hey i'm back that's exactly what happened i was like i woke up it's like one o'clock and i was like oh energetic i'm ready let's go but i think we did though we did you was like all right you got the last little bit out of me man you got the last little bit out of me yeah it was it was a great way to finish the night connecting with you for real like it really was that's exactly what happened i woke woke up. Got nothing left. Ready? Go. Nothing left. He was like, hi. Hello. You was like, no. Like, what are you doing? No. I'm going to party. You could. Oh, a chipper. It was all late. Like, damn it, 2 a.m. You're crazy. You're crazy. But no, that was that was pretty much the end of the party like um from our perspective i'm sure there was people like continuously going yeah those dub dons they don't fuck around they don't stop and there was another couple in there who actually are were content creators and they started fucking before anybody did oh yeah they were fucking on the couch during the dance party while somebody was filming them yes and we was dancing around dancing around them nobody gave a fuck nope it was cool they was doing anything minding their business but it was really nice they were really pleasant nice they're really pleasant yeah so yeah i mean that that was our like canadian adventure i think the next day we helped clean up we got everything in order but um i think we got rid of some of the pizza i think we ate the last little bit of pizza and people came back to collect some of their items that they might have forgot i still i left some sunglasses up there but it's all good um and then we hit the road man yeah we had to get going um but yeah so again like you said at the top of the show man thanks to kate and liam for hosting yeah um you know we hope to get the golden ticket again next year man such a good time hopefully it doesn't run into our other trip we gotta make that shit happen nah it was it was a really good time but i mean i know they went above and beyond for this one because they because they had their year booked up they did with a bunch of their sapio tour shout out sapio sapio tours um make sure you check out whatever they got going on their website news yeah they just launched actually the 2026 yeah yeah so check out their dates because their party their their trips are amazing they actually are what we hear like we haven't had the opportunity we have multiple friends we have multiple friends that's been on these trips um from different friend groups so if you can go right especially if you are bougie person we say that lovingly i do i say that very lovingly like if you are a bougie person that is looking for luxury and and all of the things yes yeah to be well taken care of because that's what they do they take great care of you and and book the most amazing spots yeah um they do a great job about the itinerary like we have not had heard anything you know anybody not having a great time right right um but yeah even if you're not bougie you just want to go on a really nice trip hit them up hit them up and that's outside of just going to your regular resorts we love the resorts but hey that's not for everyone they They take you to Crete and Portugal and all of the different places. Greece. Yeah. Every place. Right. So definitely we want to try to make it on one of their trips. We literally need to not plan anything and just wait one of these years. Stop it. Not to it. Just stop it, Trish. But yes, I i'm happy but yeah um can't wait till next time look folks um we hope to talk to y'all again really really soon we really appreciate you and we'll talk again later bye again we'd like to thank you for living a sweet life with us to everyone who couldn't join us live in the suite check out our podcast on iTunes, Spotifyify google play and iheart radio be sure to subscribe rate and review feel free to email us at the sweet life podcast at gmail.com you can also follow us on instagram at the sweet life podcast and on twitter at sweet life pod don't forget to subscribe to us on our youtube channel at living the sweet life podcast so that you can be a sweet talker the next time so do you have anything else to say to our lovely guests you next time.