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Living the Sweet Life is a podcast intended for mature audiences only. We'll be using sexually explicit language while discussing many different adult themes. So if you're under the age of 18, please stop listening. Also, please know that our thoughts and opinions should not be taken as professional advice. We're here to answer your questions about the swinger lifestyle. From newbies to longtime swingers, or if you're just curious, we hope to engage you all and to encourage a sex-positive discussion.
Now that we've got that out of the way, make yourself comfortable and join us in mean, thank you so much for joining us in episode 60 of living the sweet life she is my beautiful sexy co-host and wife the lovely trist and he is my sexy chocolate husband lock nailed it hey listen first of all you are watching this on YouTube, do not mind this big-ass Band-Aid on my head. I thought it wasn't going to be this visible, but clearly, you know, when you gas yourself, you know, trying to get ready for your show, you're going to be made. You know, everybody's going to know. You can't.
There's no hiding foolishness no hiding foolishness no no absolutely i promise y'all i'm not this clumsy it's just brand new razors will get you every time that's what you say yeah the brand new razor will get you every single time man but listen um happy new year happy new year happy 2022 2022 man what we gonna do in 22 I don't't know it's gonna be it's gonna be fun right uh yes i'm hoping so 2022 is gonna have a latin stored yeah i'm telling you um yeah man yeah we're happy to be here for 2022 you know this is what the third year of living the sweet life and we're appreciative of of every single sweet talker, every person that we've met, every opportunity that we've had just because we sit here and turn on these microphones and talk some shit with y'all.
Yes. And tell our stories. That's right. We sit here, tell stories, we laughing, we joking. And I can't think of anything better to do on a Sunday night, except for maybe watching some playoff football. But, you know, whatever, you know, what you've already done. Right. Yes. No, this is great. This is great. Again, we appreciate everybody who's tuning in. This is the first show of 2022. And hopefully we have many, many more. Tonight, we are going to be talking about how we ended 2021 and discussing, like, you know, the big picture of what we plan on doing for 2022 and beyond.
Not just the show, but like in our whole lifestyle situation. But we're going to work you up to that. Right. Not without some cool stories. But, yeah, I think that's that's where we're going. Right.
That's what was happening was happening tonight yes this should be a fun episode i know you're excited i can't wait to catch up with the sweet talkers just in general i know man looking forward to talking to some sweet talkers they look like they're they're climbing in slowly but surely i know y'all i know we here we ready to hang out let's knock out some of this housekeeping while my people getting comfortable you can email us at the sweet life podcast at gmail.com follow us on instagram at the sweet life podcast and follow us on twitter at sweet life pod um let's see you can find the podcast on what is it called babe um full swap radio yeah yeah we've been over there for i think about a almost a year.
Yeah yeah it's been something like that but it's been good um and for everybody who is checking out the podcast on all the major podcast catchers we appreciate you we hope that you can uh rate review and subscribe all that good stuff while you're over there and for all my wonderful sweet talkers who not who did not catch us live uh be sure to check out the youtube channel first of all you can always see what miss tris is wearing yes she aims to please i try you know i really try that's right and you you succeed mama you succeed and then uh while you're over there you can also subscribe and hit the little notification bell so you can be a sweet talker the next time.
That's all it takes. You know, just log in with a little email address. You can jump in the chat and hang out with us and add some comments of your own. Ask a couple of questions. That's what we're here for. In case you didn't know, if you're new to the suite, we are all about live interaction, immediate responses, you know.
So so drop in your questions drop in your comments and we we got you we're gonna knock them right back at you and feel free to say hello in the suite uh we also read back everything that's right speak to each other so don't be shy anonymously unless you've already expressed you know your your pseudonym you know we got some regulars here and they know how we get down they know each other that's right that's right that's the sweet talker community but uh be a part of it join us anytime and we're looking to have more sweet talkers this year um so let's keep the let's keep the party going so my beautiful you know how this before we get into any shenanigans, all the crazy, fast paced, storytelling, sexy talk and all this crazy stuff.
I got to check in with my boo. So, baby, how are you feeling? So, guys, I'm all for the shenanigans right now. I'm feeling young and spicy, young and spicy. I'm about to live out my last few weeks in my 30s i'm about to enter into a new whole new i don't know decade into my naughty 40s your naughty 40s i don't know if i can get any naughtier but i'm going to enter my naughty 40s um in a couple of weeks i can help you kick it up a notch if you need it. I bet you can. You have some ideas. I'm like, hmm. Yeah. But yes, I'm going into the new zone of turning 40 in a few weeks.
I'm pretty excited about it. Usually, I don't like to brag as much about my birthday on the show, at least. But, however, this is an important milestone for me. It is. So, guys, we're going to, I decided, he doesn't even know. So, I decided that I'm going to post a couple of pictures. It's probably going to be like a nuance. No, annoying. More of annoying. It's probably going to be annoying to you.
but i'm going to be posting some pictures as we lead up to my last few weeks in my 30s uh some sexy pics so look out for those and because we're going to celebrate we're going to celebrate my 40th and yes i do like to receive gifts normally i am the gift giver oh stop it and no normally i am the gift giver but in this scenario it's a milestone so i am up for receiving gifts so look out for the different ways if you would like to send tris a 40th gift i will tell you how to do that a gift like a gift gift look at her i just said i'm not begging i said if you would like to send me a gift no i will tell you how yes exactly she beggar it's no i'm not hey sexy sweet talker how you doing she says hey sexies happy new year happy new year to you he's a hater his whole life anyways so lot i love you we'll see how you act when it's coming to your 40th.
How are you doing? How are you feeling, babe? Yeah, that's the wrong question. Hey, Duchess Cashmere of the Cashmere Room Podcast. Look at sis checking in. Happy New Year. Me, how I'm feeling? I'm feeling a little embarrassed here. You sitting here soliciting for gifts? No, I'm not. I said if you want to send a gift. No. This is how it works. No. Secondly, how I'm feeling, besides the utter shame. It's not a shame. It's not a shame. I'm feeling like, yeah, no. I kind of echo what Trish is saying. It's about turning 40. You know, about to enter in a whole another decade.
I'm feeling excited about planning our birthday party. We're combining a birthday party. We're working out the details here. We're working out the logistics. It's really just like a brain scratcher or a head scratcher trying to figure out what we want to do. But just the thought of it is getting me excited.
So tuned hopefully i can get in uh we can get into some shenanigans for our 40th you know yeah so looking forward to it so uh we're just gonna keep that keep that in mind and we'll give y'all some details when and if it happens you know so my beautiful sweet talkers my wonderful wife are you ready to get into tonight's episode let's do it let's go all right ladies and gentlemen thanks for hanging in there so we are back episode 60 you know i wish we kind of would have done something related to the name you know to the number 60 but don't worry about it we won't drop the ball when it comes to episode 69 i knew you're gonna say that yeah you saw that one coming so did everybody else it's all good though but you know hey low-hanging fruit oh now i feel whack all right maybe we'll do episode 70 will be something it'd be like 69 plus one how about that 69 plus one stick with 69 i'm gonna get creative with it i just had to brush your chops about it because i know because you're sitting here begging for gifts i am not begging for a gift it was an if ridiculous usually y'all we end the year with like a recap discussion uh we do kind of like our what swinger resolutions kind of thing this is kind of the same thing but a little bit different right where this time i guess it's all about when we're having a discussion so really this time we're kind of starting the new year off uh looking back at how we finished how we kind of went through and finished 2021 um and then we're going to move into like starting a larger discussion something that we really kind of want to sink our teeth into in the next coming episodes uh about like are we happy with how things are going and these are not just questions for us these are questions for you guys as well it's kind of you start the year off on the right foot or just kind of reevaluating, figuring things out.
I'll be happy with the way things are going. And if not, what changes do we have to make? And like, so what are some of the things that we've done that we want to do more of? Maybe some stuff that you want to do less of.
Maybe a certain kind of party that you've been to and you're kind of like not feeling it, that kind of thing and then what are some uh new things that you'd like to try the the bucket list the bucket list grows every year right there's always something new you might have tried something that kind of sparked an idea for something different and you know we kind of want to talk about those things you know you don't want to leave some stuff to the wayside you have all these kind of cool fantasies popping up in your head you don't want to just drop them to dead air right you know what i mean right no that's right hey look we gotta figure out how to keep it spicy keep it spicy i'm young and spicy i'm trying to tell you like i done added like apps on my phone to give like uh sex quizzes with each other all sorts of stuff you don't even know about yet you know what I'm saying look at that but I got you though I'm gonna pull you in the loop once I figure it out once you figure it out because that that's what you need you need yes you need to come with the details and all of that because I'm going to ask questions exactly yeah I can't just drop a fish in your lap and expect you know you just be work like, oh, OK, cool.
No, that's right. That's not going to work. All right. Sweet Talker says, hello, hello, good people. Hello. And then our friends Thumper and Bay. Hey, check them out on Twitter. This hot couple, man. They are saying what they saying. I can't read. Happy.
i knew you were stolen yeah or something happy uh 2022 we have no idea how anyone could be bothered by tris posting pictures of herself we're here for them i know i'm here for the i'm here for the pictures too you know just not me too begging i am not you act like either let me for one no we're gonna clean this right here we have never online or like oh yeah you know please send these donations please do this and that and there's nothing wrong with people that do that and i've never said anything about any other birthday but this one's special so therefore this is why i wanted to say that so continue let's go oh wait sweet talker says what's up fam can't wait to hear about the how the trip was yeah me too oh we got our sumatra cigars yeah yeah what's up people how y'all doing that's right light them up light them up all right let's go you think you're just going to drop that and i'm not going to respond i was waiting for you to be petty but when you didn't say anything i was like i may have just got through that and he's not going to respond and we're going to just keep it pushing but no in lock true form he has to be petty so petty boots yes i'm just saying what you're saying if somebody wanted to offer oh here we go I'm just saying I'm just giving away if you can we go on I'm just so you're not changing my mind on it no yeah right I know I'm not and it's a shame please send me a gift for my birthday I didn't say that i did not say that come on all right go i'm gonna tell you yeah we ain't starting 2020 2022 off right listen no ridiculous i didn't know she was gonna throw that curveball people look it's so trist i'm feeling i feel like begging that's not it it's not it all right I feel like i want some birthday love that's not it okay okay all right stop yelling at me you it's all loud anyway so beautiful what were some of the new things that we tried in 2020 fun that made it so fun well so the first thing would be in 2021 was i'm about to say 2022 we just started in 2021 was of course we hosted pcap and we hosted and presented at pcap this time uh with the encore so that was pretty cool and special for us yeah no that was a fun, man.
You know, can't say enough good things about the organization and how that entire event went down. Super cool opportunity to kick it with Kate from, oh, man. Wanderlust. Wanderlust. I keep wanting to say, you know, Swinger, Swinging Down Under.
under yes they changed her name yeah a while ago but no um yeah i can't say enough good things about her and the way she she gets down and but if y'all want to hear like the recaps and all that good stuff go check out those episodes i think they're somewhere in the late 40s yes and they'll be in the later episodes right great time check them out that was definitely a highlight of our year what else i got a single play at a house party that was new it was that was different it was very interesting don't get me wrong i had a great time but then i realized something i realized so much of how much um like my enjoyment of these situations kind of revolves around you, revolves around you being there or in some type of capacity.
Yeah. Being there, being involved, you know, cheering me on, that kind of thing. So the single play was enjoyable. Don't get me wrong. It was a great time. Wonderful partners.
But it was just that little thing that was missing you know not having you there oh and what's next of course i got to do some femdom yeah closed out that year great yo you kind of you dove deep into it it was more than just like closing out the year that was incredible yes check out our last episode episode 59 for those details right whoa we got a lot of good feedback from that yeah um i think that a lot of people like the fact that i think that they're saying if i can like trying to formulate a way to say this that that was their first time really hear hearing me talk through details in in the way that i said it right for the show i felt like i talk about stuff all the time on the show but i guess in that particular episode i kind of gave more details um than people are kind of used to right right i think i nailed that just now but yeah um what i would say about the details of that one was about you sharing particularly you you dove all the way in on the little nuances of that night um you you built the story up you talked about how you were teasing at the party and you gave all the little details about how you were feeling and sometimes like when we tell stories you don't do that or i i'll do it and you know i give all the little details and you'd be like yeah that was nice you know what i'm saying but this one was different because it just meant so much more to you it meant a lot to you yes it was like your first time it was uh it was it was a brand new experience for both of us like uh something that we've never seen before but to have you and you were driving the whole thing and i think that was something that meant something to you i'm not trying to speak for you but it's my the way i saw So you gave the whole thing.
And I think that was something that meant something to you. I'm not trying to speak for you, but it's the way I saw it. So you gave the great details. From my perspective, yeah. Right. And so much so, y'all, that y'all don't know is that when she stood up. Oh. Completely dripping wet. Yeah. So I got kind of a little bit excited when I was telling you guys the story as it's unfolding and kind of reliving some of the actual memories as I'm telling the story on the show in the last episode.
when we were done rapping for the show i kind of like oh my goodness like i just started to feel those kind of like warm tingly feelings all over and then my vagina felt very nice and then when i stood up my pants literally was like soaking my head i mean her thighs was sweating like the creases of her thighs my panties was wet all of it it was great and that has never happened before you know no that was that was it's kind of like was reliving the whole thing again as you're like telling the story to the audience i guess you want to say that it's super hot love it oh as a matter of fact i think that was actually on one of the out on the outtakes of that one of that episode you know oh yes when we were done recording with you guys we cut off the live but the mics are still recording and it was just like damn that was real that wasn't like a plan that was a real reaction that happened when the mics were still recording maybe we'll release that gotta take a second to say what's up to honeyspoon hey there beautiful people what is going on thanks for joining yes yes and that's cashmere says come through mistress that's right yeah with all that energy love it all that sexy energy all right what else did we do okay so we did co-dom with ropes yeah we did we did some co-doming with ropes this was before the what do we call this the awakening yes before the awakening that's what we're calling your whole femdom awakening before the awakening right so we were just trying out that you know um doing some ropes with a single uh lady friend of ours um and that was fun but that was kind of like you know we were just pity paddling around just trying to post it out yeah oh shit oh she's volunteered look out so right okay so now let's get into like the meat and potatoes of this thing um so towards the end of the year we tried a few different things uh and we're gonna give a little bit more details of right all right and by the way sweet talkers let us know if you tried anything new last year i know duchess you was going you tried some pretty dope shit um and thank you for chronicling all of that stuff in your podcast and on your ig uh if i'm not mistaken sis you was uh i think you did some doming i'm not saying that that was brand new to you but i think uh it was like a certain scenario that was new to you that you tried i think you may have even gotten tied up at some point um i remember you mentioning that at some point but let me know yeah and i know one of the sweet talkers they also went to it was like a poll convention i wanted to call it a poll convention right not sure if that was the technical name but yeah and i think that was new uh-huh um um for her so yes let us know some new stuff in the chat that you've also tried that's right look at us knowing our sweet talkers and that's we talking number one she chiming in she said hey sexy people hey yourself i know and she's still out here killing i think she might even be like uh uh teaching at The poll Oh yes yes I actually looked at her earlier today Let's see Thumper and Bay says Mistress Tris replayed the PCAP night perfectly Thank you see you don't be trying to get me all Hot and bothered Because they called you Mistress Tris Yeah all right y'all see that smile no i love it so yeah all right what was the first thing uh this was kind of more like a throwback yes oldies but goodies yeah and i think we mentioned in the last episode also maybe uh briefly we went to a what's called a friction party in our area uh which is pretty much just a hotel takeover it's not a long event it's like most of the time it's like a one-nighter or maybe even uh yeah it's usually a one-nighter where they'll do like a meet and greet on like a friday night and the hotel takeover is like a saturday night so the Clock is ticking it's one of those really really quick um events that um you never know what you're going to get you know um there is some you know some build up because you get to log in and you get to make a profile and get to see the people online who's coming with each other yeah you can get a kind of chat yeah you got all that kind of stuff well you can uh pretty much set yourself up um for success or not you know what i mean you get you can decide what you're going to do did we do that no i think we plan we went the last minute it was very last minute for us as far as planning it was literally like the day before wasn't it that we bought at least two okay it was very late for us as far as planning but yeah so we discovered some things that why we didn't we don't go to these very often and why it's been such a very long time since we've gone to like a friction party it's it's no shade to the organizers or whatever they do the best that they can and they give everybody as many opportunities as they can possibly muster that you can meet and greet and hang out yes create these connections for yourself so that when the party is going you know you can uh do your thing right uh and again we joined late and by the time we got there when we got there the party was cool kicking in it was like a christmas theme right yeah it was a christmas theme party and it was cool however uh it's just that the friction party itself was fine and this has nothing to do with the host or anything like that that's true um the things that happens is that there are people that go to these parties all the time and kind of like often and we actually ran into some old friends we haven't seen some people at in years so it was great to kind of like reconnect and just say hi we haven't seen each other in some people maybe six years just haven't seen each other and ran into the same circles until this party so that part was great to come and see that however when we talk about the lifestyle like in general on the show if you meet us in person we we we say the same thing so we are about what we preach being a lifestyle is not linear and what that means is that we grow we we've grown and when we went to the party we realized that our friends that we haven't seen in like six years, but they're still doing kind of the same cadence that they were doing when we met them years ago.
And there were a lot of people at the party that's kind of like the same thing. I don't like consent issues. There was a couple of consent issues. Again, One of my pet peeves is that women just think that they can just come up and do a thing to you, whether if it's slap me on the ass or touching my hair, because you're a woman and I'm a woman too. So there was a lot of that that kind of like happened. This has nothing to do with the host.
It just has to do with this is what they they're accustomed to right um those individuals those individuals correct it just doesn't work for us or me in the lifestyle anymore because we've evolved right um yeah we we've definitely uh changed and learned and um you know we've had some we've been in really good we've been fortunate enough to be in good company with people who just don't do those things in that kind of way because in in some circles, I'm sure that stuff is fine. You know, you can go and hang out and grab a woman's ass and grab another woman's ass, whatever. That's that's them.
But, you know, when you say you have a consent issue with that, that means you have a consent issue with that period across the board.
There's no exceptions of thing and no matter where you go where i where we plant our flag you know it needs whoever is coming to approach you needs to understand those kinds of things and the only way you can let them know is to to say it yeah and it sucks because it kind of puts you in a weird position of somebody like doing something and then you know we actually had to have a conversation with someone yeah at the party not to make that like too deep and dramatic but it was kind of like a hey you know maybe you should apologize to her not to me yeah they were apologizing to him for touching me but yeah it was weird you didn't touch him you touched me but yeah it was it was like so stuff like that um for for me it's just like okay and it kind of had that like meat packing um feel for me where it's just kind of like everybody's here okay so let's fuck because oh you're here i'm here so we should fuck type of thing and that works for some people in the lifestyle again the lifestyle has many different pockets i just don't fit into that pocket sure and that's perfectly fine right and and you know again like that's why they have like the uh the online aspect where people can make those connections early on and that's fine that's great but we just we didn't have any time to build like those connections that were poor we were we were there with some people that we knew and that's kind of where we kind of hung out.
Yeah. But, yeah, we'll give more details. One Sweet Talker asked, was it a young crowd? No, actually. It was a fair mix. It wasn't, like, super young or anything like that. Didn't really skew super young. No, it didn't. It didn't. But it didn't skew super old either. It didn't. I think it was a fair mix. Yeah. I saw some hot bodies in there. Yeah. And the consent issues went both ways. Not just with like men. I also seen a man like grab my friend's ass. Grab another man's ass. Grab another man's ass. That was not warranted. So it just had those type of nuances that was just like, eh, okay.
Yeah. Couldn't do without that. However, I did get to try some virtual porn play at the party. My friend bought these, I don't know if you call them goggles. Yeah. Where you can, especially porn inside the goggles and then you move your hands and feel like you're touching a boob or things like that. So it was cool. That part was fun. I like that. Yeah, I tried the virtual porn too.
And, you know, it's a very strange very strange feeling to you know put on goggles and you see these two women and then you know they're trying to give you a blowjob and you look down at your dick and it's actually white and i got a white dick all of a sudden right yeah kind of startling yeah and i was a man so it was it was a different experience but it was cool yeah so it was kind of funny but uh it's something i definitely like to try again yeah i think that'd be kind of cool sweet talker says that i finally caught you guys live hi how are you thank you glad you joined looking forward to this next season we are too and uh one of the answers to our questions was uh from dutchess when we asked sweeters, have you tried anything new this year or last year?
Yeah. Dutchess says, yes, the suspension cage was new last year. Holy shit. Suspension cage. I want to try that, I think. You want to be inside it or you want to put someone in there? Maybe.
A little bit of both of both maybe yeah a little from column a a little bit of a b yeah maybe i don't know okay all right oh yeah somebody says uh oculus yes that's what the uh vr porn was in yes yeah oh yes i'm here for it yes i'm all about yes i'm all about it but no that was a it was a cool event and we we're learning how to maneuver that kind of thing like if we were to go back it would be to hang out meet new people you know make some connections probably not to play immediately yeah probably not you never rule anything out but the intentions would be to just kind of make some connections party kick it and then if we then if we're there with some folks that we know, if that's the call, we go back and we make something happen with them.
Yeah. You know, the newer, sloppier kind of situation is not really appealing. It's not appealing anymore for me. I don't think it ever was. I don't think so. It never was. That's kind of why we stopped going. Yeah. But OK, cool. So then another thing that we did. Let me ask this to my sweet talkers. Have you guys traveled anywhere new? Did you travel anywhere new last year? Because we did a couple of new kind of trips. The first one was it's not a new place for us, but a new experience.
We went to New York and visited the Museum of Sex with a few of our swinger friends what'd you think of that babe so the new york sex museum if you haven't tried or checked it out you should it was great it three levels i think i remember it being it was at least three it was at least three levels you go through the museum you kind of have your thing um but the ending part is what i liked i like the museum too but i had a lot of fun like they have um games that you can play oh yeah yeah so uh one of the the games was uh jerking dicks and i'm serious it was like glory hole it was glory holes it was walls of glory holes with dicks okay hold on let me let me get yeah it was like a whack i just like saying dicks i know you do you have all the dicks you want no it was like a whack-a-mole a wall of whack-a-mole dicks right as soon as the dick come out you got to reach to your left pull the dick then one to your right grab the dick then one right in the middle of your face grab the dick yeah and Yes.
And then it'll go into the wall. You know, so you tried to win and, you know, I won. Sorry. Yeah, you got to jerk them dicks out of the walls. So I just took a picture. I thought it was fun. That was fun. I like the titty bump. So it's basically like a... There's a bouncy house. A bouncy house with titties. Yeah. With boobs and different, all different colors of boobs.
Yeah had all the complexions of the boobs different colored nipples yes and you could just bounce around in there and that was i was actually a highlight of that room yeah uh and then i did what else babe someone says uh nyc in the house that place is amazing it is yes it is sweet talker appreciate you chiming in there yeah it's definitely cool um one of my favorites actually okay walk you through there yeah it was a lot of like historic um uh sex toys it was very cool and then they had like this really dark dark sexual dark side of sex uh um area it was very cool uh very interesting but then they brought you back up emotionally as you went higher through the uh through the museum thank god because that was like sad man but you know uh check that out for yourselves uh then um like tris mentioned when you get to like the arcade game part you get one shot at every game um you know everybody gets one shot and you get to win little trinkets and little prizes I'll see you next time.
When, like Trist mentioned, when you get to like the arcade game part, you get one shot at every game. You know, everybody gets one shot and you get to win little trinkets and little prizes or whatever. My favorite game, Trist, was the makeout game. Huh? Oh, yes. Yeah. I forgot about the makeout game. That's right. So we had to stand on opposite parts of like this.
It's like a little bench or something you're supposed to hold on to the little bench and you're standing on opposite sides you're supposed to lean in on the on to your partner's face and it's like a timer you're supposed to just make out as hard and as nasty as you can until the timer goes off and then you get like a little prize yes a spinning wheel um goes off it keeps on spinning until your timer's out and whatever it lands on that's your prize and we won a coupon for a threesome a threesome i was like yay i feel so special we win the threesome that's right and trista even shared the threesome coupon on our regular facebook page i did because we grown that's right we are he's like you ready you you're gonna you post that pitch i said because we grown that's right that's right i'm proud proud of it it's like we won a threesome prize i just want us to cash that coupon again um and i did a vibrating riding bull they have a vibrating riding bull oh see you blew the surprise if you ride this riding bull it's like you know you just hop on and then it's like spinning and spinning or right even before it takes off the guy was like oh by the way it's a vibrator and then bam you start spinning and this is vibrating and man alive that's the funniest shit i ever seen i just laughed the whole entire time because it was so tickling my cooch.
And I was like, this thing. It was phenomenal. Yeah. And one of our friends, oh, man, it was the best. Just watching her just, like, jerk and curl her toes up trying to get control of the thing, man. It was the best. It was wonderful. So everybody was all nice and jazzed up right after.
You go down to a little gift shop and then they take all your money because you want to buy all yes they have a extra cool gift shop with stuff in it and yeah we spent some money it's pretty legit it's pretty legit all right what else did we do babe so we went to a place i think you can call this a lifestyle club yes the crucible so there's a club here called the crucible and they had a rope class and surprise it was a few people in that class it wasn't like small i mean it was small and i guess in theory but it was a few people in it um and i enjoyed it because it was it i wish we would have had more time to kind of talk i told lock that i think we need to go back with just us just to see how it would be so we could kind of talk to people.
Right. That weren't like our friends just to see how, you know, the vibe. Right. No. So the Crucible is in D.C. I think it might be like the only lifestyle club in D.C. itself.
And it's BDSM centered or focused, focused i should say they had a lot of stuff um they have all the implements and like structures you can kind of imagine um and it was it's pretty cool it's pretty cool but the thing about it is so when we went it was for this class so the class is before the club opens yes so we saw with all the lights on and all the cushy little mats on the floor and everybody's in, like, regular clothes, jeans and T-shirts and kind of just chilling and really kind of working through some of this stuff. However, there were some people who were… It was about that life.
Yeah, it was about that life. It was in full garb and, you know, that's what's up. Go for it. Or un-garbed. Yeah. Nude. Well played. But, no, it was definitely a cool experience. And like you're saying, you know that's what's up go ungarbed yeah nude well played um and but no it was definitely a cool experience and and like you saying you know yeah something i i would be interested in going back to see in their natural like yeah um uh style or whatever um it was interesting learning some different kind of uh rope tying but it wasn't very intimate.
So you kind of got to wait for an instructor to come back around. It was a little bit too much. It was too big of a class, but that's OK. That's OK. I did get something out of it. I was able to tie up one of our friends and I'm looking at that picture now and I need to send that to her because she needs to be reminded of how hot it was.
mean just the way that it kind of but looks great it looks amazing yeah right and it gave her like a little rope g-string with like a sash going across her her chest um yeah it's hot i'm proud of that work so uh yeah beautiful you're gonna see that later hey i'm gonna send that to you yes all right so now to the meat and potatoes what everybody been waiting for uh-huh we ended 2020 fun with um a trip to temptation resort in cancun or riviera maya mexico man this was for new year's eve and more importantly for y'all saw on our show before the beautiful sexy paradise yes for her birthday yes and man oh man we turned it up right yeah it was about five couples that got there at different times different days or whatever but everybody kind of kicked it from you know late december to know, two or three days into January and man, every night was a party.
Yes. It was a lot of fun. This was our first trip actually that we've done with our lifestyle friends. Um, we haven't been on a trip with lifestyle friends.
We've been to like, I guess, Hedo, if you want to count that and met up with people because they were going to hito um but we've not been on a lifestyle trip with kind of like everybody's kind of planning to go to the same place right we're going to go there to hang out so it's our first time of temptations and then our first time going on a lifestyle um vacation with friends um without knowing kind of what that was going to be like right right it's like can it be a really great idea or it can be a really bad idea right so yeah and before we went of course we solicited so much information we were asking like a million different people from different demographics like what did you think of it what did you think and we got a bunch of different opinions and we realized all we could do is just go just go and see how right how you gonna like it uh yeah because we know of a crew that goes uh they split it uh they split the vacation between temptation i think they started temptation for a few days which is and then they end it at desire which is maybe like 10 15 minutes away or something like that, maybe 20 minutes away from that resort.
And they're both connected. They're like sister resorts or whatever. And, you know, we just wanted to understand what the draw is to both because we've done Desire a couple of times. We wanted to see what this one was all about. Someone says, ah, Temptations is too much fun.
We went for the first time last year what happens there stays there i like it unless you're us and we get on these microphones and then we just start talking about it but we we we ask for permission yeah before we start talking about it but um so we go on a trip uh let's just give some general like highlights right so we go there someone says they're going in august nice right have a blast nice we're trying to figure out when we're going back because it was fun it was good the lobby is really really nice i like all the colors they had a lot of bright like colors it kind of like draws you in yeah um the room had a lot of space um for things i do wish they had more drawers stuff for my stuff but right otherwise it's just me um they the room was nice uh room had a lot of character it did the painted walls the pretty colors the yeah the lighting under the bed yeah it's pretty cool it was cool it was made for fucking it sure it was made for some sexy yeah some sexy fun up in there for sure um so we do that so the resort itself was great um as if you're talking about the resort i like the um dancers they had some really nice looking dancers were really really fit and sexy women and some good looking men too i don't think people were paying attention as much to the men but um some hot dancers and the performances every night and i enjoyed that and i like the theme nights um also so those are like some of the general highlights um now babe let's get into some hold on i ain't getting my opinion on some of that yeah no i agree like um the the sexy pool like the big large pool where the party is with the lady yes uh that that you go there for the sexy pool like the sexy pool is where it's at like it's so big it's so many people um the the swim up bar it's a cool atmosphere it's just a cool cool atmosphere man where everybody just goes and hangs out the music is bumping and it's like it gets louder as the day goes on yeah i was like i need ear like that was the first time that i was considering walking around with like ear plugs in because my ears was hurt started to hurt because it was like days and in like hours so you're saying you're at the pool and then you're at the day after party and then later on so my ears were starting to like have this ringing right in the inside and i was like i'm i think i'm wearing it but my ears are starting to hurt yeah it was it was pretty loud it got out there it was great um now can i tell some stories hold on i'm gonna catch up with with the Sweet Talker Someone says we are booked At the new one opening in October Booked for my birthday in November Nice That's awesome We're trying to figure out if we're going In the Dominican Republic So jealous I've heard about that one I'm sure it's going to be bomb yeah we heard some things about that too that is supposed to be kind of like a temptation side and the desire side i'm not really sure how they're going to be joined like can you just walk to one side or the other but uh that's what we were told and i'm curious about it i'm here for it yeah because i mean if you got both in one you know what i mean if you got the party boom And I don't got it.
I'm here for it. Yeah. Because, I mean, if you got both in one, you know what I mean? If you got the party, boom. Then I don't got to drive down the street. And then you got the complete naked side where anything kind of goes. I'm here for that. I'm here to check that out. Yeah. Yeah. I like the live action outside porn. And you know that's one of my fantasies, the outside orgy. Yes. With the wind on your ass.
With the wind on your ass and the sand in your butt yep on a cabana bed you deviant classy on the cabana bed i know gosh all right go ahead get into some of your stuff okay so one of the nights i was just like my energy was kind of like depleted and i was i said so i'm going to go back to the room i kind of gave lock permission you can stay hang out with the friends um kind of do what you want are you about to mess up my story go ahead right i keep forgetting this the same day never mind lock you tell the story and then we'll get into that part hold on we're talking about the outside girl right with the name the one name that's what we're talking about yep all right yes so tris was exhausted she went back to the room and i'm walking back right you know i'm going to go check on the missus go make sure we good and you know i'm walking it's kind of dark and you know hey man listen this place is uh the name is temptation for a reason like you never know what somebody gonna get into you never know what your partner gonna get into you just do the best to keep track of each other and stay happy right yes so i'm walking back to the room and it's looking like somebody got an issue some dude is kind of just walking around angry as fuck like mad ronda i'm like oh shit he's like ronda where the fuck are you he's like mad as shit i'm like oh he's looking for his whole spouse like how do you lose your entire partner like at a couple's retreat and trish is like in the room so i go up to the room i'm like hey you good check on and she's like yeah I'm like hey did you hear this dude looking for somebody's name Rhonda I was like yeah I heard him outside yelling Rhonda Rhonda where the fuck are you right so they got problems right so he lost track of his so um I leave out and uh you know I'm on my way back Tris is good I check on you know she's good to go i'm on my way back to the party and now homeboy is like storming the fuck around with ronda's shoes in his hands and like a police not a police officer security guys and he is fuming ronda done made an escape she done had enough and she is up in somebody's room having a blast yo ronda was gone yo she left her shoes he got her shoes like he he know where she last was just don't know where she is now currently get this i was like oh my gosh so that was kind of like the thing we kept up with like the whole trip now every time we walk back to our room it's like rhonda it's like i couldn't help myself every time i walk back to the apartment to the to the whole to the room it's just like i gotta yell out rhonda rhonda where the are you so yeah that was that was ridiculous that was crazy but that's the kind of you might run into like like maybe somebody was a little extra lick it up you know and gosh man like just running around and partying with the wrong crew he probably found her ass like laid out in uh in the pool pool chair yeah chilling or kicking oh man it's ronda was in trouble though when he when he caught up oh yeah he found her i know she was in some shit and so and earlier that day uh we went we were at the pool we were at the pool and i went snuck off and i got something i didn't sneak off i just left and said i'm going to go get something to eat went up to the secret pool i forget oh the sky bar that's what they call it the sky bar so you can only go to sky bar like if you're a member yada yada so we I went up there to get food from the sky bar that was not a flex it was just where I went and I ended up seeing some friends that just got in that day and then I also met like a new person there she was really cool and we had like long conversation over trying to wait for the food um long and short I probably was gone I think that whole time about 40 minutes I come back down to the pool kind of ask our friends like hey where did Locke go they were like oh he's over in the water at the bar he was over there with like some other friends I go to eat my food and I'm like but who is he talking to so he was he was talking to women.
That's all I know at that time. So he was talking to women and I didn't know like what was happening. I was like, he's talking to women. I was like, oh, okay, you know, cool. Let me see what's going on over here. So I go in, I go get in the water. First of all, I'm all of five foot three guys.
I've tried to find the closest way to get in the water because i didn't want to walk through the water it was a lot of people in the pool that day and i didn't want to walk through them so i walked around the pool i go to get into the pool i'm trying to be all cute someone says ronda got tempted ronda was out um i go to get into the pool trying to get into the pool all cute and the water was too deep on that side so i jumped i like stepped into the pool and went down to the pool got my hair wet it was a mess but i kept it cute i walked over to lock and kind of was like hey hey babe how you doing and then what happened okay that was a roundabout way of telling my story from your perspective my wonderful queen uh so what was going down was uh me and a couple of the fellas went over to go get some drinks and there was this cutie on duty hanging out over there with uh who was a part of this other crew from like texas or some like that right and she was bad man right so me and the fellas we're grooving and partying and making friends and learning uh you know to show these little back story all that good stuff and she's uh she's fire right yeah she's like in her younger 20s hanging out with people that were older than us man did you see her id you see her ID?
Did you see her ID? You don't know that. They are older than us. I mean, still, you don't know how old she was. Anyway, she's bad. She was in her younger 20s. I know exactly how old she was. She was bad. Not hating on her at all. All right, cool. So anyway, so, you know, you do the whole precursory, you know what I'm saying?
Like, you know, yeah yeah we're a bunch of fellas here but we're married and all this good stuff and we're dancing and grooving and chilling or whatever and then uh here come you know trish floating along trotting along hey hey how you doing and then i heard it with a hey he did he's like hey babe this is my wife this is my wife this is the wife i was telling you about. Remember that conversation we had? It was kind of the weirdest thing, guys, because like if we were at a regular, like a lifestyle, because this is not, you know, a lifestyle resort.
I say that because they are quick to remind you of that. Right. So it's not a lifestyle place.
So you still got to be mindful that you have swingers there, but you have people that are kind of don't know and it's a lot of protocol of being a swinger right so i'm just trying to figure out like is she a swinger like what's happening that type of thing just making sure that he's good um so i go over and lock does this like weird thing that i've never seen before and if you're not on the live show just come back and watch the live show he literally was like this is my way right here why you gotta play me because that's how it was you were pointing like this no yeah because hey listen i want to make sure that everybody clear that we was clear right like hey uh-huh but hey look you know what i mean like she understood who you were you was good with what the situation was you came and did the smell test and make sure i did i did the sniff test and make sure everybody's is you know respectful and we was good to go and then you floated on i tried it right along yeah and then later on you was like hey what's up with her though yeah i know i was like so um what's her story hey let me know if she's down i'm down yeah uh-huh go ahead tell that part yeah i was i was so i had my conversation kind of got a little bit of the gist of the story from her and the um lady she was with uh and then i was like okay you know cool let me see what happens next so later on i did i said so like um i understand that she's with the older group and all but hello uh-huh right true let's see someone else story uh honey spoon says was her name ronda I know, right?
She could have been. Rhonda! We found Rhonda! Rhonda! Be like, shh, we found Rhonda. Keep her with us yeah come on ronda come hang out with us and and let me just say this guys i'm not an ageist when i'm saying what i'm saying it i did find it peculiar that this young lady was in her early 20s and this is what was going on so i'm trying to frame the actual picture of what actually was happening. So we're going to do this. No, I'm just because it was. I know you opened up the conversation. So now we got to address it. We're going to talk about it like we did at the resort.
Yes, because we did have a conversation. Who are we to judge who she hangs out with? I'm not. I know that. That's what I'm saying. That's why I wanted to know her story. Let me finish.
Who are we to judge who this person hangs with i'm not i know that that's what i'm saying that's why i wanted to know her story let me finish who are we to judge who this person hangs out with you cannot judge somebody by if they're hanging out with an older crowd a younger crowd because you don't know where they're from you don't know what the pool of swinger is like where this person is from maybe this person who expressed to us that there are not a lot of black people where they're from. Right.
So that could be just one aspect of what they got going on is like she was surprised to see a group of black men married to black women in this lifestyle. So there was a lot of understanding. Right.
There's a lot that you we don't get, but it was it seemed to have been a turnoff or you know maybe the fact that you had questions was a turnoff and that's what i'm saying it's like somebody could look at who we hang out with and judge us by that you see what i'm saying yes and they could say why are y'all hanging out with this x group when you know so that means that you might be up to something or you might be you know um uh you might be turned off by what i am because of who you hang out with yes you see what i'm saying and this is why i said that when you told me the background of the story about her i was like okay i i can understand that it's just you know it was a little bit like for me when i first saw all the stuff that was happening i mean i'm not saying that it doesn't happen though right like i'm not saying that you know you you're not going to question somebody by who they hang out with you're going to have these kind of stereotypical questions you're going to have these prejudging kind of things but it's about like you said asking the questions finding out what the situation might be and finding out if you're comfortable with those things.
If what you believe might actually, is there some merit to what you already kind of believe? Right. But I just didn't, I just didn't, I didn't know what that belief was. Like, are the, is she using old people? Like, you know what I'm saying? I don't know. I don't know what it was. What do you look? I don't know. That's why we had the conversation. We had the conversation and we also invited her out to dinner because I wanted to know more about. I found it interesting. I wanted to know more about the story and how this even came up. Right. In the first place.
Because, again, the lifestyle, you meet people from all different type of walks of life. And I just wanted to know how I was curious. I want to know how this is working. That's all. Someone says, I'm short, too. They had a phone party while we were there. Come on, get me. The contact moving, babe. While we were there. Oh, while we were there. And I can barely see over the huge soots. Right. Right. That would be me. Yes. Exactly. I had to back it up.
Yeah drowning was she solo yes she was super she was she was unicorn um with this particular group um so i was going somewhere with that i think we kind of know no no i wasn't going with that story the other thing was was that we need to talk about the sweet talkers. Like we always tell you guys, hey, you know, if you see us, we're going to be here. I was not going to forget. If you're going to come up to us, you know, please stop by and say hi. We mean that. Like, I mean that genuinely when I say, hey, we're going to be here. If you're here, please come by.
You know, you're not bothering us or anything like that come hang out and say hi um because without you guys we would not have the show without your support and when you come up with ideas you email us or we check in just kind of see how you're doing we would not be here and have this show so surprisingly after we did a post on instagram someone took us up on that they did it was so cool it was so cool we were kind of just sitting around at the party you know the masquerade party so we had like similar masks on these masks uh like our travel masks yeah our travel masks and you know they came over and kind of just tapped us on the shoulder and was like hey uh we know you guys from your show and let me tell all the cool came out of me yes it was just spilled on the floor like gone because these two were a knockout let me not say word let me are a fucking knockout yes knockout beautiful me i was round couple beautiful brown couple man Oh, my goodness luck was like hold on wait i'm gonna take off my mask hold on wait yeah i was gonna have a conversation with you had to i was just like it's gonna work for me one that but one it was super flattering that people actually came over and told us you know they know us from this very honored this crazy stuff right so really appreciative of that and then two i mean jesus christ like they were absolutely beautiful and just nice people and it's nice just got to hear some of their story not a lot of it but you know we were just uh open and just chilling and laughing and we got to uh we didn't want to bombard them and they felt the same way like they weren't trying to bombard us because they knew that we was with other people um but super super nice super cool and we um uh managed to set up a date with them a little bit later but yo listen i mean i'm talking about after they were gone um after they were gone i was like trist did you see his teeth he kept talking about his teeth god damn he kept talking about this man but did you see his teeth i was like his teeth though like they were beautiful like both of them just a beautiful couple good god like in the dark you know like their skin is all clear and beautiful like damn hey rhonda what she says right exactly right teeth was great yo they were absolutely stunning jaw-dropping top to bottom beautiful just nice people very nice people so um they were definitely a highlight uh a highlight not the highlight but a highlight a wonderful highlight of this trip um and getting to know them we would run into them here and there at the pool at the gym uh and kick it make a little small talk we finally got to hang out one night and um you know really kind of nail in our plans to to to do dinner But unfortunately, things had to change on their side right before they had to leave or whatever.
So they had to leave. And, you know, but we set it up so that we actually had a Zoom date with them. Yes. After everybody kind of got home. Yeah. Everybody got home and settled. We had a little Zoom date and we're planning to see them again, hopefully in 2022, man, and really kind of make a connection there. But I'm just really glad that we got to meet them, man. They're really, really nice folks. Yes. Yeah. And Sweet Talker says that you are smiling ear to ear. I think you're talking about you. Me? Yeah, I am. Mm-hmm. I love beautiful teeth, Bees. You have good hygiene. That's right.
Their teeth were wonderful. Their teeth were wonderful. But he kept saying it. I was god damn i was like you gotta play it cool man yeah you gotta play it cool you gotta be cool you ain't say nothing nothing that's just how you get down period like yeah i didn't say that i said that they were very very attractive i did not say, you know, Temptation left a couple things to be desired. No pun intended. Right. You know, with the food kind of thing, we got stuck in the cycle of the hamster wheel of going to like the buffet. And that's just not where it was.
Unfortunately, we found out that the Flame restaurant was that was good dope like that was the last night we were there though and i wish we would have went there a lot more often uh for a couple more meals and the uh the asian themed restaurant was oh yes the asian ones yeah that wasn't bad that wasn't bad sweet talker says that we made some friends that same way when we were there. It's just a fun place. Yeah. It is. It's a great place. And I could definitely see the benefit of going to both sides. Go to the temptation side, then go to the desire side.
That's definitely what I want to do next time. I know I want to do that. And speaking of trying to find something new for 2022, I also want to try a restaurant that was off, that was like in Cancun. We had got some recommendations for that too.
So I want to try a restaurant that was off that was like in cancun we had got some recommendations for that too so i want to try those as well yeah um so i know we're kind of running long here so we're going to kind of speed things up a little bit so tris what do you want to do a little bit more of uh in 2022 i want to take or just in general i want to take some more trips in 2022 that's not that's not like abnormal for us but i like to be able to do more trips with friends right um to kind of like go places even if it's like for a weekend trip or something like that yeah um i would like to do that and of course more of them doming and co-doming yeah i'm here for that i'm here for that definitely um the co-dom i want to get better at the ropes i want to do more of that stuff um and let's see yeah i do i want to do the same thing you you named it like traveling with friends i want to do some shit like that i want to do more hosting yeah um you know we got a lot of space here we you know we don't we don't use really host yeah we haven't done that in a very long time i'm looking forward to doing something like that i know obviously covid yes all that stuff but um i would like to do more of that um single play not necessarily want to do more of that um so i don't know i think that kind of stuff is just going to happen on its own i don't think i I have a particular like a body count scenario that I, you know, I want to see two dudes over here and I want to see the ladies over this way and legs up in the air.
I don't have that kind of configuration kind of stuff in my head, but I just know I just want to be in that energy.
I love being in that energy and I want to do more of your style style organic i kind of i love that i love feeling that tension building yeah you're converting to planned actually i don't know what the hell you are i really don't i stop trying to figure it out yeah yeah but i do i i really enjoy like seeing things kind of formulate and happen i know i'm planning a party and everything but still i i really got a kick out of get a kick out of seeing things kind of happen and sweet talker says that we went to a different restaurant every night at temptations and we love that that's what we're going to try to do next time we definitely should have done that yeah but we got caught up you know we were just hanging out with our friends chilling by the pool everybody getting their drinks we didn't really plan dinner every now and then whatever another sweet talker says i miss girls trips me too i have one planned already for this year yeah you do uh another sweet talker says that it's so hard for me to plan a girl's trip because people just bail last minute true you got to figure out the right mix it's it's a lot it is a lot when i plan this trip but what about some things you want to do less of anything you want to take off i want to be uh i want to take away being less like not necessarily honest with people in the lifestyle but more so not really caring about if you're going to think differently of me if i tell you this you kind of want to bite your tongue less yeah you want to be more honest yes same here yes absolutely yeah i mean there's a lot of things that we kind of hold back from different people it's kind of like maybe it's hitting this this 40 this 40 number i think just put it.
Fuck it. Yeah. You know, where it's just like, you know, take me as I am, man. Or not, you know? Yeah. I don't know. It's easy for me to say with this fucking mask on my face, right? It is. You know, take me as I am. But I'm hiding from society at large. I mean, obviously we see you in person. I mean, we're not wearing masks.
But yeah, I just just i just think i want to do less of that kind of being able to just have because it's just for us a certain conversation we can have with certain lifestyle friends and then there's certain ones that we just don't have with some lifestyle friends so i don't want to do that um it's either you're okay with being in a lifestyle and you understand that or we just don't talk about that we don't we just have a regular friendship it says that unless we talk it says uh i hear you uh people go through that a lot i think i found the right groups in my 20s um i just need to get everyone back together we're talking about trips cool cool yeah got you all right um any new things again for me new things i don't have any like configuration or a set number of people that i want to see do a certain thing i don't know i just feel like i just want to be in spaces i just want to be in these i want to be in a room i just want to be in the I want to be in the energy.
I love the sexual energy. I love being around folks. I want you and I to connect a little bit more often. And I want to, like, make sure that we take what we're doing here and put it in practice. Like, you know, at the top of the show, we always do our how you feeling because we used to do that in real life. So we take it to the show. But now I want to take from the show and put it back into the real life. You know what I mean? Life imitating art imitating life. Yes.
You know, so I want to kind of transition back to that and make sure that that connection, make sure that these understand is before we go out and before we entertain entertain or whatever it is we're on the right page right you know what i mean but we'll get into that in another episode as well but go ahead anything any new things for you no i think that's it i do i'm really looking forward to like i said traveling more and just hanging out with friends uh this year and trying to figure out. Like we are definitely trying to keep the lights on when I mean that by friends.
I mean, we went to a brunch with friends and I know that there's no safe way, guys, to do things, but we we made it happen. And I liked it because we all we went and took home tests before we can hang out with each other. And we kind of just hung out. And I think that that may be our kind of like. Thank you. We all, we went and took home tests before we could hang out with each other. Oh, right. And we kind of just hung out. And I think that that may be our kind of like what it's going to be like. You know, if you want to have these get-togethers or, you know, lifestyle type of events.
Test up. You do tests. Yeah. And that was the safest way that day that everyone kind of like felt comfortable to kind of be around each other. So it was it was really cool, though. All right. Yeah, I agree with that. OK, so. For like the next episode, we've been kind of pushing this one off and we're ready to get into it this time.
uh we want to do like we kind of want to take like a holistic kind of look at who we are as individuals who we are as a couple and then who we are as like swingers as lifestylers as whatever you want to call it whatever you want to call this free thinkers open relationship whatever you want to label it um so in doing that we kind of got to start individually um and this is something that we've done like last year with some of our friends and it was a lot of fun it was so interesting we want to share with you guys so between now and next episode folks we want you guys to take a look at um and do like the free version just for shits and giggles so we can talk about it right the sexual blueprint breakthrough quiz and i'm going to post it in our show notes um and we'll post it again on like instagram or twitter or whatever so everybody can kind of be on the same page like so what you're going to see is that you might fall into one of five categories uh help me remember them you can be a shape shifter you can be labeled as kinky sensual energetic or it was one more i can't remember it off the top of my head should have wrote it down um but anyway so you can fall into one of those five categories and sexual that's what it was it was yes sexual was sexual yep um so you can fall into one of those five categories and even it'll let you know like i think for the paid version i think it's like 17 bucks um you can it'll break it down to what's your percentage of each of those things yes and you might be fucking surprised at what you are versus what your partner is and what you need versus what your partner needs and you're thinking if i just throw my dick at her she's gonna like it but then your part you realize from based on the results of this quiz your partner is not even like function she doesn't function that way she doesn't want that you know what i mean she might want sensuality or she might want even you know might be kinky she might want to get slapped around first before you start throwing dick you know you never know but when you take the quiz guys try to take it and not put a whole bunch like don't try to like think all the way through the question like just answer the questions yeah because then when you get the results back it's going to make a lot more sense and the reason why we're doing this now versus at the end of 2021 i was like i'm glad we waited was because people come up with like these like uh new year's like resolutions that they want to do i'm gonna do this differently in a lifestyle i'm gonna try this if you take these quizzes and kind of understand like who you are and then kind of also look at your partner if you have one and see what theirs are like the results that they came up with and put that together it will help you actually come up with a better plan because you'll be able to understand more about who your partner is and you can make realistic goals right right if that makes sense so yeah i think the title for this episode was going to be like a brand new in 2022 question mark yeah because this is an evaluation it's kind of like should we be changing anything based on you know who we are and what we're kind of figuring out about ourselves should we change anything or not like are we good if we're good let's keep it rolling but are there anything that we can there's always something you could do better but is there anything that we need to like wholesale like start over yeah i mean so that's the kind of uh conversation we want to start having so it's the sexual blueprint quiz and we even did like a personality test like one of the joints that you can uh take for your job you know right the myers-briggs test uh and that was a lot of fun too you get a very um intricate kind of um uh id description of uh your personality and it gives like you know it gives a lot of description of who you are and how you work and how you respond and what kind of leader are you or what kind of employee are you but you can still extrapolate a lot of good information and you know pin it across to how you operate in your relationship so that's what we're going to do in the next episode that's your homework that's your homework that's our homework we're going to look up our stuff it's still floating around in our emails but uh listen folks and then says honey spoon says honesty and transparency is where it's that.
that's right all day couldn't say that better like right at the end of this so um hey thanks again for joining us in episode 60 um we will talk to you soon all right guys we'll see you soon bye bye again we'd like to thank you for living a sweet life with us to everyone who couldn't join us live in the suite check out our podcast on itunes stitcher spotify google play and i heart radio be sure to subscribe rate and review feel free to email us at living the sweet life podcast at gmail.com you can also follow us on instagram at the sweet life podcast and on twitter at sweet life pod don't forget to subscribe to us on our youtube channel at living the sweet life podcast so that you can be a sweet talker the next time so do you have anything else to say to our lovely guests until next time keep living the sweet life.
