Episode 113 - Too Old To Be Hot?! | MFM Story Time!

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Speaker1: Living the Sweet Life is a podcast intended for mature audiences only. We'll be using sexually explicit language while discussing many different adult themes. So if you're under the age of 18, please stop listening. Also, please know that our thoughts and opinions should not be taken as professional advice. We're here to answer your questions about the swinger lifestyle from newbies to longtime swingers. Or if you're just curious, we hope to engage you all and to encourage a sex positive discussion. Now that we've got that out of the way, make yourself comfortable for joining us in this episode of living the sweet life she is my beautiful sexy co-host and wife the lovely trist and he is my sexy chocolate husband luck and ladies and gentlemen this is episode 113 thank you so much for joining us in this one and i'm not not going to front right in front of me. I got the finals. I got game seven on the iPad. That's right. So anybody who decides to join us in the suite tonight, I know the struggle. I know the struggle because I am living the struggle right now with duality, living a double life. And, yeah, this first time they are coinciding like this. Right, Trist? With the six whole minutes that he has left. Yes, correct. But, y'all, this is going to be a very interesting night tonight. We're going to do some, speaking of duality, we're going to do some double duty. We're talking a little bit about an extended how you're feeling from trist and then we're gonna get into some uh naughty business uh all orchestrated by miss trist herself it was not orchestrated by me at all actually no you know i like to throw you under the bus yes you do at every opportunity i get but uh before we get into all the good stuff and all the crazy stuff hey let's go ahead and talk a little bit about some housekeeping so uh like we mentioned on the last episode y'all it's time to start getting yourselves ready get them summer bodies or well i guess early spring bodies yeah in order because we're going back to uh hedonism in jamaica for casual swinger week 2026 that's right we are on board and we are excited to be back uh behind the lines and helping out with the people helping mickey and mallory casual swinger and all the other hosts and uh all the wonderful crew the people coming through to hang out with us in 2026 that's going to be march 14th through the 21st and it's going to be a week-long party yeah it's going to be the same week as saint patty's day that's right so you know saint patrick's day is going to be lit uh but yeah nah it's going to be the perfect way to kick off your spring kick off your spring break all the good things man get your sitters lined up because i know we got to kick off the year yeah for sure not yeah that's right this is gonna be a blast and we're excited to be going back we got some friends who said that they are ready to go ahead and swipe the cards and book the flights and they ready to come because we coming out there and yeah man this is this is exciting we're excited to be going back out there so honey go ahead and uh bulk order the sunscreen and um what are those little hydration things yeah liquid ivs liquid ivs the throat coats all the things the throat go ahead order all the good stuff let's get that shit started let's get it started yes what else we got going going on? We got the sneaker ball. So we have the sneaker ball. The sneaker ball is coming up. That's going to be September the 20th at the Taboo Social Club. That's here in Catonsville, Maryland. Again, we're going to do a little bit different than last year. We try to get better and better every year that we're able to host. So this year we're going to do the hotel crawl we probably do more than one room uh that is the goal but it will be september the 20th it also is celebrating mr dependable and paradise's 20th anniversary so it's gonna be great it's our fourth sneaker ball yeah man it's gonna be the fourth sneaker ball and we plan on again it bigger and bigger every year. So we know some people already reached out to us, said that they were coming through. We look forward to seeing everyone. If you have any questions about the hotel, where to stay, where the actual hotel crawl is going to be, please reach out to us and let us know. But we look forward to seeing everyone at the Sneaker Ball on September 20th. listen man that party is going to be dumb and i mean that in the best way right it's going to be epic we're talking about 20 years of paradise and mr dependable that's a long time to be married man they hit the double decade mark y'all they hit the double decade mark and they deserve to be be celebrated. It's going to be incredible. We're going to pull out all the stops for those jokers. Yes. One night, one night only. Y'all come on through. Come on through. That's right. September 20th. It's going to be crazy. And then we'll be also planning some other opportunities to go to the club and kind of promote the event as well for people that are local to come come out or to the sneaker ball and join us yeah man have a good time it looks like a sweet talker says in the ig chat actually says that long time listener first time tuning in live thank you hey i appreciate you jump on over to the youtube jump over to the youtube because we're gonna come off of ig soon but yes jump over to youtube come in with your questions and uh all your comments and all your laugh emojis we want all the good stuff come on in so but we have a few other uh local and not so local events that we'll be going to as well and trying out actually a new ls club in canada next month oh yeah we're We're going to club we're going to go to a new club next month so we'll be able to give some feedback on that yeah looking forward to hanging out with all of our crazy canadian friends yeah man and side note if you've never seen the x club heard of the x club but have you uh but you have heard of wanderlust swingers check out their youtube YouTube channel. Kate just posted an awesome behind-the-scenes look at the X Club, which was very helpful to us because we'd never seen what the club looks like. So we took a look at that video, and now I'm pumped. Yeah, I'm excited. I'm excited to go. That BDSM room looks really dope. Anytime we get to go to a new club, I'm excited to go and try it out just to see. Because I like to see the little quirks and the differences between like what they have to offer.
Speaker2: That's right. That's right.
Speaker1: And it's going to be cool to be there with all of our naughty Canadian friends. Yes, indeed. Yes, indeed. All right. Well, that's all that we have for all of the housekeeping.
Speaker2: Right, baby? Mm-hmm. All right. Well, cool.
Speaker1: Let's get into the crazy stuff. Oh. i did do a full paw look at you you was working on je ne sais quoi you was like you don't say that i said i guarantee you i did i didn't say you didn't say it right i didn't use it right i don't know but anyway uh let's see um oh right before we get into all the crazy stuff y'all know what it is man i gotta check in with the boo so my beautiful queen how you feeling you know i'm feeling good look one more thing before i get into how you're feeling it looks like sweet talkers saying that they did some renovations and it's looking pretty good uh and the pool is coming in august we won't be there for the pool part oh right right i saw that on the video oh okay at least we'll get to see it though yeah yeah i'm looking forward to that uh they're talking about the uh renovations to the x club okay yeah so i'm excited to see it i don't know what i'm wearing but oh and another sneaker ball note listen if yall are a fan of the show and y'all ever heard of us talking to and about Sweet Talker number one, she is going to be in the building. I'm pretty excited about that. I am very excited. Sweet Talker number one is coming through. She talking about the plane tickets. Oh, boy, y'all. She coming through for real, for real. Come through, come through. Yeah. Yes. I'm excited to see her because it's been a while since we've seen her actually in person yeah so shout out sweet talking number one can't wait to see you yes all right now all right now how you feel how i'm feeling yeah okay so i'm not gonna get into like the details and the things but i like today i still find myself chuckling a little bit from well this morning this morning. It wasn't even yesterday. Oh, well, no, it was definitely this morning. Technically, it was this morning. Yeah. So I've never seen grown lifestyle men afraid. So we have been talking about this literally since we woke up, like, this morning from the other morning events. But, yeah, I've seen some grown grown lifestyle men that are were they scared of or we they were scared of a of a woman yeah i mean i'll tell you guys i'm not even over exaggerating they might as well been locked in arms no no no no not might as well have been we were yes and was like And was like, please don't leave me. Don't leave me. It was a total buddy system. Don't leave me here. Just stay right here. Total buddy system. I was like sitting here like these grown men are like scared. They're like, no.
Speaker2: Terrified. Don't leave.
Speaker1: Listen, there was a human hurricane walking around a swinger party and all of us were terrified of getting our doors blown off. We was hiding in bathtubs, going to the basement. It's like, I got to go to the shower. I got to go to the bathroom. I got to do this. I got to do that. It was every excuse. We're going to give more details on that one.
Speaker2: Yes.
Speaker1: So I thought that was funny. This is how you're feeling. It's just laughing, actually actually at the events oh that happened oh boy let's see one second guys we'll be right back on the live show give me one sec this is what happens when you have live show right and lock will be back in a second and then we'll just jump and start back over again hi hi sweet talkers if you're just joining just waiting for lock to come back into the room we had to uh fix a technicality so he's coming back into the room just give us one second here there he is hi so lock how are you feeling um i'm a bit frazzled at the at the current moment it's gonna be a nice little bit of editing we gotta do awesome everything's just going swimmingly right now uh so yeah it's gonna be a lot of editing this video is definitely getting dropped and uh moving on um all right ready again to tonight's episode let's do it. Let us go. Thank you so much for hanging in there, y'all. This has been an adventure already. So tonight's episode is going to be based on pretty much like a life story that Trist has to share our comments and feedback on this nonsense we'd like to impart. And we want to see, you know, how you guys feel all about it. So, my dear sweet queen, take it away. All right. So, this conversation, this is an actual conversation that happened that sparked like side conversations with Locke and I as well. So we were in a conversation actually with one of my family members and it was my dad. So we mentioned on the last show that, hey, you know, we want to get more into just talking about a conversation that happened with my dad um so lock and i were it was a random conversation actually it wasn't like we were planning or to talk about this or anything so uh in the last episode i mentioned how my dad views uh girls and boys differently the double standard is the double standard to just how it is right with him you know he's he grew up in a different generation of time but um this particular conversation was about women and kind of how we're basically washed up i think it was like at 50 So at 50, you know i'm i'm just done there is no nobody's gonna want you you know in that way if you're not married how did this come up how did this come up uh it came up because we were talking about um we were talking about just women like being married is basically what we convers, the basis of being in a relationship is what it was about. And just dating, being married and about being deceptive. That's that's where it sparked from, because I was making a point in the conversation that that there's room. Like, if you're going to be out here in streets, you want you know date this woman that woman whatever it is then be up front with the person to say hey you know i want to be in a open relationship non-monogamous relationship something right and you know i swear when i said that he looked at me like i had like two heads why would you do that why would you tell the person that you know that they'll that'll hurt their feelings i said well it'll help their feelings if you're sitting here lying to them or having them believe something differently and then i where it went from i was making a point that then this person just wasted their time with you right like we're wasting years however long it is with you for something that you do not plan to give them that which is a relationship right go ahead no no no no say something i am i was you you read that right no um i wanted to kind of pause there and kind of dissect that just a little bit that thought of well you might as well lie to him why would i tell you yeah why would i tell you that i want to be in a non-monogamous relationship what is that all about yes i think the the old school thinking is like if you even say something to that in that kind of light, in that regard, that means you're not happy. the the old school thinking is like if you even say something to that uh in that kind of light in that regard that means you're not happy and that means that hey you might as well let me let me sleep around before i start cheating on you i think that is kind of that old school thought do you think it's something like in that in that vein that uh kind of um that maybe he is afraid of or like you know because that's ultimately why people lie is because they're afraid of what the consequences are for telling the truth yeah and i just i think that it's more of i i like at this these aspects about the person right um and and this is like my comfortable like home base type of thing right but i also want to be a part of this life like you know like a part of other people and things like that and i don't think i can have both in that aspect because they look at it as a as cheating basically like and it's and it's but you're still cheating like if you don't tell the person you're still you're you're still cheating on them and it's still being deceptive it's just a matter of are you going to be up front and say now like at the front and say hey you know i just want to be in a uh ad like a you know a non-monogamous relationship And I was going in to explain to him and this is where this conversation was going without trying to show all your cards without showing my lifestyle card was that i know friends that are married and this is how the conversation out ends up going that have um they have relationships with other people he's like whoa why would do? And their inner spouse is OK with it. Yes, because they know about it. They know about it. So, you know, go ahead. Again, I think the immediate reaction that I that I hear in that story of like, why would they do that? It's a vulnerability. It's an insecurity of why would they do that? Like, why would they do that it's a vulnerability it's an insecurity of why would they do that like why would they let that happen they're okay with that right meaning i'm sure okay you're gonna put it in he probably puts it in like the first person perspective too he probably thinks of why would i allow that to happen why would i allow my wife to do that you know because of why or or why not right because i think she's gonna leave me or i think somebody's gonna be better than me or i think you know all these old school um ideas of jealousy and you know whatever those those first ideas that you have to confront when you just getting into the lifestyle. Correct. Correct. So, yeah, he can't even cross that border of thinking. No, because he's like nobody. And then the comment was nobody would ever go for that to be in a non-monogamous relationship. And I was like, yeah, they would. Like if you're up front with the person, you tell them what it is that gives them it gives them the option i said the problem is and i'm saying this and like in the car the the problem is is when you take away the person's power to choose and then you deceive them oh yeah right then that makes it worse because they're going to find out it's all and all it's going to happen at some point. Right. And then you've wasted all of this time. So that's that let down this other rabbit hole that we're going to get into. Go ahead. Keep going. But that let us down the hole of just saying how ageism in general. Right. So we take that conversation and I'm trying to dissect it and i'm questioning him you know i'm questioning his thought of why deceiving someone is better than telling them the truth telling them the truth up front or even asking or even asking yeah because you never ask the person if they would be okay with um again we're not talking about sleeping with this net person just because you want that's not what i mean but if they would be and i think that's probably what he thinks right yeah and that's that's not what i'm saying at all what i'm saying is is that that there are we know because we're in a lifestyle you can have a non-monogamous relationship and it'd be in a respectful way uh-huh right yeah and that part is where he can't he can't comprehend comprehend and get past that totally old school because he's thinking not only with his his man dick he's also thinking from old school women who are who you know the women of his generation my mom's generation your mom's generation of like that's my man yes you know it's my, you know, the women of his generation, my mom's generation, your mom's generation of, like, that's my man. Yes. You know, it's my family, you know, all that. But those motherfuckers was cheating. Yes. He was cheating back in the day. Got side babies, all the things. Yeah, you know what I mean? So it's wild how the cheating culture is always going to be more accepted than lifestyle. Well, for now, for now, anyway, like for now, I'm not going to say it's always going to be, but it always has been widely, widely more accepted. That's correct. Any kind of ethical non-monogamy. That is that's absolutely correct. and that's exactly where that conversation was that's what it was coming what it was given for sure yes absolutely so then uh the conversation goes uh a little bit takes a turn into just women in age right of it being well i mean you you just gotta know that a man a man can date you know be older he can be you know 50 60 years old and Thank you. being well i mean you you just gotta know that a man a man can date you know be older he can be you know 50 60 years old and date and he will want to date a younger woman you got me paranoid every little noise i hear now he's like he would want to date a younger woman but a woman once you get to 50 you've done don't nobody want to date you so so and i was like yeah so what we're saying is is that because and all of this is in the same conversation guys it's not like it was like different days same long ass car ride same car ride in the same conversation that all of this is happening um so So he says that you know men it's okay for men because men uh you know that society accepts men dating younger women uh etc and a woman you know we basically have an expiration date is what he was getting at and that expiration date is 50 for us um and i said well well why do you think that and he just shushed me off and said i'll be okay because i'm married already so there's a lot to unpack we got i'm just giving the summary i do want to get i have bullet points to these i know i'm just saying like there's so much there you know what i mean so much meat It's just like, you know, with every sentence, it's like we could tear every single sentence apart. And, you know, when we're talking about having a peak age, it all reminds me of, rest his soul, Kevin Samuels. Okay. And this is the guy, ladies and gentlemen, if'all unfamiliar with kevin samuels uh he's a guy who passed away maybe two years ago now but he made a living on youtube dismantling single women and they would call him on youtube live looking for his approval on their dating situation and i don't know why the camera's out of focus um on their dating situation he would just lay them out you know you're too old you know you're you're uneducated well you got too many kids what make you think you're gonna be able to get a man what make you and he would lay them out and tear them up but for whatever reason these women kept calling them but still call them they kept calling them and and he would tear them apart look i'm not gonna speak ill of the dead but i'm just saying like this is his math this this was his method yes and uh people found it hilarious some people found it to be mean he got hate mail he got love mail and it was just wild uh that culture and that's kind of what this was given also and yeah go ahead so i say that to the lifestyle right and this is where this conversation actually went for me with it is that is there an expiration for women and i think and it could be for me that i'm thinking with my lifestyle mind because i have and i said this to my dad actually i actually lifestyle part no i didn't say lifestyle part what i'm about to say i actually said this out loud to him i know 50 year olds smoke shows yeah that are 50 years old that would blow a 30 a 20 something year old woman out the door blow easy easy out the door and he looked at me no no that's it no i'm serious i know 50 year olds that will blow a young woman out the door any day any day and the reason for that um and he was just like well well no i said no because the maintenance is different right i believe that the women especially in the lifestyle and it could be again me thinking of my lifestyle brain because i don't know you know a normal 50 year olds it's not a lifestyle that a lot of my friends are lifestyle so i i you know i i can't i can't speak to that so with my lifestyle brain i think that there are a lot of 50 70 year old women that are smoke shows yeah man i mean look i'm trying to be like them when i get older you know what i'm saying you hang out with a hot crowd mama so then i say that to him and he looks at me like with like his eyes are like why probably and look at me like that's not possible i was like no it is he was like well are they married you know and i was like well yeah yeah well they don't have nothing to worry about because they're married anyway so let's talk about that and let's talk about that part that i was getting that's where i was going with that i don't think that because you're married and and then and again i know that you know people can debate this i don't think just because you're married i still think that there's a certain type of maintenance and upkeep with that right that you should be keeping up with yourself not to say i'm married and i'm like oh i'm married so it don't matter if i'm you're 50 60 however old you just love me for me that's great in theory yeah i just don't i don't think that that should be true no i mean i i agree with you right um i agree with you. And to an extent, I do understand. I understand the idea of you suppose you I love you no matter what. Right. You you have been pregnant. You have been 40 pounds overweight because of a kid. Sure. And no matter the circumstances, shorty, it wasn't nothing out of my mouth you know saying anything other than you look great i love you because because i do and i did you know what i'm saying and so i get that like no matter what you look like i'm going to love you you know what i'm saying but i do also understand that maybe it's an insecurity in me that i want to always try to look my best present my best even though it's not like i don't go shopping and shit but when i'm naked i'm trying to present that to you in the best possible form that i can give you i eat my own my fair share gummy bears and you know snickers and butterfingers and all the wonderful things but i do have that insecurity of you know i want to look good for you yeah but i just don't think i think that lifestyle women are are maybe changing the way that you and i just think not even just lifestyle women honestly i just think that women in general are taking care better care of themselves okay is it just women no i think people actually uh but i'm just saying to his comment right but uh people in general are just taking better care of themselves when you get past like you know when you start in like not just our generation, because if we're doing lifestyle, lifestyle people are taking better care of themselves regardless of generation. And I'm saying that because there's, we have older friends that are still, they looking good. They still, they looking good. But then if you take that same age bracket outside of the lifestyle are you seeing the same things and that's where you know because our brain goes we're we're in a bubble right where we're seeing all of these different generations so we could be could be right we could be a little bit skewed in our opinions about how a 50 something year old woman presents presents yeah um could be you know but i ain't complaining about it and you know that that's on the i think that's on like your dad like that's on him to have that closed-minded view of it and to have that kind of life expectation of life and happiness and what marriage is hence why he's single yeah and and that's okay it's not to like change his mind like about how he because he's he is who he is at this age but um it was just really to have the conversation right because he had he was having a conversation i was just replying to what he was saying yeah basically it's not like i randomly bought this up and and i totally cold heartedly disagree with him because if let's say god forbid we weren't together right today we weren't together today i guarantee you that i could get a 20 something year old guarantee you i can get 60 something year old and i say that because i got cat daddies all the time trying to holler and i got young men trying to holler you know that I'm not even checking for. Right. So and I think for me, especially as a lifestyle woman, if I'm just looking for me from a perspective of I wasn't married, I ain't not trying to I'm not. I wouldn't be dating any of these men to marry them. I don't need you to marry me, but I will run circles around them is what i'm saying like without a problem so i don't think that i'm i'm past my prime at 50 i think that i'll still be i'll still be getting it yeah you still be walking still be running still be lifting still be eating pretty good you know what i mean um and i think that's the yeah that that's kind of what it all boils down to like lifestyle isn't just the sex part it's also a lifestyle of taking care of yourself presenting well having the confidence all these things mix in to create a very confident person who is out running around and making cool choices and having a good time and uh yeah and i know some of my 50-year-old friends that got younger boyfriends so it's like i was i was hitting him with all of these points that he just it just was not he could not grasp like i mean that's what it all because just could not process like what i was even trying to tell him in this long ass car ride no it was definitely going over his head but yeah so so what's the message to lifestyle people for lifestyle people i don't think that ageism is a thing right i believe it's a thing i don't know i don't say i'm saying as for women for a woman to say in this conversation to say you're 50 and you're done and lifestyle is not is not true right that is what i'm saying that's that's it's just not the case right i think that it all comes down to how you maintenance yourself right and then how you present and and move from there yeah that's just me and my lifestyle brain but i don't know but uh so yeah i mean what are your final thoughts on that part because i know we have another topic no i gave it i pretty much gave what i thought you know what i mean is is it's more it's more than just an age it's the confidence it's the maintenance and like i said you know i bottled it up to lifestyle isn't just sexy stuff. Lifestyle is how you're taking care of yourself and how it all relates and ties into you being confident overall. And so, yeah, no, it's like ageism is a thing. There are people out there who are afraid of an age, who see an age and say, oh, they associate an age with certain characteristics or mindsets or whatever and they'll bypass people because look tris like one day we're going to be 50 we're getting you know we're about to hit the mid 40s range right so people are going to have their ideas of you know there's a what is it not young swingers week anymore it's young keto spring break or whatever it's called whatever it is we're gonna fuck around the age out of it you know what i'm saying but that's just based on our age they're not going to see us they don't see that we live lift weights and we take care of ourselves that's just an age thing yeah so yeah ageism is going to be it's going to rear its head towards us one day but fuck that you know because people are going to miss out i think that's it you you set yourself up for missing out on some wonderful people if you uh you know put the put the age limit on it but i think that also for the lifestyle if we if we're talking about that, the lifestyle has changed.
Speaker2: Like, people have changed.
Speaker1: So, like, when you're coming into, like, us when we came in, for example, right, you had a lot of older people that were kind of like, you know, these really, really older groups. but if you look at from where we came in and that kind of like generations of people that are still in the lifestyle, those are going to be the people that's going to transition into that older crowd. But we're going to be hot because I just think I don't know because you're doing it because no, it's just it's just I'm saying as far as because we do take care of ourselves because you got to think about it when people first think of. i'm not saying this to be like oh this and that when people first thought of swingers let's just say that they think of older people like this is back in the day right that these are going to be old people just that and the third things have changed as the ball goes down the line years Whatever the case you're getting these other generations that are coming into the lifestyle and it's a thing of taking care of yourself having the maintenance distance and that and i'm not talking about maintenance as far as you know getting a whole bunch of surgeries that's not what i mean i'm saying that people are eating better they're doing different things more active in their lifestyles those are the things that's going to be transitioning that age group into these 50 60s that's going to look completely different than what 50 60 used to look like that's all i'm saying i understand that and that's true yeah so i think we beat that topic there let's go to our next topic um okay uh yeah no um see sweet talking number one says she's right yeah i'm right okay yeah right um yeah like the groups that we used to see when we first started, I don't defend it. I cannot definitively say what those age groups were. All I can say is that those people, when we first started, there were more groups that were older than us. We came in fairly young, like in our 30s. I know they were 50, 60, but there was now 40. OK, but I'm saying is we didn't take a poll. Right. We don't know. So, yeah, there were older people. Right. There were older people. And just as the way it goes, like you said, you know, this grouping, this generation of folks, as we do age, We'll be right back. older people and just as the way it goes like you said you know this grouping this generation of folks as we do age we are going to you know we are taking better care of ourselves and we're going to bump up but there's also above us it's going to still be a group of older people and one day we're still going to be old you know what i'm saying there's no running from it that's all i'm That's the point I'm trying to prove. We're still going to be old you know what i'm saying sure there's no running from it that's all i'm trying that's the point i'm trying to prove like we're all going to get old where there's no running from that shit and it depends on it like am i going to be that old wrinkled dude with the cock ring running around at the at the resort you know and then am i going to be with the group of other old dudes with you know uh, we're all old and we're just here to be naked. We're not trying to bang no young 40-year-olds unless you get lucky, your old cat daddy, you know what I'm saying? Or you're just there to be a part of the lifestyle. So I think it all moves. It's all going to keep going to the right. And the better maintenance you take care of yourself, the more you're going to look like you're on the younger side. You know what I'm saying? So, I don't know. It's all genetics. It's working out. It's so many, so many different factors. But the point is to put a bow on it before we move on is that it doesn't matter. It doesn't matter how old you are, no matter what your dad says, no matter how primitive his thinking is when it comes to what a 50 year old is. That shit don't matter. It don't matter in the lifestyle and it don't matter outside of it. You know what I'm saying? That's his old school thinking. And that shit is no longer relevant. True is no longer relevant true facts man all right so folks let's get into when your friend comes to town smiling all right so see here's what happened this is we're gonna get into a uh sexy story because we like to end with sexy stories every now and then uh so our friend came into town and this is totally friendly yo listen like we had no intentions of anything happening none there was just dinner we were just planning on kicking it and having a nice little dinner i promise you know he came without his wife and we was like okay cool yeah we've played with him and his wife before multiple times plenty of times has some wonderful sexy escapades and uh brand new experiences all sorts of cool shit with them right but this is his first time coming in town without his partner yes and we ain't think nothing of it nothing of it there was no there was no ready bag no ready bag was ready unshaven there was nothing that nothing we just was like we're gonna come in we casually dress it and we're just gonna have some dinner conveniently next to his hotel but that was a coincidence that was coincidence that's just that was all coincidental that we chose a place that was by his hotel we didn't know oh shit this is walking distance for him yeah oh it's like cool you know thinking we're just gonna go out it's nice to see you let's catch up and hear about the trips that they went on and and all the things that's what we thinking right guys so we arrive at dinner before he did and we down, and then we see him come in, and we like, hey, he comes in, and this motherfucker's, like, shining. Let me tell you. Let me give a description. Let me tell you what. That motherfucker came to the dinner ready, and we wasn't ready. We ain't had no ready bag, no nothing ready, but he came ready. and tell you his hair was like was was like slicked up like all done up to the point shining face was like all clean shaven he smelled great you know head on it's like button up shirt look good i was like oh yeah you would think it was like a first date yeah you would think it was straight up we're meeting up with a single dude first date and he's trying to put on his uh put his best foot forward we're like man no dog we know you yeah we're like you could have came in some rags in a robe and we just kicking it yes yes you know we're sitting there like you know how oh you got dressed step the game up step the game the game up. Step the game up. I see. I see. So we order food. We having drinks. We chilling. The whole nine. And then he just kind of lays it out. What does he say, Tris? He says, so I, you know, I talked to the wife. And we're like, oh, cool. How's she doing? You know? All the things. Miss her. All the all the stuff right and um so she she's like oh she's okay with it he said if you guys are okay with it yeah if you guys are okay with it she's okay if you know if if we want to play it was like come again i was shocked i was completely shocked And like um i was thrown off i'm not even thrown not thrown off like you know oh my god like offended or nothing but i was like oh really and then i kind of left it to trist you know to make the decision to make the call here and i'm like't. Listen, y'all. I knew that Tris was going to be like, no, not tonight. I look over. This motherfucker turned red and was like, I mean, I'm saying, what are we going to do? What time? And my jaw hit the ground. Where are you trying to go? Where are we leaving i was like the fuck i didn't even shave my balls man like what are we doing all right okay i guess you know shit i don't i guess i don't need shaving balls and this is when you could like he literally said that at the table right and then you could say this because you're friends this is your friend too right i was like damn it just like uh it was like you know when got no bag we we we don't this was just dinner he said it's okay it's all right everything i got everything at the room i got y'all good yeah and we're like oh oh okay number one said tris said we what oh damn i can't even read my what we doing I don't eat heavy no don't eat too heavy yeah so just knock this shit out Let me lighten up on the garlic. You know, let me, you know, no seconds, no dessert. Don't eat heavy. No, don't eat too heavy.
Speaker2: Yeah.
Speaker1: So just knock this shit out. And then that was that, right? We had dinner. More laughs, of course. More good storytelling. More catching up. All the good stuff. And we got the fuck out of there. So did we drive or did we walk? Yeah, we drove. We drove over.
Speaker2: Yeah, yeah.
Speaker1: Yeah, we drove over to the hotel. That's right, we did. We drove over to the hotel. Because I had on heels. And heels and yeah we shimmied up in the uh and then through the lobby and all that so the crazy part was there's two things like you had just told me in the house oh i think you should wear heels i did yes because i was like no i was going to wear my slides like my little cute like flip-flop sandals and he was like no uh-uh not for this particular guy no you should wear you should wear heels and i said all right cool so i wore like these like a skinny stiletto like heels or whatever yeah and i was like all right i'll just wear those so that was kind of like the kind of ironic part to that and then we walked through the lobby because i know my man i know my man like the heels yes and i wanted to make sure at least he got to see you in some heels and you get to fuck with him because you know truth be told he's kind of one of your subbie i kind of got that domi subbie relationship yes so then we go back as lock was saying through the hotel um and the hotel is having some corporate corporate event or something there are people in this lobby like it was like a ball yeah there's like people like just around like drinking and and whatever the case at the table and this is important to the end of the story is why we're saying it i don't remember what the end what that is but we'll get there yes so the people are there and there's just one table with like just like with people that are right by the elevators so we go to the elevator we go up to the room and yeah man he was ready he's ready um i think we kind of all just took turns like going to the bathroom yeah washing up a little bit getting kind of cleaned up and he and i were I don't know. he's ready um i think we kind of all just took turns like going to the bathroom yeah washing up a little bit getting kind of cleaned up and he and i were in the um we were sitting out and it was your turn to go in i think you were the last one and you came out with nothing but your heels on if i'm not mistaken right yeah i remember that shit right yes and then we both kind of just proceed to just like come here you know we just kind of not we didn't like hound you yeah but i kind of sit back i always do i always like to sit back and let things kind of um take place kind of transpire you know what i'm saying so i think y'all two started like making out and it was like a standing situation, right? Everybody was kind of standing up. And then I came in and we kind of sandwiched you standing up. And what were you kind of feeling at this moment? Like what, what was your thoughts? Were you excited? I was excited. You know, it was different. It was like totally organic. It really was. Because I had no, it was organic for us because I had no idea. No clue. no clue what was going i didn't know that this was going to happen at all but apparently he did so he's ready he was ready he's the only one ready so this was totally organic and i was like we're just gonna go with however this is gonna flow i have no plans i don't know what's gonna happen and we've done an mfm before yes but not by ourselves not like a straight up mfm yes in the room like because the other mfm we had the wife his wife there was kind of hanging out taking pictures and all that this time it was legit just us three that's correct yes and how did that make you feel like were you nervous were you excited i was not nervous i was here for the shit yeah you were i was like oh oh this is what we doing today on a tuesday night i don't know what day it was i'm just saying did you feel in control yes or did you feel like we were kind of slobbering over you no you know what i mean no i think y'all kind of just let me have the the you know grab grab everything kind of the reins and and kind of just guide through the actual escapade the situation so i i i fairly liked the fact that you know you came in you would sit out you know you would look you come in then you would kind of sit out let us kind of do our thing and then sit out it was kind of like that good like tug of war yeah uh with it um and one of my other favorite highlights of it is like so we have a thing again like we said that um he is uh one of my subs that i have subbed before i wasn't playing to none of this but i had a high heel shoe you know you know i wore high heels and i figured so just saying y'all need to watch out for this woman right she's like fucking batman no she's like i'm gonna age myself macgyver like anything could be like turned into like a weapon or some shit because like okay so we're skipping we're kind of skipping around a little bit let's get into some of the nitty-gritty right so we're sandwiching you and then i think i i move out i take a couple pictures i move out and i let y'all lay on the bed yes and y'all just kind of like rolling around i think your shoes kissing yeah of course yeah like it and he would like go down on you and you know and i would come in behind like over your head while he's down on you and i'm playing with your nipples because i know that's your spot that's the thing like that drives you bananas yeah and he actually tried this new thing um that i actually i liked uh as well and you've done it too before but i i think that this is a thing that i like so he was going down on me and he would like um at the the like the very top of my hood just like kind of like it would be like hover over it kind of like blowing and licking like touches. I stole that from his wife. Oh. I got that move from his wife. Shout out to the wife. Yeah, I think I got that from her.
Speaker2: Yeah.
Speaker1: So he would do that, and it drives me absolutely mad.
Speaker2: Yeah.
Speaker1: I don't know what it is, but it does. I was like, oh, okay, let's go. And then with the nipples and that, I was like, oh. And then he slides up you, right? Let's go and then with the nipples and and that i was like oh and then he slides up you right like so he was going down knowing that he's up and kind of just like almost missionary right making out and you were i think this was the second time so let me that was the second that was the'all still standing. Yes, that's true. The first time y'all still standing and you looking at me and you give me like the eye of like, I do, I do or something, right? That's what your mouth looked like. It was saying like, I do or I need you. I need you. And I'm like, oh, I love you too. You know what I'm saying? That's not what I'm saying. No, no, motherfucker no no motherfucker my shoe my shoe get my shoe so i read i'm like oh and i grabbed your shoe and she takes her high heel and stabs him in the back with it yeah we need that yo listen that shit was wild yeah you need that so hot it was so fucking hot you should say like his his pains got so hard he needed it that was awesome and see like i love that i love the fact that you know what you know you got that connection like you know you know i'm saying you know how he works you know how he operates and he knows at some point she's going to impart pain on me i don't know how i don't know when or with what kind of i ain't bring no toys nothing but you improvise you found my shoe give me my shoe shoot stabbed his ass and it was dope that wasn't the last time you did it so now y'all laying down on the bed and y'all rolling around and again I don't know how you got it I don't know if I gave it to you if it was just on the bed but you grabbed it and you stabbed him in the back with it while we was having sex too yeah bananas cause I like messing with him look at what sweet talker number one So, let's see. oh bananas because i like like mess with him look at what um sweet talker number one says oh he was ready yeah yeah he was ready to go and you could say we probably turned him a little red too uh uh during the whole episode yes yes so yeah man um yeah so yeah i mean i think now the bodies are moving and you're going down on me while he's having sex with you and but you know it's pretty hot bodies are turning some kind of way i jumped inside you then and honestly tris i'm not even Anyone be down for some kind of crazy shit like if you was going to try to dvp it crossed my mind i didn't ask you know i didn't ask but it did cross my mind i was like yo maybe you can pull this shit off tonight because everybody's super like horny and just juices was everywhere and uh i was kind of wondering yeah what do you think what do you think maybe one day or mean, you know, never, you know. I can watch it, all the things. I mean, you never know, you know what I'm saying? Yeah, never know. So you got to ask. Never know. But anyway, no, it turned out to be one of the sexiest nights ever. Like, it was really cool. It was super sexy because it was a surprise, totally unplanned. You know, it was supposed to just be a kick it, but it was great because it was comfortable. Because, you know, it was really low pressure, low pressure. It wasn't any kind of, you know, no cock rings, no, you know, no. What is it? Swinger insurance? insurance yeah it's nothing you know nobody trying to impress and it was just three people who've had sex before having sex you know having a good time like you trying to do this i'm here too like let's go exactly exactly and what do you do when you're done bye-bye i guess oh you call your friend's wife oh yes in facetime, we did. Yes, we did. We sure did FaceTime her. She was such a good sport. She was like, hey, girl. I'm glad y'all had a good time. I do wish she was there, though. She makes shit fun, too. Yes, yeah. No, this was this was his time. So do you think this was something that we did for him, with him? Or was it for you or anything? You know, it's a good question for him, actually. Like for me, I was just like, I'm here for it. Like I because I had no idea. I was not thinking to do this or to any type of regard to that but i wonder if they talked about it and it was something like that he just wanted to try right out that's a good question for him yeah so we're talking number one says those are the best play experiences for sure like those impromptu ones when you just everybody's just wheeling and dealing and just shit just happens you know it sure did just happen it's fun i was sitting there like oh my goodness so then we wrap up and we go uh to leave and the same people it was sitting at that dang on table they was kicking it was still at that table and now we we coming downstairs we made a little bit the shovel like you know you try to fix it up. Walk of shame. And I was like you know what I'm grown. I don't care what these people looking at me. We proud. Prance right past those people. I'm right. The two of us we went for three up and came to it down. Good night. Bye. Have a good one. I know right it was three of us that went up but i mean that could have been anything we could have went up there just to you know have a cocktail or some shit we fell asleep yeah all things yeah right but all good man so yeah that was fun um memories memories and pictures pictures i definitely got pictures i got some good ones of you stabbing them he really enjoyed those too he really enjoyed them too i think that's like a rule of thumb though like if you have a a threesome with somebody's partner you gotta send the pictures right yeah you gotta send them the picture something yeah some type of evidence or it didn't happen oh like but no that was a it was a great experience like i think that if people can try it like you should do especially when there's minimal planning right i don't know how it would go like somebody was like oh i want to experience this and then there's all this now people get nervous like planning around it or whatever the case it but this was totally unplanned and it went swimmingly yeah swimmingly hey sweet talking number one thank you so much for joining us tonight we really appreciate you and we are counting down the days to see your beautiful face uh thanks to everybody who has listened to this episode this has been fun we will catch y'all next time bye again we'd like to thank you for living a sweet life with us Thank you. 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