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Living the Sweet Life is a podcast intended for mature audiences only. We'll be using sexually explicit language while discussing many different adult themes. So if you're under the age of 18, please stop listening. Also, please know that our thoughts and opinions should not be taken as professional advice. We're here to answer your questions about the swinger lifestyle from newbies to longtime swingers. Or if you're just curious, we hope to engage you all and to encourage a sex positive discussion.
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Ladies and gentlemen thank you so much for joining us in this episode of living the sweet life she is my beautiful sexy co-host and wife the lovely trist he is my sexy chocolate husband and tonight ladies and gentlemen we are entering closer and closer to episode 100 this is episode 99 99 yeah yeah we're excited we're excited this is this has been it's been a long time coming tristan we are almost there to the major milestone yes the 100 episode we finally have an idea yeah what we're gonna do and it's definitely gonna be on sunday yeah we'll be pumping all the it's gonna be on a sunday on a Sunday, not this Sunday, but we're going to do.
And it's definitely going to be on Sunday. Yeah. We'll be pumping all the things. It's going to be on a Sunday. On a Sunday. Yeah. Not this Sunday. Right. But we are going to make sure we advertise it because we're going to make sure we have a lot of sweet talkers in the suite. And it should be fun. And you never know. We might have some guests in the studio. We'll see if we can get some folks up in here to hang out with us, y'all. Squeeze them in here. Yeah. I don't mind. They could get in nice and tight. Get in close. You know what I'm saying?
out with us y'all squeezing the head yeah i don't mind they could get in nice and tight getting close you know what i'm saying but again thank y'all so much for joining us in this episode this is going to be a fun one this is exciting um but first y'all know what it is gotta knock out some of this housekeeping don't have a lot today um stay up on all of the newsletter All the information for our friends at wanderlust swingers at libertine events check out everything that my home girl kate has going on she is a real og that's what we talking about tonight but she is a real og she's legit she's on top of her shit and stay on top of whatever she got going on sign up for the newsletletters.
Y'all gonna see what's happening. I think the San Antonio trip might be all sold out. Yeah, I think we talked about that trip is all sold out. However, they still have rooms available for Miami for next year. Yeah, yeah. So get up on that. That's a hot ticket. That's a good one. That's a fun trip. Let's see. What else we got? We have Snickerball.
Go for it, baby ball go for it baby tell them about sneaker ball coming up where uh living a sweet life will be there in person we are going to be one of the hosts and that date is september the 14th so come out with your sneakers come party with us make sure you stop by and you say hello yeah yeah and what we're going to be doing what we're going to be doing right before sneaker ball uh right before sneaker ball we're gonna do the same thing we did last year we'll just invite some of the sweet talkers in you can be on the show have your opinion no face no case none of that you're just going to be able to hear your voice on the show sweet and greet it's a sweet and greet so we're going to have some questions um we'll have some light uh refreshments and be able to hang out and you can meet some of our friends who knows you may meet some people that you you already know right that's right man the sweet and greet it was a blast last year man so we're hoping to have a nice little turnout maybe even a little bit more people man so it's gonna be a good time have a nice little conversation uh like trish said meet some folks have some snacks before the actual sneaker ball come through come through uh here's a big one for housekeeping i know we haven't done episode 100 yet but we're looking forward we're always looking forward right trish yes to episode 101 101 this is gonna be a big one y'all we're doing an interview with Roderick Stephens of the Open 101 this is gonna be a big one y'all we're doing an interview with roderick stevens of the open documentaries called open a journey through love check them out on instagram at open journey love we met this gentleman uh sitting poolside at uh libertine the libertine event last year last Last year, yeah.
In Miami. On our way home. On our way home. Like on our last day when we were fully clothed. Yes. Getting a roadie, getting a nice little drink to get out. And he wrapped us up and we started talking. He told us he was putting together a documentary and, you know, something that was going to represent the lifestyle.
And we're lifestyle and we're like okay cool yeah and i'll be damned if he did not do it yes he did and he sent us the link which was great right because you know people could be just talking trash we don't know if you're really gonna do it or right if you're really gonna be about what you say but he did he sent us the link and um the video from what we have looks really good no it is very good like no i mean it's very good um it represents the lifestyle better than just the the old like uh swinger videos where you just go to the hotel yeah he sent us a 10 minute clip um and said that they're working on shopping the documentary around.
I'm going to let him tell y'all more about it. But they're shopping the documentary around to find festivals and things to view it. So stay tuned. But listen, we're going to be sitting down with Roderick on the 21st of July. That's going to be a Sunday night. We're going to set it up. Y'all can ask questions.
Y'all can hear what this man has to say uh him and his his partner and it's going to be a blast um the documentary the description if you check out their instagram says a documentary seeking to be uh i'm sorry seeking to de-stigmatize non-monogamy and examine the profound positive effects it can have on people and relationships. And if y'all listen to our last episode, it was about us coming out to our kids. And by the time I got to see the clip that he sent, I wish I would have had it for our discussion. Right. I thought you did. We did good. I agree. I agree.
No, we did good we did good yeah but it was it was so well done that it can definitely just that 10 minute clip can be used as an education piece it can be used as a topic of discussion it showed people one that we knew it was a lot of people that we knew yes uh in the clip and some familiar names you guys are going to know uh one of our most infamous sweet talkers duchess cashmere she's in it uh you got um our friends at normalizing non-monogamy you got our friends from naughty gym you got our friends mickey and mallory from casual swinger it's just a ton of you know people that he flew around the country to interview for this thing um as well as like you know doctors and things like that it's very very well done and again it's something that i think once it's all done bottled up and packaged it's going to be a great conversation piece it's going to do exactly what out to do and de-stigmatize and just you're going to see so many normal people who live this lifestyle i'm excited i'm truly excited one to talk to him and two to see the entire duration of the movie yeah it's going to be great so stay tuned for more details on that again uh set your calendar for july 21st we'll make sure we uh keep on pumping and let y'all know it's gonna be exciting i'm excited um i think that's it for the how you feelings right yes you got anything else nope hmm all right cool you saying hmm like i forgot this is it well moving on y'all know what it is listen before we get into all the crazy stuff because there's some good stuff coming oh uh before we get into all the naughty business y'all know what it is i got to check in with the queen so my beautiful queen how you feeling okay so i have two how you feelings so today my one how you feeling we're going to puerto rico so we're going to puerto rico with our kids but we're also going to go meet up with some of our lifestyle friends i will get into that later in this episode to talk through that but um we are going to puerto rico and and they brought up the fact of going to, like, a lifestyle club.
I had no idea that they even had a lifestyle club in Puerto Rico. It wasn't even on my radar. They're everywhere. To look it up, right? So we're going to this club, and Locke happens to look up the theme, the theme for Saturday. And I said, look, the um look the theme they sent it to us in an email oh okay well they said it's in an email but the thing is it kind of threw me off it kind of put a bad taste in my mouth i'm just going to say that because it's kind of really old school it has the whole girls and it says girls dress in lingerie come see them.
First of all'm a woman secondly i don't want to be just looked at as why i gotta just say girls dressed in lingerie why can't just be like lingerie night come dressed why they gotta be pacifics on the girl part that's that's all i don't like that part so that kind of rubbed me the wrong way about this particular part i mean we're gonna go i'm not really sure i'm gonna really participate in this whole lingerie thing i yeah i don't know i just feel like it's so old school like let's just say lingerie night that's a theme night and keep it moving it doesn't have to be so stigma on women that oh just look at them so anyway moving on my other how you feeling is about this guy and how he got caught with his little dirty old man joke that he made so we stayed at a hotel uh recently um to have a play session we can talk about that sweet talker chimes in hello sweet talker uh they said that ew that tells you about the demographic the club caters to yes it does i just yeah i don't know yeah um we will see and we will report back yes we'll definitely report back on the club but um so we're staying at this hotel and we'll get into that story in another episode, but particularly this guy, Locke, here, I'll tell you what happened.
We're walking down the hallway to go to our room, and for some reason at this hotel, the doors were just ginormous. The size height of the doors were just huge. Big entries. And it's like long hallways and these huge doors to your room tall ceiling and it's really tall so i make a comment and say oh my gosh these are really tall doors he go lock that's he gonna say that's when she's no that doesn't no no that's exactly no it's not no it's now what you're gonna try to tell to try to tell me, that's not what happened. That's not what I said. That's not what you said. Why would I say?
I said the door. Trist, why would I say to their really tall doors? No, I said that. I know that. I said, why would I say to the phrase, these are really tall doors? That's what she said. Well, big doors. I used the word big. You just said, these are really big. Okay. Or it's really big or something. That's what I meant. Yeah. Okay. Really big doors, tall doors.
The doors were big you just said these are really big or it's really big or something that's what i meant yeah okay really big doors tall doors the doors were big okay you just said and he gonna say well that's what she said the point is is that he tried to make a dirty joke and tell him that's what she said he's cracking up didn't notice that a woman you were didn't notice that a woman was behind him she was in front of us she was not she was walking towards us no and we crossed paths and we were left no she's behind you no I was in front of you no you cannot know I was okay you're going to say that, and then you didn't notice the woman, and then she said, I heard that and started laughing, and you was cracking up some more because she heard your dirty old joke.
That's right. That's right, baby. Because he always makes these jokes to me. Yeah, and that shit's funny. It's not funny. Yeah, it is. You laugh. You're a black-ass lie. You're a black-ass lie. You know you laugh. It's not funny. That's the only reason I do shit.
I do shit because you laugh your black ass lie your black ass lie you know you laugh it's not funny that's the only reason i do shit i do shit because you laugh at it i cuss loudly because you laugh you find shit funny when i get uh erratic but that's how you say it so you're like that's what she said yeah and then you laugh you say it just like that anyway god you just ruined the whole the did you need to let me tell my story the way i tell the story from my point of view it's just terrible not yours but it's not terrible it is when you say the door is big why would i say that's what she said because that doesn't make sense there's a big old door i said it was a big door i know babe not you but that let's please move on moving on sweet talkers what do they say uh do not do that's what she said to tris he does it all the time that's playfully artsy yes i do hello beautiful how you doing all right so how are you feeling i forgot how i'm feeling no i am that's what she said joke is always funny thank you from our friends red and ready man they are but it's not no damn door that's not i said the door No, Tris but that's not that's not the joke that is not when you put the door anyway i am excited for the trip also um i'm excited about seeing our friends who taught us a lot of stuff right without even knowing they were teaching us a lot of stuff but i'll get back to that right we're going to talk about that uh a little bit later in tonight's episode which is what we talking about babe from newbies to ogs yeah yeah um but my overall how you feeling it's a public service announcement people guess what i am a conquering guy now that's right i've decided i'm a cochran guy i decided i'm into it i'm into it i like the pressure i like the feeling of it um i've tried out a couple of different ones and i'm excited about it like i've i've tried them before once or twice but i think i'm just like i'm i'm in cock rings and old man jokes got it check mark who said that you did i did that's you talking shit i did see someone says uh playfully artsy mrs playfully artsy says those are so sexy oh thank you see i got a fan no but that's my shit though i i like the pressure I don't know.
I don't says, those are so sexy. Ooh, thank you. See, I got a fan. No, but that's my shit, though. I like the pressure. We got one from our casual swinger bag. Yeah, that was a new one. Yeah, that was the new one. It was like a red devil one, like little horns on it or something like that. I wore that in this latest story that we're going to tell. Yeah. And it was really nice.
And I have this other one huh sorry to cut in your story a sweet talker says that this is my first live i caught but i will have to listen to the episode later thank you thank you for joining thanks for taking the time to join really appreciate it we love it we love having you um but yeah no i just i like i have another one that's thick and black i think i got that one down at secrets when we first went there that was kind of i know that i'm pretty sure i just was not sure yeah but i'm here for it i like having the options i don't know if i'm gonna step up to a silver one yet oh yeah we've seen those i don't know those make me nervous about being able to get out of them.
But I don't know. We'll see. We'll see because I'm a conquering guy now, man. All right. I think that's it. That's the public service announcement. You're welcome. Thank you. For everyone to know. Yeah. What's your bad joke telling self? Ladies and gentlemen. I tell good jokes. My sweet talker is my beautiful queen. Are y'all ready to get into tonight's episode?
Let's do it let's go says the person that didn't write it thank you so much for hanging in there folks Trish drives me crazy but that's my boo I swear I love this woman y'all uh listen man all right tonight is gonna be fun tonight's gonna be fun tonight's gonna be fun we talking shit about the new people but kind of talking shit about ourselves too tris huh because we've been in this game for over 10 years yes 10 years of exploring ethical non-monogamy the lifestyle swingerism whatever you want to call it so i think we've hit that og status i guess so what the hell does that even mean like what does og status mean do we get discounts on shit right like uh like aarp and uh like when you go to movies and you hit the senior citizenship you get like senior discounts how about this i just really quick right so that uh so i get credit for this i just want to get credit that was my joke i said that because you said i don't tell good jokes i just told my joke you didn't yes i did you didn't say that out loud not in a pre-game anyway yes do we get i had my shit written I just told my joke.
You didn't. Yes, I did. You didn't say that out loud. I did. Not in a pregame. Anyway. Yes, I did. Do we get. I have my shit written here. I get credit. Trish, please. Thank you. A new membership card. You fucking up the whole rhythm of everything. And do we learn the OG handshake? This is all my little bullets and you fucking it up. Anyway, what happens now?
Yes yes someone says a swinger citizen that's fantastic uh well played well played yeah the secret handshake is a good one anyway so my sweet talkers how long have y'all been exploring ethical non-monogamy or the lifestyle okay we we've showed our cards 10 years right tris 10 years ups and downs back and forth all that good stuff that we're going to explore in another episode so at this point how would you describe a newbie what is a newbie right people identify as newbies all the time but what's the criteria like what's the cutoff here is it how much time you've been uh exploring this lifestyle meaning like you go from zero months to two years are you now a vet or an og even if you haven't done anything but you you'd be like exploring and thinking and maybe talking having the conversations when does newbie status start i'm asking you tris when you enter the lifestyle what is entering that's see that's what i'm talking about entering the lifestyle is walking through the door of a club of a house party party whatever the first lifestyle experience is whether it's going to a lifestyle party going to a just a resort any of that whatever that first encounter is doesn't matter if you did anything or not you were in the environment of it that it was identified let me clarify as a lifestyle event or a party not that you were at your friend's house and people got drunk and we had orgy or they had orgy that's not that doesn't count not no because they could just be freaky people that just got drunk is what i'm saying that's not a lifestyle party that's interesting that's that's a very interesting distinction that you're making and i want to push back on that one because we've heard of couples who ended up in kinky situations they've been in relationships and they've had a threesome you know but it don't count that's a threesome i would say that shit counts right i don't think that that's really lifestyle that's just like you you're just having a freaky episode that's correct okay then what's how you saying that it has to be defined as a lifestyle event it has to be written on the brochure you have to know where you're going it is is it any lifestyle just written on a brochure hey come most of the time it's no it's just this classifies a lifestyle event that's what i said it's written on the brochure yeah you take yes oh i thought you meant like literally like i'm just saying like you just know it's promoted as a lifestyle event um let me see sweet Sweet Talker says, I think it's based on the number of experiences.
We've been in lifestyle for six years, but we still feel like newbies because we haven't had enough experiences. That was number two. Number two was level of experience or experiences. Thank you very much for that one, Sweet Talker.
That's exactly my point on this next bullet, because, bullet because like that's perfect like you have a couple who've been exploring or thinking about things for six years but they have very few uh experiences maybe because of their geographic location maybe it's not a lot of people in that area who are down with the get down you know what i'm saying or maybe they're just not into it or lifestyle you know like uh they're super busy yeah super busy and you don't have time to make a bunch of friends and go to a bunch of different clubs or go to a pcap or go to a casual swinger week or whatever and but i so would you say that they are they're still newbies because they they haven't you know had a bunch of experiences experiences?
Well, so here's the thing. Just because you've had a bunch of experience, because you have people that's just down to fuck, right? DTF, right? Just because they've had multiple experiences doesn't make them experienced. Does that make sense? They're just doing it because, oh, I like to have, I want to have sex. Oh, you. I would disagree. That doesn't mean because they've had 20 bodies in a year that makes them experienced. I would disagree. I would say that they're experienced, but that don't make them knowledgeable. That don't make them a good resource.
No, what I mean by that is they have experience.
They're're doing things but that doesn't mean that they're a good resource for education on how to execute or not execute but how to build friendships from it because they're just dtf they're just they're people who want to go to a club meet somebody maybe not even know their name have sex and go home they have a bunch of experience in doing that and closing deals yeah but maybe they don't know how to you know foster friendships and build so you know they don't know how they don't know like or maybe they they're not good at sharing all the ins and outs so would you say i would say they're experienced but i wouldn't say that they're necessarily knowledgeable and i could say the same thing uh about somebody who has I don.
Okay. And Sweet Talk says that, OMG, I was literally typing experience is different from knowledgeable. Bingo. Okay. That's exactly what I'm saying. You got experience, but I might not want your opinion on like.
So you just got experience having sex with a lot of people yeah yeah you just have experience experience is experience but knowledge is different you know um so okay and then the third bullet um would be play style does play style have anything to do with whether you're a newbie or not and this one i think is part of the old hat or the old guard of lifestyle and how people would believe that you graduate from one level to the next okay and i think that's total bullshit right you reading that no is that what i'm thinking okay okay all All right. Yeah.
Because you don't necessarily mean some people you wouldn't. If you're using the graduation term. Right. Some people never graduate. They should stay. They stay as one thing. And that's OK, too.
If that is your jam, this is your one thing that it works for you as a person and as a couple then does it mean that oh now i have to do this other thing exactly to earn my og status to say that i have um experience now let's give examples let's be more specific in this right yeah when we got into the lifestyle it was very clear like it was it was proposed as a linear progression through the lifestyle you start off as an exhibitionist or voyeur right uh so that means that you like to be watched or you like to watch people have sex okay that's that's what you're dipping your toe in that's the entry level that's newbie then you graduate to soft swap and y'all have heard my opinion on those terms soft swap full swap i hate that shit but anyway so you graduate to soft swap and this is for newbies we like kissing we like oral but we're not ready for uh intercourse yet yes until after x amount of years or whatever then we graduate again yay turn the tassels and shit and throw your thing up so because now we graduated to full swap and it's a step-by-step thing to earn that og status and you're not an og until you get now you're a super swinger i remember people throwing that term around i hate that shit too a super swing get the fuck out of here and then also then it's a it's yeah then when you get to the level of full swap then it becomes an expectation of that even exchange yeah like oh well you've supposed well you're saying you're full swap so you must have a lot of experience, quote-unquote, right?
Exactly. So then you're familiar with I'm full swap, you're full swap. It's an even exchange. But that's not the case either, right? And I guess that's where the knowledge part comes in with even that part, right? Let me see. Sweet Talker says that we have been in LS for almost three, but have been in multiple events and have many lifestyle friends. It's also about the emotional intelligence and maturity of the main relationship. Bingo. And what's the next one? Another Sweet Talker says that I empathetically say no. Emphatically, sorry. Oh, I'm sorry. I didn't see. It's hard to see.
It's hard to see behind your microphone. Yeah.
I emphatically say no emphatically sorry oh i'm sorry i didn't see it's hard to see it's hard to see behind your microphone yeah i emphatically say no type of play does not matter exactly yes and it's not because we can't read guys it's just hard it's hard to go ahead uh we do not have a we did not have a linear progression lol no one does no that's the point right you can try to script this thing out as much as you like as much as you want and you can go by whoever's guidebook you think is right yes but there's no such thing as linear and i think we talked about that in another episode you know it's not linear it It's not straight ahead.
It's not connect the dots here. It's all about communicating with your partner and doing what you guys feel comfortable with and what you feel safe about. And then I think as you start building those experiences together, you guys are building time. You're making those friendships. And after, I don't know, I don't know. I can't put a time on saying when you're actually a vet or an OG. No.
I just felt like we've become that because I think we've reached a place of this this is kind of easier for us and i don't mean that in relation to other people right i don't mean that as yeah i know when we go to a club we're gonna get six numbers no i mean it's easier between us we got our rhythm we got our battle rhythm we we understand each other's cues without having to come up with codes like you know tap my leg two times if you want to get out of here you know shit like that blink yeah right right no i think we've just we know how to address issues right when there's an issue we know how to stop everything say your point i say my point and we figure that shit out we know we know how to take steps back we know how to make the the hard shit we know how to get through the hard shit easier yes quicker would you agree with that i agree with that it's it's quicker um for us to get through like conversations.
And I would say for you, the letdown of no is easier for you to take than it used to be early on in the lifestyle, if that makes sense. It makes a lot of sense. Yeah, because it used to be the no for you. The no from you? Yes. right the no for you right like me saying no to you is what i'm saying yes so the no was a thing that would take us into a whole spin cycle right it would and and an argument about why you know all of the things Right. So I think that you've been better through time. Right. To just.
argument about why you know all of the things right um so i think that you've been better through time right to just know that no can be okay in certain situations right in all situations in all situations right it's just it's just no not it's not the time um right now for whatever is happening uh sweet talker says that i mean do you agree with that a hundred percent i'm not disagreeing at all no you you got me dead to rice on that like um again we're not going to dive too much deeper into what we were and what we are because we're going to save that for another episode but um just just know that you're you're you hit the nail right on the head um it has gotten a lot easier uh for me to understand you know where you're coming from and i think that's the bottom line it's not about no it's about understanding what you want and sometimes you don't want the same thing that i want or you don't want the same thing at the same time and it's about just understanding those little intricacies not just a big fat no it's like i want to you've gotten better at telling me what the no means yeah instead of it being no and it's like that would that's the thing that would be like a little trigger like what do you mean like why i don't understand but through practice and patience and conversation i've learned and you've learned how to express it what you what you don't want about the situation what you don't like and then it's easy from there to kind of say ah i get it i get it so yeah again we'll dive a lot deeper into that in another conversation um says next sweet talker says that we have done the research and took time took the time to learn the basics of etiquette and you both love each other oh and you both love each other and that's it for sure yes that's right what's another one says that we tried that linear progression and quickly move to will wait we will try we will try what comes to us okay got it we went backwards and started out with separate play oh nice yeah and they put backwards in quotation marks because they know that some people say that separate play is oh man you super og no they saying that they started where the fuck they wanted to start yes yeah and now we are filling the holes as the universe brings them to us.
Yeah. Yeah. And that's what I'm saying. It's like if you're emotionally ready to do that and your your communication and your body is telling you that's what you want and your partner's on board. There's no right or wrong. Y'all do your thing safely. That's it. And go ahead. more that i i believe i know what that last word is the heart is over it but it says that once you know what you like when you like it and how you like it ah yep love that so now what does it mean to be an og what is our job here what's our responsibilities as ogs in the game?
Do OGs manage their expectations more effectively than newbies? Meaning, do newbies go into situations, like we just mentioned, I may have gone into a situation with high expectations. Like, oh, shit. We're going to come in here. We're going to get naked. We're going to do the things. We're going to be on the stage. We're going to crash the shit. The good old crashing motherfucking burn. We haven't used that one in a while. Yeah. Right. So do OGs manage their expectations a little bit more effectively?
I would say that you and I do just for the reasons that we've already already outlined that it takes a lot of practice it takes a lot of patience talking talking there's nothing that you shouldn't be able to talk about yeah you know i'm saying uh what is the the phrase that we like to use grown-ups doing growing up things gotta have grown-up conversations some shit like that um and when we're talking about expectations everyone has them whether you like to state it or not you got some kind of expectation some type of minimal expectation yeah you do have even if it's only i just want to have a good time i just want to laugh right whatever that is you have something going into it it doesn't always have to be a sexual expectation right that's right um you know you you just you set reasonable expectations and i think that kate mentioned this uh that somebody did a panel on it or a discussion on it uh at the last libertine event in miami um but it's all about like for for us like when it comes to expectations about just being honest about it being honest about your expectations setting them reasonably and i think and i think i mentioned this the last time we were in miami is that i don't set expectations for you or for other people i said maybe for myself meaning i push my comfort zone to maybe say hi to a couple that i never met before you know say hi to at least three people yes you know say that shake hands with a couple of dudes that you don't know compliment three guys you know make try to make somebody else's day make somebody laugh things like that you can set those expectations.
Everything else could possibly happen after that. You know what I mean? Like you've now ingratiated yourself to these people. So anything else could happen. Like anything else is icing on the cake. Maybe you have a drink. And now maybe you get a number. And now maybe you go to the room. Yeah. You never know. Yeah.
But i think it's all about being honest with yourself so i think as as you get to that og status as you start getting a little bit more experienced than everything you find those little grooves and you you get to be honest about your expectations and your partner's expectations right i think as an og or if that's what we're calling we call it og we're not calling it vets okay an og in a lifestyle you're also able to have open conversations with your friends like we had an open conversation with one of our friends one of our playmates just aside this is going off but it's this is how you have this conversation right she um contacted us because she wanted to go out and she really wanted to play session right however we're we listen to where her concerns are because she's in a new relationship and we typically don't play with her when she's in relationships and she kind of went back and forth with us it was like i think that he may be ready but we may he may not be ready he has these type of reservations mind you he's not lifestyle at all like you know this guy is not lifestyle right he does freaky shit he did a freaky thing we don't know how we don't know the extent well i don't know right the point is is that he's not lifestyle he has some reservations right yeah so she's i'm only going through these high levels i'm not going about the whole conversation but the reason so she tells us that and we're listening to her in the car and talking and we had to then we we hear you however we don't think you need to play like we're not going to play with you.
That's not what we're going to do. I understand this is what you want, but we're not going to do that. We will go out. We can have dinner. We can talk and laugh, but we're not going to have a play session. That comes with experience and being knowledgeable to be able to hear what's happening and back out of it.
You see i'm saying because early on if you hear somebody say oh what you said that you was ready but you're not listening to the rest of what's happening in this conversation there are points in this conversation he's not really understanding he's not ready red flags it was just a couple of red flags a couple of red And it did not make sense for us to jeopardize our friendship or her relationship. Yeah. Because.
not ready red flags it was just a lot of red flags a couple of red and it did not make sense for us to jeopardize our friendship or her relationship yeah because of a play session right yeah but you see how we was able to have that conversation and move on yeah it was fun it was fun and we were on the same page it was we heard the same beats of the story and was like nope not working not doing and that's okay it's totally okay to say no and to say you know all right let's take a step back and you know let's set up something so that we can all be on the same page but i ain't gonna take your word for it nope i love you you're a friend you you are in there but we're not gonna uh risk everything no not all your shit we're not gonna risk our relationship with you nah we're not doing it yes uh sweet tucker says such maturity to have restraint uh restraint avoid drama yeah it wasn't worth it i'm telling you that's a good one tris next one are we now responsible to set the standards right or is that that our job?
No. I mean, it's not our, it's kind of, for us, it's the double-edged sword, right? Because we have a podcast where we're telling the story, right? But it ain't our job.
So if we're just talking about lifestyle and beyond the podcast right then no it's not your responsibility to to kind of set the standards and this is what should happen if you're an og right because everybody's gonna be different everybody's gonna be different but i disagree i know i kind of disagree no it's not our job i just think it's something that we not just me and you the royal we yes that that we do just by being right you're you're setting the standard you're setting an example by how you act out in the streets like when you're out here in these streets and you're walking around and you're talking and you're carrying your ls flag is showing um people are now going to associate how you rock how you roll you know i'm saying yes with the lifestyle and i mentioned this uh when we were doing our pre-game our pre-game discussion where you made up all these fancy things that you said but yes um well we have a friend and we've used her an example in the last episode um who is fascinated by the lifestyle by knowing that we're in a lifestyle but can i comprehend how we can do this thing like how we can cross that line so she's looking at us as fully functional humans as family and we're we're active in our communities we're we're you know we we got jobs and she sees us as humans that's doing all these things but there's this one part that doesn't make sense but we're that example for her right and i think it could be like a confirmation if we find ourselves in a sticky situation i think it would turn out to be like confirmation bias also where that doubt or the uh the bias that she not the bias but what she's thinking about the lifestyle which is like jealousy and all this stuff takes place and i could never right if you and i find ourselves in some kind of sticky situation she'd be the first one to be like i knew it i knew that shit wasn't gonna work i knew that shit is crazy i would never do that thing yes so i think we're setting a standard that we don't even realize you see what i'm saying yeah do you feel a pressure.
No. I mean, because the thing is, is that the lifestyle is different for everyone. Yeah. And everybody has a different path and how they do it, right? And how they roll and what works for them as a couple. And that's not to say you're still people at the end of the day.
So you going to have um disagreements right regardless if you were in a lifestyle or not we were just a normal monogamous uh couple you will still have the same thing you can have a disagreement and an argument and a jealousy or whatever it is right we'll stick we still can be there right so it just i don't know it just ours might involve you know because a dildo and a vibrator with another woman in the wrong hole. Yeah. Or, you know, a dude, you know, have actually having sex with you. That made me feel crazy. But the emotions are real and the emotions don't matter what that situation is.
You know, it's whether she got jealous because her husband liked something on instagram or i got jealous because trish was fondling some dude at the table and i didn't know we didn't communicate about it yes but now i'm jealous about it the emotion is the same it's just that the act is a little different i agree it doesn't it shouldn't matter we got a couple sweet talkers talker says that that's not uncommon i call it the matrix it's a higher level that most people cannot comprehend that's right oh my gosh this guy we gotta do the swinger one what's the swinger one like i don't know now you just got me thinking about that lady you show me your stupid video however oh the hawk tour yeah yo have y'all heard about the hawk tour lady i know if anybody on I don't know.
show you stupid video um but go ahead however oh the hawk tour yeah yo have y'all heard about the hawk tour lady i know if anybody on his on twitter y'all seen the hawk tour what'd she say um my man was like how do you get over a bad relationship she said the only way to get over one is to get under another and then he was like uh so what's the best way to to what do you do to keep a man happy or something like that she said oh man you got a hawk tour on that thing you got a hawk tour spit on that thing i had no idea what he was talking about oh she is an internet sensation that's what he said she is uh no sweet dog says however your reputation is very important and it could become a standard for newbies right uh i can't see with that this because it has the heart over it oh even if you're not even if you're not aware guess that got it yeah i agree with that and i yes you wear your reputation you wear who you are when you're going out like when we got like you said um there's a double edge for us you know because we're lock and tryst and we are government government, you know, when we out in these streets, like at home, our government, our friends know the government side of it.
They don't see us as lock and tryst. But when we go to like a PCAP or to a CSW, you know, we're lock and tryst and we're representing that.
And there might be some newbies, quote unquote, newbies in the pool who are looking at how we rolling and like damn matter of fact i think you talked to a couple of newbies you you helped them you showed them the way yes what made you feel compelled to do that because i saw them sitting by themselves and they just looked scared i said hey you know i just went over i just had a conversation with them just wanted to make sure that they felt comfortable um you know if there's anything i could do um let me know those types of things because you don't want people just sitting over in the corner looking at the party when you're at the party be a part of the party part of it yeah i promise y'all we get into the sexy shit in a minute yes it all ties together so do we are we responsible to lead by example like you just you just said like you know so now that couple they have it in their head that if they see somebody kind of lingering and maybe watching the party maybe they you've set that example for them to say you know all right it's okay to go say hi to somebody and pull them make them a part of the party yeah so um are we here or is it our responsibility to represent the lifestyle or ethical non-monogamy in a good light i know these questions kind of tie together but what i mean by that is our is it our job to represent to vanillas or outsiders or people who don't understand that we're not the sluts you think we are or we don't give a fuck if you if we don't give a fuck if we are the sluts you think we are right is that our job is that our responsibility as og since we've been in this game a long time are we supposed to be clearing up the whole um key in the fish bowl idea of swinger the only time because a lot of people bring that up they do a lot of pringle not not a lot of us bring that up as a critique on what swinging used to be we say yeah we're we're swingers but we ain't that right because that's what people remember i know that's what people remember but people they what is the association with that though, though?
It's an association with, like, free will. Not free will, but, like, flying by the seat of your pants or recklessness, almost. Correct. Yeah, and that's what has been for the longest time, what swinging has been known as, right?
It's just a lot of people just having sex randomly with all of these whoever right so i think that if questions come up to another person in the lifestyle then yes you should say that you know hey that that's that's not what it is now um and it makes difference as far as lifestyle everybody has a different path to that but here's what we do and what we have seen right if questions come up i don't think you should just randomly just start talking to people or telling them what swinging's not that i mean if you want to that's fine yes i don't know i think my point is is that it doesn't matter if it's fishbowl or not like if people are still doing key parties i'm sure i guarantee somebody still doing a key party i guarantee that even if they're doing it for novelty's sake yeah um just for the sake of a theme night or being fun have a key party even if it's just like a small house party with your friends somebody's doing that shit just to be fun right i guess um but my point is who gives a fuck yeah right um and we we were quick to point back at that thing as people use that as the example of how reckless the lifestyle used to be correct but there are people now who are dtf right there are there are people now who are dtf you don't need no keys you don't need no keys yeah you just need a wink and a smile a jack and coke or whatever and you party on you know what i'm saying and that's okay yeah if that's how you roll it's like we don't need to be like we don't necessarily have to be like judgmental on what the lifestyle was um i think that's the example that we need to be setting is that we're not judgmental all right we're not judgmental just because you party you party differently than how we party i'm not going to judge you for that um that's your relationship y'all be clear on y'all y'all communication y'all be safe and you know so that it's a safe community yes that's all i mean by that it's like i'm not judging people who and by safe i mean like uh wearing condoms or protection right that's your choice that's what i'm saying like just do that stuff responsibly just for the sake of the community yes you know testing and all that stuff being safe responsible ethical and um you know communicating with your partner making sure you're clear on the boundaries and all that stuff that y'all said yeah and i think that everybody be happy like just leave everybody the fuck alone is my point right yes um yeah yes we're still ourselves uh not yet last one are we responsible to be support system for others yes i agree with that i think you should be support system from for your friends right especially when they are going through something or maybe can't quite get through a rough patch that they're having as a couple I think that's helpful to have conversations with other couples in the lifestyle because you get a different perspective on something that can help you think differently than a situation and can help you through it.
Right. So I believe that, yes, we should be a support system for each other. I agree with that. I think it's just part of being like a good friend, period. Right. Even if like I don't know you well and like let's say we're at a Libertine event and we're kicking're kicking it how we kick it and we roll and we're talking to people and we're laughing or whatever. And some couple who's kind of new to all of this comes over and says, you know, how do you guys do that? Or what? You know, how I've never like talked to a stranger or how do you talk to a beautiful person?
And I think it's kind of, you know, it, I wouldn't say it's our responsibility, but I think it's a nice thing to do is to kind of give insight even if you don't have much i think it's nice to engage that person and let them feel like you know um we've all been there yeah don't leave them stranded like oh what the fuck are you talking about you know because we've all been been there you know and uh so i think it is kind of your responsibility to just like not leave people dangling you know help out who you can when you can it's about being a good human trist you know i'm saying yes not just a good uh swinger now story time it is story time y'all and y'all wonder how all this connects and how all this makes sense so tristan and i since we were talking about you know the responsibilities of ogs we take our responsibilities very serious here in sweet apparently so so when an opportunity arises for tristan and i to uh introduce someone to uh how we get.
We take it very seriously. He created a whole episode about from this. But yes, good. Creative, babe. Creative. Tied all together. Baby, got to tie it all together. So we were fortunate enough to be in a very good friend circle with this wonderful unicorn. She's a friend of a friend. And the friend of a friend introduced us and linked us and made it known that this young lady was interested in having an episode with us. Right? Turns out she'd never been with a couple before, y'all. Yeah, I was surprised. I'll see you next time. With us, right?
Turns out she'd never been with a couple before, y'all. Yeah, I was surprised. I was too. I was like, oh, cool. I was too because she's so adventurous. Yes. And so outgoing. It seemed like, and you know, she's in this lifestyle circle. Yes.
so and we saw her at a party and you know but we didn't see her interact with a bunch of different people we looking back now when we look back at it no we didn't see her like bouncing around yeah we were and there were some things that she noticed about us and you know turned her on things that we were doing at this party and all that stuff and some things that she was doing I saw her having sex with someone and I was like cheering them on and all that stuff I'm a cheerleader people I support where I can so the thing is too about this particular person which is funny well was that she didn't even know we were in the lifestyle that is funny we were like oh yeah okay like we did you didn't know't know because in this particular friend group a lot of us are in lifestyle but we didn't give off swinger i guess because we were just chilling we were chilling yeah we we'd be minding our own business when we when we're in adult settings you know uh we don't usually let our swinger flag show we chilling except at the party when i'm walking around yeah butt ass naked that's different with a zap zap in my hand like someone please zap me you know shit like that um but anyway so she's a friend of a friend and then we got the exchange and messages right the good old text message but the thing is this is very different it was just she and I exchanging these messages so here's where the being a responsible OG comes into play I was very professional with her this is something that she said yes she said that she later said that I was being very professional it was more it was like you know good afternoon how are you uh we're so excited about this experience uh thank you for the opportunity to be your first i hope you're having a great i hope you're having a wonderful day yeah she clowned the shit out of you like that fabulous day i hope you're having a fabulous i think that was the word she kept using too i don't know if i've ever used it but anyway yeah um but i was my thing was if this is your first time i'm not gonna fuck it up right i'm not gonna fuck it up i'm gonna set the bar high and to be real i didn't want to say anything in a text message even though i would show trist every exchange i didn't want anything to be misinterpreted between me and this woman that my wife could later see and be like what the fuck is this you know i'm saying nah oh geez in this shit man i ain't fucking it up i'm not fucking the money up no no no so i took every precaution and you might be wondering why we didn't have a three-way conversation honestly is because the interaction was supposed to be just between me and her yes but we come as a package deal in this kind of situation i mean we just we haven't gotten to that solo play thing yet right we just haven't done we haven't gotten to solo play and i we just didn't know her that well yeah we didn't know that well like we just we didn't know her that well so that was another thing for us we didn't know her that well.
Yeah, we didn't know her that well. Like, we just, we didn't know her that well. So that was another thing for us. We didn't know her that well. Not saying that we got to be bestie friends, but we just didn't, we didn't know her that well. So I'm like, nah, like, here's what we're going to do. But you, you graciously let the text interactions go down for what seemed like a month, maybe? It was a month. It was a while. It was a month. And then I just gave that stipulation that we all had to be together. Be there together, yeah. That doesn't mean that I'm playing with you.
I just want to be there. And that's also, I put a caveat in it, that doesn't mean that I'm going to just be sitting in a corner just watching you. Right, right. That's not my style. What is it called? Like a cuck queen? Yeah. That's not my style. It doesn't, like, I'm not, like, you know. You weren't in that cuck shit. Not the cuck space. Right. I'm not saying that that's not cool for other people, but that's not what I'm talking about, right?
Because I didn't want her as a single female who's never played with a couple before who knows that we've been in lifestyle for years right to get kind of freaked out like oh my gosh she's just going to be weird in a corner looking at me and then i'm going to be with her husband that's that's not what's going to happen right so um i made sure to share that and let her know where your boundaries were just from the way that you and i talked about it the way you presented it i shared it with her that exact way yeah saying you know that you want to be there you like to not gave her some examples of things that you like to do in those situations like you know hold a leg up or thrust and kiss me while you know i'm fucking her and stuff like that so we we laid the groundwork we let her let her know all this stuff and then it was on right cool we set the date we finally set the date because i think we had a couple options and things weren't working out whatever um and via the text message i also asked her likes and dislikes and her hard nose again trying to make sure again this this goes to the whole professional lock is being real professional but i wanted to understand what we was walking into and i wanted her to understand what she was walking she was walking into so i told her that you know i like uh i like the the whole tying up and she was into like the bondage she likes a bondage aspect she likes a spanking aspect she likes to you know um go down you know oral sex is a thing and i thought i like somebody sitting on my face and all this stuff to build it up to to get an understanding again of what she might like and might not like.
And so then we booked the room. We got to the room. And then we set it up. Go ahead, Trish. What did we bring with us and how we set the room up? Yeah. So we bought a few things with us. Not like all of our. We bought enough. We bought stuff. We didn't bring the whole catalog. We did not bring the whole catalog. We bought stuff because we just wasn't sure, right? Never played with her before. We don't know. So we bought a few different vibrators. You bought your cock ring. Damn right. Bought other supplies. The spreader bar. Spreader bars.
But I was also going to say just regular hygiene stuff, right? We bought wipes. Girl wipes. Dude wipes. We had mints. If you needed to do mouthwash.
Like we just had things little things the little things kind of set up the lights the light change the light bulbs to the red lights um paddles we bought a bunch of paddles had waters i was about to say the waters and the drinks yeah you know we just had the things and then she came into the room was like you guys are prepared and that's what i meant by that couple that we've that we're seeing again this weekend uh in puerto rico is that they did that for us like they didn't go as far as like setting lights but they were really good at setting the mood and letting you know music and um you know i don't know it was the the pictures the whole thing i mentioned it in another episode and i can't remember which one it was at this at this point but um so that's kind of what we did it's almost like a pay it forward kind of thing um you know we're setting i hate to say setting the example but i just i really wanted to set the bar high because this is her first time with a couple i want to make it i want to make it nice i want to make it memorable you know make it worthwhile worthwhile another nice little ad addition was when she got there we had the the talk.
What was it, babe? Yes, we do a circle of consent. Guys, look, I'm going to tell you all the time. That circle of consent will save you. I'm trying to tell you. Do that circle of consent. You know, that circle of consent can avoid a whole bunch of confusion. Yeah.
If y'all listen to Room 77, shout out Room 77, 77 man they got a great podcast and they got an awesome trip and everything um they're one of their latest episodes was um about like a hotel they were they met a couple of they were a date a date thank you so simple right they had a date they were going on a date they went to the hotel and they got to the room and it didn't seem like that the it's richard and lauren right richard and lauren and they were with mr x and mix mr mrs x right richard said that it seemed like mrs x wasn't there for the dick she was there to play with lauren like that's where her focus was that's what she wanted to do but he was confused because he was saying like if i know him walking in the door that this is what we was going to do cool and he wasn't complaining he didn't bitch and moan about it he was just confused you know what i'm saying because it wasn't what he thought it was walking in the door now what trish is saying is if they would have had that circle talk sit just take a minute just take a couple minutes to say what are you into tonight yeah that probably would have saved them so much heartache or confusion you know he was ready to get down with whatever he was ready to do the things but homegirl wasn't ready to do the things she wanted to play with lauren and lauren was ready for all the things and i think the husband was also ready for the things but you got the one person that kind of you know yeah made the situation not what everybody wanted and you can't force that person to do anything that's just where they are next thing you know the night was over and everybody got to go home and the first thing i said in the car was circle of consent absolutely that's all you had to do do circle of consent right before you play if you do it before there's any play involved now everybody's on the same page everybody's on the same page go around what are you into right now tonight do you have any real hard nose take it everybody knows what's going to happen and where someone stands right we did that with this young lady too we take circle of consent who is bad by the way because it avoids confusion it just does it does so some of the hard nose were i think she was down with like hair pulling uh pictures was a hard no oh pictures pictures and videos was a hard no yes cool got it you know what i didn't pull my phone out nope right because now i know yeah but everything else was gucci like she was straight like she wanted to do the things and come to find out having this conversation that she's very comfortable with women oh yes we learned we didn't know that yes we didn't know that we we thought it was literally going to be hey don't worry my wife is not going to jump your bones it's all good right but she's like nah dog i've been there done that like the women i'm here for it whatever however that go let's go and whatever trish was in the move for she was in the move for so party on we're moving things forward.
We're going over. And now it's time to break the ice. She had on her nice lingerie. Trish was looking absolute fire in hers. I think that was a Honey Burdette situation. Yes. God bless those people. I love Honey Burdette. I love Honey Burdette.
I love your body in it it i think it was the red number he has a red oh fire that they just put like little locks in the hoops in the right places that shit looks amazing and she looks stunning as well and i'm telling y'all she she's a thick bottom young lady just properly proportioned i couldn't be like i'm i look at myself like is this my life like what are we doing here tonight what is happening right here because i'm i'm just so fortunate to be in this situation with these two beautiful ladies and we escorted her over to the bed and it was massage time massage time is always great to kind of like icebreaker it's a great icebreaker so we break out the the lube or whatever it was the massage oil and we start rubbing her down i think she was on her belly first did we flip her over or did you just direct traffic i think you took over yeah i just direct some traffic because it was like because it was me that's right it was me giving her a massage before you even jumped in yeah and you know i got on her back and uh put my dick between her on her ass we still got our clothes on but she could feel the pressure and i'm rubbing on her back and you come in like the i think you're like touching on me and you touch on her a little bit and then she flips over and i think we massage her some more and maybe i give her some kisses and now everybody's loose we're getting looser yes and trish say you know what let's jump to the deep end hey girl come over here and let me tie your ass up come in put your hands down of your ankles no no no no spread your legs i don't know if if mr red is on here still but i i swear i don't be trying you don't have to try you just do any of this come out you just do that's just who you are you say come in stand up and now she and i are like okay where's this going bet okay cool let's go she say she'd like to be restrained and tris was like all right enough of that sensual shit come here come it's mrs well hey mrs uh yeah let him know the story while we're here but anyway um I'll see you next time.
oh it's it's mrs well hey mrs uh yeah let him know the story while we're here but anyway um so yeah man you easily got her ass up uh and it was like spread them get down so next thing you know i'm looking i'm locking in her ankles we've never used this spreader bubble no this is the first time yeah and she was down to let us experiment and try so we learned some things we learned some things so she we locked her ankles inward her feet were her her ankles were outward and her hands were inward and she's standing and bent completely over all exposed look at you you're shaking this is exciting no yeah oh so then we took out trist took out some paddles didn't you you took out the paddles you wear like i'm not gonna say you like start cocking back no smacking but you gave one to me you gave one to me and you just were directing it's like a directing you know try this try that you did you were fully dressed yeah pain per se but more like sensual sensual yes and sensation it was just giving her a little pal and in the rub to see what the limits were and we've showed her all the toys prior to and she let us know what she was down for and whatever oh and another thing she says she really likes is penetration with vibration yes check check double check we'll get there so next thing you know we're we're smacking her ass and i think you were on the other side of her and you were doing something down there oh i had a vibrating nice yeah oh it's so sweet that was you know i was helping such a great team mate god damn lucky um and then i don't know she's moaning and super soaking wet next thing you know trist good old trist hands me the condom tells me get her it's time and then i check with her she says yeah and again she's still pinned down in this spreader bar ass all the way up you know and locked in and i'm like okie dokie we're doing this okay so we're i get the green light we're going in and i go and i end her and she is feeling it and i'm feeling she's feeling great and trist is i don't even know what you i think you're there and you're like smacking her ass while i'm fucking her from behind and next thing you're like we're going and she's telling me to go harder and she's again i don't know how she's maintaining her balance next thing you know bam she breaks free like fucking hulk yeah her hands i'm like tris she's free while i'm fucking like her hands she's free i was like oh no she's loose he did he literally said that so um yeah so some more positions ensued right you know she really enjoys oral sex it's wonderful it's really good and um one of my favorite positions was i'll get there so fucking her from behind on the bed uh then she kind of takes a breather again cock ring is on i love that fucking thing it just it doesn't feel different to you you've experienced both no okay good but it just it makes me feel secure i don't know i like the i like the confines of it if it makes any any sense.
So clean off. And now I wanted to you and I, it was time for us to connect. I think you were on your back and I was thrusting behind you and she's coming over and rubbing on me and kissing on you. And you were in the mood for it. Yeah. Yeah. I was like, OK, we're here. Yeah. Super sexy.
And then um again so one of my favorite positions that we got into was she was on her back you were between her legs like stratton not she was almost like a position where she could wrap her legs around you you were between her legs but you had like i don't know if you had a vibrator or i did or you just were fingering her or something but she was laying down and i came behind you but i grabbed her legs like i was fucking her missionary oh but i was fucking you from the back from behind correct so i could see your back and i'm holding her legs like they could wrap around both of us. Yes.
And that shit was crazy. Your pussy was extremely wet.
Extremely like they could wrap around both of us yes and that shit was crazy your pussy was extremely wet extremely wet it was slip and slide niagara that was fun that was a lot of fun but um i think we took a water break we did we stopped and we just kind of laid down and just talk and that's really cool and i liked how it was very comfortable without it being like awkwardly weird and familiar like oh like she wasn't crossing no boundaries you know but she was just herself she was extremely confident and comfortable and you were confident and comfortable and you know we were just rolling we were just kind of rolling we was in a good space and i remember it like you were laying on my arm and she was just kind of laid across the bed like laying on laying on my legs it was just a real smooth cool comfortable situation that nobody was like in a rush to end yeah you know yep however what happened i do like the fact that even though we were in a rush yeah for her to leave but she you know she got up cleaned up got dressed and you know we we joked a little bit yeah and then she left yeah it's like she knew yeah you know she knew okay we all we're all satisfied we left it on a good note remember i think we even said that we learned to leave it on a good note because of our friend who said the same thing yeah leave it on a high note yes like we had a great time this was a lot of fun everybody came um it was it was our uk first yeah so let's let's leave it now i mean we don't have to keep going to try to you know go until the fucking sun comes up yeah it was a great time wonderful experience she really enjoyed it she put us on the calendar before she left yes she's like we need to go ahead and just make this date for the next time which was cool because you know um i think a lot of people can agree with this like when you find something that you like you want to do it again and that's what she said and and it ha that's what she said uh but anyway she literally said that you know that she enjoyed her time with us and we really enjoyed our time with her so we went ahead and booked it and we'll tell that story at another date but that was fun yeah and sweet talker says i love when partners understand their role yeah and she didn't overstay her welcome yeah it wasn't like all right now yeah i'm sleepy yeah't have to like give no secret and you know we didn't have to like push her out the door no it was just like okay our time has ended and this was fun and we'll see each other soon like dope just dope just great great experience man it was a lot of fun but again go ahead i always say now.
It doesn't have to be every session, but I'm a fan of early play. Same.
I'm a fan of early play same i'm a fan of it so our play sessions have been at like eight o'clock yeah i'm okay with that eight o'clock p.m be done by like 10 11 down by like 10 ish i'm okay it's still early enough to get a snack yes i can still go and get a drink if i want to i was like go to sleep wake up all refreshed in the morning i'm okay with that instead of 1 2 a.m og status i think you hit that og now you're just old i was okay with the only thing that we forgot i got to watch matlock with this shit over murder she wrote coming on the only thing that we forgot in in that session was snacks yeah we didn't have snacks we had no snacks after all of that daggone um aerobics god damn exercise yo we was going at it so hard my motherfucking watch turned he thought he was exercise he was exercising.
It turned on the exercise app. Like, I didn't do it. It did it on its own. Yeah. That shit was awesome. It's, uh, Sweet Talker says daytime play is the best. Absolutely. I love a good morning. I'm becoming a fan of it. Daytime session. But ladies and gentlemen, that was episode 99. That was fun. Yeah. I really, truly, I can't say this enough. I really appreciate all the sweet talkers who chimed in, who helped us drive the conversation, who sat there and listened to us talking shit, our shenanigans. Really appreciate y'all. And we're looking forward to, you know, more future conversations.
So, again, stay tuned for our episode on july 21st with my man roger stevens that's going to be dope don't forget to check out his instagram at open journey love open journey love uh yeah it's going to be epic so all right people we will catch y'all next time. All right, bye. Again, we'd like to thank you for living a sweet life with us. To everyone who couldn't join us live in the suite, check out our podcast on iTunes, Stitcher, Spotify, Google Play, and iHeartRadio. Be sure to subscribe, rate, and review. Feel free to email us at livingthesweetlifepodcast at gmail.com.
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